My36-year-old wife has kept her short-term relationships at what she calls an "emotional arm's length." In longer-term relationships, a feeling of love almost always develops between her and other men. She first became what most here call a hotwife when she was 28 and that came about at my pleadings.BeNatural wrote: ↑Fri Jun 16, 2023 7:17 amDo you two call it an open relationship, since you don't call it polyamory? I think some couple say "we're not poly, we're just open" when they don't identify with polyamory across the board, and they usually try to keep things at the friends with benefits level.Des 31 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 24, 2021 1:10 pm
When my wife has been in ongoing relationships with men, an emotional depth almost always develops between them. She and some men have expressed love in the heat of sex. All her relationships with others have had an expiration date. .
We don't consider ourselves as polyamorous in that none have ever lived with us.
Now, however, she has been involved with two men who are friends with the other. One is younger, the other older, than her, and she admittedly loves both. For the first time, either of them are fucking her more than I. She recently asked me if I'm okay with that. I told her I love it and hope she does also. She says ours is the perfect marriage in her opinion, and I think so too. We are sure that will not work for most couples, but that's the way the two of us want it to be. I'm typically not in the same room with them either at our place or theirs, but I jerk off madly while knowing they are giving her all she wants and feels she needs.
~ Des