Another man loves my wife
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I'm very sorry for your loss, Mark.
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I am just seeing this having been off the board for a while and had followed Mark and Julie's thread for years. Belated and sincere condolences Mark. I am so sorry for your loss.
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One of the most amazing journey's on this site, but such a sad ending.
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Another man loves my wife too. She loves us both but enjoys him better. They have a chemistry I will never be ablet to duplicate.
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My wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, yet her love for me has never diminished. I don’t try to duplicate anything because her love for each of us is separate and distinct. Sort of like having both a fancy sports car and a comfy large Cadillac. I have both of those and like driving one versus the other depending on my mood. I don’t prefer one over the other.
Our story so far: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=41480
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It's a way of life like any other but it shouldn't be obvious to everyone.DavaoMike wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2024 11:42 amMy wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, yet her love for me has never diminished. I don’t try to duplicate anything because her love for each of us is separate and distinct. Sort of like having both a fancy sports car and a comfy large Cadillac. I have both of those and like driving one versus the other depending on my mood. I don’t prefer one over the other.
sex is one thing but love is another.
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Even before our marriage, my wife never hid her feelings for another man. She preferred to challenge me for it. And of course that is not without risks.olive2a wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2024 3:25 amIt's a way of life like any other but it shouldn't be obvious to everyone.DavaoMike wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2024 11:42 amMy wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, yet her love for me has never diminished. I don’t try to duplicate anything because her love for each of us is separate and distinct. Sort of like having both a fancy sports car and a comfy large Cadillac. I have both of those and like driving one versus the other depending on my mood. I don’t prefer one over the other.
sex is one thing but love is another.
Later, we often discussed this issue and both of us were of the opinion that being in love is a very human thing.
That we had struck each other we considered a unique coincidence.
Open communication on this subject, that openness, gave us the mutual trust that was very deeply rooted.
Decades later, when she fell in love with another man as HW, that frankness was still there.
And what was the consequence? Our very close relationship got better and better.
I admit, it could have ended differently.
But without this lifestyle, this could also have happened.
Our way of life.................
Early in 2023, all my settings disappeared.
To read (and view) my contributions advanced search for author "dinoo".
We visited frequently a club. (www.kasteelwaterloo.nl)
It became "our" club.
To read (and view) my contributions advanced search for author "dinoo".
We visited frequently a club. (www.kasteelwaterloo.nl)
It became "our" club.
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It's beautiful to read, you have a beautiful relationship. I wish you lots of happiness.dinoo wrote: ↑Fri Nov 01, 2024 1:54 amEven before our marriage, my wife never hid her feelings for another man. She preferred to challenge me for it. And of course that is not without risks.olive2a wrote: ↑Fri Oct 25, 2024 3:25 amIt's a way of life like any other but it shouldn't be obvious to everyone.DavaoMike wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2024 11:42 amMy wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, yet her love for me has never diminished. I don’t try to duplicate anything because her love for each of us is separate and distinct. Sort of like having both a fancy sports car and a comfy large Cadillac. I have both of those and like driving one versus the other depending on my mood. I don’t prefer one over the other.
sex is one thing but love is another.
Later, we often discussed this issue and both of us were of the opinion that being in love is a very human thing.
That we had struck each other we considered a unique coincidence.
Open communication on this subject, that openness, gave us the mutual trust that was very deeply rooted.
Decades later, when she fell in love with another man as HW, that frankness was still there.
And what was the consequence? Our very close relationship got better and better.
I admit, it could have ended differently.
But without this lifestyle, this could also have happened.
Our way of life.................