Wife on a date tonight!

[Johnann2227]

Knowing that she would have James's cum in her right now and that she was naked in her lover's bed had me rock hard.

So hot!

54321

Thanks, 54321.

[Johnann2227]

We are having a great week so far. Ann is on school holidays for 2 weeks and is spending her weeks at James's apartment. He has managed to take three days off work and is working home for two. They left Monday morning and will be back Friday evening. So I am not feeling too alone, Ann has organised for Tracey to move in here with me for the week. I am still working from home on the days Tracey has to work but having her here this week has been fantastic. Tracey has taken on our lifestyle amazingly well. As soon as she arrives at our house now she immediately strips off and doesn't put on any clothes until she has to leave the house. Kissing her goodbye when she heads off to work in the morning knowing she will be back again that night has been a good feeling.

Ann has been having a great week with James. They have been into the city during the day and are heading up to the Blue Mountains today and spending the night there. James has booked a lovely suite with amazing views for them It looks really romantic! Ann and I have spoken with Tracey and our group and we are including her in our weekly Saturday night swingers' party. It is our turn to host this week so on Friday Tracey and I are going to start getting things ready so that there is not such a rush on Saturday. I have also booked Tracey appointments today to get her hair and nails done, a spray tan and I will take her lingerie and dress shopping tonight for the party. She is anxious but very excited.

Sex has been amazing with Tracey this week. Now she has relaxed and understands the lifestyle she has reduced the amount of self-judging she does. She now is open about her desires and will confidently direct me to what she wants. Anal has been a hit with Tracey. She had tried it years ago and hated it. It sounds like her ex-husband just wanted to conquer another hole. But by rimming her, using lots of lube and massaging her anus while she rides me reverse cowgirl Tracey realised that it actually feels great. We progressed to me fingering her arse while I licked her pussy and then I fucked her arse with a small vibrator while I fucked her doggy. She absolutely loved that and had screaming orgasms (much to the mirth of our kids at breakfast the next morning). Last night Tracey actually asked me to fuck her arse. After a lot of foreplay and copious amounts of lube, I slowly pushed in and let her body adapt to my size. Soon the slight pain turned to discomfort until after a minute or so Tracey started pushing back on me. She loved the feeling and was reaching under rubbing her clit at the same time. Her arse was so tight and felt amazing, even through the condom. After a couple of minutes Tracey started moaning louder and I could feel her hand rubbing her clit faster. I knew she was on her way to her orgasm. I pounded her arse and I also came seconds after she did.

This morning we had sex in the shower and Tracey actually stopped it to lube her arse and said she wanted me to fuck her again. She is a convert to anal. She now wants James and I to DP her and wants to try and achieve air-tight like Ann. We have gone online today and ordered her an anal training kit which has a variety of butt plugs of different sizes and and anal beads etc. We have also bought her a really pretty pink gem butt plug to wear to parties now. Ann has been chatting to Tracey while we have been laying in bed about what to expect at the party, who likes what and what Tracey's limits are. She has also spoken to Ann about getting a VCH piercing and her nipples done.

Tracey has asked about us going bareback with her. She understands our rules and how they don't just impact on us but on our whole group. She has just asked if things continue like they are and also if the group likes her (as if they wouldn't) then could she be considered to become a permanent member. We have commented that it would mean that she would have to always wear condoms with external to the group partners and have regular test but her answer floored us. Tracey said that in the short time that she has been playing with us she has come to the conclusion that this is what she wants in her life. She no longer wants to date and find a partner to marry. She enjoys her life and the sex and tenderness that she is receiving now from Ann, James and myself completes her. She feels special. She feels cared for and trusts us. Between Ann, James and I and possibly our group, Tracey says that is all the sex she could possibly want.

We have discussed with Tracey how she is going to manage this lifestyle with her family. Her sons are now 23 and 18 and, while they are usually out, will notice mum's consistent nights away. Naturally they will assume that she has a boyfriend and will want to meet him. Tracey is not sure how to explain this yet but is not really bothered from her perspective. We are more concerned about her son's finding out that Tracey is involved with us and our lifestyle. We are not ashamed about our lifestyle but still would not want it broadcast around the community as that would negatively impact our kids (now 22 and 19) and even us professionally. Our kids understand our lifestyle and embrace it. They are experimenting with the other kids in our group and we know that they are having their own get togethers now on Saturday nights. Still, they understand that Tracey's sons will probably react differently and could be nasty about it.

