Another man loves my wife

[kaskap79]

To me this last waiting time can be the worst. :-)

[co-husband]

I agree kasap79...I am so ready to talk to my wife and find out just how their night was!

[kaskap79]

It is just like an oral exam, everything is done just waiting for the grade.

Thanks for letting us follow your story and thoughts.

[JRE]

Thank you for keeping everyone up to date...it's a wonderful read.

You said you didn't feel compelled to reclaim Juli, and that's the way I've always felt.

While her times with other men was satisfying for me, my main concern was her enjoyment of those experiences, so most times I would not have sex with her when she got home. I would give her time to enjoy the feeling of what it was like to have another man making love to her and depositing his sperm inside her. I think that's a very emotional event for a woman. Immediately afterward she was immersed in those intense, fresh memories, but by the next day she had arranged her thoughts to the point where she was more open to telling me all about it.

[co-husband]

Quick update...Juli is back and in the bathroom right now. I don't have a lot of time so I'll give you what I know so far.
Here's the basic dialogue we had just a few min ago:

ME: "How did it go last night?"
JULI: "It went great. Brian really needed that. The poor guy has slept alone for almost a year"
ME: "How many times did you do it?"
JULI: "If you had gone a year without sex, you'd cum pretty fast. That's how it was for Brian. The second time was a lot better"
ME: "When was the second time? Last night or this morning?"
JULI: 'This morning."
ME: "Is Brian big?"
JULI: "It wouldn't be fair to you or Brian if I told you that."
ME: Did you orgasm?"
JULI: "That's the goal of having sex. So yes I did."

That was our conversation so far. She's in the bathroom getting cleaned up I think. We are going to stop by Brian's room to get him then go down together for breakfast.
I'd better sign off now. I'll write more as soon as I can

[kaskap79]

Just give her a big hug, that is what my wife need when she comes back to me.

[D+D]

You'll probably have had breakfast by the time you read this. What was their demeanor and interaction with each other? This is a dynamic that I've never experienced. I'm curious if she will treat the two of you as equals or if she treats you as husband and Brian as boyfriend. Thanks for your openness and updates. Now you become the teacher.

[lagercandle2014]

D+D Now you become the teacher.[/quote]

D+D Loved this sentence in your post, never has truer words been said.

co-husband I'm so happy for you both, and Brian to

Regards my friend LC

[co-husband]

Hey we're back in our room. Juli is busy on her phone doing Facebook I think. She thinks I'm doing some work on my laptop, so I wish I had more time to post this but let me tell you what I know so far...

Breakfast was actually pretty normal. No talk about what they did in bed last night, but they talked mostly about the show they saw at the dinner theater. Juli sat next to me and we were across the table from Brian. D+D, you're right, she treated me like a husband and seemed to be pretty open about it in front of Brian. It was like other times when we've dined with him. But for me personally, I don't think I heard a word that they were saying about the show..lol
All I could think about when I looked at Brian was that this man slept with my wife last night! He's not only seen my wife naked but has felt her and been inside her! Sitting next to Juli all I could think about was that Brian's sperm is swimming inside her! I knew that just like an hour earlier, they were having sex! Amazing! Surreal experience really. But wow, I love it!

After we got back to the room I did ask Juli more about last night. I know her well and I wasn't surprised that she didn't want to talk in too much detail. For one thing I know she views sex as a private act between the two people involved. Whether its with me, her ex husband or now with Brian. And actually I respect her for that. She did tell me that they enjoyed the intimacy and that Brian held on to her the whole night. She said he was craving the touch and intimacy of another person. She said it was "sweet" how he just clung to her through the night. I can understand that for a man who hasn't had a woman for a year.

I know they did it twice, once last night and once this morning. I know she showered with him this morning. There is a big walk-in shower in these rooms and Juli has always loved to shower together. I never liked the limited space in a tub shower so I thought they probably did together and she confirmed that when I asked.

We will be going out to see some of the city but it's very cold today, so I think they want to get a light lunch later and maybe do some shopping. Juli and I will go out for our Valentine's dinner tonight. Brian said he plans to go to one of the museums near out hotel.

I have to go for now..will try to keep everyone updated.

[D+D]

Thanks. You answered my question. May I say, I envy your situation? I also want to say that I'm glad you're not a co-husband.

[co-husband]

Thank you for keeping everyone up to date...it's a wonderful read.

You said you didn't feel compelled to reclaim Juli, and that's the way I've always felt.

