Big Cock Conundrum

[Tank Turner]

Big dicks aren't common among men. My wife has been with many guys over the past 8 years and learned early on how rare 7-plus inches are.

Most are average, 5- 6 inches. She enjoys larger penises but a man's personality is far more important to her.

~ Des

Hi Des 31,

You are so right. A cock longer than 6" isn't all that common. My wife measured mine many years ago at 7". She had a lot of sexual experience. She has yet to find a monster cock. The biggest she's ever had hangs between our friends legs. We agreed that he has a thick 8 1/2" He reaches places inside of her pussy no other man including me has. She avoids dudes who she thinks would have small cocks. She prefer girth over length.

My wife assured me that she could fuck a monster cock but would not want to.

[Mgcouplemn]

Laurie has had about all sizes, I have watches everyone from very small that are fun to watch as they fuck her, she says it is like having someone fingering her pussy. I like the really big cocks stretching her vagina and when they are done they leave it gaping open where I can see the cum they left deep inside, Laurie likes the sensation of the big cocks rubbing on on the bones at the sides of her vagina.

Small (2-3") and medium (4-6") are easy to find cause it is 80% of the guys, Large (7-8") little harder maybe 10%, very large (9-10" are pretty hard to find, Huge (9 11" with big girth) are really hard to come across, but when you do it is exciting as all get out for the two of us. Biggest I have watch Laurie take was 11" long and about as big around as a soda can. I have invited him over many times.

[Shiphead]

My wife and I have never searched by size. It’s always about chemistry and connection. We really look for someone we enjoy hanging out with at a bar, before bringing it to the bedroom.

But as we’ve had more experiences, different fantasies and varieties have been discussed. One of which would be her trying someone bigger than me. I’m the biggest she’s been with, and while I am well above average, I’m not huge by any means.

The problem we’re having, we don’t know how to find size and maintain our other standards. The men who advertise as “bwc” or “well hung” we’ve talked to all seem to be looking for cuckold couples. It is ALL about their size. They are surprised when we engage in small talk, “You’re asking about my favorite sports team? But I have a huge dick.”

Are there no thirds out there who understand the stag/vixen life and happen to be well hung? Are we searching wrong?

Maybe ask if they have a huge sports team. Or advertise for a humongous schwanstucker. OK. That is a weird Young Frankenstein reference and I have no idea how to spell it correctly.

[BBCfan]

Laurie has had about all sizes, I have watches everyone from very small that are fun to watch as they fuck her, she says it is like having someone fingering her pussy. I like the really big cocks stretching her vagina and when they are done they leave it gaping open where I can see the cum they left deep inside, Laurie likes the sensation of the big cocks rubbing on on the bones at the sides of her vagina.

Small (2-3") and medium (4-6") are easy to find cause it is 80% of the guys, Large (7-8") little harder maybe 10%, very large (9-10" are pretty hard to find, Huge (9 11" with big girth) are really hard to come across, but when you do it is exciting as all get out for the two of us. Biggest I have watch Laurie take was 11" long and about as big around as a soda can. I have invited him over many times.

That's hot!!!

[beskettiwestern]

My wife and I have never searched by size. It’s always about chemistry and connection. We really look for someone we enjoy hanging out with at a bar, before bringing it to the bedroom.

But as we’ve had more experiences, different fantasies and varieties have been discussed. One of which would be her trying someone bigger than me. I’m the biggest she’s been with, and while I am well above average, I’m not huge by any means.

The problem we’re having, we don’t know how to find size and maintain our other standards. The men who advertise as “bwc” or “well hung” we’ve talked to all seem to be looking for cuckold couples. It is ALL about their size. They are surprised when we engage in small talk, “You’re asking about my favorite sports team? But I have a huge dick.”

Are there no thirds out there who understand the stag/vixen life and happen to be well hung? Are we searching wrong?

