Wife is getting engaged but also staying married to me

[snoogaloo82]

Things are going quite well. No ring yet but it’s inevitable. It’s very erotic hearing her tell me she is in love with him.

Definitely let us know what happens. I hope everything that you wish for comes true!!

[1999]

This is pretty much my hottest fantasy. Louise has known for a long time that I get turned on by the idea of her with other guys. Initially I told her I liked to see guy’s checking her out, and since that didn’t freak her out, I’ve told her I fantasise about her sleeping with someone else. I’ve come to realise what I want is not for her to just fuck some dude, I want her to find herself a boyfriend; someone who wants to take her out and treat her right - dinner and drinks, not just trying to get in her pants.

In my mind, someone she knows at work, or through school, or someone she knows elsewhere, asks her out for lunch or dinner. I’ve told her many times before that if this was to ever happen, she’d have my full support. I know she’d be a little reluctant, but I’d want her to do it. She’d go out for an innocent meal and it would go nowhere, but she’d come home after having a good time and want to do it again, and I’d encourage her to do so.

After another date or two, she’d be getting used to the situation, and if her date tried to steal a kiss she wouldn’t resist, then she’d come home and tell me, and again, I’d be supportive and encouraging. After a few more dates maybe they’d want to go further and, after talking it over, she’d tell me she wanted to sleep with him and I’d be quietly ecstatic.

My biggest turn on would be for her to be in a proper long term relationship with the guy. Dates, meeting his friends, maybe even holidays, who knows. My kids are a bit old now for them to accept mom’s boyfriend as a new uncle, but that would have been a major turn on too; for Louise’s boyfriend to be a part of our extended family.

We nearly got close to this situation once - I told her I could tell one of the guys in the office was sniffing around her - and that if the opportunity presented itself she should take it, but it fell through. Still, a guy can dream.

[little sissy Benita]

Interesting experience - i like it
I have also an experience in an other way.

We are married since 20 years and started cuckolding for a longer time. We have kids age 7 and 9 (boys) and 18 (daugther) I realized that i was girlish and she began to treat me as a little girl. She stoppt intercourse with me and i have to be pussy free and complete chast. Well, thats ok for me, because i am a sexuell. And she was going out to meet other men (without me - Why should she take her little daughter with her, lol).

A time later she told me that she don´t see me more as her husband - i was a little shockt - she said - i love you, but not more as a wife - more as a mommy - at this time she wanted that i call her not more with her first name, but with mommy - i agree.

What do you think when your mommy fall in love?
I wanted to be a good behaved little daugther and i answers - i am happy and grateful for this.
Then she swapped my pictures for pictures of him

And as mommy she have the right to want that he move in.
And that both start to living as married couple - i was went out from bedroom and stay and sleep in guestroom - what became into my little girlsroom.

In a little ceremony i I took off her wedding ring and she took mine. Then he put a wedding ring on her and she put a wedding ring on him - it was like a wedding - I was happy to be a flower girl.
After the wedding ceremomy is was for me not more allowed to write and say that are my kids - he became they father. All three call him daddy and not more me. I forgot to write that she change my name from Ben into Benita and this is why they call me little Benita or baby. (I became a bedwetter and i am wetting now also at day - all are happy that i am act now like a good behaved baby

And as a marriend couple both have the right of unprotect intercourse - so great that he inseminated her now without condoms - how a real husband should so it

[mrajsoon]

I so want my wife to date long term. She wants it to happen naturally and not off the internet. I am already to not be her main sexual partner. She has already begun making me pull out when I am close to cuming. I am not allowed to cum. I hope it happens

[Long Lurker 34]

Things are going quite well. No ring yet but it’s inevitable. It’s very erotic hearing her tell me she is in love with him.

M# - Any update?

[ucaneffher]

I so want my wife to date long term. She wants it to happen naturally and not off the internet. I am already to not be her main sexual partner. She has already begun making me pull out when I am close to cuming. I am not allowed to cum. I hope it happens

As someone who watched his girlfriend date another man long term, I will tell you that while it is sexy and hot, it will take a lot of adjustment and a lot of things are not the way that we think they will be, especially non-sexual aspects of dating.

It took me probably 5 months of her exclusively dating him to adjust and actually accept that her dating him was "for real" and not just an act to turn me on. It took me that long to fully recognize that she was his girlfriend and he was her main partner even though it had essentially been like that from the start when she told me that she wanted to be his.