While her times with other men was satisfying for me, my main concern was her enjoyment of those experiences, so most times I would not have sex with her when she got home. I would give her time to enjoy the feeling of what it was like to have another man making love to her and depositing his sperm inside her. I think that's a very emotional event for a woman. Immediately afterward she was immersed in those intense, fresh memories, but by the next day she had arranged her thoughts to the point where she was more open to telling me all about it.

JRE yes I do totally understand what you mean. This is just my first time sharing my wife, but I know and can tell that she is still glowing from her lovemaking with Brian last night, and feeling his sperm inside her. I don't want to spoil that. I love knowing that HE was the last man inside my wife, and I don't want to disturb his seed that now owns her body. I will gladly wait until Juli is ready for me to reclaim her. In the meantime, all 3 of us are still enjoying their sex from last night. All of us in different ways, but still a wonderful experience.

Mark

[Samanthasman]

Glad you guys had a great time!! Congrats!

[malnik]

We will be going out to see some of the city but it's very cold today, so I think they want to get a light lunch later and maybe do some shopping. Juli and I will go out for our Valentine's dinner tonight........

I think this paragraph says a lot about the way things are going. Specifically, "so I think THEY want to get a light lunch later and maybe do some shopping".

They. Not Juli and Mark, Juli and Brian. Your thoughts are of them as a couple. To me as a guy who meets and is that third person, that's great. So often I've enjoyed the company of a lovely lady but when I leave after a night at theirs or take her back after a weekend, I've longed for more. Don't get me wrong, I'm not falling in love, I'm just enjoying good company.
Brian is a lucky man.

I imagine his head is spinning as well. And the most infuriating thing about these ladies? It's that they take it so naturally. What they did was just a normal thing while you Mark, you boil inside for news!

Thanks for sharing this. I'm hanging on every message. I'd love to know more how Juli felt at that second when another man slid inside her........

[co-husband]

Malnik...yes you are so right. It amazes me how Juli can have sex with another man after being monogamous with me for 33 years, and act so self-confident and natural about it. I mean I'm not complaining...but to get Juli to talk to me about how she felt when Brian first slid inside her, is like pulling teeth lol. I guess ladies are more into the emotions of the sex and not the mechanics like we guys are. We want to hear about the penetration, the orgasms, the sperm dripping from her pussy. But I know Juli is still enjoying feelings of intimacy and closeness that she experienced with Brian last night. In fact, that was the first thing she told me this morning when I asked her how the night went. She said "Brian needed the intimacy, and that he held her close all night." That's what was most important to her.

I know over the next few days I'll learn more details of the sex itself, and when I do I'll share them here. But you're right, I know I'm burning inside, and I'm sure Brian is too. I think Juli just feels very content, emotionally and physically satisfied. I love this weekend! lol

Mark

[armyguyot1]

A great story and I am envious but I doubt I could have kept my hands off of her. I guess I should say I doubt I could have kept my dick out of her. Sloppy seconds are so damn hot and she could surely handle the extra fucking and love it.

[JRE]

Everything is going so perfect with you and Juli planning your Valentine's Day trip, that I'm hesitant to even comment, but my erotica laden mind would be having thoughts about sharing her tonight to make the trip truly memorable. A visit to his room before returning to yours would be something my wife would love...and has loved in the past.

[co-husband]

Here's the latest update as of 8:30 AM on Sunday:

On Saturday, Juli wanted she and I to have sex before we went out for our Valentine's Day dinner, so about 5 PM I reclaimed my wife's body. It was probably some of the more intense sex we've had in a long time. Juli's face glowed as I looked at her during intercourse. I'm no where near being an Alpha, but I admit it felt good to reclaim my wife. I think I did it with more boldness than I usually do. Juli had her eyes closed during our sex and after I came inside her, she told me that she had orgasmed too!

She spent the night in bed with me, but this morning as I write this, she is with Brian. I just mentioned to her last night that if she wanted to spend the morning with Brian today (breakfast with him or "whatever"), that I had work I could do in the room and then just get breakfast later on my own. I know she exchanged some texts with him last night, so this morning about 7 AM while I was still in bed half-awake, she left to go to Brian's room. I'm sure I will see them later this morning, so we can check-out of the hotel by noon. So as I type this, Brian is probably having sex with Juli again. HE is reclaiming my wife! I love it..what a weekend!

Mark

[DavaoMike]

Here's the latest update as of 8:30 AM on Sunday:

On Saturday, Juli wanted she and I to have sex before we went out for our Valentine's Day dinner, so about 5 PM I reclaimed my wife's body. It was probably some of the more intense sex we've had in a long time. Juli's face glowed as I looked at her during intercourse. I'm no where near being an Alpha, but I admit it felt good to reclaim my wife. I think I did it with more boldness than I usually do. Juli had her eyes closed during our sex and after I came inside her, she told me that she had orgasmed too!

