How much does penis size matter for threesome selection?

[Kali7]

No not specifically size only. However, if the guy is bigger then my decently size cock it makes for the best sex. For the both of us I love seeing a larger man rail my wife. When I have the bigger cock it takes so much away from the experience. We still have fun and get off but it is way way better to sit back and watch a larger man take her

[DDs_sltwf]

From my (female) perspective I'm aware visually he wants bigger, it's what he likes to see.

But for my own personal pleasure? Dick size matters WAY less than performance.
To this day one of the best lays I ever had was from a dude with a 4" dick.
I've bedded somewhere around 50 guys, of them I'd *maybe* willingly repeat 5-10 of them TOPS.
My husband's 5" and Mr 4" both make my top 3.

Get it hard, KEEP it hard, stamina, rhythm- these things are more important than size all day long

[BBCfan]

From my (female) perspective I'm aware visually he wants bigger, it's what he likes to see.

But for my own personal pleasure? Dick size matters WAY less than performance.
To this day one of the best lays I ever had was from a dude with a 4" dick.
I've bedded somewhere around 50 guys, of them I'd *maybe* willingly repeat 5-10 of them TOPS.
My husband's 5" and Mr 4" both make my top 3.

Get it hard, KEEP it hard, stamina, rhythm- these things are more important than size all day long

Nice to hear feedback from a smaller size fan, there is truly someone for everyone, although what about those poor guys with micro penis...?

My wife dumped a guy who was 4-5", although didn't tell him why of course...I know if I was much less than my 7+", she likely wouldn't be satisfied... I can barely reach her "O" spot as it is.

[DDs_sltwf]

From my (female) perspective I'm aware visually he wants bigger, it's what he likes to see.

But for my own personal pleasure? Dick size matters WAY less than performance.
To this day one of the best lays I ever had was from a dude with a 4" dick.
I've bedded somewhere around 50 guys, of them I'd *maybe* willingly repeat 5-10 of them TOPS.
My husband's 5" and Mr 4" both make my top 3.

Get it hard, KEEP it hard, stamina, rhythm- these things are more important than size all day long

Nice to hear feedback from a smaller size fan, there is truly someone for everyone, although what about those poor guys with micro penis...?

My wife dumped a guy who was 4-5", although didn't tell him why of course...I know if I was much less than my 7+", she likely wouldn't be satisfied... I can barely reach her "O" spot as it is.

Micropenis I can't do I HAVE tried but like....I'm not doing it for me
The one person I knew married to someone with a microp got divorced....and that was DEFINITELY part of the reason.
I think those guys should probably all have hotwives or marry ace leaning folks

[thebeginner]

IMO it matters for threesome selection. I finally convinced the wife to have a threesome, and when she posted her first ad what do you think she asked for as part of her criteria? An endowed man. I didn't prompt her. I'm on the small side of average, 5.5inch. So, when the wife goes looking for a FWB with 7+, it obviously matters.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum thebeginner.

[I_watch_Mermaids]

My wife doesn't factor it in. Honestly, she doesn't care the size, as long as he can get her off. Her criteria is basically, he's gotta be a large man so she feels diminutive next to him, and not be an asshole.

ME, however, I wanna see her pussy get stretched with a thick cock. So I guess it's MY criteria! LOL and I"m not in any way bi, or gay or anything. I want her to experience different sex than my 6" cock will provide. I'm thick at the base, but I wanna watch a thick end to end cock railing her. We have a dildo that is quite girthy, and it gets her off nicely, so that is what I want for her. And she is happy to go along with my wishes! ;-)

[Des 31]

My wife has encountered a few men who are more sizeable, but she has never sought out men with that advantage. The truth is that super-size dicks are actually rather rare. From remarks left here by others, size is the paramount concern of some women, but I don't that's as common for most women as many men seem to think.

[matthewscott77]

I think we all love to see our vixens with a big cock. But when it comes to the pleasure that my soulmate gets, cock size is a non issue. I’ve seen her cum over and over from smaller cocks and from bigger cocks. A big cock is never a prerequisite for a threesome or solo play.

[Greggg]

How to erase this? I don't see how

[Greggg]

Well, from my experience, which is limited to my ex-wife of many years ago, I always had a preference for cut and thicker penises. Her preference was cut and a nice mushroom head. Not muffin top. We cant cut off the rest and have only the mushroom top. (Horrible dad joke as my kids would say. But I saw the chance to make you smile and I took it) (I was imaging the Seinfeld episode about the muffin tops. Hope you saw it)
She was really more into attraction both personality and look. But personality was the big thing. We all realize that infatuation is what drives a new relationship. It could be chemical reaction (a real thing) or maybe he reminded her of someone special from the past.
About size. Would a 9 inch tongue make up for a 4" cock? I think so. Don't forget there are many other means of getting her over the top. In fact many of the others work her clit better than a big dick. Watch the films. She is usually rubbing her clit even with the that big dick working on her. There are toys that we can(could) use. Tongues, fingers, smells or whatever triggers her mind. But most of all, it's a guy who uses his head and finds what is working and what isn't. Also communicate. Ask how that feels and what feels best while your pleasuring her.

