Yes exactly pixwellguy....You said it perfectly. When I have been present to watch another man make love to my wife...it's not so much the sex act itself that is so intense, it's the feeling of being excluded from their experience even though it is happening right in front of me. They are experiencing something together that no one else in the world can truly participate in at that moment. And to know that he is now and forever will be one of my wife's sex partners. From the first moment of penetration, nothing can change the fact that he has been inside my wife and felt her embrace and they experienced sexual climax with each other.pixwellguy wrote: ↑Fri Feb 22, 2019 4:52 amI actually find that exclusion intensely erotic when I'm allowed to watch my wife and another man. I've had her look over at me as she's climbing in bed with him and say "You just sit over there and don't bother us"...the meaning is clear and so arousing!co-husband wrote: ↑Fri Feb 22, 2019 4:36 am.............Also like you, as they progressed in their sexual embrace and he enjoyed full penetration, I felt very excluded from what was happening only feet in front of me. Juli and this man were in their own world and no one,..not even me as her husband could participate for those moments...it was exclusive to them.
But even when she hasn't said anything like that, it's always quite clear that she's entirely focused on sharing pleasure with the man in bed with her, and that she doesn't have a second thought for me...or any thought for that matter! I've had her looking straight at me as she's on all fours, being fucked from behind, and I can tell from the glazed look in her eyes and the pleasure on her face that she isn't seeing me at all.
For me, this is a huge part of sharing my wife...that she's completely and totally his while she's in his arms!
So as you described...I've seen that glazed look on my wife's face as well. Totally lost in the erotic world with HIM....oblivious to the fact that I was even there in the room.
Mark