She spent the night in bed with me, but this morning as I write this, she is with Brian. I just mentioned to her last night that if she wanted to spend the morning with Brian today (breakfast with him or "whatever"), that I had work I could do in the room and then just get breakfast later on my own. I know she exchanged some texts with him last night, so this morning about 7 AM while I was still in bed half-awake, she left to go to Brian's room. I'm sure I will see them later this morning, so we can check-out of the hotel by noon. So as I type this, Brian is probably having sex with Juli again. HE is reclaiming my wife! I love it..what a weekend!

Mark

Sounds like this might develop into a real "co-husband" relationship, truly becoming a poly situation, rather than a "mercy fuck" as you previously described it. This can be a very wonderful and fulfilling thing, so long as your marriage is always regarded by all involved as inviolate.

How is your relationship with Brian? Do you think that you and/or Brian would feel comfortable in talking with each other about details of sex with Juli?

DM

[JRE]

Hollywood couldn't script the perfect situation the three of you have found.

This thread is by far the most erotic and classy I've read on this forum and I hope it continues to grow and develop!

[co-husband]

We are now back home and relaxing after an incredible weekend. I feel exhausted physically and emotionally, but in a very good way!. It all still seems a bit surreal and went by so quickly. Things I had dreamed of and thought about for a long time, I actually got to experience this weekend. So many things keep running through my mind, trying to absorb the enormity of what took place. I think Juli feels the same but I can tell she is pretty upbeat in her attitude, and why wouldn't she be? She is full of "happy juice" (That's the term she sometimes uses for male sperm lol).

Wow...I have now officially shared my wife! In the last 48 hours, another man has slept through the night with my naked wife in his arms, he has showered with her, he has penetrated her and ejaculated his sperm inside her. The next day I had my penis in the same place where his cock was less than 12 hours earlier. Then this morning he had her again and his cock was touching MY semen. Brian and I who have been good friends for 10 years, have now shared the same woman intimately and our cocks have touched each other's ejaculate..INSIDE MY WIFE!

I am tired mentally, physically and emotionally so I'm going to have to sign off and write more tomorrow. But wow what an awesome feeling I am experiencing right now. I want to thank all of you who have helped me the last couple of months by offering advice and encouragement. I am so glad that I found this forum. Being able to talk with other husbands who had experienced this with your wives and her lovers has been indispensable, and just to get to share my experience this weekend was so very helpful. Thank you all!

Mark

[malnik]

Im excited for you!!!

How is it with Brian now? Do you feel closer to him....not sexually!!! But with you both sharing her or is he a little distant? I wonder if he is understanding it all.

I think it would be good for you to bond with him, so he knows he can have Juli when he feels he needs to and she is willing. Let him know you are equals.
Do you think she is willing to service him when he asks? Or is it a special occasion thing?

mal

[tigerjph]

Thank you all so much! I can now understand what you have been and are telling me about this experience. It really is a contrast of emotions, but in a very good way. My wife and I love each other totally, completely committed to each other. I never have had any fear of that changing. That's why and how I have been able to encourage the relationship between Juli and Brian to develop to this ultimate point.

The contrast for me is this....I have read and been told what it is like to be a cuckold husband. Now I know in practice and not just in theory. It's 5:40 AM and I woke up to an empty bed. My wife is in bed with another man! I'm sure she has given her body to him and he has enjoyed the full pleasure of her womanhood, perhaps multiple times. I won't know for perhaps a few more hours exactly what they did together last night.
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I say I am feeling the contrast because most husbands would not have allowed another man to first of all, go on lunch dates with his wife. Or to text her daily. Most husbands would have never allowed another man to tell his wife.."I love you" right in front of him. Most husbands would have confronted another man when they learned that he had invited his wife to go away with him overnight. And most husbands who knew that another man had his wife in bed, would have broken the hotel room door down to reclaim her.
But I encouraged Brian to date my wife. I meekly remained silent when he openly flirted with her. I was the one who devised and encouraged all 3 of us to come together on this Valentine's weekend to a hotel and him to not only take my wife out alone, but to bring her back to his hotel room for the night. I willingly slept alone in my bed last night, abstaining from sex, while this other man has enjoyed the pleasures of my wife's naked body, fully penetrating her and even ejaculating his seed into My Wife's womb! And the thing is...I LOVE IT! The Alpha Male has fully taken the cuckold male's wife! He now owns my wife's body. She may still be married to me, and committed to me yes. But the fact is..Brian owns Juli's body right now.