It's good that your wife is starting to slowly train you and sort of transition even though she doesn't have someone else yet, either way it will be less of a shock for you when she does meet the man who will take your spot as the main partner.

Like yourself, I also can't wait for the news that my GF met a man who she likes and thinks makes a good candidate for a boyfriend. Good luck on your also insane journey to surrender your wife.

[mrajsoon]

I so want my wife to date long term. She wants it to happen naturally and not off the internet. I am already to not be her main sexual partner. She has already begun making me pull out when I am close to cuming. I am not allowed to cum. I hope it happens

As someone who watched his girlfriend date another man long term, I will tell you that while it is sexy and hot, it will take a lot of adjustment and a lot of things are not the way that we think they will be, especially non-sexual aspects of dating.

It took me probably 5 months of her exclusively dating him to adjust and actually accept that her dating him was "for real" and not just an act to turn me on. It took me that long to fully recognize that she was his girlfriend and he was her main partner even though it had essentially been like that from the start when she told me that she wanted to be his.

It's good that your wife is starting to slowly train you and sort of transition even though she doesn't have someone else yet, either way it will be less of a shock for you when she does meet the man who will take your spot as the main partner.

Like yourself, I also can't wait for the news that my GF met a man who she likes and thinks makes a good candidate for a boyfriend. Good luck on your also insane journey to surrender your wife.

Thank you I appreciate your guidance having done this. It definitely will be an adjustment and I will work hard to support and encourage her. Thanks again

[Mkliny442015]

Sorry for not updating sooner. There is definitely a ring in their future . He understands that she is not leaving me and will live with me etc, but they are both deeply in love and have decided that they also don’t want to find anyone else and this signifies their forever love in this non traditional world of non-monogamy. Unlike traditional relationships that ultimately culminate in marriage theirs will be in an engagement. She will wear her wedding and engagement rings from me of course and on her right hand she will have his engagement ring. Of course it won’t look like a traditional ring with a single stone, but still significant. Also we have agreed that he is her primary sexual partner. Although her and I may still have sex together he is the only one allowed to cum inside of her and I have to wear a condom or pull out.

[elina]

Thanks for updating,

I am very glad for all of you that you have found arrangements making everybody happy; in particular your Wife of course..

Hope to hear more from you

sincerely
elina

[mrzippy]

Things are going quite well. No ring yet but it’s inevitable. It’s very erotic hearing her tell me she is in love with him.

I've not been on here for a long time, but this thread caught my eye.

My wife and I enjoyed a long term cuckold relationship with a work colleague of hers.....lasted 8 years in total, before he had to move away.

What started of as an office affair evolved into full cuckold lifestyle. After 3 years it was obvious my wife and her lover's relationship had become more than just physical. My wife admitted she loved him and as he was married, we felt secure in him not wanting to break his or our relationship up.

We eventually had a small intimate cuckold wedding in our house, where I gave her away.
Suits for the men, long ivory dress for my wife.
Ceremony, vows, signed documents, toast, small speeches, drinks and chit chat...then they went of to bed to consummate their 'marriage' whilst I slept in the spare room. I brought them breakfast in bed the next morning.

The role play scenarios, all those little details we planned, made it extra special and from that moment on, he became her primary male. The cuckold dynamics certainly became more intense for all three of us.

No one would have a clue looking in from the outside.

So, if you're ready.....go for it.
It's a wonderful rollercoaster and so much more intense.

[little sissy Benita]

Hierarchy is a good word to describe our relationship
1. Daddy (former wifes new african husband)
2 Mommy (former wife) Granny (daddys mom)
3. Aunt Lisa (former daughter)
4. Aunts and Uncles (bros and sisters of daddy and mommy)
5. legal age of the black family
6. Teenagers of the black family (age 12 - 16)
7. Who are 6 - 11
8. Who are 2 - 5
9. Me

I know how it is, when the wife fall in love with another man - also when she get butterflies in her stomach - and she started to switch pictures of the husband into her boyfriend/lover. Also that she wanted that her boyfriend/lover should get a housekey (which key - of course he get my - a little daughter don´t need a housekey, isn´t it? And also that he moved in the house. I agreed. Did i had a choice - i think not.

