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Thoughts?

This is my ideal relationship (as the bull) and I just wonder how many cucks are going to be honest about the fact that it isn't fun if it isn't "playing with fire" with your lovely, nubile, wife!

Explain more at least. This could mean any number of things.

I agree with the "playing with fire" part but I doubt anyone ACTUALLY wants to lose their wife to this--even if they to roleplay it. Longterm relationship is fine when all 3 vibe but I draw the line at serious overtures toward the wife leaving her husband.

RedRiot wrote: ↑

Wed May 14, 2025 11:22 am

I agree with the "playing with fire" part but I doubt anyone ACTUALLY wants to lose their wife to this--even if they to roleplay it. Longterm relationship is fine when all 3 vibe but I draw the line at serious overtures toward the wife leaving her husband.

Exactly.

That is our ideal relationship as well and is mostly how it has played out for us over time. I am sure people think we are playing with fire, but it has worked well and besides we can’t choose what turns us on.

We discussed what we wanted to get out of sharing her and both decided that we wanted her to have a proper boyfriend.
My wife wanted to go out on dates with someone she really liked as well as found sexually attractive and wanted sex to be just a natural part of their relationship.
I was turned on by her sharing her feelings with me as well as hearing the details of their lovemaking. I told her that when she was with him I wanted her to feel like she was his girlfriend, not my wife, and be free to do whatever she wanted without checking with me.

aboywithsmallballs wrote: ↑

Wed May 14, 2025 11:01 am

Explain more at least. This could mean any number of things.

I thought it was obvious it didn't include anything "serious" like the wife leaving for the bull; I think it' s more fun when it's ambiguous, but if I had to define it, I'd say it's about mixing a "Boyfriend/girlfriend" type relationship with giving the husband a front row seat to his wife's hot and heavy "adulterous" affair.

IronCockJohnson wrote: ↑

Thu May 15, 2025 8:51 am

aboywithsmallballs wrote: ↑

Wed May 14, 2025 11:01 am

Explain more at least. This could mean any number of things.

I thought it was obvious it didn't include anything "serious" like the wife leaving for the bull; I think it' s more fun when it's ambiguous, but if I had to define it, I'd say it's about mixing a "Boyfriend/girlfriend" type relationship with giving the husband a front row seat to his wife's hot and heavy "adulterous" affair.

I could enjoy a front row seat to my wife's ethically non-monogamous (rather than adulterous) affair, provided some conditions were met:

1. Our relationship is primary. That means if push comes comes to shove, she would leave the other guy or take a break rather than harm our relationship. That also means we both reassure each other of our loyalty, love, and devotion as necessary.
2. No secrets and no surprises. I want to know what's going on and have a say in the matter, to include communicating, approving, and sometimes planning with the other guy. I want to be present and/or participating in at least some (if not most) activities. I want her to ask me ahead of time for anything other than routine, pre-approved activities. I retain veto rights.
3. I'm not a cuckold. I will not be humiliated or demeaned. She is not only my adored wife, but also my submissive slut. If she is submissive to both of us, then I am her alpha Dom/Master and the other guy needs to respect that.

Given these conditions, I could also probably enjoy watching porn that my wife makes with him and uploads online. He, and no one else, could share her with other guys (additional conditions may apply.) I would even be willing to film, too. It could be fun watching her online videos while we cuddle and talk about it and play with each other.

That's why the ideal situation is when the boyfriend is younger. Five years younger good, ten years or more depending on her age is optimal.

Mitigates the threat of him taking her away for good.

I don't think age necessarily has anything to do with it.

We have never really discussed this but I do know that she would love to have a regular boyfriend. We spent a few days with one person in Tucson a few years back and she did have some strong feelings for him that could have grown into more. I was not threatened by it at all. A poly situation I think would work really well for us.

Hello, Annsman from Kelly Hotwife married to Wesley

That has been our lifestyle dynamic where I have a long term boyfriend that I date, have sex with, build a strong connection and relationship with. I dress sexier for dates with my boyfriend and act as his girlfriend and not as someone’s else wife.

Is there an inherent risk I love my husband for my boyfriend? Always a possibility and that only adds passion and eroticism to me having a boyfriend with my husband’s full approval. Thank you Kelly

annsman wrote: ↑

Thu May 15, 2025 5:53 am

That is our ideal relationship as well and is mostly how it has played out for us over time. I am sure people think we are playing with fire, but it has worked well and besides we can’t choose what turns us on.

We discussed what we wanted to get out of sharing her and both decided that we wanted her to have a proper boyfriend.
My wife wanted to go out on dates with someone she really liked as well as found sexually attractive and wanted sex to be just a natural part of their relationship.
I was turned on by her sharing her feelings with me as well as hearing the details of their lovemaking. I told her that when she was with him I wanted her to feel like she was his girlfriend, not my wife, and be free to do whatever she wanted without checking with me.

Same with us. My Hotwife / his GF relationship has been on going for 15 years now.

stonemtncouple wrote: ↑

Tue May 20, 2025 1:04 pm

annsman wrote: ↑

Thu May 15, 2025 5:53 am

That is our ideal relationship as well and is mostly how it has played out for us over time. I am sure people think we are playing with fire, but it has worked well and besides we can’t choose what turns us on.

We discussed what we wanted to get out of sharing her and both decided that we wanted her to have a proper boyfriend.
My wife wanted to go out on dates with someone she really liked as well as found sexually attractive and wanted sex to be just a natural part of their relationship.
I was turned on by her sharing her feelings with me as well as hearing the details of their lovemaking. I told her that when she was with him I wanted her to feel like she was his girlfriend, not my wife, and be free to do whatever she wanted without checking with me.

