Our Hotwives

My wife and I are traditional and predictable with each other physically. All of the real action between us is mental. I prefer it that way. I cum hardest when I'm into her mind and see her from the optimal perspective. A more varied approach is fine if each variation is better than the other. But ...

The timeline in my marriage was my suggesting it in Year 2, and her finally doing it in Year 8. We're now in Year 19. It was a process to get her there, and it's continued to be a process to grow it into what we wanted it to become.

My wife has no preference, though racial differences, with its culturally naughty resonances that still linger in the U.S., does add somewhat to the mystique. She has sampled all, has opportunities in all directions, does enjoy all, and I'm not discouraging of it. So I do believe her when she claims ...

I wish Farmgirl would start posting her famous sayings again.

I see no problem creating a space in which my wife plays in secret. But we first discuss the parameters of the space and then come to a common understanding as to its basic framework. That is, whatever she does happens within, not outside of our marriage. Even though there are loosened boundaries ...

Financial stress can reallocate erotic energy, but that's a matter of outlook, not biology. Proof - look at how fertile poor countries tend to be.

Menopause affects different women differently. My wife greatly benefits from hormone replacement therapy (T-pellets, estrogen patches). Diet, exercise ...

She's definitely got good cause to be choosy. That she does reflects well on you too.

Wife and I are watching this together. The amount of cheating and fucking really seems to make her horny …I’ll take all the help I can get to get her to fuck someone else


The teaching point is to help your wife see Mel as a victim of her biology and let her find her own way to the obvious ...

Gala and I are into Season 2 of the new TV series Friends and Neighbors. The guy protagonist, Coop, played by Jon Hamm, is divorced from Mel, played by Amanda Peet. They divorced over Mel's affair. Everything about their lives is fucked up, with blissful happiness there in plain sight for the ...

I will so keep in mind your creative approach to savoring a good memory.

It's curious how this topic is first broached in a relationship and communications then proceed. By the time it first emerges as an idea shared through words, most wives communicate their predisposition for it non-verbally. My wife sent clear non-verbal cues even at a time she denied ever wanting to ...

Whether it's foolish or immoral for couples to make this fantasy a reality is of less interest to me than the fact that the kink is itself a reality for some husbands. This is because I recognize the same kink lurking within my own erotic orientation that I've wanted to get a handle on the source of ...

My wife's longtermer is a 6' 4" cowboy from Beaumont. Beaumont's a good 90 mine drive away, so they meet at a little roadside motel half way between. They've made it a weekly thing for several months now. I've come to think it special kind of massage therapy for her. Just as with a normal massage ...

Not I. Jealousy for me was preexisting and later tamed.

I would deconstruct the problem a little bit, however, by asking what's really meant (or felt) in that complex of emotions we broadly label "jealousy." Some experience it as fear of abandonment; others, as competition; others, inferiority ...

My wife and I sought out a lady friend for my wife.. We wanted a confidante . The friend we chose for this relationship, I'll call her Jen, was in a traditional marriage that she would never betray, yet she's was into anthropology and had a natural fascination and open mind concerning my wife. Jen ...

I've been amused by the power of words to channel thought, one example being the concept of "non-monogamy" as a referent for sexual non-exclusivity within a marital relationship. Implicit in this concept, which fastens the negating prefix "non" onto "monogamy" - is the notion that sexual exclusivity ...

My wife was open to it once but the guy ended up a flake. No interest in that anymore. She's prefers people she can place and vet more carefully.

I'm not a wannabe but I was for several years, and I can relate to what many of you are feeling. For me, it took about 9 years of monogamy to help her grow into the woman she really was. Now when I relate that process, I do so with the 20/20 hindsight of knowing hot it looked then and seeing how we ...

This whole thread is dark comedy.

My wife has had two and we still laugh at both.

One of the guys, a Canadian, had to play a card game with her as foreplay. Not strip poker or anything you might expect. More like Crazy 8s or something as ludicrous. Three dates with the Canook Card Shark, then done.

The other guy was Australian ...

I can only imagine the thrill even of being on a short list of hers as she's deciding on that final cut. She has every right to be as picky and discriminating as you've described. I would be honored just to occupy so much of her deliberation in being passed over. Surely she occupies mine from afar.

Any plans for Christmas or New Years get-togethers? Maybe Pinky at a party?


So I got that super-flu that is going around, just before Christmas. It wouldn't let me go, and stretched out some weeks. We ended up not attending any holiday parties and also cancelled our Christmas celebration. I ...

Work relationships are complicated. It the employer employs 15 or more persons, Title VII kicks in. Screwing an office subordinate in a business that size can get the boss fired or and the employer sued if the relationship sours. Knowing this myself, when I decided to have an affair at work it was ...

Yes, if we trust him. She prefers liquid bonding. It's consistent with our Earth's purpose to perpetuate life from its waters and soils. And it transcends the Earth for you when you and she learn learn together the mystical way of seeiing beyond the eye's reach.

No way. To the contrary she cheats on her long term BF, her cowboy from Beaumont, who is himself cheating on his own wife with her! No wonder she's a country music fan.