I am so aroused now. I honestly am in no hurry to reclaim my wife's body. I love knowing that her body belongs to Brian!

Mark

Congratulations, co-husband. Julie is very beautiful and you are a lucky man. Any desire to watch them in action? Also, since Brian is the alpha and Julie is submissive by nature - is he slowly going to dominate her sexually. Making her strip and suck his dick whenever he wants - even before you?

[D+D]

I hope you continue to keep us posted so that we can see how this progresses and can learn from your and Julie's participation in this lifestyle. I hope that it goes well. I really do. I have a million questions, but will just wait and see what Julie reveals to you over the next few days about her and Brian's intimate time together this weekend and see how the two of you decide to handle the new dynamics of your three-way relationship.

[lagercandle2014]

That makes two of us D+D I'm busting a gut though to hear more from Mark/

Regards LC

[co-husband]

Good morning after....

I rested well last night and feel more energetic than I did last night. This weekend wore me out! lol

Juli and I had a great talk over breakfast this morning. We are both still excited about our weekend with Brian. I can tell by the smile on her face that she truly enjoyed it. She looks so beautiful this morning and I can tell we are even more into each other now than before. I love her and am so proud of her, and she let me know that I am her man. (remember that line in the first Batman movie where Jack Palance says to Jack Nicholson..."You, are my number one, guy". Juli said that to me this morning quoting that line from the movie lol. It was cute.)

Anyway... I did ask her more questions about her experience with Brian. I wasn't surprised at all that she focused more on the intimacy of their time together more than the sexual details that we men want to know about, so I just let her talk and enjoyed hearing her tell about being with another man. She said again how much Brian needed that intimacy, and she said that he "clung" (her word) to her all night.
She did tell me that she had not necessarily planned to spend all night with him on Friday, but to come back to me after they had sex, but she said Brian held her so closely, and their first sex was "rather fast" so she decided to stay with him and they fell asleep with him holding her.

She said the next morning is when they had sex again and "He was fine". I asked if he shot right away on Friday night, and she said..."well not like a teenager. He hadn't had sex in a year so we both knew that he wouldn't last too long, but it wasn't like right away". (So I'm still not totally sure what she meant by quick). She went on to say that the next morning he had very good stamina. I know she orgasmed with him so he must have lasted long enough for her to reach her climax.
I asked her what positions they did and she said they did missionary each time.

I then asked her the question I wasn't sure she would answer but I asked anyway...I asked if Brian was big. She said, "I'm not going to talk to you guys about the size of your cocks".
There is a back story to this kind of exchange with me and Juli. When I first married Juli, I had only seen one other male with an erection and that was a friend of mind in Junior High School. So I naively asked her if I was bigger than her ex husband. I can still remember her exact words were, "I don't want to talk about it".
Juli is a very honest person but also very kind. She won't lie to you but if she thinks the truth will hurt you she will just say something like she said to me, and not want to talk about it. So her non-answer told me that her ex husband was bigger than me. A couple years later I finally got her to tell me and she confirmed that yes her ex husband was 7 inches uncut. Which is significantly bigger than I am. So now she has refused twice to tell me Brian's cock size, so I know he is bigger than I am. I'm not surprised. I've learned that I am a bit below the average in size. But just knowing that my penis is smaller than my wife's FB is very arousing for me! (I know you other smaller-than-average husbands know what I mean).

You all ask good questions and I will try to briefly answer some of them now...
>Brian and I have been friends a long time, and being with him after he had been with Juli, the conversation seems normal, but Im sure his mind is racing like mine is when we were together. Both of us had sex with the same woman this weekend, so if he is like me, he is aroused just thinking about that.
I don't expect that he and I will really get into a conversation about the details of what we do with Juli in bed. I think we both will have our own sexual relationship with her.

>Yes, Juli is submissive and I can tell Brian is dominant, so what they have done or will do in bed may be different than what I do with Juli. I just don't know and may not be able to find out. And in a way that's pretty arousing I think. As a husband to know another man has his own private sexual relationship with my wife is pretty amazing. I'm not sure I WANT to know everything they do in bed together.

>Juli has already told me that she doesn't plan on this to become a scheduled thing with Brian. Not like once a week. But just an occasional thing. (At least that's what she is saying now. I wonder if she can hold out and not have sex with him again for a while, or if she will get the craving again soon!.)

Mark