Maybe i am inferior and weak - i feel no time masculin - for example, as kid i like to played with dolls, also baby dolls - or playing playing rubber twist with the girls in the neighbourhood.
After birth of second son i agreed also to started cuckolding.
To do adult activities was no time my thing, it was always a must. When I had to be pussy free and chast, I was grateful.
And as she wanted to feminizing me, i agree again. But to feminizing me as a women - it dosn´t works. I was all the time childrish. Thats is why she started to treat me as her little daughter and now i am think - thats was best for me.

In this situation, thats was the time as she fall in love with him. And i understand it. A women needs a real man - who hold her in his strong arms - and satisfy her sexuality - (with a very tiny willie is is not possible). Of course need a women also a real man as father for the kids.

At one evening we had a conversation - about our future life. She said to me - sorry, but i see you not more as my husband (also not as father of the kids) - you know that i falled in love with Paul and i want now, that he move in the house. You have the choice to be my little daughter (and get regressed into babyhood) or you leave me and loose me. But i don´t wanted to loose her and i agreed.

The new family life was harmonious. One evening we had a little ceremony - I took off her ring, she took off my ring - he put his ring on her and she put her ring on him - I felt dizzy and had a feeling. like someone had punched me in the stomach.
For me was this the moment, that i maybe loose her? She said before this came - from now on you don´t call me with my first name - you have to call me now - mommy.
And also she said - it is also not more allowed to kiss me on my mouth - as good behaved little daughter you kiss me only on my cheek. (guess - i agreed)

The kids started to adress him with daddy and stoppt to call me daddy -- .For me it was a natural reaction - daddy (mommy wants that I call him also daddy) is a strong man and the head of the family. On the other hand, since I - in little girls dresses and skirts, with pigtails, panty diapers (after anti potty training also incontinent), using pacifiers, drinking from baby bottles follow-up milk 1 and baby porridge for 5 month babies.
The new family life was harmonious. One evening we had a little ceremony - I took off her ring, she took off my ring - he put his ring on her and she put her ring on him - I felt dizzy and had a feeling. as if someone had punched me in the stomach.

After a longer while she wanted to get pregnant by daddy.
I was torn and asked Granny for her opinion.
She answers -
both living as married couple
both wearing marriage rings
and you living as little daughter (and total cuckold)
She said then - as a married couple they have of course the right of unprotected intercourse and that mommy get pregnant and have babies from daddy.

After a short time she say to me - i am pregnat by daddy.
I had hug her - and say - i am so happy and grateful for this,
it is great to see you with a black baby in your belly,

I want to be allways a good behaved total cuckold and also a good behaved little daughter

[Experimenti3]

This is so beautiful. Me and my wife are happily married for 23 years, and for the last 7 years my wife has a regular lover. The guy is 18 years younger than my wife and they have a very special relationship. Unfortunately for us the guy is also married and he can not be 100% dedicated to my wife, but still it is beautiful . We are in a similar situation like you, although I think that me and my wife both need more. It would be just great if he could move in our place and live with us.

[Robvanjan]

WOW!! I'm so glad I found this! So, a couple that I have been seeing for over a couple of years now wants the exact same thing! This is super common I guess. I've been hesitant, but he asks me every so often if I wanted to marry his wife. Same thing... we would fly down to Vegas. Their best friend, their kids and him would be there and we would have a wedding ceremony. I would sleep alone the first night, have the wedding and stay with her the rest of the weekend while we consummate. She already wears an anklet that I gave her all the time. But I didn't think about the ring and switching fingers...that's cool. The both of them have been asking for this for a while now, but it has become more of a real topic as she is pregnant with my baby. He has expressed having a poly family with me many times and their kids ask about when "your friend" is coming back to play. I love and miss them very much.

[Cherrypopper+]

My boyfriend and I have talked about getting "married" on the beach in Jamaica or somewhere like that. Just a fantasy right now but I think my hubby would be okay with it but not sure, since he couldn't be there. In the past I've fantasized about getting married on the beach with my husband as the best man. That really turns me on! Anybody else ever done anything like that? If you have tell me the details.
Sally

[tito123177]

My boyfriend and I have talked about getting "married" on the beach in Jamaica or somewhere like that. Just a fantasy right now but I think my hubby would be okay with it but not sure, since he couldn't be there. In the past I've fantasized about getting married on the beach with my husband as the best man. That really turns me on! Anybody else ever done anything like that? If you have tell me the details.
Sally

I haven't done anything like that but I fantasize about it a lot, would love to host a ceremony to celebrate my wife "marrying" her boyfriend, with a small group of friends, she wearing a bride dress, the three of us saying our vows andmany more exciting things...

