Older but still Thrilling....

[glassfull]

I'm a MWM in my 70s with a still very attractive wife, also 70's.

Yes, I've been hanging around this great forum off and on for a few years now. Talking to others sometimes and telling a bit about my stag/vixen experiences in the past. But now it shows signs of being the present! My wonderful wife has decided after trying it several years ago that it's time for another foray into consensual non-monogamy. As a man with stag tendencies all my adult life, I'm beyond happy and excited! Our sex life, which had been fairly dormant, has been jump started. I'm a better, more attentive and loving husband.

My wife hasn't yet enjoyed sex with another man in the present though I'm happy to say she did in the past, so she's not an extramarital virgin. I debated whether to post our story before things became sexual or wait til after our desires were consummated. We started the selection process in February on Ashley Madison and we've been amazed at the quantity (and mostly quality) of responses. The ages range from 20s to 70s, but most are in their 40s and 50s. This for a woman in her 70s who didn't even post a photo on the site.

Our ad clearly states that I, her husband, will be involved in the selection process. Because of safety issues and past experiences not vetting prospective men carefully enough, we decided after initial contact with my wife on the site, those on the short list would be asked to meet with me. Again we've been amazed, the level of acceptance has been close to 100%, many are happy I'm aware and involved. A few are somewhat questioning and skeptical. Maybe it shows an increasing level of awareness of the cuckold/hotwife or stag/vixen lifestyle? I've made it clear I want at least a casual ongoing friendship with men who might be intimate with my wife.

This selection process has taken longer than expected because of a few unforeseen setbacks having nothing to do with the quest for suitable men. And now my wife is on an airplane going to her hometown for the week to attend to a family matter. This has made me feel lonely already, but with plenty of time on my hands. So I decided to start posting our story in hopes there is some interest and maybe to help create some motivation and encouragement among the older couples interested in our lifestyle and forum. Not to say we are not interested in communicating with younger couples.

I think that's a reasonable introduction for now and I welcome any encouraging words, comments or advice...

[SilverStag]

Welcome. I look forward to reading of your adventures.

I "found" the ENM lifestyle at 50. I'm 72 now and my HW, Cecil, is 67. We are both still active in the swinger community as well as each of us enjoying solo play (see threads here about Cecil in the HW section -and Hotties, and Stag Play Today in the Stag/Vixen section for some of our stories).

Age is just a number. Don't wander too far out of your lane and things should work out fine.

[glassfull]

We don't swing, nothing against swingers, but my preference is in sharing my wife. I've had other ladies in the past, one very special and long term, but that was because my wife wasn't interested in being a vixen at the time...

[Oilem]

Is Ashley Madison a reliable site for mature couples to find someone to energize their relationship. We had a good thing going but, then Covid struck. We like to practice her talents in Las Vegas.

[glassfull]

We tried both Ashley Madison and AFF. We found the men on AM to be a cut above those on AFF. Far fewer dick pics and more looking for some sort of longer term relationship (sexual friend, as we put it) than just quick hook-ups.

Unless you live in Las Vegas, your wife is probably not going to be in for longer term?

[Caribwaters]

glassful

We are a MWC, retired and in our mid 70s. Never been divorced or separated, so my wife's connected to extramarital affairs never threatened our relationship.

Give you a lot of credit for going on a website like AM to try and meet an "acceptable" guy for your wife. Don't know if I could be comfortable doing that. As you are probably quite aware there are a lot of weird (and dangerous) men out there that appear to bee nice, but in reality are wolves in sheep clothing. No idea what the depth or vetting process a husband can actually do when meeting a stranger from a website in order to assure your wife she is "reasonably" protected. Just follow your and especially your wife's instincts regarding meeting unknown men. In most situations it should be OK.

Fortunately all of the prior men in my wife's intimate life were either friends, co-workers or her bosses, that she knew for an extended time before becoming involved. She needs to have a nice connection with the man. Each extramarital relationship, some very short term while others lasted for years, eventually ended on a good note. None of these guys ever became a problem, by being fixated on her during the affair or after.

I had met and knew them casually, except for one, a reconnected old high school "friend". None of these guys knew that I was aware, except the old friend, who during their long term relationship she confided in that I was her cuck.

Similar to your current situation, my wife is not involved with another man and has not been for about 6 years. Life has intervened and most of her former lovers, who were all older than her are now deceased. The good news, there is a guy in our neighborhood who is a few years younger, is quite obviously very interested in her. She has never made the 1st overt move, but never turned a guy down. Nice to know, she still "has it".