[Johnann2227]

Saturday night was amazing! We spent Saturday morning setting up the mattresses etc and James and I went out and bought the alcohol for the night. Ann, Tracey and our daughter spent half the day baking desserts for the party. When James and I got home and walked into the kitchen we were greeted by the beautiful sight of three tanned nude arse working away. The girls were all wearing aprons and nothing else. James and I stripped naked and joined them for some lunch.

At 2pm Ann and Tracey left for a massage. Ann had told Tracey that she will be receiving a lot of attention tonight so a good, deep massage to loosen her muscles would be beneficial. James and I sat back and watched a couple of episodes of Reacher. Halfway through episode 1 James reached over and started stroking my cock. Not long after I pushed his head down and he blew me.

Ann and Tracey got home 4ish and headed straight upstairs to shower and begin getting ready. They showered together and washed each other. They eventually got out, dried each other and then Ann started doing Tracey's make-up for her. She then did Tracey's hair. Tracey then did the same for Ann. It was so hot watching them fuss over each other.

James and I then showered, shaved and got dressed. Ann had laid out tight jeans and black t-shirt for James, and I had chinos and fitted polo shirt. Neither of us were given underwear. We headed downstairs to get the music going, a/c pumping to warm the house etc.

Later Ann and Tracey came downstairs. Wow! They looked stunning! Ann was wearing a tight, white, cutout dress that looked fantastic contrasted with her dark spraytan. Her dress showed lots of side and underboob and her nipple piercings showed through. Her dress was really short and as she walked on her 3 inch stilletos it rode up showing her bald, pierced pussy and the bottom of her arse cheeks. I walked straight up to her and kissed her deeply.

I then looked at Tracey and she was beautiful. The black dress I had bought her was tight and low cut which showed off her boobs. As she walked her hem rose and you coud see her stocking tops. Her legs looked amazing perched on her heels with sexy black stockings. James and I both clapped and whistled and Tracey gave a shimmy and wiggled her arse at us. She then bent over and Ann pulled her dress up further showing us the sexy pink buttplug in Tracey's anus. She was ready to party!

[Johnann2227]

By 7pm everyone had arrived. Friends of ours, Al and Michelle, had also brought Michelle's boyfriend Harry who we had played with before. The ladies looked beautiful, hot and slutty. Obviously they had been chatting and had agreed on a "no panties dress code". I made drinks while everyone chatted and mingled. About 7.30pm the delivery from our local Italian reataurant arrived. Pizzas, trays of pasta and salads. Not cheap but better than being exhausted from the meal prep. The look on the faces of the young guy and girl who brought the food in was priceless. Even though all of the ladies had pulled their dress hems down to cover their bald pussies they still looked hot.

We all sat in our dining room. We had brought in our BBQ setting and lined it up with the dining table to seat everyone. There were 15 of us. Dinner was fantastic and, as the wine bottles emptied, became louder and more playful. I sat on Tracey's left and Ann to her right to support her. We didn't need to as she was having a great time. I looked down the table and laughed at our friend Nicole who had put her boob in some carbonara sauce and Harry, Michelle's boyfriend was sucking it clean. The party had started.

After we cleared up everyone headed into our living room which was lit by candles and we had music playing. On the tv we had some good amateur porn from dirtydatinglive showing.
We started dancing together and switching partners. I looked for Tracey and Adam was already dancing close with her and they were kissing. Ann was dancing wedged between Andrew (Nicole's husband) and James. She was kissing Andrew while James was groping her arse. I was dancing with our friend Belinda. Belinda was kissing me and riding my palm as I had 3 fingers fucking her wet pussy. Soon everyone was naked and spreading out. A few went out to the hottub, most went to the group mattress area in the loungeroom and a few stayed in the living room.
I saw Adam lead Tracey out to the hottub. She looked excited. As Adam started climbing in, Tracey stopped him and started sucking his cock. She was fine. I took Belinda to the group room and saw Ann kneeling sucking James while Andrew was fucking her doggy. She was loving it. I brought Belinda over to her and fucked her missionary while Belinda sucked Ann's nipples and rubbed her clit. Soon Ann was cumming. As I was fucking Belinda I looked around and saw various combinations of people sucking and fucking. Just how we like it!

