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Maybe I missed that thread. But, we see so many couples with a cuckold husband inviting a bull into their dynamic. But, what about couples inviting a cuck to be their third? How do single cucks feel about that?

Umm......not tracking. Cuckoldry is understood as a man with a wife; and the wife has extra-marital sex; while the husband is monogamous to her. How do you "invite" a cuck into a relationship with a man and a wife who are married? (Or in a committed relationship).

And,....how is it possible to a be a "single" cuck??

Per my definition above, I thought you had to be married (or in a committed relationship) to be a cuck.

Can you clarify what exactly you are looking for?

"A couple inviting a cuck to be their third"
So, a married man has another man fucking his wife, defining him as a 'cuck'. A second married couple invite this cuckold to be their "third". Third what, exactly?
No, I don't get it

It doesn’t work. Sorry.

luvymayfly2 wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 13, 2024 10:32 am

Maybe I missed that thread. But, we see so many couples with a cuckold husband inviting a bull into their dynamic. But, what about couples inviting a cuck to be their third? How do single cucks feel about that?

do you mean to suggest a dynamic where a married couple invites a single guy to be their third, but that guy doesnt actually get involved, he just watches, hears about their sessions afterward, or perhaps subs to them?

becuase, by definition, that would not be a "cuckold" situation. Either that couple are simply exhibitionists looking for an audience, or they are doms looking for a sub. perfectly valid dynamics (among consenting adults), but by definition not cuck.

by definition, a cuck is a person in a committed relationship with a partner who sleeps with other people (can be male or female, though male cucks are more common). So the person being invited to sleep with the partner is the bull. thats just what the term for that is.

not all cucks are submissive and into humiliation. the line between cuck and stag is very narrow.

but yeah, could you elaborate more? perhaps we are simply not understanding what you are asking

If you'd invite a cuckold into a relationship, that would be basically no different from being a voyeur to a couple. Cuckolding is based on the bond within the primary relationship, the role of the cuckold makes no sense without it.

I think I understand the disconnect that most have expressed above - since for most the role of cuckold seems to demand there is a cuckoldress involved as the primary foil for cuckoldry in the relationship and if that premise is taken the idea of a "single cuckold" is a non sequitur.

But then, since we all agree that rigid definitions of terms are nearly impossible with the variations in people, personalities and situations we know exist....

Consider the person who has long been a cuckold but finds himself by some turn of fate without his cuckoldress, without the foil defining a cuckold relationship. Is it reasonable to then say that the absence of that other half of the relationship divests him of his very nature of being a cuckold? Or would he then be a "wannabe" cuckold? Regardless of how others see this, the important part is probably how he sees himself, and the idea of understanding himself as a "single cuckold" is not too far out of bounds.

The next complex part is how a couple would interact with the single cuckold (what would the cuckold want, what would they get out of it?). I suspect there are eleventy bajillion answers there, but offering an outlet for a woman who enjoys expressing her dominant side with a husband who likes to see her fire given free rein, or simply the very discreet but exhibitionistic couple who don't risk the more typical venues but find it fascinating to have that appreciative audience are two possibles. The terms for those roles might be "submissive" or "voyeur" but are those terms unable to coexist with the term "single cuckold"?

Difficult to find such situations but clearly not zero probabilities.

Prof Wood

frank12 wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 02, 2024 5:16 am

I think I understand the disconnect that most have expressed above - since for most the role of cuckold seems to demand there is a cuckoldress involved as the primary foil for cuckoldry in the relationship and if that premise is taken the idea of a "single cuckold" is a non sequitur.

But then, since we all agree that rigid definitions of terms are nearly impossible with the variations in people, personalities and situations we know exist....

Consider the person who has long been a cuckold but finds himself by some turn of fate without his cuckoldress, without the foil defining a cuckold relationship. Is it reasonable to then say that the absence of that other half of the relationship divests him of his very nature of being a cuckold? Or would he then be a "wannabe" cuckold? Regardless of how others see this, the important part is probably how he sees himself, and the idea of understanding himself as a "single cuckold" is not too far out of bounds.

