Developing feelings and attraction for wife lover

[Sandeep]

Has other developed multiple feeling for wife’s lovers or boyfriends. As bi I have intimate sex with few of my wife’s boyfriends and special romantic feelings for wife’s lover. Wife knows how much I crave and love being with her lover and how I’m attracted to some of her boyfriends. She is the one pushes me to have intimate sex with her men or my bi hook ups. Im not worried about labels as I’m proud bi....is this normal?

[cornudoyesposa27]

My wife has had only one lover. Actually , it was cheating as I learned from that just years after . Her lover has been abroad for some time and we now wait for his return to resume her affair. I have found pictures of the guy on the internet and I have started developing some kind of attraction for his masculine appearance and I now use to fantasize about kissing him and having sex with him too.

[Sandeep]

My wife has had only one lover. Actually , it was cheating as I learned from that just years after . Her lover has been abroad for some time and we now wait for his return to resume her affair. I have found pictures of the guy on the internet and I have started developing some kind of attraction for his masculine appearance and I now use to fantasize about kissing him and having sex with him too.

That’s amazing, hope this comes alive and you enjoy. All the best.
Being bi and enjoying bi sex what I call full sexual experience and to have passionate and intimate sex with wife’s lovers is truly amazing. When you feelings and attraction the experience becomes priceless in mm or mfm......

[Domingo-ITA]

No romantic feelings, but I did experience strong attraction to one of her lovers. I’d loved having sex with him but never happened (he had the most beautiful male bubble butt you can imagine).

[gpcuckold0]

I consider myself straight but have strongly physically attracted to my wife's boyfriend, especially his cock. I cant help it

[Sandeep]

I consider myself straight but have strongly physically attracted to my wife's boyfriend, especially his cock. I cant help it

At one point I was saying I was straight at the same time craving for certain type of men and cock.......it took time
for me to realize and thanks to support of my wife nothing wrong with being bi. I enjoy cocks that’s I am attracted to for my bi needs. I have gone to level where i have deep intimate connection with wife’s lovers and own bi partners. Many ppl need to get away from labels and enjoy sex with both sides...

All the best

[hwc]

This isn't a criticism at all, merely an observation, but being straight means you don't find other men sexually attractive at all. You can acknowledge that another man is physically attractive, or that his personality is attractive, but you are not ATTRACTED to him. I'm straight and this is how I define my 'straightness'. It's all good, of course, we're all different and should enjoy who were attracted to, without worrying too much about what others think, or labels. Suffice to say, If 'straight' men can fancy other men, then I'm in a different category... perhaps 'ultra' staright, or super-straight?

[afagehi7]

This isn't a criticism at all, merely an observation, but being straight means you don't find other men sexually attractive at all. You can acknowledge that another man is physically attractive, or that his personality is attractive, but you are not ATTRACTED to him. I'm straight and this is how I define my 'straightness'. It's all good, of course, we're all different and should enjoy who were attracted to, without worrying too much about what others think, or labels. Suffice to say, If 'straight' men can fancy other men, then I'm in a different category... perhaps 'ultra' staright, or super-straight?

What if you suck a cock but don't like it? Are you still straight? Hahahababababa

[drivenbyid]

This isn't a criticism at all, merely an observation, but being straight means you don't find other men sexually attractive at all. You can acknowledge that another man is physically attractive, or that his personality is attractive, but you are not ATTRACTED to him. I'm straight and this is how I define my 'straightness'. It's all good, of course, we're all different and should enjoy who were attracted to, without worrying too much about what others think, or labels. Suffice to say, If 'straight' men can fancy other men, then I'm in a different category... perhaps 'ultra' staright, or super-straight?

hwc,

I've read your feelings and I can understand what you're saying, but have you considered this? Does it get you hard or wet? I'm not sure there are any rules to being "bi," "straight", or however people label themselves, and I believe Sandeep is correct when he says we should all just forget the labels.

No need to label it. We're all just people doing what makes us hard or wet.

[bamamoon256]

I have feelings for our live in. I love to lick and kiss on him when he's fucking her.

[cuckoldcpl4fun13]

Having feelings for somebody is normal, yes.

[Squirming69]

Has other developed multiple feeling for wife’s lovers or boyfriends. As bi I have intimate sex with few of my wife’s boyfriends and special romantic feelings for wife’s lover. Wife knows how much I crave and love being with her lover and how I’m attracted to some of her boyfriends. She is the one pushes me to have intimate sex with her men or my bi hook ups. Im not worried about labels as I’m proud bi....is this normal?

How do you define "Normal"? What is normal for a couple or individual, is not always normal for another couple or individual. Be yourself and enjoy!

As noted by other responses, others have expressed their respective viewpoints and as you might expect, each couple has their own "normal" and what works for them as a couple or as individuals. The reality is, as society has evolved, more and more people have begun to acknowledge that they can and do at times develop feelings for others, no matter the gender. Have feeling for another person and being sexually attracted to them is not always in alignment. With that said, you can develop an emotional connection with your wife's boyfriends and not be sexually attracted or involved with them, just as you can be sexual with your wife's boyfriends and not develop emotional feelings towards them. Each person will label each differently!

From your original post, you mentioned that you have previously had intimate sex with your wife's boyfriends and have event developed special romantic feels for one of your wife's lovers. It would seem that you have a very supportive wife that also encourages you to be yourself within the marriage.

From my roughly 30 years with various experiences with alternative lifestyles, my prior wife and I did develop a Poly-Triad model relationship with a mutual friend of our back in early 2003, it was with a man that we both had mutually known for more then 10 years by that point. As a married couple, we were both more sexually submissive leaning and our mutual friend was very much an Alpha Type (inside and outside of the bedroom). As a married couple, we both did identify as bi-sexual as we each did have prior bi-experience before going into the Poly, although when we initially begun the relationship with him, it started out as more of a Hotwife/Cuckold arrangement which eventually developed into the Poly-Triad over time. We both did develop feelings for you, as a couple and as individuals.

