Another man loves my wife

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Love this thread!

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Love this thread!
Me too. Co-husband is an inspiration to us all for being such a loving and giving husband to a hot wife.
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Unread post by Robrt » Wed Aug 28, 2019 6:40 am

This is one of the most interesting threads in the entire "Our Hot Wives" web site. Thank you all for keeping us up to date!

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How has it gone since I got sick, came close to dying and then my computer did?
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Re: Another man loves my wife

Unread post by pasadena95 » Wed Sep 25, 2019 11:32 am

Hi Mark. Could you provide us with an update? Your story has certainly created great interest and we are anxious to know how your relationships are progressing. Many thanks!

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Hi Mark. Could you provide us with an update? Your story has certainly created great interest and we are anxious to know how your relationships are progressing. Many thanks!
Hello....
Juli and I have been gone for a few weeks but now back home. Resting currently but she has already mentioned to me that she would like to see Brian soon. So I think next week she'll meet with him again at his house.

Their relationship has continued to deepen and Juli now is much more open with me about her desire to be with him more often. So that is a change from how she used to be more pensive about allowing herself to admit the obvious feelings that naturally develop between any man and woman who are active sexually on such a frequent basis. So I view it as a very positive growth for her and for Brian too. And in my case I still very much like seeing my wife letting herself enjoy her sexuality with another man.

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Unread post by D+D » Wed Sep 25, 2019 1:21 pm

Great to hear from you Mark and I'm glad that You, Juli, and Brian are all in a good place.

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SutterKane wrote:
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How has it gone since I got sick, came close to dying and then my computer did?
It pleases me to no end knowing you are back amongst us.


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ArizonaGuy wrote:
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How has it gone since I got sick, came close to dying and then my computer did?
It pleases me to no end knowing you are back amongst us.


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Thank you Pauline...
This forum has been a great help to me for the past 4 year since Juli and I began our journey in the lifestyle. Being able to share my experience and feelings as a husband, and the feedback from so many here is a real asset.

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Unread post by co-husband » Sat Sep 28, 2019 9:52 am

Juli and I invited our friend Brian to spend the weekend with us at our home. Well Friday and Saturday nights at least. He leaves on Sunday to go home. So as I write this, Brian is still here and in fact in our bed right now with Juli. It's 2 PM on Saturday and it's been a good experience for us all to have him stay with us.
He arrived Friday about 6 PM...we had dinner together, then around 8:00 PM he and Juli spent about an hour alone in our marriage bed. Then around 11:00 PM, Juli and I went to bed and had sex (Brian slept in the guest bedroom). I could still feel Brian's silky semen coating my wife's pussy, which was such a turn on that I came very quickly and added my own cum to his previous deposit.

As I laid there holding my wife in my arms, feeling her body relax into sleep, I couldn't stop thinking of the events of the day and just how amazing my life is. Knowing that my wife's body was carrying the seed of two men, and that she was able to totally satisfy both of us, just made me feel even closer to her and to love her even more than I ever thought possible. This amazing, beautiful, petite blonde woman can give her body so totally to two men and love us both, yet in different ways just blows my mind. I have read that sharing your wife can strengthen your marriage. It seems counter-intuitive but I finally understand and realize that at least in our case, it is true.

I think for a husband, there is a natural inclination to experience some jealousy to let another man make love his my wife, but I know also that the jealousy can at the same time be the most powerful aphrodisiac. I even feel drawn closer to Brian, as my wife's lover he and I share something so special and so unique,that no other men can have in common. Not just my wife's / his lover's body, but her affection and emotional bond as well.

So as I lay in bed last night, and Brian just feet across the hall...it felt as if he and I were both holding Juli in our arms at the same time. Our seed alive within her womb....I felt bonded emotionally to him as well. I wondered if he felt anything close to the same about me.

Now as I write this, looking down the hall at the closed bedroom door, knowing that on the other side of that door, Brian and Juli are fulfilling their love in physical expression once again, in sexual embrace, fully penetrated as one flesh....by the time I get this posted he may have already ejaculated his sperm once again into her, and he may have already felt her pussy throbbing on his Manhood in orgasm. Then the loving after-glow of their lovemaking, still embracing in each other's arms....their lips kissing passionately and lovingly. The after-sex pillow talk that couples do. All of this causes me to love both of them even more than I did yesterday.

Thank you for this forum where I can come to express my feelings so openly.

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Hats off to you. :up: :up: :up:

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Unread post by iowahusband » Sat Sep 28, 2019 7:27 pm

Mark,

Do you feel submissive to Brian or have a desire to serve him? Our cuckold relationship has evolved to this and it has been very good .

