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Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2020 5:27 pm
by CoupleFun555
My wife and one of her bfs will text and talk. He sent her a card recently and signed it with the word “love” and his name. She finally took the step of using the word “love” when signing a birthday/Christmas card for him.
I feel reassured that both can express some level of emotion without being worried about my reaction. Love can mean many things and I’m glad she can have a bf that she cares about.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2021 4:12 pm
by bamamoon256
CoupleFun555 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 18, 2020 5:27 pm
My wife and one of her bfs will text and talk. He sent her a card recently and signed it with the word “love” and his name. She finally took the step of using the word “love” when signing a birthday/Christmas card for him.
I feel reassured that both can express some level of emotion without being worried about my reaction. Love can mean many things and I’m glad she can have a bf that she cares about.
My wife is in love with our live in regular and it turns me on like crazy.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2021 11:12 am
by yielding william
My wife has told a lot of guys she loves them when having sex. She changes partners every few months but when they're fucking, the guys respond by telling her the same. She says it feels like love at the time but it goes away as her interest in any one of them begins to fade and she looks around for a replacement. Someone else here has said that feeling isn't the same as love for a married partner and we agree with that.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2021 9:16 am
by D+D
My wife told me that she loves her regular boyfriend, but she said not like I love you. lol Whatever that means.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 1:28 pm
by annsman
My wife signs off all e-messages, cards etc with “love X”, to both male and female friends, including boyfriends, so it doesn’t necessarily mean anything.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 10:13 pm
by anonymister1948
yielding william wrote: ↑Tue Jan 05, 2021 11:12 am
My wife has told a lot of guys she loves them when having sex. She changes partners every few months but when they're fucking, the guys respond by telling her the same. She says it feels like love at the time but it goes away as her interest in any one of them begins to fade and she looks around for a replacement. Someone else here has said that feeling isn't the same as love for a married partner and we agree with that.
I think the "love" your wife is feeling is new
relationship energy (NRE). It can last quite a while and some people confuse it with committed love. It's great that your wife knows what she's looking for and knows when *and how* to move on to the next lucky guy.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Mon Jan 11, 2021 4:59 am
by SmallHubbyTexas
My wife loves her boyfriends. I know my wife, for good sex she needs feelings fir her lovers. The fact she lives them does not bother me, I like it. I get to watch them express there live to each other.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Mon Jan 11, 2021 4:42 pm
by CoupleFun555
My wife thought long about whether to use the word “love”. She doesn’t use the word casually so she wanted to think through it before using the word with her bf. She would only use the word if she actually loves him.
It was cool.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Thu Jan 21, 2021 10:07 am
by hotfreaks
My wifes new older bull, that she has been seeing the past few months is in love with her. She recently has told him she loves him as well. We have been in the lifestyle for some time now bit this is the first man that she has fallen in love with
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Mon Feb 15, 2021 2:46 am
by cornudoyesposa27
My wife cheated on me for a few years with a coworker. When she confessed the affair to me , I told her it was ok and I was excited. Days later while I was licking her sweet pussy, she started cumming while calling her lover´s name and saying: Ohh yess, Frank do it, do it..aahhh, YOU ARE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE FRANK!!!! I was surprised but excited and happy to hear that.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Mon Feb 15, 2021 3:05 pm
by SSQ
D+D wrote: ↑Thu Jan 07, 2021 9:16 am
My wife told me that she loves her regular boyfriend, but she said not like I love you. lol Whatever that means.