So as I mentioned, if it works for you two as a couple, embrace it, live your lives, do not worry about the labels or if it is normal for others.

[Sandeep]

Has other developed multiple feeling for wife’s lovers or boyfriends. As bi I have intimate sex with few of my wife’s boyfriends and special romantic feelings for wife’s lover. Wife knows how much I crave and love being with her lover and how I’m attracted to some of her boyfriends. She is the one pushes me to have intimate sex with her men or my bi hook ups. Im not worried about labels as I’m proud bi....is this normal?

How do you define "Normal"? What is normal for a couple or individual, is not always normal for another couple or individual. Be yourself and enjoy!

As noted by other responses, others have expressed their respective viewpoints and as you might expect, each couple has their own "normal" and what works for them as a couple or as individuals. The reality is, as society has evolved, more and more people have begun to acknowledge that they can and do at times develop feelings for others, no matter the gender. Have feeling for another person and being sexually attracted to them is not always in alignment. With that said, you can develop an emotional connection with your wife's boyfriends and not be sexually attracted or involved with them, just as you can be sexual with your wife's boyfriends and not develop emotional feelings towards them. Each person will label each differently!

From your original post, you mentioned that you have previously had intimate sex with your wife's boyfriends and have event developed special romantic feels for one of your wife's lovers. It would seem that you have a very supportive wife that also encourages you to be yourself within the marriage.

From my roughly 30 years with various experiences with alternative lifestyles, my prior wife and I did develop a Poly-Triad model relationship with a mutual friend of our back in early 2003, it was with a man that we both had mutually known for more then 10 years by that point. As a married couple, we were both more sexually submissive leaning and our mutual friend was very much an Alpha Type (inside and outside of the bedroom). As a married couple, we both did identify as bi-sexual as we each did have prior bi-experience before going into the Poly, although when we initially begun the relationship with him, it started out as more of a Hotwife/Cuckold arrangement which eventually developed into the Poly-Triad over time. We both did develop feelings for you, as a couple and as individuals.

So as I mentioned, if it works for you two as a couple, embrace it, live your lives, do not worry about the labels or if it is normal for others.

Thanks for you advice and guidance, since original post we have come long way. If we reflect back how our marriage began as traditional couple now our journey have evolved from open marriage to Hotwire/cockhold bi life that now has poly mix both ways. As she has active lovers/boyfriend which I embrace and support at the same time I have mmm bi relationship which I could have not imagined when I started this life. Yes …we are enjoying and supporting one another much as possible and our marriage is much stronger.

[Des 31]

We're more of a hotwife couple, but deep emotions often come about between my wife and men who have fucked her. She is now 35 and, with my approval, has been having sex with other men since she was 28. We think that's a normal progression after any couple has been fucking for a time.

That hasn't been a problem within our marriage. All her men know she's happily married, and she informs all it's just for sex, not a permanent relationship. But a few of her extramarital relationships have gone on as long as three years. Feelings of love, although different from that within a successful marriage, have developed between them in all those ongoing affairs.

[Marco]

This isn't a criticism at all, merely an observation, but being straight means you don't find other men sexually attractive at all. You can acknowledge that another man is physically attractive, or that his personality is attractive, but you are not ATTRACTED to him. I'm straight and this is how I define my 'straightness'. It's all good, of course, we're all different and should enjoy who were attracted to, without worrying too much about what others think, or labels. Suffice to say, If 'straight' men can fancy other men, then I'm in a different category... perhaps 'ultra' staright, or super-straight?

Totally agree with you! I can tell and say when a man is handsome or attractive or has a great body, still I have no attraction to him at all no matter how big he is or hot hot is body is.
Still I love to have the cuck hubby guide my cock into his wife and clean me afterwards or even fluff me.
What excites me is not the feeling of his mouth or hands but rather the pleasure that comes from submitting and using the hubby.
That drives me crazy and hard in a second. Does that make me bi at all?
I don't think so and if it does than I guess I have been a bi since when I was a teenager.
I rather say I am 99% straight.

[subguy80]

I think men spend WAY too much time worrying about giving their sexuality a label. I've always found that the men who spend the most time protesting they are straight are the ones who have the most insecurities about their own sexuality. I've known "straight" male friends who probably have absolutely no interest in having sex together, but they have strong "buddy" feelings for each other that sometimes looks pretty close to love. And, what's wrong with that? I think we're all better off to take an expansive view of sexuality and stop boxing ourselves in with labels.

I think any connection with another human being on a loving, sexual or friendship level is a good thing. Personally, I think it's a natural progression to sometimes (not always) develop sexual feelings, on one level or another, with your wife's long term lover.

[SmallHubbyTexas]

I am not attracted to my wife’s boyfriends, but I am friends with them.

[mwdad]

I am not really attracted to any man because of his physical looks but rather by the power he may have over my wife (or gf in the past) and I admit I feel some pride when I can please him in the absence of his wife - that is a feeling I find very attractive: being physically there for a guy who needs to get off

[eurocuck]

Let's say he seduced me. Now we are living together and everyone is intimate with everyone.

[Bigh+Guy]

I am bi and my wife finds it super erotic to see me giving a guy a blow job. I have done it with my college roommate who became her bf as well. And I did it with her most recent ex-boyfriend who has since admitted he was bi too. he and I are now in a relationship.

[Cuck_Steve]

I don’t have feelings for my wife’s live-in boyfriend, but I love his cock and being allowed to give him a blowjob.