[Johnann2227]

At about 10pm we all gravitated nude back to the dining room to enjoy some dessert. I made coffees and everyone enjoyed the pavlova and cheesecakes that the girls had baked that day.

I touched base with Tracey and she was having a ball. She had fucked Adam and then James and had enjoyed a 69 with Simone. She was buzzing! I looked across and saw Ann walking around completely nude except for her stilletoes giving out desserts. She looked so beautiful. About an hour later people were ready to play again. I took Ann out to the hot tub and laid her back on the edge while I cleaned her pussy. She tasted delicious. I looked up and saw Harry kneel by her head and push his cock into her mouth. Ann swallowed his cock and Harry held her by her hair. After a bit I could see he was getting close so I reached over, grabbed a condom and put it on his cock. I then pulled him by the cock over between Ann's legs and rubbed his cock up and down her lips. Ann started moaning and thrusting her pussy at his cock. I stopped teasing her and inserted Harry's cock. Ann grunted and moaned as Harry pushed in balls deep. I knelt by her head and pushed my cock into her mouth. I reached down and rubbed her clit while Harry gave her a rigorous fucking. This soon had Ann bucking and screaming with a big orgasm. I stopped rubbing her clit, as she was too sensitive, and let Harry just fuck her. Soon Harry was grunting and cumming. When he finished and pulled out I pushed straight into Ann's well-used pussy. As I was fucking her I felt someone get in the hot tub and start rubbing my arse. Soon I felt a finger pushing into my anus. I looked behind and it was Tracey. This spurred me on and I was slamming into Ann while Tracey fingered my arse. Soon I came grunting and pumping my load into her. When I pulled out Tracey swallowed my cock and cleaned me. She then knelt between Ann's legs and ate her creampie. Our night went on and on like this.

Everyone had dressed and left by 3am. Adam and Belinda had decided to stay over and we watched them walk naked to our guest room with Tracey. Ann, James and I headed to our room.

[David3State]

so
fucking
hot!

does your son speak with you about your mm contact? is he starting to experiment in this direction?

[Johnann2227]

so
fucking
hot!

does your son speak with you about your mm contact? is he starting to experiment in this direction?

Hi,
My sex or intimacy with James is not in front of my kids, and as far as I know, they do not know about it. They see Ann and James kiss and cuddle together and it is natural for them. James and I don't lay there cuddling etc. They know that the three of us sleep together but not what actually happens.
As far as my kids, my daughter is now 22 and has decided that she is bi. She is dating another daughter from our swinger group but they also have regular threesomes with one of the sons in the group.
Our son isn't dating but is a FWB to the daughters in our swinger group.

[David3State]

thanks!

so
fucking
hot!

does your son speak with you about your mm contact? is he starting to experiment in this direction?

Hi,
My sex or intimacy with James is not in front of my kids, and as far as I know, they do not know about it. They see Ann and James kiss and cuddle together and it is natural for them. James and I don't lay there cuddling etc. They know that the three of us sleep together but not what actually happens.
As far as my kids, my daughter is now 22 and has decided that she is bi. She is dating another daughter from our swinger group but they also have regular threesomes with one of the sons in the group.
Our son isn't dating but is a FWB to the daughters in our swinger group.

[Johnann2227]

Last Sunday morning I woke at about 10.30, slightly hung over and tired. I knew I needed coffee. I looked beside me and Ann was laying on her side facing me. James was spooning her, his hand cupping her naked boob. They were both still asleep and looked peaceful together. I gave Ann a soft kiss on the lips and got up and headed down to the kitchen. As I passed our guest room I could hear soft moaning coming through the door and I knew that someone in there had woken and was having fun.