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Unread post by Observer1931 » Sun Sep 29, 2019 9:14 am

Great update of inviting Brian for the weekend. Hope you will cover what actions took place after their Saturday PM coupling and any reclaiming on your part. Also what sleeping arrangements took place Saturday night and any Sunday "events. That was a really BIG step it seems to me.

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Mark,

Do you feel submissive to Brian or have a desire to serve him? Our cuckold relationship has evolved to this and it has been very good .
Hi Iowahusband....yes in fact I do have feelings that way about Brian. I think just the fact that he has been my wife's lover for over 4 years, and that he has abilities in the bedroom that I do not (he is able to bring her to orgasm during intercourse while I have always struggled with pre-mature ejaculation), and he is aware of my sexual deficiencies, naturally causes me to feel submissive to him. But so far nothing has played out in our relationship that has allowed me to serve Brian personally in such an intimate way, so my cuckold nature remains somewhat private other than the obvious elephant in the bedroom that he gets to have sexual relations with my wife , in my bed, with my full approval.

So far he seems quite content with that.

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Unread post by D+D » Sun Sep 29, 2019 1:07 pm

Mark,
The more Brian comes around, the more opportunities for him and Julie to pick up on your tendencies and desires. Just keep that in mind. It might be nice if he became a more frequent visitor. Small things like getting him a drink or doing other things that would be slightly out of the ordinary for two friends will bolster his notion of superiority and let Julie began to see him as the alpha in the room. When you answer a question, little things like yes Sir tend to define your status as the beta without seeming cheesy. Clearing the table after dinner so they can talk or go to bed would be another thing. Have you ever given Julie a hint that you would like to go down on her just after Brian finishes? I'm sure that you know all of this so I'm just kinda urging you on. If in fact what you indicated above is what you really want.

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Sun Sep 29, 2019 12:46 pm
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Sat Sep 28, 2019 7:27 pm
Mark,

Do you feel submissive to Brian or have a desire to serve him? Our cuckold relationship has evolved to this and it has been very good .
Hi Iowahusband....yes in fact I do have feelings that way about Brian. I think just the fact that he has been my wife's lover for over 4 years, and that he has abilities in the bedroom that I do not (he is able to bring her to orgasm during intercourse while I have always struggled with pre-mature ejaculation), and he is aware of my sexual deficiencies, naturally causes me to feel submissive to him. But so far nothing has played out in our relationship that has allowed me to serve Brian personally in such an intimate way, so my cuckold nature remains somewhat private other than the obvious elephant in the bedroom that he gets to have sexual relations with my wife , in my bed, with my full approval.

So far he seems quite content with that.

Mark
Are you? Does your wife know how deep you need to submit to him goes? Have you told her? Is/will she be good with you exploring that part of yourself if he's down to play the role of Dom Alpha Bull in your sexual triangle?
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Unread post by Suchen Zucker » Sun Sep 29, 2019 2:47 pm

or perhaps he's one of those guys who has no repressed desires to suck cock and wear panties and just enjoys allowing his wife to have fun while he remains her man. That's okay too right?

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D+D wrote:
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Mark,
The more Brian comes around, the more opportunities for him and Julie to pick up on your tendencies and desires. Just keep that in mind. It might be nice if he became a more frequent visitor. Small things like getting him a drink or doing other things that would be slightly out of the ordinary for two friends will bolster his notion of superiority and let Julie began to see him as the alpha in the room. When you answer a question, little things like yes Sir tend to define your status as the beta without seeming cheesy. Clearing the table after dinner so they can talk or go to bed would be another thing. Have you ever given Julie a hint that you would like to go down on her just after Brian finishes? I'm sure that you know all of this so I'm just kinda urging you on. If in fact what you indicated above is what you really want.
Hi D+D.....Yes in fact this was the second time in 6 weeks that Brian has been at our house, and the first time he has spent the night with us. I would have been fine with him sleeping through the night with Juli, but she was the one who wanted him to sleep in the guest bedroom. She still has the good sense of protecting our marriage by not getting too involved with Brian other than their sexual relationship which is somewhat limited (not in the sex act itself, but in the frequency of their meetings), so I'm sure her wisdom is still the best to follow.

When Brian was in our home in August, I did get to prepare the bed for them and while they were both present and just beginning to undress. That was when I had the boldness to ask Brian to let me see his manhood (so I could see what Juli enjoys) and he obliged me by pulling down his underwear..for which I was grateful. After 4 years I finally now have a mental image of what his Cock looks like (which I would frankly describe as "beautiful" and I even said as much while I was looking at it). So I am confident that the events of the last 6 weeks are yet another progression in our 3-way relationship with Brian. What at one time I would have considered improbable, has now happened. So I anticipate things will continue to develop even further, but at a steady pace and in its own time.