[glassfull]

My wife would be very leery about even thinking about a sexual relationship with a friend, co-worker or boss. To her, the risk of that, while not physical, could be much more potentially damaging to her reputation or career. My wife would prefer the only people knowing she's a 'hotwife' would be me and the men she (hopefully) sleeps with. Friends and family will never know if we can help it.

We don't meet the men from AM for a 15 minute coffee, my meeting is always an hour, more often closer to two hours. Same with my wife. I ask questions, my years in business make me fairly good at detecting sincerity, hers too. We always meet in a public place, never at their home or in a car. She's already rejected two possibles, but not because of safety concerns, just because she felt there was no fit, no chemistry. The short list is now one, she's meeting him for the second time after the Memorial Day weekend. There are still two other possibles, one I've met, the other I haven't....

[Lugnut]

My wife would be very leery about even thinking about a sexual relationship with a friend, co-worker or boss. To her, the risk of that, while not physical, could be much more potentially damaging to her reputation or career. My wife would prefer the only people knowing she's a 'hotwife' would be me and the men she (hopefully) sleeps with. Friends and family will never know if we can help it.

That's the way we always did it too. My hotwife just retired a couple of months ago, and never fooled around with any co-workers through a long career in university administration. After a while everyone knows or suspects and she simply didn't want the reputation. Family and friends will never know either.

The search function isn't working at the moment so I don't know if you've shared your story elsewhere, but I'd like to hear it. We are in a similar situation . . . haven't shared her for a while and she's beginning to mutter that she's too old. And we're in our mid-60s.

[glassfull]

After posting in this forum, I posted a more complete story in the Hotwives Forum, titled 'Older Couple Hoping to Share Again.' I did suggest the admins remove this thread to avoid duplication.

My wife in her 70s is still very vibrant and attractive, I'm sure your wife is also....

[bowlerlb]

Im sure you will find the right man or men. I have fucked a lot of older wives in their 60s and 70s and they have all been amazing. They love to be fucked and are needing to make up for the cock they have missed out on. Husbands have all been great as well and nearly all have enjoyed cleaning my cock as well as their wives dripping cum filled pussies. Older wives love to be cleaned and spoilt after a good fuck session.

[BlackVulcan556]

In my first foray into the swinger lifestyle, I was open to being with older women, within reason. At age 32, I gave my virginity to a 52 year-old white woman. Yeah, I was a 32 year-old virgin! Haha! It's complicated. I subsequently seduced my editor, and she was about 10 years older than I was then. And I enjoyed a long-lasting friendship with benefits with a mature swinger couple in their early sixties? It was circumstantial. I wasn't actively seeking out older women. Even so, I had my limit, at least in my mind. So, one evening at a house swing party, I stumbled across an elderly lady sitting all alone in a darkened rear bedroom. I was late in arriving to the party, having had to drive clear across town, and any action had died down. Most of the guests were out on the patio chatting. The elderly lady in the back room sat quietly on a floor mattress, watching porn on a small television mounted in a corner. She was petite, and quite pale, wearing a sheer black negligee which revealed her low-hanging breasts. Her wavy hair was completely grey, and I estimated her age to be mid-seventies. Yeah, that was beyond my self-imposed limit. I just couldn't think of her in a sexual way. I'm a kinky pervert, but senior citizens are to be respected, and cherished for their experience and wisdom. In my view, they were sexless. She looked over to smile at me. I returned her friendly smile, but then I turned and left the room. The woman I had come to see was the wife of the party's host, but she was indisposed. Maybe the two of them were having trouble in their marriage, because I recently discovered they are no longer together. Anyway... The guests out on the patio were slowly making their way to their vehicles for the drive home. But I wasn't ready to make that journey yet, having come so far. A side of my mind toyed with the possibility of fun with the old lady. But I just couldn't get there. It still felt too gross, and too extreme. Nevertheless, my inner pervert posed a challenging question. Why not? This kinky lifestyle is all about exploring taboo sex. So, she's older than anyone you've ever been with before. Expand! Give this a go! No one else will know. Everyone else has already left! She's back there waiting all alone.