I went into the kitchen and made myself a strong latte with an extra shot to wake me up. While I was waiting for it I began the clean up from the party. I stripped the sheets off of the mattresses in the loungeroom and put them on to wash. I stacked the dishwasher with the plates, glasses etc. from the night before. My first coffee was heavenly! I then tidied up the living and lounge rooms and was then joined by Adam. He came down looking worse than me and I made him a coffee. I asked how his night and morning had gone and he beamed and recounted his time with Belinda and Tracey. He said that they had played before falling asleep and then he woke this morning to Belinda and Tracey kissing and fingering each other next to him. Adam said that Belinda pushed Tracey down to her pussy and Adam saw his chance to join in. As Tracey was eating Belinda, Adam put a condom on and fucked Tracey doggy. He said that Tracey was moaning into Belinda's pussy and pushing back against his cock. He admitted to not lasting long and then he left the girls together and came downstairs. We decided to make a tray of coffees for everyone and head back upstairs.

When we got to the guest room Belinda and Tracey had not long finished and were laying together kissing. We handed them coffees and Adam climbed back into bed with them. I gave Belinda and Tracey a deep kiss and then headed back to my bedroom. I walked in to find Ann slowly riding James while he sucked her nipples. They were not fucking frantically but were savouring a long, slow "good morning" reconnection. I put there coffees on the tallboy and climbed into bed with them. I knelt down and started rimming Ann and licking James's balls. They both enjoyed this and began to speed up their fucking. I kept this up until I felt someone get on the bed and saw it was Adam. He had stood near Ann and pushed his cock into Ann's mouth. I kept rimming her and licking James's balls and it was hot. Soon I heard Ann say to James that she was going to cum and he began thrusting into her repeatedly. I knew they were both close. I heard Ann scream and her body tense. James was grunting and I could see his balls tighten. I quickly pulled him out of Ann's pussy and sucked his cock until he blew his load. I kept my mouth over the head and just kept swallowing. By then Belinda and Tracey had come into the bedroom and were watching. Belinda was turned on by me sucking James dry and told Adam that. Adam had received blowjobs from James but had not reciprocated as yet.

After Ann and James had recovered we headed downstairs to make breakfast. In our hungover state, bacon, eggs, fried tomatoes, mushrooms, toast and more coffees were on the menu. We sat around the dining table nude while we ate and talked about the party. Soon after Adam, James and I got to work taking the BBQ setting outside, putting the mattresses back into their plastic, protective covers and returning them to the garage and doing basic tidy up. Our beautiful ladies had decided that a soak in the hot tub was in order and they sat back chatting and relaxing while they watched us work. As a reward when we had finished and hopped into the hot tub they told us to sit on the edge. Tracey sucked my cock, Ann was latched onto Adam and Belinda looked after James. We were enjoying ourselves when we heard our daughter's voice call out that she was home. We quickly slid back into hot tub and she and her girlfriend Hayley came out onto the decking. They began stripping and climbed in with us. They asked about the party and wanted to know how Tracey had enjoyed it. Tracey was beaming and said she wished she had done this 20 years ago.

After a while we were starting to wrinkle up from the hot water and decided to get out. Adam and Belinda got dressed, kissed us all and left. Ann, James and I were tired and decided to go for a lay down. Three hours later our daughter came in and woke us to discuss dinner. What a wonderful weekend!

[Johnann2227]

As I mentioned before, Ann is on school holidays this week and last. Tracey only works part time and so today Ann took Tracey to get her piercings done. Tracey got her nipples pierced and a VCH. Ann didn't get any piercings done as she already has a few. Tracey looks amazing! While she said it hurt like hell and she cried she can't stop looking at herself. The downer is she is off sex now for at least 6 weeks to allow her clit hood to heal and avoid infection. It also means no hot tubbing. Tracey has volunteered herself to be our own personal fluffer at our house and parties. I have also told her that while she can't have vaginal sex she can have anal so all is not lost. As a gift to Tracey, Ann bought her an anklet. With her nipples, pussy and belly button piercings and now the anklet, Tracey is looking hot!

[Lensman2000]

I, personally, have an incest taboo that's so ingrained that I am totally repelled by the thought of sexual contact with my (now) adult kids. That's a boundary I have no desire to cross. Over the years, however, they have had friends who I found quite compelling. I, sadly, live a much more repressed lifestyle than you, your family and social circle and have never been in a situation where more than a friendly hug or cheek kiss was appropriate.

When, for instance, your naked daughter and friend join you in the hot tub, fully aware of and comfortable with the sex-charged atmosphere, likely returning from a night of their own debauchery, is there any verbal acknowledgement, teasing or friendly groping among these sexually open people of different generations? Given the right circumstances and mix of people, I'd think it it might be inevitable.