The next complex part is how a couple would interact with the single cuckold (what would the cuckold want, what would they get out of it?). I suspect there are eleventy bajillion answers there, but offering an outlet for a woman who enjoys expressing her dominant side with a husband who likes to see her fire given free rein, or simply the very discreet but exhibitionistic couple who don't risk the more typical venues but find it fascinating to have that appreciative audience are two possibles. The terms for those roles might be "submissive" or "voyeur" but are those terms unable to coexist with the term "single cuckold"?

Difficult to find such situations but clearly not zero probabilities.

Prof Wood

ok, yeah, i can see that. I've been a cuck to my wife for more than a decade. My wife spent last might in her boyfriend's bed. but, hypothetically speaking, if my wife and I were to split up and i found my self single, I would still have the desire to be with a woman who slept with other guys, but finding such a woman and establishing a strong foundation, such as I have with my wife, from which she can cuckold me and have it mean anything, takes time and effort, and the right woman... I can see how, in that situation, having a couple invite me in as third, to fill the role of cuck, could be attractive and have merit.

I could see building a friendship with the "bull," while forming a non-sexual intimate relationship with the hotwife, wherein I get to hear all about their sexual adventures, and even watch, but never participate.

This seems like the least common situation, though, as the real thrill of cuckolding (for me, at least) is the woman i love, whom i've spent years developing a real relationship with, whom I know intimately because i share a life with, whom (under vanilla circumstances) I would be the primary / only sexual partner, getting her sexual needs met by other men, and not me... so this other arrangement, where I'm invited to cuck another established relationship feels initially like a shallow substitute who's novelty would where of quick.

in other words, the way i see it, this would be a fun temporary placeholder, while i try to find a new life partner.

essentially, i want the woman I share my life with to share her body with other men. I want my wife to go on a date with another guy, spend the night in his bed, then come home to me the next day and tell me all about her date, over breakfast.

I want the woman who i plan life events with, and build a life with, and know everything about her, to deny me access to her vagina while giving it to another guy.

I want to be my wife's primary LIFE partner, while simultaneously being her least priority SEXUAL partner.

and established relationship I am invited into as a 3rd, as a cuck, would not fill that need long term, i think...

luvymayfly2 wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 13, 2024 10:32 am

Maybe I missed that thread. But, we see so many couples with a cuckold husband inviting a bull into their dynamic. But, what about couples inviting a cuck to be their third? How do single cucks feel about that?