It's different. If you have more than one child, you don't love them exactly the same way, right? I'm in love with my husband and in love with my boyfriend. But the "us" part is different in both relationships.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Tue Feb 16, 2021 7:18 am
by 4herpleasure89
My wife and her boyfriend say that they love each other every day. I still don’t prefer it even though I recognize there is a big difference between her love for him and her love for me.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Wed Feb 17, 2021 9:44 pm
by Cuck_Steve
My wife and her man are in love. He lives with us, so I get to experience seeing their love. It’s magical. She still loves me very much but loves him too.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2021 12:23 pm
by BuildABetterBull
I think the problem would only be if she stopped telling you she loved you. I don't think you have to get all the way to love but a real connection does make for the best sex. Don't get me wrong, I know a lot of couples are just looking for a guest star to come and go and that cool too. But, I have always been a little amused by the artificial limits some stags or cucks will try to place on a man who can otherwise have the run of his wife's body...still, their rules are always my rules.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Wed Mar 03, 2021 1:11 pm
by D+D
SSQ wrote: ↑Mon Feb 15, 2021 3:05 pm
D+D wrote: ↑Thu Jan 07, 2021 9:16 am
My wife told me that she loves her regular boyfriend, but she said not like I love you. lol Whatever that means.
It's different. If you have more than one child, you don't love them exactly the same way, right? I'm in love with my husband and in love with my boyfriend. But the "us" part is different in both relationships.
Thank you SSQ
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Wed Mar 24, 2021 1:10 pm
by Des 31
CoupleFun555 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 18, 2020 5:27 pm
My wife and one of her bfs will text and talk. He sent her a card recently and signed it with the word “love” and his name. She finally took the step of using the word “love” when signing a birthday/Christmas card for him.
I feel reassured that both can express some level of emotion without being worried about my reaction. Love can mean many things and I’m glad she can have a bf that she cares about.
When my wife has been in ongoing relationships with men, an emotional depth almost always develops between them. She and some men have expressed love in the heat of sex. All her relationships with others have had an expiration date. Men move on for various reasons - transfers out of our region, marriage to another, or becoming involved in other relationships. That seems to be the nature of things in our hotwife experience.
She began dating other men at my encouragement when she was 28 and is now 34.
We don't consider ourselves as polyamorous in that none have ever lived with us. We have good communication, trust, and a solid marital relationship, so her feelings for other men over that time has never been a problem.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Thu Mar 25, 2021 5:08 pm
by CU4A2on1
I’ve told my wife she can remove any barriers between her and the boyfriend, that it’s ok for them to make love and the she can love us both. I’ve told him I’m open to them exploring a poly situation and that I think it excites her. She is going to see him next week, the first encounter since I’ve released them both from any emotional limits.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Thu Mar 25, 2021 5:08 pm
by CU4A2on1
I’ve told my wife she can remove any barriers between her and the boyfriend, that it’s ok for them to make love and the she can love us both. I’ve told him I’m open to them exploring a poly situation and that I think it excites her. She is going to see him next week, the first encounter since I’ve released them both from any emotional limits.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Sat Mar 27, 2021 1:40 pm
by SailorGuy
Yeah, my wife has never been one to have casual sex, so when she went on to fulfill my fantasy she made it her fantasy too by falling in love with her man. She and her lover are very much in love; at first this freaked me out a bit, but not anymore. So now when she is over at his place for a night or a weekend ( he lives about 100 miles away ) and I envision her not just "being in bed" with him but being fully present and giving herself to him completely it is erotic as hell for me. I wish I could trade places with him once in a while!
But he's a good guy and he treats my wife well. It's a lovely picture in my mind of the two lovers intertwined in his bed far from here, kissing passionately, my wife stretched out and inviting him to explore every inch of her lovely body. And since she has gone thru menopause they don'y have to worry about any kind of birth control and he is free to come inside her all he wants.
And yet my wife loves me too, and even though we are celibate she will happily lay down next to me when she gets home and tell me some sweet things about her weekend. I am ALWAYS thrilled by this and I come in no time at all as I rub myself looking at her lovely off-limits body.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Sat Mar 27, 2021 10:00 pm
by anonymister1948
SailorGuy wrote: ↑Sat Mar 27, 2021 1:40 pm
Yeah, my wife has never been one to have casual sex, so when she went on to fulfill my fantasy she made it her fantasy too by falling in love with her man. She and her lover are very much in love; at first this freaked me out a bit, but not anymore. So now when she is over at his place for a night or a weekend ( he lives about 100 miles away ) and I envision her not just "being in bed" with him but being fully present and giving herself to him completely it is erotic as hell for me. I wish I could trade places with him once in a while!