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Suchen Zucker wrote:
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or perhaps he's one of those guys who has no repressed desires to suck cock and wear panties and just enjoys allowing his wife to have fun while he remains her man. That's okay too right?
Thank you Suchen,

I do have limits on my desires toward other men. I have and honestly enjoy performing oral sex on a man (I have not done so with Brian yet, but would be very willing), however Brian has given no indication whatsoever that he would consider such a relationship with me. His focus so far is totally on my wife. And frankly I do not have a desire to be feminized by him and would not wear panties. But as a husband, to be willing to step aside at times and let another man have full sexual relations with my wife....without protest and even with subtle encouragement...I'm sure that Brian understands where I see my role as a beta male and he likely understands that I find arousal in submitting to his Alpha role as my wife's primary sex partner.

I have not really desired to be present to watch them in the sex act, but to excuse myself and let them enjoy their own private relationship. To me that is much more erotic than watching.

And to your point...I think each couple in this lifestyle is different and we all have our own way that works best for us. So yes, it's okay to enjoy the best of both worlds...to be in a wonderful and secure long-term marriage, while at the same time allowing my wife to have a boyfriend who gives her such sexual satisfaction.

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When Brian was in our home in August, I did get to prepare the bed for them and while they were both present and just beginning to undress. That was when I had the boldness to ask Brian to let me see his manhood (so I could see what Juli enjoys) and he obliged me by pulling down his underwear..for which I was grateful. After 4 years I finally now have a mental image of what his Cock looks like (which I would frankly describe as "beautiful" and I even said as much while I was looking at it).
I find this quite touching. I would think that any man that enjoys his wife's sexual activities with another man (or other men) would like to see the cock that she takes into her. And would want to see it as if looking from her perspective of giving her so much pleasure. From her eyes it must be beautiful, so why shouldn't a cuck see it as beautiful too?
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Johor wrote:
Mon Sep 30, 2019 5:53 am
co-husband wrote:
Mon Sep 30, 2019 4:19 am
When Brian was in our home in August, I did get to prepare the bed for them and while they were both present and just beginning to undress. That was when I had the boldness to ask Brian to let me see his manhood (so I could see what Juli enjoys) and he obliged me by pulling down his underwear..for which I was grateful. After 4 years I finally now have a mental image of what his Cock looks like (which I would frankly describe as "beautiful" and I even said as much while I was looking at it).
I find this quite touching. I would think that any man that enjoys his wife's sexual activities with another man (or other men) would like to see the cock that she takes into her. And would want to see it as if looking from her perspective of giving her so much pleasure. From her eyes it must be beautiful, so why shouldn't a cuck see it as beautiful too?
Thank you Johor for understanding. And you are exactly right that while I had known for 4 years that Brian has made love to my wife multiple times, it wasn't until I was able to actually see his cock with my own eyes that I felt a sense of (not sure what the correct word is...perhaps "peace", "closure", "bonding", maybe "understanding"?)...It felt like I was included in their relationship more than I have been before.

I have seen other men naked, but Brian is special in that he is a friend who has literally made love to my wife. His is not just another cock to add to a mental collection of porn images, but it is the normally private essense of the man who is my wife's lover. So finally being allowed to see the manhood that my wife experiences was very special to me. I don't want to be overly dramatic in my description of the moment, but it's like no other I've experienced. To stare and soak in the image of his cock, the shape, size and contours of the head... was actually as peaceful to me as it was arousing...to know that this very cock experiences my wife in the same way that I do. I truly feel more bonded emotionally to Brian now than ever before.

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Unread post by ally_allyandcole » Wed Oct 09, 2019 6:15 pm

I always enjoy this thread and read it whenever I get on.

We also have a long term bull who was originally a close friend.

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ally_allyandcole wrote:
Wed Oct 09, 2019 6:15 pm
I always enjoy this thread and read it whenever I get on.

We also have a long term bull who was originally a close friend.
ally, if you like this thread, I think you might like this one as well. Both of theses are amazing poly stories!
viewtopic.php?f=28&t=31590

Oh, here is another great thread in the same vein!
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=42924
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Hello...I'm fairly new to all of this but found this site and decided to post my situation here.