Same with us. My Hotwife / his GF relationship has been on going for 15 years now.

I've honestly been looking for something similar--long term anyways--for a while now; easy to find people willing to do it for a few months, or a cool year, but finding that "perfect" couple is what makes the game so fun.

annsman wrote: ↑

Thu May 15, 2025 5:53 am

That is our ideal relationship as well and is mostly how it has played out for us over time. I am sure people think we are playing with fire, but it has worked well and besides we can’t choose what turns us on.

We discussed what we wanted to get out of sharing her and both decided that we wanted her to have a proper boyfriend.
My wife wanted to go out on dates with someone she really liked as well as found sexually attractive and wanted sex to be just a natural part of their relationship.
I was turned on by her sharing her feelings with me as well as hearing the details of their lovemaking. I told her that when she was with him I wanted her to feel like she was his girlfriend, not my wife, and be free to do whatever she wanted without checking with me.

This is my ideal scenario aswell, I want her to have a relationship with another man, go on dates alone, act as a real couple, staying for the night in his place, bareback sex, even he introducing her to his family and friends as his girlffiend.

Something that I would find it hot, is hearing them refering to each other as babe, honey, etc. in my presence, and she calling me by my name, like me acting only as a friend when they are together, I'm not afraid of them being in love, I want her to experience a full poly-cuckold relationship.

I suppose, in a way, we see it as stress testing our bond. Believing we are the closest that two people could ever be to each other, we opened our marriage. She always plays the cheating wife, and has been in long and intense relationships over the years with lovers, and even a master, but she's forever my girl. On occasion she has told me we are playing with fire, and asked me if I want her to stop. In reply I asked her if she wanted to stop. She didn't. She told me she was having the time of her life playing with fire. Playing with fire is literally so hot, and I certainly wouldn't want her to stop under such circumstances because it would prove that we didn't have the connection we thought we had in the first place. Throughout our times, it never occurred to me that she would leave me for another and, thank goodness I've been right, although we did reach a crisis when her master told her to choose between us. She wasn't expecting it, and it threw us into a tailspin of recrimination for a short while. Even then, their relationship continued after he apologised to her, but we came through stronger for it all.

john jasson wrote: ↑

Tue May 27, 2025 3:00 pm

Even then, their relationship continued after he apologised to her, but we came through stronger for it all.

I doubt I could forgive someone who tried to destroy my marriage.

IronCockJohnson wrote: ↑

Wed May 14, 2025 10:53 am

Thoughts?

This is my ideal relationship (as the bull) and I just wonder how many cucks are going to be honest about the fact that it isn't fun if it isn't "playing with fire" with your lovely, nubile, wife!

Yes, he is her boyfriend. They date regularly. He likes to take her on weekend getaways to romantic places. The last three New Year's eve, they have gone to large New Year's Eve parties as a couple. She has spent the weekend with him, at his parents' house. They do not know she is married.

SensualDeviant wrote: ↑

Tue May 27, 2025 4:34 pm

john jasson wrote: ↑

Tue May 27, 2025 3:00 pm

Even then, their relationship continued after he apologised to her, but we came through stronger for it all.

I doubt I could forgive someone who tried to destroy my marriage.

As she was playing the cheating wife, she had the relationship with him, not me. I trust her judgment. I had no feelings about him to speak of. To me, it's all about her and us.

john jasson wrote: ↑

Thu May 29, 2025 1:47 pm

SensualDeviant wrote: ↑

Tue May 27, 2025 4:34 pm

john jasson wrote: ↑

Tue May 27, 2025 3:00 pm

Even then, their relationship continued after he apologised to her, but we came through stronger for it all.

I doubt I could forgive someone who tried to destroy my marriage.

As she was playing the cheating wife, she had the relationship with him, not me. I trust her judgment. I had no feelings about him to speak of. To me, it's all about her and us.

I'm more involved, and as her husband and Dom I can set limits, veto, etc. Anyone who threatens the people I love or our relationship, whether it's kinky or vanilla, sexual or platonic, is removed. I don't need people like that in my or our life.

IronCockJohnson wrote: ↑

Wed May 14, 2025 10:53 am

Thoughts?

This is my ideal relationship (as the bull) and I just wonder how many cucks are going to be honest about the fact that it isn't fun if it isn't "playing with fire" with your lovely, nubile, wife!

I always want my wife in a relationship with another man where it's more than just great sex. Seeing the attraction develops and feelings for each other grow is the hottest thing ever. It is definitely playing with fire, but I'm addicted to it.

I have no interest in short term situations. Being invited into the marriage and becoming her boyfriend opens the door to all the potential that can happen with the 'magic of 3'. There is no relationship that offers more potential for pleasure, romance, and excitement than the one between a wife and her lover within the cocoon of the marriage. There just isn't anything better.

IronCockJohnson wrote: ↑

Wed May 14, 2025 10:53 am

Thoughts?

This is my ideal relationship (as the bull) and I just wonder how many cucks are going to be honest about the fact that it isn't fun if it isn't "playing with fire" with your lovely, nubile, wife!

My wife having a bf is my ultimate cuckold goal

My partner (we're not married) has had a regular bull for over 20 years. She's been to weddings and a lot of his work events as his "girlfriend".

It´s a play with fire - she say i am his wife and your mommy

I'd love to have my wife step out of her self-erected cage, which was created through her very conservative upbringing. I'd love for her to know that I am her safe place, her support, and I am not going anywhere. I'd also love to see her break the rules, which are stifling in so many ways. It would be amazing to see her return happy and satisfied after spending a weekend at her boyfriends. I'd love to see some emotional and physical evidence that she's had a great time and is growing out of her strict rule-based mentality.