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I had a couple living across the street from me who were in their late 60s to early 70s. He developed a particularly aggressive form of Alzheimer’s and in less than a year was placed in a long-term care facility, not even recognizing his wife. She discretely approached me about having an affair to t...

Excellent advice from MonaLisaOverdrive.

You said your husband watches porn. If so, any idea as to what he likes to see the most? I’m assuming you would like to do a threesome with two guys. But what about an FMF with him and another woman? The reason I ask this is that a lot of men, especially those guys who feel possessive of their wives...

I wish there was a simple answer to this. Some wives just need time to consider all of the factors involved. Have you considered attending a swingers’ party but not actually or necessarily participating…just observing? Seeing someone else doing the ‘dirty deed’ can accomplish what thousands of words...

I’m a bit late to the party but I hope I can add some relevant thoughts. First, have you considered letting your daughter know about your extramarital activities? Seeing how she has been honest with you, then you should ideally be equally honest with her…and her husband. Mind you, some children woul...

John, I’ve never really been interested in the D/s, humiliation thing that appeals to so many on this website. Having said that, your account of what happened over the years between Sherrie and Geoff as well as Sherrie and you was something that I couldn’t put out of my mind, and like other readers ...

Looking at the other side of the coin, I was the outsider once in an mfm with a married couple. While I came twice fully and once very slightly over the course of several hours, it was the little-dicked husband who came the most. He came five times that I know of and possibly once more.

I would have thought that, at this point in your relationship, with both your marriage and business being very shaky, one of you would have suggested marriage counselling. There are probably quite a few counsellors in the UK who are very open minded about alternative arrangements in a marriage. Did ...

Spit roasting aside I personally don’t fully appreciate doing a 69 with a woman, even though I like the thought of it. Having her suck my dick at the same time my lips or tongue are between her legs, makes it hard for me to concentrate and she often finds it equally hard to reach orgasm. Spit roasti...

I would categorize her, right now, as a cheating wife and not a hot wife. My take on the situation is that it’s better to be honest with her and tell her that you saw her and that someone else alerted you to what she was up to. The difficult part is not so much telling your wife that you want her to...

I think that, before long, another married woman will earn her Hotwife’s wings. Good luck on your journey. Sounds like it will be a wild ride.

Having read your last post, but as much as I want to comment, I find that words cannot do justice to the effect this has had on me. Normally I have no interest whatsoever in the whole Domination/submission aspect of sexuality. Yet what you have written is something I could not get out of my mind las...

I largely agree with what the last few posts have said. However, having been on this website basically since its creation (although my profile suggests otherwise) as well as when it went by another name, I’ve seen a lot of similar snags occur between husbands and wives. I’m certainly not trying to s...

It sure sounds to me as if you’ve basically said and done the right things.

I agree with Tryagain about the importance of using condoms, especially for multiple partners. I also am of the opinion that having too much of a good thing can be a bad thing. Moderation is the key.

Either get on board or let your dream pass you by. You’re not being fair to your wife by jerking her around emotionally. You’re too much into yourself only.

I know you are right, but I've waited 9 years trying to get her to be attracted to someone else with no luck, until now. Our relationship is much better now, but she even suggested it yesterday in a joking way that if we don't have sex she is going to have to have Ethan come over again. Against my ...

I know you are right, but I've waited 9 years trying to get her to be attracted to someone else with no luck, until now. Our relationship is much better now, but she even suggested it yesterday in a joking way that if we don't have sex she is going to have to have Ethan come over again. Against my ...

Hey, pal, this isn’t an easy recommendation to make. There’s a huge amount of experience in this forum that can be quite invaluable to helping a couple with their journey into hotwifing. However…some things go beyond what the people here can recommend. And in your situation I see some very troubling...

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Sat Nov 26, 2022 4:58 pm

10 posts Armyguy? What if I’m kind of shy?

There’s a huge amount of knowledge here at OHW, and you’re sure to get some very good advice and emotional support from both the verified hot wives here as well as from the men who love them. Good luck on your journey.

It wouldn’t cost all that much to have a locksmith come out and re-key the lock’s cylinder…that is if you truly don’t want him to enter your home without being invited.

It's basically what has already been talked about here. My take on it is that she simply wants to be re-assured that things aren't going to spiral out of control and that you're still the same man she first fell in love with. I don't think any man can (or should) try to give you the exact words to s...

She's playing sexual tennis. The ball is now in your court.

I am the husband...not the wife. I simply told the truth and expressed my undying love and focussed more on helping her find fulfillment so that it could strengthen rather than weaken our marriage. Hopefully the two of you have great communication with one another.

I really think that many (if not most) wives love the thought of fucking a man other than their husbands. Is that to say that they would spread their legs or open their mouths for someone else? Not necessarily. Some have been conditioned to believe that marriage is the ultimate experence for a woman...