New Rules

[chris]

We (allengt, Moderators, and a small group of Verified Hotwives) have caucused and come up with two significant new rules.

We also provided a comment period for the general community. While some good corner cases were identified by several folks, we think the proposed rules stand, and at the end of the day for those corner cases it will be up to the Moderator to make the call for a given situation. This is true for all rules.

The new rules are:

2.2)

Thou shalt not advocate, glorify, eroticize, conspire, solicit help, or commit non-consensual acts of aggression toward another human being on this website. This includes discussions or posts glorifying or conspiring to commit abuse, deception, coercion, and violence, in any form (including physical and emotional). This is an adult forum so I understand and it is perfectly ok to discuss sexual activity eroticizing aggression such as BDSM, spankings, tying up, humiliation, and so forth. Have at it! The important point is that ALL PARTICIPANTS MUST PROVIDE 100% INFORMED CONSENT. To be clear, it is ok to discuss your own experience and healing, as the victim of non-consensual acts committed against you.

It's fairly common in hotwifing/cuckolding for a husband to want to convince his wife to become a hotwife. It's ok to discuss your own process, but it's not ok to try to enlist others to seduce an unwilling or unknowing wife. It's also not ok to solicit advice on how to trick an unwilling wife. These are all forms of deception and of emotional abuse, and will get you banned from this website. If you spend time on this website, you'll learn the #1 rule of this lifestyle is communication. Sit down with your wife, and lay your cards on the table!


2.4)

I absolutely expect tolerance, particularly around members' varying sexual kinks (hotwife, cuck, poly, bdsm, etc.) and gender identity (straight, gay, bisexual, etc.). Do not bully or judge other members about their gender identity, or on their own views as to how they choose to pursue their sexual kinks.

There are as many ways of doing all these things as there are people doing them, and browbeating or gaslighting other members with "one true way" (be it yours or yours and your 35 best OHW friends) is a personal attack. So, for example, if you think someone is doing something in a way you don't think is in their best interests or is bound for failure, it's perfectly ok to speak up -- this is a community after all. However after they've heard your concern.... LET IT GO! On the one hand sometimes people have to make their own mistakes. On the other hand, you may be surprised at how much more the person actually knows about their own situation and about their partner(s).


Please take a moment now to read ALL the rules. The Rules are always available on the top left of your browser screen, underneath the "Our Hotwives" logo.

[armyguyot1]

18.0 NO DUAL ACCOUNTS. If I see someone is trying or has more than one account I will delete or ban depending on what mood I am in that day. You are who your log in says or you are not a member.

[armyguyot1]

18.1 Someone is not listening. NO DUAL ACCOUNTS. Nothing good can happen with dual accounts. I have been trying to be a nice guy and only delete one account. This week has been a pain in the ass and harassed by a member reopening a banned account. I have had numerous accounts trying to open dual accounts and as off tonight you get deleted. Both accounts. I deleted 8 accounts with people trying to open dual. Stop. I occasionally look at the member list and if I see dual accounts I will delete both no matter how long you have been here. Special privileges like VHW and sponsor are soo appreciated but will not allow you to break the rules follow them, everyone.