And I was quite horny... So, I boldly ventured back to the darkened bedroom. The old woman smiled at me again, and this time, as I returned her smile, I began undressing in front of her. The very act of exposing myself was enough to coax my erection. I liked that she was watching me as I slowly lowered my boxer shorts to expose my dangling black dick, growing firm before her eyes. By that time, I had moved to close the gap between us. Neither of us ever said a word. And as I stood over her, she calmly reached up her slightly-gnarled hand to take hold of my penis. She leaned in closer, getting up onto her knees. As I looked down, her bright shock of white hair blocked my view, but I suddenly felt a warm wetness engulf my dick. It felt very good, just as good as a younger woman. I could feel her teeth very lightly raking across the sensitive flesh of my shaft. I like that. So far, so wonderful. But she was an old lady! Someone's great grandma! She tilted her head enough so that I caught a better view of her face in the dim light. Lots of time etched across those features. Wrinkles and cracks and deep smile lines and crow's feet. And there was my stiff cock captive within her puckered mouth. Her eyes were blissfully closed. I could feel her tongue flicking over my organ, poking into the aperture, bathing my penis in her saliva. Yes, this was major-level perverted. She was young when they were freely lynching black men like me for sport, or for the flimsiest excuse (Rest in peace, Emmett Till.). And I wouldn't have been born until decades later. White women had always been coveted by black men. Okay, I was getting into it. There was still time to just leave it at a blow-job, apologize to her, thank her for a lovely evening, and just go home. But I decided to pursue that experience, that first. Coaxing her onto her back, I joined her down on the floor mattress. Untying the front of her black negligee, her naked body was laid bare. She was slender, but soft, with liver spots dotting her face, hands and arms. She had sagging tits, arthritic toes, and a wild grey bush adorning her aged cunt. Swallowing hard, I mounted her in Missionary position. Reaching down between our bodies, I rubbed my hard dick back and forth over her clit. And all at once, I committed to the act. Penetration. I heard her moan softly as I entered her fully in one long, slow plunge. She was very warm, surprisingly wet, and surprisingly tight. I closed my eyes to imagine a younger woman. But after only a few seconds of that, I came to the realization that SHE was the reason for my firm erection now. Being with a 70+ year-old lady was a thrill! I openly stared at her, noting all the gray hair, the wrinkled face, the peach fuzz on her cheeks and chin, her rheumy eyes... I glanced down between our naked bodies to see my youthful black dick lodged withing her ancient, hairy twat. I pushed all the way back inside her, and I did a slow grind of my genitals against hers. Taboo contrast to the extreme. It was wondrous. I began thrusting into her, and it felt positively euphoric! I started to fuck her in earnest, rocking her body on the thin mattress. Did this spare bedroom once belong to the host couple's children? More than likely, and this only added to the crazy kink.

My playful imagination envisioned myself as a knight upon a quest, and the only way to obtain a much-needed magical talisman was to fuck the lonely old witch who possessed it. Repulsed by the task at first, the act becomes thoroughly enjoyable. And suddenly, there's no better pussy in all the world. That's how it felt, and I wished someone else was there to take a picture of us together. I would love a photo of me fucking a 75 year-old lady to go with my true memories of the experience. I would value that as much as I would now value a photo of me as the older man fucking some 18 year-old. I found that there was no need to treat her delicately. She was quite lively and resilient. So, amid her moaning orgasms, I escalated my force and tempo until I was rocking her elderly frame beneath me. I couldn't see, but I hoped someone was watching us from the open doorway. This was such a deliciously nasty fuck. It felt so exhilarating to slam this woman, splattering her pussy moisture across our groins. With my increased energy, I was determined to show this old lady how desirable a woman she continued to be to a horny man. Leave no doubt that she got fucked that night. Finally, when I came, I ejaculated in explosive eruptions inside her vaginal depths, grunting loudly like some feral beast. I kept her pinned until I had fully emptied my balls into her. The rest was an absolute blur. I never got the old woman's name. But in the following weeks, I couldn't get her off my mind. So, I used the swinger community to track her down by my description. Someone gave me her name and her her email address, and she was delighted to hear from me. She was married to a retired swinger, and I was invited over to meet the very genial husband. He graciously busied himself in another part of their lovely home as his wife led me to their bedroom where I gleefully fucked that old lady again, this time in their marriage bed.

So, I learned to explore beyond my limits. I would happily play with healthy women in their seventies, or eighties.

[CaliLondon]

My wife is 56, I'm says away from 69, and her boyfriend over the last 13 months is 53. I am really glad to hear your stories. Too much of this lifestyle seems focused on those under 40, while in reality, it's easier for us older folks. We have no kids at home, we're confident enough in ourselves at this stage not to worry about what the neighbours think, and no worry about getting knocked up. We found Neal through Feeld and would recommend it highly. She also belongs to an sensual/erotic massage group here in London. While it doesn't matter your age, shape, etc, the person running the group vets everybody to make sure everyone is who they say they are. With that group, she has met a guy for mutual massage and happy endings, without penetration. Though she says this isn't going to change, I suspect it will. With cancer recovery and a few other illnesses, I see this additional men as sexual surogates for my wife. It has worked out extremely well. As she says, when she was younger, there is no way she could have done this.