Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by Gulfcpl » Wed Dec 13, 2023 2:18 am

Any term referring to anyone that does not have the permission of the one referred to, in my opinion, shouldn’t be used. It’s the same as referring to a lady as a slut or whatever. Unless one refers to themselves as this or that, I don’t think it should be used. Personally I don’t care for the term bull. If a guy wants to be known as that, that’s up to him. I won’t use the term.

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by Wifesharing » Thu Dec 14, 2023 10:25 am

I really don't care either way i find label kind of silly. There are times the term is just the easiest way to describe something.

I find a person saying I am a "Stag" not being okay with a term like "bull" to be strange maybe i am over thinking it

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by bowlerlb » Sat Dec 16, 2023 6:49 pm

I see the term "Bull" as say a one off pickup type connection. I have always seen myself as her Lover, or Pleasure giver, or if you wish Fuck Buddy (Friend with Benefits).

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by Dutchpride7 » Sun Oct 27, 2024 6:08 am

isinlarsa wrote:
Wed Dec 29, 2021 3:50 pm
I've been on both sides of the hotwife/cuckold equation, and I've never liked "bull" from either perspective.
I'm a Bull & cringe because I can't stand saying it myself. I think it is so hinkey to say Bull,and Its definately not a word that exemplifies the work or deeds done. I'd think "Stud" would be better.
The word came out of the cuckold lifestyle,and that I don't mind. I do mind and don't care for the humiliating & degrading part of that lifestyle at all. And have nothing to do with. To each there own.

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by trecital » Sun Oct 27, 2024 6:19 am

I suppose 'stag' is slightly better than 'bull', in that it doesn't so easily invoke an image of a great lumbering rather unintelligent beast (apologies to the bovine variety.....they aren't that stupid).

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by Bryce 69 » Sun Oct 27, 2024 5:48 pm

I am a Vixen and love the term Bull

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by NewtonBlade » Mon Oct 28, 2024 9:02 am

We don’t use the term in daily conversation unless it's about one of our bovines, but the word has a special place in our relationship.

My wife and I met on a blind date. Both divorced, two kids each with our previous spouses, and she had one by a lover a few years before we met. Knowing my farm background she brazenly said that she'd been bred by two bulls. I pretty much fell in love right then and there.

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Unread post by SheLikesWhenIWatch » Thu Oct 31, 2024 2:30 am

While I have, on a few horny occasions, used the term “bull,” I find the imagery and connotations it carries to be a bit inappropriate. With “bull,” I get a very distinct connotation that goes along with “breeding,” like some handler simply brought a massive animal in to impregnate my wife.

My wife has spent YEARS cultivating the relationships she has had with the two regular BOYFRIENDS who have been privileged enough to fuck her from time-to-time (in addition to me). They have reached that level of intimacy that allows them to actually be inside of her…to spill their seed into her body.

That’s not something “bullish.” It’s actually quite beautiful and exhilarating to witness. Her boyfriends and I share a special “bond of intimacy” being the only ones who have ever enjoyed her in a way that no others have.

She rather enjoys feeling us spill our seed into her as well, and there have been occasions where she has enjoyed multiple seeds simultaneously, which heightens our combined intimacy, of course.

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by Cappy » Fri Nov 01, 2024 8:07 am

You know…for as long as we been in the lifestyle. We have never referred to them as bulls. I think it’s because we are friends first… so we always refer to them by there name. I think it’s just who you hang around with that determines how you act and talk.. although I do think of my man as a …..Bull

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by 4herpleasure89 » Sat Nov 02, 2024 4:55 pm

There is a huge misunderstanding about the metaphor “bull”. It has a much longer history, in many cultures than “cuckold” which has a long history. Stag has little to none.
I posted an article on my hotties thread that explains that history and why the term has continuing significance. In my opinion, the reason why some object to it is they do not understand its origin or they have never experienced a real “bull” (not the barnyard variety). A “third” is not necessarily a bull. Once you’ve experienced a good bull you may realize why the term has continuing significance.

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by 4herpleasure89 » Sat Nov 02, 2024 4:55 pm

There is a huge misunderstanding about the metaphor “bull”. It has a much longer history, in many cultures than “cuckold” which has a long history. Stag has little to none.
I posted an article on my hotties thread that explains that history and why the term has continuing significance. In my opinion, the reason why some object to it is they do not understand its origin or they have never experienced a real “bull” (not the barnyard variety). A “third” is not necessarily a bull. Once you’ve experienced a good bull you may realize why the term has continuing significance.

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by SheLikesWhenIWatch » Sat Nov 02, 2024 8:30 pm

4herpleasure89 wrote:
Sat Nov 02, 2024 4:55 pm
There is a huge misunderstanding about the metaphor “bull”. It has a much longer history, in many cultures than “cuckold” which has a long history. Stag has little to none.
I posted an article on my hotties thread that explains that history and why the term has continuing significance. In my opinion, the reason why some object to it is they do not understand its origin or they have never experienced a real “bull” (not the barnyard variety). A “third” is not necessarily a bull. Once you’ve experienced a good bull you may realize why the term has continuing significance.
I’ve spent an hour and a half reading through the first 50 pages of your Hotties thread looking for your article on the history and significance of “bull” as a metaphor for a man who fucks another man’s wife. I’ll pick up on page 51 tomorrow, I suppose.

It’s a good read!

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Re: Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

Unread post by Wifewithothers » Mon Nov 11, 2024 4:12 pm

Mostly because there are so many guys running around calling themselves bulls and think it means being obnoxious.

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