[Johnann2227]

I, personally, have an incest taboo that's so ingrained that I am totally repelled by the thought of sexual contact with my (now) adult kids. That's a boundary I have no desire to cross. Over the years, however, they have had friends who I found quite compelling. I, sadly, live a much more repressed lifestyle than you, your family and social circle and have never been in a situation where more than a friendly hug or cheek kiss was appropriate.

When, for instance, your naked daughter and friend join you in the hot tub, fully aware of and comfortable with the sex-charged atmosphere, likely returning from a night of their own debauchery, is there any verbal acknowledgement, teasing or friendly groping among these sexually open people of different generations? Given the right circumstances and mix of people, I'd think it it might be inevitable.

Hi,
No there is never any thought of anything with our kids. Family nudity is a normal part of our lives and is something that we don't notice. The same goes with the other kids from our swinger group. We have also known most of these kids from birth and are known as Uncle John and Auntie Ann. We are godparents to a couple of them. While we appreciate their beauty and youth we have never had sexual thoughts about any of them.
Our kids have walked in on us having sex many times but we immediately stop. Ann has been riding James cowgirl when our daughter has walked in on them and they have immediately stopped. They didn't disengage and cover up but Ann just sat still on James's cock and chatted.

[54321]

Amazing updates. Thank you.

54321

[Johnann2227]

Thanks 54321. This has become my "personal" journal of our lifestyle. This helps me digest our parties and Ann's experiences and how I feel. Sometimes things that happen can be a mindfuck. It used to be hard driving Ann to meet a lover and handing her over to him but now I celebrate that and have grown to actually thanking them for giving her what she wants.
I now share Ann, with her boyfriend James, four nights a week. I suggested James moving in with us from Friday to Monday. I went and got James a key cut for our house and cleared some of my drawers and half my wardrobe for James's clothes.
I have accepted that Ann is in love with James but am not threatened by it. I have given my blessing to James buying Ann a ring for her upcoming birthday and she will wear it on her right ring finger.
All of these things, if kept in my mind, can be overwhelming. Writing here helps clear my mind.

[Long Lurker 34]

Thanks 54321. This has become my "personal" journal of our lifestyle. This helps me digest our parties and Ann's experiences and how I feel. Sometimes things that happen can be a mindfuck. It used to be hard driving Ann to meet a lover and handing her over to him but now I celebrate that and have grown to actually thanking them for giving her what she wants.
I now share Ann, with her boyfriend James, four nights a week. I suggested James moving in with us from Friday to Monday. I went and got James a key cut for our house and cleared some of my drawers and half my wardrobe for James's clothes.
I have accepted that Ann is in love with James but am not threatened by it. I have given my blessing to James buying Ann a ring for her upcoming birthday and she will wear it on her right ring finger.
All of these things, if kept in my mind, can be overwhelming. Writing here helps clear my mind.

J# - Any idea what the ring will look like?
- Why don't you suggest them getting dressed up and having a set of formal portraits taken? Get 2-3 blown up, framed and on display.
- Writing is well known for this effect with the time it takes to work out how to put down the words in a meaningful manor.

[Johnann2227]

Thanks 54321. This has become my "personal" journal of our lifestyle. This helps me digest our parties and Ann's experiences and how I feel. Sometimes things that happen can be a mindfuck. It used to be hard driving Ann to meet a lover and handing her over to him but now I celebrate that and have grown to actually thanking them for giving her what she wants.
I now share Ann, with her boyfriend James, four nights a week. I suggested James moving in with us from Friday to Monday. I went and got James a key cut for our house and cleared some of my drawers and half my wardrobe for James's clothes.
I have accepted that Ann is in love with James but am not threatened by it. I have given my blessing to James buying Ann a ring for her upcoming birthday and she will wear it on her right ring finger.
All of these things, if kept in my mind, can be overwhelming. Writing here helps clear my mind.

J# - Any idea what the ring will look like?
- Why don't you suggest them getting dressed up and having a set of formal portraits taken? Get 2-3 blown up, framed and on display.
- Writing is well known for this effect with the time it takes to work out how to put down the words in a meaningful manor.

