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Unfortunately for me, my HW, Cecil, doesn't care for MFM. She says it takes too much concentration away from her own pleasure, to please both men. I have tried telling her that all she has to do is relax and enjoy the sensations, but she insists that she needs to work to satisfy both cocks and that ...

The key is to find 2 guys who have "worked" together before. Guys being comfortable nude around other guys can be an issue.

My good friend (M) and I recently gave our single lady friend a 3 some. She had not been with 2 guys for over 25 years and was a bit nervous. He and I had, together, played ...

Due to the wide variety of types and styles, labels don't really inform others, they still have to guess unless you actually tell them what you do and don't accept. It is always better to just explain your play style to prospective playmates rather than have the mis-matched definitions

truesub wrote: Wed Sep 02, 2026 9:28 amStagflation.

We settled that issue by her allowing me the same freedom to play solo. She doesn't feel guilty about playing herself if I can play too.

Anklets and such really only affect the wearer (and hubby), as those details are usually lost on prospective bulls. It makes her feel attractive and horny, so that accomplishes a lot and it shows in her demeanor and attitude.

I haven't noticed that as much as it seeming that more and more guys (even as a part of a couple) identify as Bi or Bi curious. What's up with the increase there? I have a solo profile on a couple sites that clearly states that I am straight but not homophobic, yet I get guys reaching out to me.

Do yourself a favor and familiarize yourself with the HW dynamic before you venture into the space. This will get you (and them) better results in the long run.

Prefer not to fetishize races, depends on who they are as people

I agree with the larger dildo suggestion. My wife was pretty much only used to average size cock. When I bought her a realistic, 7 1/2" insertible length, and slightly less girthy than a can of Red Bull, she didn't think it would ever fit. After a few tries it does. Now she knows she likes larger ...

Wait....he has a big duck?? Like a goose or a swan??

Seriously, the milk parable applies here....If you take a carton of milk from the fridge and have a taste and it is spoiled, do you put it back in the fridge thinking it will be better later? Same for Ex's. They are Ex's for a reason, so you ...

I empathize with your situation. Life does have its ups and downs and occasional curve balls. I wish you the best, but I also think you would benefit by talking to a professional therapist. We have our thoughts and words, but a pro may be able to get you to a better place than we can. Get help ...

I have found that Unique Secure Fit condoms are available in a variety of sizes to better fit each cock. They are thin but strong and transfer body heat and feeling better than some of the regular brands, Additionally, they go on differently than most, while most roll down, these have a simple "put ...

A handful of wives were lifestyle-ish and told other wives about me as far as a recommendation, but most of the wives I'm with are very, very discreet (not "in the lifestyle") so the most they will tell will be a bff. However, one wife I was with would tell her friends about our latest sessions ...

Visit an on-premises swinger club and see what piques your interest. You can do nothing but observe, or you can choose to explore in whatever ways titillate you (watch others, be watched, find playmates of either sex, etc). Once you visit, you can then discuss what you want and what your rules or ...

i caught my wife's best friend at an ABS four years ago , fucking and sucking some guy and showing her tits to me. i didn't tell my wife for fear she would think differently of her. to put her friend at ease , so she wouldn't feel slutty , i told her about our lifestyle. so you see , her best ...

No to family knowing (although one adult daughter has figured it out) but after 20+ years in the LS, most of our close friends are also in the LS in one form or another. A few of our "vanilla" friends know, but they aren't interested in knowing any details and out of concern for their feelings, we ...

The best piece of advice is to not be insistent or constantly bring up the subject. More women have been turned off by "badgering" than have been encouraged. y all means have a conversation about it but understand that her biggest question will by "Why?", so be prepared, set the foundation by ...

cast a wide net by using multiple sites. You will have plenty of responses to sort and rank.

It would seem that there is a high probability of failure when playing with a vanilla friend. Best to keep it to people you meet specifically for the purpose of initiating a HW scenario. Friendships may be lost and awkward situations can develop, especially when you involve a guy who doesn't ...

The LS is all about "different". Why would she want what she already has?

My HW, Cecil, prefers average sized cocks. She says the big ones are uncomfortable (not in a good way).

Sorry to be a downer, but I think you need to reassess your priorities. First off, your wife has told you that she doesn't want to hurt his marriage (or her friend, his wife) plus you know pretty much how his wife would react (based on her previous reaction to him going it alone) and you say he is ...

Don't make life changing decisions with your dick. Use your heart and your big head.

Remember, your vision of what you want to experience sexually will change once you get it. Your libido will diminish with age, then who will be there for you?
Give some thought to going to a Lifestyle friendly ...

Thank you for that Coastakid, It was a long journey. I had been in a "normal" marriage for 28 years when we divorced. I found a girlfriend who was sexually active, and she and I waded into the swinger scene. 4 years later that relationship had run its course (not due to LS stuff, just compatibility ...