[venus-can99]

Hope by now your wife has gotten engaged to her bf and things are going well

[PANTIES]

My wife is pregnant with her long term lovers baby. The baby daddy is signing the birth certificate and they will use his last name for their baby. My wife also is using his last name. She’s due in 3 1/2 mos. Her mother is excited beyond words.

sissy pauline

[Robvanjan]

WOW! Well done! Thats wonderful news. Are you excited? Living the cuckold dream? My GF is 18 weeks along with mine and her cuck is signing the BC and taking full responsibility for raising our son. Once the baby comes, my GF, our baby and her daughter are moving in with me for the summer. The daughter is watching the baby for us while we make another.

[Robvanjan]

WOW! Well done! Thats wonderful news. Are you excited? Living the cuckold dream? My GF is 18 weeks along with mine and her cuck is signing the BC and taking full responsibility for raising our son. Once the baby comes, my GF, our baby and her daughter are moving in with me for the summer. The daughter is watching the baby for us while we make another.

[PANTIES]

WOW! Well done! Thats wonderful news. Are you excited? Living the cuckold dream? My GF is 18 weeks along with mine and her cuck is signing the BC and taking full responsibility for raising our son. Once the baby comes, my GF, our baby and her daughter are moving in with me for the summer. The daughter is watching the baby for us while we make another.

My wife and her lover want to have two babies. She’s going to get pregnant again just as soon as it’s possible. She’s moving in with him 30 days before she’s due that way he can take her to the hospital. She told me she’s telling the doctor not to tell her what sex the baby is, she wants him to hand her their baby and tell her if it’s a boy or girl baby.

If the baby is a girl, the baby will be named after his mother with my wife’s middle name and his last name. Boy baby they will use his fathers name.

She tells me, is this what you wanted to happen to us.

sissy pauline

[Robvanjan]

Congratulations on your family! Yeah, we just had the conversation yesterday. Cuck husband is getting a vas this month and she is saying she doesn't want anymore children after this one. BUT she knows it's not her decision, its mine and I want more, a girl actually. Her family is willing to care for more babies until I'm finished with her. And she is also naming the baby boy after me. I wish I could post pics. But, now I have another GF who is a lot closer and really wants my baby too. She is visiting me in HI this summer and wants to get pregnant.

[Mkliny442015]

Bad news and good news to update. They broke off the relationship, when push came to shove he couldn’t commit. She has since moved on and already had a rebound fuck and is about to have her second one. I don’t mind, I step back and let her go through this journey organically. Whatever makes her happy I support. She is still young and hot and has plenty of adventures ahead .

[elina]

Sorry to hear that,
Still underthe circumstances, it seems to me you are handling this the best way you possible can.

BR
elina

[Mkliny442015]

Sorry to hear that,
Still underthe circumstances, it seems to me you are handling this the best way you possible can.

BR
elina

It’s going quite well. It’s hard to think five years ago I was hopeful and now she already had her first LTR and breakup. She has already had a rebound one night stand and there are more guys she is interested in. She is enjoying her freedom for now .

[Hot4mywife]

We don’t really have a hierarchy, we have young kids so we try and maintain a delineation with our private lives. The kids have met him as a friend of mom and dad but we keep a distance. He has come over and had sex with her while the kids are asleep but usually when I am home. They are still young enough we can get away with it. As far as sex, he exclusively cums inside of her and for the most part is the only one fucking her. She will let me go down on her after she gets creampied or she will straddle her wet Pussy on my leg and rub his cum into it while she goes down on me, rubbing it in my face what her boyfriend just did to her .

Not sure what finger she is going to wear the ring on yet? Maybe behind her wedding band or on her opposite ring finger .

If she decides she wants a child by him, would you agree to it? I find it really hot that he is basically the only man fucking her.

If she really wanted a baby with him and it was based on desire I may be ok with it. I would worry more about how it would affect the child. She does have an IUD but I have seen text messages she has sent him telling him to come over and fuck her while she is ovulating. I have also heard them fuck and when he is about to cum he asks her if she is ready to be a mommy.

This whole situation is so incredibly hot, as are the other couples and 3 way relationships who replied. This is one of my fantasies. My wife has dated alone and had steady lovers. With her last boyfriend I think she did love him, and I know he loved her. Because of his age however, it turned more motherly after a while. That said he wanted to make my wife pregnant and they would discuss it as I watched him inside her bare. I wish you all luck.