Hi Longlurker,
James has shown me the ring he wants to buy Ann. It is 18ct yellow gold with 5 small diamonds set in across the band. It is an eternity ring basically and she will wear it at all times. It is beautiful and I know she will love it.
The portraits are an interesting idea and something we haven't thought about. I know Ann would love one for our bedroom but I don't think it will work in the main areas of our house where family and friends visit. Quite a number of our family have now met James but think he is a good friend of mine from work who we like to hang out with. They like him and he gets on well with everyone. We know that feeling would change if they found out that he is actually Ann's semi live in lover who shares our bed with us. So while we are more than happy to exhibit Ann and James's relationship when we are out or in our home we just cannot take that step with family.
We talk more now about whether James will move in with us permanently in the future. We do have a guest room that he could take over for his clothes etc while he of course would continue to share our bed each night. Our kids get on extremely well with James and are comfortable with the affection that he and Ann show to each other in our house. The 5 of us are comfortable in our nudity together and the kids have mentioned about James staying over more.
Financially, it makes sense for James to move in with us. He could rent out his apartment and possibly use that income to purchase another. I now understand that, barring disaster, James and Ann are a couple and won't be breaking up. He will be part of our marriage from now on, and I am happy about that. James is booked in for a vasectomy next Tuesday as he is not interested in having kids and is committed to Ann.
So while they are not married and never can be, Ann will wear James's ring, will eventually live with him permanently here and considers him her second husband. I am at peace with this all.

[Johnann2227]

Thanks 54321. This has become my "personal" journal of our lifestyle. This helps me digest our parties and Ann's experiences and how I feel. Sometimes things that happen can be a mindfuck. It used to be hard driving Ann to meet a lover and handing her over to him but now I celebrate that and have grown to actually thanking them for giving her what she wants.
I now share Ann, with her boyfriend James, four nights a week. I suggested James moving in with us from Friday to Monday. I went and got James a key cut for our house and cleared some of my drawers and half my wardrobe for James's clothes.
I have accepted that Ann is in love with James but am not threatened by it. I have given my blessing to James buying Ann a ring for her upcoming birthday and she will wear it on her right ring finger.
All of these things, if kept in my mind, can be overwhelming. Writing here helps clear my mind.

J# - Any idea what the ring will look like?
- Why don't you suggest them getting dressed up and having a set of formal portraits taken? Get 2-3 blown up, framed and on display.
- Writing is well known for this effect with the time it takes to work out how to put down the words in a meaningful manor.

[venus-can99]

Thats a great sentiment JohnAnn - allowing James to be the second "husband" and move in with you. Many early best wishes to Ann on her upcoming birthday and the 3 of you on the "ceremony"

[Johnann2227]

Thats a great sentiment JohnAnn - allowing James to be the second "husband" and move in with you. Many early best wishes to Ann on her upcoming birthday and the 3 of you on the "ceremony"

Thank you. As per usual for her birthday Ann is having a gangbang to celebrate. Myself, the other 5 husbands in our swinger group and now James will pleasure her. The other wives in the group spend the night caring for Ann. They lube her arse, help her to the bathroom when she needs it, massage her etc. They also work as fluffers for the men so that we can be "at our best" for her.
I have organised a massage for her on the day so her muscles are supple, spraytan, nails, hair etc the day before.
Caterers are booked and her favourite Moscato will be flowing.
The night before the kids, James and myself are taking her out for dinner at her favourite restaurant.

[Long Lurker 34]

Thanks 54321. This has become my "personal" journal of our lifestyle. This helps me digest our parties and Ann's experiences and how I feel. Sometimes things that happen can be a mindfuck. It used to be hard driving Ann to meet a lover and handing her over to him but now I celebrate that and have grown to actually thanking them for giving her what she wants.
I now share Ann, with her boyfriend James, four nights a week. I suggested James moving in with us from Friday to Monday. I went and got James a key cut for our house and cleared some of my drawers and half my wardrobe for James's clothes.
I have accepted that Ann is in love with James but am not threatened by it. I have given my blessing to James buying Ann a ring for her upcoming birthday and she will wear it on her right ring finger.
All of these things, if kept in my mind, can be overwhelming. Writing here helps clear my mind.

J# - Any idea what the ring will look like?
- Why don't you suggest them getting dressed up and having a set of formal portraits taken? Get 2-3 blown up, framed and on display.
- Writing is well known for this effect with the time it takes to work out how to put down the words in a meaningful manor.