But he's a good guy and he treats my wife well. It's a lovely picture in my mind of the two lovers intertwined in his bed far from here, kissing passionately, my wife stretched out and inviting him to explore every inch of her lovely body. And since she has gone thru menopause they don'y have to worry about any kind of birth control and he is free to come inside her all he wants.
And yet my wife loves me too, and even though we are celibate she will happily lay down next to me when she gets home and tell me some sweet things about her weekend. I am ALWAYS thrilled by this and I come in no time at all as I rub myself looking at her lovely off-limits body.
How frequently does your wife spend the weekend with her lover?
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2021 11:39 am
by SailorGuy
anonymister1948 wrote: ↑Sat Mar 27, 2021 10:00 pm
SailorGuy wrote: ↑Sat Mar 27, 2021 1:40 pm
Yeah, my wife has never been one to have casual sex, so when she went on to fulfill my fantasy she made it her fantasy too by falling in love with her man. She and her lover are very much in love; at first this freaked me out a bit, but not anymore. So now when she is over at his place for a night or a weekend ( he lives about 100 miles away ) and I envision her not just "being in bed" with him but being fully present and giving herself to him completely it is erotic as hell for me. I wish I could trade places with him once in a while!
But he's a good guy and he treats my wife well. It's a lovely picture in my mind of the two lovers intertwined in his bed far from here, kissing passionately, my wife stretched out and inviting him to explore every inch of her lovely body. And since she has gone thru menopause they don'y have to worry about any kind of birth control and he is free to come inside her all he wants.
And yet my wife loves me too, and even though we are celibate she will happily lay down next to me when she gets home and tell me some sweet things about her weekend. I am ALWAYS thrilled by this and I come in no time at all as I rub myself looking at her lovely off-limits body.
How frequently does your wife spend the weekend with her lover?
It varies. She is going off for a skiing vacation with him next week for four days, three nights at his condo at the ski resort. She says they will ski maybe half the time, make love in his condo the other half. Drive me crazy with lust and passion!
By her accounts he is an excellent lover. Better than I was? Not necessarily, just - different. He is slower and more focused on her needs; he can bring her to orgasm orally as well as thru intercourse. I was always just too excited and came almost instantly making love to her. It's just the way I am; that's a good reason I am content to be her cuckold. I love her intensely; we've been married for 35 years. Her love for John only increases my love for her.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Tue Mar 30, 2021 4:12 pm
by CoupleFun555
My wife will occasionally go away with her boyfriend for a long weekend but I’m okay if she goes away for a longer time. She’s planning a possible hiking and sex trip with a bf in the next two months. We’ll see if it works out because we have been careful during the pandemic.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2021 7:08 pm
by CoupleFun555
She’s with her boyfriend this weekend in New York. They care about each other, have some common interests, and really get turned on by each other.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2021 8:47 am
by WatchinginNJ
SSQ wrote: ↑Mon Feb 15, 2021 3:05 pm
D+D wrote: ↑Thu Jan 07, 2021 9:16 am
My wife told me that she loves her regular boyfriend, but she said not like I love you. lol Whatever that means.
It's different. If you have more than one child, you don't love them exactly the same way, right? I'm in love with my husband and in love with my boyfriend. But the "us" part is different in both relationships.
I grew up with divorced parents. Luckily my parents were "cool" at co-parenting before it was even a thing. Always cordial. Never openly hostile. They never said bad things about the others new spouse. So I leaned early on that hey, you can love someone else, and it doesn't diminish the way you love other people. I've lost both my Dad and my Step-Dad, and was deeply saddened at it. I still have the woman I call my step mom, and she tells me she loves me every time she sees me. It doesn't change the way I love my mom.
Too many people engage in life as a zero-sum game. It's not. It's an infinite pie.
I have a few girlfriends, and one is a woman who is married and deeply in love with her husband and me. It's just different. I'm not a replacement, I'm in addition too.
Re: Wife used Word “Love”
Posted: Wed Aug 25, 2021 3:53 am
by LongTermHubby
My wife has a close woman friend with whom she has a sexual relationship. I have heard say to this friend during phone conversations "I love you."