My wife and I have been married 32 years (I'm 56, she is 52). Last year a good friend of ours went though a divorce when his wife left him. We let him hang around with us (dinners, outings, visits in our home etc) just to be a good friend to him.
After a while I could tell he was enjoying being around my wife more than just as a friend. A husband can just tell when another man is hot for his wife. I guess I am a bit of a cuckold because I actually enjoyed seeing him around my wife, sometimes ignoring me and focusing on her. I didn't blame him, my wife is a petite blonde, pretty and a great personality. But she is a bit naïve and didn't really notice our friend's behavior being anything but "friendly"

So over a few months it became more obvious to me that he was falling for my wife. I admit I actually encouraged it. I would suggest to her that she meet him alone for lunch, that he needed female companionship since he lived alone. I also gave him obvious signals that I was ok with him being with my wife. He began texting, calling her every day, and she responded in kind.

Finally one day about 2 months ago they were our together on a lunch date, and he admitted to her that he was in love with her. My wife was surprised and didn't see it coming. Kind of shook her up for a few days, but I kept reassuring her that I was ok and our friend needed the emotional support from her, so she has continued to see him.

So far it has not turned sexual between them but I feel it is getting very close to that point. I know he would in a minute if my wife and I offered to let him. I have fantasized about this kind of poly relationship with another man for a long time, now it looks like it might happen. I actually enjoy seeing him interact with my wife and can tell he actually does love her emotionally. I've thought of ways to push my wife into being with him in bed, taking the relationship with him to the next level, but I don't want to push her too far too quickly, but I'm confident that it will happen at some point.

I posted this here mainly to get some feedback. As I said I'm fairly new to this lifestyle but I love the intensity of it. I truly have never been upset to know that another man is actually in love with my wife. In fact it's a huge turn on for me to share my wife with him so intimately.

Thanks for any feedback!

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Sharing a wife is always the most intimate thing in sexual experience. I am also a wannbee cuck and searching for a Bull for my wife and we are really new into this like not even a month so i am no one in term of giving advice as i am yet to again an experience but I can tell one thing that let it happen how it wants to and enjoy it as much as you can because nothing remains permanent. Thanks

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Wed Dec 10, 2014 11:26 am
Hello...I'm fairly new to all of this but found this site and decided to post my situation here.

My wife and I have been married 32 years (I'm 56, she is 52). Last year a good friend of ours went though a divorce when his wife left him. We let him hang around with us (dinners, outings, visits in our home etc) just to be a good friend to him.
After a while I could tell he was enjoying being around my wife more than just as a friend. A husband can just tell when another man is hot for his wife. I guess I am a bit of a cuckold because I actually enjoyed seeing him around my wife, sometimes ignoring me and focusing on her. I didn't blame him, my wife is a petite blonde, pretty and a great personality. But she is a bit naïve and didn't really notice our friend's behavior being anything but "friendly"

So over a few months it became more obvious to me that he was falling for my wife. I admit I actually encouraged it. I would suggest to her that she meet him alone for lunch, that he needed female companionship since he lived alone. I also gave him obvious signals that I was ok with him being with my wife. He began texting, calling her every day, and she responded in kind.

Finally one day about 2 months ago they were our together on a lunch date, and he admitted to her that he was in love with her. My wife was surprised and didn't see it coming. Kind of shook her up for a few days, but I kept reassuring her that I was ok and our friend needed the emotional support from her, so she has continued to see him.

So far it has not turned sexual between them but I feel it is getting very close to that point. I know he would in a minute if my wife and I offered to let him. I have fantasized about this kind of poly relationship with another man for a long time, now it looks like it might happen. I actually enjoy seeing him interact with my wife and can tell he actually does love her emotionally. I've thought of ways to push my wife into being with him in bed, taking the relationship with him to the next level, but I don't want to push her too far too quickly, but I'm confident that it will happen at some point.

I posted this here mainly to get some feedback. As I said I'm fairly new to this lifestyle but I love the intensity of it. I truly have never been upset to know that another man is actually in love with my wife. In fact it's a huge turn on for me to share my wife with him so intimately.

Thanks for any feedback!

Mark
Hi
Sharing a wife is always the most intimate thing in sexual experience. I am also a wannbee cuck and searching for a Bull for my wife and we are really new into this like not even a month so i am no one in term of giving advice as i am yet to again an experience but I can tell one thing that let it happen how it wants to and enjoy it as much as you can because nothing remains permanent. Thanks
Hello...Thank you for writing...
That has been what I have learned in the now almost 5 years that my wife and I have been sharing our bed (figuratively and literally) with another man. Things that are so intimate and emotionally complex must be allowed to take the time to develop naturally. Otherwise it can be very short-lived and negative. Patience truly is a virtue in this lifestyle.

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