Hi Longlurker,
James has shown me the ring he wants to buy Ann. It is 18ct yellow gold with 5 small diamonds set in across the band. It is an eternity ring basically and she will wear it at all times. It is beautiful and I know she will love it.
The portraits are an interesting idea and something we haven't thought about. I know Ann would love one for our bedroom but I don't think it will work in the main areas of our house where family and friends visit. Quite a number of our family have now met James but think he is a good friend of mine from work who we like to hang out with. They like him and he gets on well with everyone. We know that feeling would change if they found out that he is actually Ann's semi live in lover who shares our bed with us. So while we are more than happy to exhibit Ann and James's relationship when we are out or in our home we just cannot take that step with family.
We talk more now about whether James will move in with us permanently in the future. We do have a guest room that he could take over for his clothes etc while he of course would continue to share our bed each night. Our kids get on extremely well with James and are comfortable with the affection that he and Ann show to each other in our house. The 5 of us are comfortable in our nudity together and the kids have mentioned about James staying over more.
Financially, it makes sense for James to move in with us. He could rent out his apartment and possibly use that income to purchase another. I now understand that, barring disaster, James and Ann are a couple and won't be breaking up. He will be part of our marriage from now on, and I am happy about that. James is booked in for a vasectomy next Tuesday as he is not interested in having kids and is committed to Ann.
So while they are not married and never can be, Ann will wear James's ring, will eventually live with him permanently here and considers him her second husband. I am at peace with this all.

JA - Not to be a Debbie Downer but you must be aware that this changing situation is bound to slip out to your families at some point? Between people who will be aware and those that know some bits, an innocent inadvertent slip of the tongue.....

[54321]

As per usual for her birthday Ann is having a gangbang to celebrate. Myself, the other 5 husbands in our swinger group and now James will pleasure her. The other wives in the group spend the night caring for Ann. They lube her arse, help her to the bathroom when she needs it, massage her etc. They also work as fluffers for the men so that we can be "at our best" for her.

Oh boy, oh boy! How the other half lives!

54321

[Johnann2227]

Thanks 54321. This has become my "personal" journal of our lifestyle. This helps me digest our parties and Ann's experiences and how I feel. Sometimes things that happen can be a mindfuck. It used to be hard driving Ann to meet a lover and handing her over to him but now I celebrate that and have grown to actually thanking them for giving her what she wants.
I now share Ann, with her boyfriend James, four nights a week. I suggested James moving in with us from Friday to Monday. I went and got James a key cut for our house and cleared some of my drawers and half my wardrobe for James's clothes.
I have accepted that Ann is in love with James but am not threatened by it. I have given my blessing to James buying Ann a ring for her upcoming birthday and she will wear it on her right ring finger.
All of these things, if kept in my mind, can be overwhelming. Writing here helps clear my mind.

J# - Any idea what the ring will look like?
- Why don't you suggest them getting dressed up and having a set of formal portraits taken? Get 2-3 blown up, framed and on display.
- Writing is well known for this effect with the time it takes to work out how to put down the words in a meaningful manor.

Hi Longlurker,
James has shown me the ring he wants to buy Ann. It is 18ct yellow gold with 5 small diamonds set in across the band. It is an eternity ring basically and she will wear it at all times. It is beautiful and I know she will love it.
The portraits are an interesting idea and something we haven't thought about. I know Ann would love one for our bedroom but I don't think it will work in the main areas of our house where family and friends visit. Quite a number of our family have now met James but think he is a good friend of mine from work who we like to hang out with. They like him and he gets on well with everyone. We know that feeling would change if they found out that he is actually Ann's semi live in lover who shares our bed with us. So while we are more than happy to exhibit Ann and James's relationship when we are out or in our home we just cannot take that step with family.
We talk more now about whether James will move in with us permanently in the future. We do have a guest room that he could take over for his clothes etc while he of course would continue to share our bed each night. Our kids get on extremely well with James and are comfortable with the affection that he and Ann show to each other in our house. The 5 of us are comfortable in our nudity together and the kids have mentioned about James staying over more.
Financially, it makes sense for James to move in with us. He could rent out his apartment and possibly use that income to purchase another. I now understand that, barring disaster, James and Ann are a couple and won't be breaking up. He will be part of our marriage from now on, and I am happy about that. James is booked in for a vasectomy next Tuesday as he is not interested in having kids and is committed to Ann.
So while they are not married and never can be, Ann will wear James's ring, will eventually live with him permanently here and considers him her second husband. I am at peace with this all.