Size is not a thing we actively seek out at all. Too small or too large can be a dealbreaker sure, but the whole "massive dick" thing isn't for us. That said, we don't disqualify someone for being on the larger side, even if it's mentioned as one of their kinks. The way I see it is you can accidentally filter out some people who are actually cool and check all the important boxes if you do. I don't blame them for leading with what gets them the most bites. Why wouldn't they?

I basically come right out and disarm it all in the initial exchange as we're discussing what we're looking for as a play style. I clearly define what we're looking for and why I've messaged them (It's usually because they're funny, we have something in common, or they have an interesting twist on the lifestyle I'm curious about). I've found a lot are totally cool with our dynamic, and it's never brought up again. If it's instrumental to their enjoyment, well, we just move on. No harm no foul.

[Johnann2227]

Ann is happy with any cock between 5 to 9 inches as long as it has decent girth. Her cock-of-choice would be 7 to 8 inches and thick. She has fucked hundreds of different cock over our 27 years of swinging and hotwifing. A couple were so small she just let them fuck her arse because she couldn't feel them in her pussy. At Hedo 2 she saw a massive cock hanging between the legs of a local and had to try it. 10.5 inches and she couldn't close her hand around it. We were both salivating over it! Unfortunately regardless of everything we tried (about a litre of lube, me fucking her first, Ann fingering herself with four fingers, every possible position) she couldn't take it. Cowgirl she could only get the head partly in (even with me rubbiing lube on hi shaft as she tried sliding down on it). Eventually she tapped out and licked the head and jerked his shaft until he came. She even struggled getting his cock into her mouth.
The only demand she has of a cock now is that it is circumcised. She won't fuck or suck an uncircumcised cock.

[Tryagain]

We have been looking for guys with big cocks for many years. “Big” for us is minimum of 7 inches and thick. She needs it big to touch those inner vaginal hot spots. Waiting for 9 inches (or more which really does not exist in the real world having learned that from experience) is going to take a very long time.

Our experience in looking for them does not match what some here are saying. Because our ad specifies 7 +, guys will either comment on that or send a pic (which we prefer). But we have found that they do not fit that stereotype of guys with big cocks acting like that is all that matters. They are very interested in pleasing my wife taking time to orally and digitally excite her before the “big” event.

We use Double List and get many responses from guys hung like that as we live in the DC metro area. FYI, for those curious about black men, at 8 inches or more, there are app. 3 black responses for every white one. So it will be easier to fulfill your requirement if you are okay with interracial sex.

But for us, there is no discussion focus at all on their size.

For my wife, a “pleasing” open personality is the number 1 requirement. But a very close second is their looks. So if a guy is good-looking, she will almost always select him. But guys who do not excel in looks, if we continue to see him, will inevitably gets “cuter”.

And re the above post, my wife did finally meet a guy who was indeed 9 inches but his girth was over the top. She could not fit his head in her mouth nor get him in her pussy while on top. In the missionary position he painstakingly put his cock in her about 5 inches. They then did doggy style where he was finally able to cum putting 5 inches in her.

[lookingiansa]

My wife and I have never searched by size. It’s always about chemistry and connection. We really look for someone we enjoy hanging out with at a bar, before bringing it to the bedroom.

But as we’ve had more experiences, different fantasies and varieties have been discussed. One of which would be her trying someone bigger than me. I’m the biggest she’s been with, and while I am well above average, I’m not huge by any means.

The problem we’re having, we don’t know how to find size and maintain our other standards. The men who advertise as “bwc” or “well hung” we’ve talked to all seem to be looking for cuckold couples. It is ALL about their size. They are surprised when we engage in small talk, “You’re asking about my favorite sports team? But I have a huge dick.”

Are there no thirds out there who understand the stag/vixen life and happen to be well hung? Are we searching wrong?

IDK hung is a relative term and when men say they are hung you got to ask yourself in relation to what size scale . I think it will be fate hit or miss to find someone with a huge cock. You say your above average how long is yours to let guys know what you 2 need to be satisfied in your ad wouldn't hurt either.