I may have been in the sort of situation you describe, many years ago.
When my ex wife and I were married, we had an open relationship from the very start. She already had a girlfriend (actually two, I found out later) and she was always encouraging me to go with her sister, although it took me a few years before we ever went all the way together.
About 3 years into our marriage, I was working overseas and she was staying with her mum and sister, with our new born baby. She had a sexual relationship with a neighbour for a couple of months until she moved overseas with me. A couple of years later I was working in another country for 8 months so she moved back to her mum's for this period, with our two daughters. Her relationship with the neighbour restarted and one day, her sister came home from work unexpectedly and walked in on them. My wife encouraged her sister to join them and they had a threesome. I didn't know this at the time but my wife and her sister had been lovers for about 10 years, hence why she felt she could invite her sister. To this day my ex denies it was planned.
Anyway, my SIL fell in love with his 8.5 inch penis and when my wife moved back with me, the SIL and the neighbour became a couple. My wife had been writing to me and telling me about her and her boyfriend and I couldn't wait to hear more when I was back home and then I really wanted to see them together.
The following year, the SIL and her boyfriend came to stay with us for a week, just as my SIL's period started. When I found that out I told him he was welcome to see if my wife wanted to fuck him while I was out for my run in the mornings. I ate two creampies from her when I got home. By now, my fantasy of watching them together was always on my mind.
On their last morning with us, I caught my SIL going to the bathroom, her breasts covered with cum. I couldn't resist and I stopped her and licked his cum off her chest and then realised he was watching. I felt guilty but he motioned for us to come into the bedroom and he ended up taking photo's of the two of us together, naked. I came on her breasts and he took some pictures of me cleaning up the cum, his penis positioned as if he had just cum and he ended up pushing the tip of his penis into my mouth. I was still feeling guilty so I went along with all his instructions.
A few minutes later, I was kissing her feet and positioned my self so that she could give me a footjob. He'd never heard of this so I told him to take my place and I ended up supporting her feet in the air as he fucked them and I was sucking her toes. As he came, I moved my mouth to the other side of her feet to catch any stray cum but he thrust forward and suddenly his penis was in my mouth and I was swallowing his cum. He stayed in my mouth and I coaxed the last drops from him with my tongue before cleaning her feet.
The following year they stayed with us and for our last night together, the SIL and I had come up with a plan for me to initiate a foursome. However, as I made my move, the SIL took her boyfriend's hand and they went to bed.
The following morning, she caught me as I was about to go for my run and asked me to come into the bedroom. She apologised for losing her courage to go along with our plan and wanted me to join them to help her decide if she could have a foursome another time. I was so eager to do whatever they told me to do, just so I could watch my wife fuck him that I did everything that I was told. We had a 69, me on top and the boyfriend fucking her at the same time, his balls slapping across my face. He kept pulling out and putting his penis in my mouth and I was imagining it was my wife I could taste on him. When he came he pulled out half way through and finished off in my mouth.
A little while later, she told me to get on my back and she lowered herself onto me. She complained that she hadn't been able to see me with her boyfriend's penis in my mouth and told me to suck him off. I was a bit hesitant but she told me she'd stop fucking me if I didn't do it and if I wanted to watch him with my wife, I had to do as I was told. I reached out and pulled him into my mouth, thinking that as he'd only cum about 10 minutes earlier, he wouldn't want to cum again so soon. His penis soon became fully erect in my mouth though and I realised I was going to have to bring him off so I sucked him the way my wife sucked me and it wasn't long before I was swallowing all of his cum. I was so sure she'd be pleased and agree to us swapping that I kept him in my mouth and ran my tongue around him for a while.
They didn't stay with us the following year but as I was working close to them and staying with my parents during the week, my SIL asked me to call in on her one afternoon. She met me at the door wearing a quarter cup, red basque and red stockings and undressed me in the hallway before leading me up to her bedroom. When I entered the room I saw her boyfriend sitting on the bed naked and rubbing himself. I suddenly felt very guilty about seeing her but she told me to relax and that he was there to help persuade her to agree to the foursome I wanted. For the next few hours I sucked him off, fluffed him, cleaned up all the creampies, including the one he gave her in her ass and ate all the cum that we'd placed on her body. I also swallowed all the juices she squirted in my mouth when she came and drank her pee..
I think we met up four or five times so that I could get her to agree to the foursome and each time I ate all the cum the three of us produced and drank all her pee. If she wasn't fucking, sucking or fondling him I had to please him with my mouth or my hand and I went along with all their instructions because I was so desperate to watch him fuck my wife.
Although I was the third person in their relationship, I was in no way the alpha male and never felt I could do anything except follow their instructions. We did eventually swap with them and it was even better than expected, especially as that's when I found out about my wife and her sister but I was still very much under their control and still had suck him off each time and fondle him.

Very hot story, bestdays!

I think that would be a wonderful thing for all involved. I have often thought about that. One, it would be good for us to support the husband especially if his wife were having a more serious relationship and he was having angst. We could keep him busy and distract him during his wife's date nights.

My wife could tease him about what a great time his wife was having and also reassure him what a wonderful husband he was. I would want he and my wife to slowly become more and more sexual and intimate.

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 15, 2024 9:21 am

Umm......not tracking. Cuckoldry is understood as a man with a wife; and the wife has extra-marital sex; while the husband is monogamous to her. How do you "invite" a cuck into a relationship with a man and a wife who are married? (Or in a committed relationship).

And,....how is it possible to a be a "single" cuck??

Per my definition above, I thought you had to be married (or in a committed relationship) to be a cuck.

Can you clarify what exactly you are looking for?

Sorry, but I get invited by some friends just to watch them fuck. I can jerk off watching them, but I can't fuck them