JA - Not to be a Debbie Downer but you must be aware that this changing situation is bound to slip out to your families at some point? Between people who will be aware and those that know some bits, an innocent inadvertent slip of the tongue.....

Yes, we have thought about that happening. We are saying that James is moving into our guest room to help him with his mortgage. To outsiders that will be all it is. It wouldn't cross our family's minds that James is actually daily fucking Ann with me with our kids' knowledge and approval.
Our nudist lifestyle will appear to have been compromised as that would be a step too far expecting our families to not have a problem with James living nude with us.
This is a new step for us and we know there will be slipups. There has been in our swinging over the last 25+ years and we have survived. Ann really wants James to be part of our daily lives. She wants to go to sleep between James and I after we have both had her and then wake up with us both again. I also want that.

[Long Lurker 34]

J# - Any idea what the ring will look like?
- Why don't you suggest them getting dressed up and having a set of formal portraits taken? Get 2-3 blown up, framed and on display.
- Writing is well known for this effect with the time it takes to work out how to put down the words in a meaningful manor.

Hi Longlurker,
James has shown me the ring he wants to buy Ann. It is 18ct yellow gold with 5 small diamonds set in across the band. It is an eternity ring basically and she will wear it at all times. It is beautiful and I know she will love it.
The portraits are an interesting idea and something we haven't thought about. I know Ann would love one for our bedroom but I don't think it will work in the main areas of our house where family and friends visit. Quite a number of our family have now met James but think he is a good friend of mine from work who we like to hang out with. They like him and he gets on well with everyone. We know that feeling would change if they found out that he is actually Ann's semi live in lover who shares our bed with us. So while we are more than happy to exhibit Ann and James's relationship when we are out or in our home we just cannot take that step with family.
We talk more now about whether James will move in with us permanently in the future. We do have a guest room that he could take over for his clothes etc while he of course would continue to share our bed each night. Our kids get on extremely well with James and are comfortable with the affection that he and Ann show to each other in our house. The 5 of us are comfortable in our nudity together and the kids have mentioned about James staying over more.
Financially, it makes sense for James to move in with us. He could rent out his apartment and possibly use that income to purchase another. I now understand that, barring disaster, James and Ann are a couple and won't be breaking up. He will be part of our marriage from now on, and I am happy about that. James is booked in for a vasectomy next Tuesday as he is not interested in having kids and is committed to Ann.
So while they are not married and never can be, Ann will wear James's ring, will eventually live with him permanently here and considers him her second husband. I am at peace with this all.

JA - Not to be a Debbie Downer but you must be aware that this changing situation is bound to slip out to your families at some point? Between people who will be aware and those that know some bits, an innocent inadvertent slip of the tongue.....

Yes, we have thought about that happening. We are saying that James is moving into our guest room to help him with his mortgage. To outsiders that will be all it is. It wouldn't cross our family's minds that James is actually daily fucking Ann with me with our kids' knowledge and approval.
Our nudist lifestyle will appear to have been compromised as that would be a step too far expecting our families to not have a problem with James living nude with us.
This is a new step for us and we know there will be slipups. There has been in our swinging over the last 25+ years and we have survived. Ann really wants James to be part of our daily lives. She wants to go to sleep between James and I after we have both had her and then wake up with us both again. I also want that.

JA - I hope all goes well.

[Bridget_Joshua]

Has it ever come to your mind like celebrating this commitment by booking them a cute honeymoon, a vacation all by themselves only?

[Johnann2227]

Has it ever come to your mind like celebrating this commitment by booking them a cute honeymoon, a vacation all by themselves only?

Hi,
They are going on a week's holiday together in early October so that could be their honeymoon. James has a friend's wedding and is taking Ann as his plus one. A lot of his family will be there and it will be the first time she has met them. They are adding 5 days onto the wedding and are staying on the Gold Coast.
I will drive them to the airport and then pick them up when they return. James has booked them at the hotel as Mr & Mrs ###@@# (his surname).