Here is a penis calculator enter hard length girth and it will calculate your over percentage like for length in a room of 1,000 men what percentage you would be in relation to the other guys. So at 7 inches, only 1 in a 1,000 statistically bigger. It boosted my ego and thank God daily I don't have a micro-penis but don't have that outliner 10 inch thick porn star cock either. 1 thing I'm blessed with is thickness and curving so when a women is riding e cowgirl I can usually make her cum on my cock when it strokes her G-Spot

then it measures volume I'm about 12 oz so the equivalent of a cock can lol

Here is a link to this site: https://calcsd.info/

I hope this helps.

MR Lookingiansa

[Smit_hd]

For my wife it would all be about chemistry. Would he a huge bonus if he was hung though

[JandMRetired]

Size had never been an issue to me, However, early on in our play, we met with a young fella that was rather large and much to my surprise... I "Really" enjoyed it. Hubby always vetted our play friends, and after that experience, the fellas he presented to me for approval were usually on the larger size. So I guess in our situation larger was preferred. It's funny how after you get more experience you really start to narrow down your preferences, not just in size.

[DCaftermath]

I don’t know where the myth that cock larger than 9” don’t exist. This is just not true. Sure they are outliers but they are definitely out there. Guys with huge cocks exist, well at least in our experience they have. I’d have to put cocks into 4 categories: small (2-4”), medium ( over 4” to 6”), large/big (over 6” to 8”), huge (over 8 to impossible)

There are vaginas that also correspond to each of the above categories. It’s a beautiful thing.

[SRKnight]

My HW just recently had her perspective changed on what a truly big cock is. After all these years of being a HW she experienced her first BBC. A completely changed woman. Whew

[CaliLondon]

We had no idea my wife's partner for the past year was hung until he took off his pants. With him being fairly short and skinny, his cock looks even bigger on him. In his Feeld profile nor ours did we mention the need for a big cock. That said, my wife loves his size.

[kellycuckoldsmark]

For Kelly chemistry matters more. Although she doesn't have regulars or boyfriends she does insists on a non-sexual first real date. If there is no chemistry she doesn't want to feel pressured to sleep with him so he doesn't get a second date. However, if there is chemistry she will sometimes have a kiss and while he caresses her slip her hand down to check size!

Early on when we were exploring we found someone (on AFF) who claimed to have a massive cock. We were intrigued and exchanged some messages and pictures. It looked huge. He told us that his wife wouldn't have sex with him that much because it was too big. Kelly was intrigued enough to meet him and as they made out and she dropped his pants, we both realized he had understated the size! This thing was probably 11" and really thick. Kelly is very petite and her hand couldn't come close to wrapping around it. She can deep throat and still couldn't take all of it. She still wanted to feel it inside of her and watching I thought she enjoyed it but afterwards she told me it was a mix of incredible pleasure with the same amount of pain. She decided there and then never to have someone with a 'huge' cock.

Kelly is very happy with a 'norma' cock so 6-7" and decent girth. Not interested at all in longer. Difficult to tel in advance but not too keen on smaller than 3" (won't if she knows in advance). She always favors girth over length so if someone is 4" but very thick she would be very happy.

[BBCfan]

My HW just recently had her perspective changed on what a truly big cock is. After all these years of being a HW she experienced her first BBC. A completely changed woman. Whew

Very hot. Were you able to witness it?
How has it changed her?

[SRKnight]

After 14 years as a HW….and multiple affairs with married men before we married, Mandy had her first BBC

She has been on a weight lost journey the last 12 months and met a black guy named Chris at the gym. Mandy had a long term boyfriend who she stays with almost as much as me. A few weeks ago as she was in the shower after spending the night there, I noticed she had a text from him saying “thought you were coming by last night”

After some questioning she admitted she had been with Chris and finally trying BBC. Said this was the 7th time she had been with him when me and her BF thought she was with the other

Told me that Chris was so big and thick and rough with her it was definitely a life changing experience.