[Tryagain]

Are there any other hotwives who have the need to feel something very deep - that it hits a "spot" that she craves? it reminds me of the movie deep throat where the gal had a clit in her throat so she needed to throat a very big cock to get off. Maybe my wife's clit is located in the
back of he pussy :-)

[CU4A2on1]

My wife has two long term sex partners. One smaller and one huge in cock size. She enjoys them both and they each make her cum multiple times in a session. As far as threesomes, her big cocked friend gets a little gun shy with me there and sometimes struggles to perform but that’s in his head, not related to his cock.

[Des 31]

In my and my wife's opinions, couples seeking only men with extra-large penises is usually a losing game. My wife has encountered some, but those are few. Most men who have fucked here are around six inches, give or take a bit. She has found almost all to be exciting adventures. Her preferences are men with who she feels compatible.

[Very Hot Wife]

On our second ever meet with a single guy he produced a huge dick, serious porn star size. We didn't plan it that way as he didn't mention it before we met him.

It really wouldn't have made any difference if he had, Becky was attracted to him before they got naked.

As someone mentioned earlier, when it comes to him giving her pleasure, it's all about what is attached to the dick. It doesn't matter to her whether he has 4" or 8", it's what he does with it.

Becky got chatting to a guy a few months ago on the net and we arranged to meet. No photos exchanged and no real details either. When we met up, we discovered that he was 85 years old and quite athletic for his years...!

He wanted a young woman and Becky was over 30 years younger than him. She decided it would be somewhat kinky to fuck a guy of his age. So they did and both thoroughly enjoyed it.

The point I'm making is that for us, it's quite irrelevant to choose a guy purely based on his size.

The real buzz is that it's a different dick going inside her pussy and not the one she's used to.

If he's 18 or 85, it's still a different dick and that does it for us.

[DCaftermath]

I have to be honest here. I am not small but not huge. When my wife and I started having sex she referred to my size as impressive, she said, “you are crossing the bridge to the other side”. It was a compliment but not one that would go to my head. But though my size can get the job done, I don’t have to be careful, I can have at it, she can take more. So when I shop for a man for her I look for guys on the other side of that bridge. Ones that can challenge her. We do this only on a blue moon so big cock she gets when we order out. She never complains.

[Gavriloprincep]

I think the hand/glove theory explains it best. In healthcare, surgeons have a glove size. A large glove needs a large hand. If the hand is too big, its tight and the glove is stretched. If its too small, it swims in the glove. My partner has had previous lovers that were too small in her glove, or too big in her glove where it was frankly painful and they couldnt "bottom out'. There is a sweet spot that fills and rubs all the right spots. The point to make: find the hand that fits your glove.

[Hotwifevt]

I find this topic interesting and I really enjoyed comments from the ladies in the group! My hubby LOVES big cocks, it’s definitely his kink. And, I think it’s a kink for a lot of men. I get turned on by his arousal over them. But, to be honest, as a seasoned Hotwife, my main focus is connection. Women are far more interested in feelings, emotions and connection than cocks. I do enjoy a larger than average cock on occasion, but only if there’s an established connection.

In the 3 way scenario, it depends on what you are all looking for in that particular situation, do you want to watch your hotwife with her lover or do you want to join in on the experience? DP is sooooo unbelievably HOT and is only possible when both men are average sized. There is some flexibility when both aren’t well endowed.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Hotwifevt.

[gulfcpl]

My wife likes a decent size but the main factor is hardness and stamina. She’s had some average or below that are rock hard and they really rock her world. As always, girth is more important than length. If she isn’t filled, she isn’t satisfied.

[dcwashington999]

She doesn't care about penis size as long as it isn't micro and isn't massive. She doesn't like them longer than 8" because they hurt her stomach. Too small isn't any fun either. She love them between 4-8". 6-7" is ideal.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum dcwashington999

[kaskap79]

For 2 of the Hotwives I see, my penis is the same size as their husbands.

For 1 of the Hotwives, the size matters. I am smaller than her husband and we can do positions that hurt her when she is with her husbond.

For the last 2, I am the only man they are together with, so size does not matter, they are married to each other.

[Tryagain]

On our second ever meet with a single guy he produced a huge dick, serious porn star size. We didn't plan it that way as he didn't mention it before we met him.

It really wouldn't have made any difference if he had, Becky was attracted to him before they got naked.

As someone mentioned earlier, when it comes to him giving her pleasure, it's all about what is attached to the dick. It doesn't matter to her whether he has 4" or 8", it's what he does with it.

Becky got chatting to a guy a few months ago on the net and we arranged to meet. No photos exchanged and no real details either. When we met up, we discovered that he was 85 years old and quite athletic for his years...!

He wanted a young woman and Becky was over 30 years younger than him. She decided it would be somewhat kinky to fuck a guy of his age. So they did and both thoroughly enjoyed it.

The point I'm making is that for us, it's quite irrelevant to choose a guy purely based on his size.

The real buzz is that it's a different dick going inside her pussy and not the one she's used to.

If he's 18 or 85, it's still a different dick and that does it for us.

Gee...it would interesting to know how she felt about being with that hung guy.

[Tryagain]

For 2 of the Hotwives I see, my penis is the same size as their husbands.

For 1 of the Hotwives, the size matters. I am smaller than her husband and we can do positions that hurt her when she is with her husbond.

For the last 2, I am the only man they are together with, so size does not matter, they are married to each other.

May i ask how hung you are that you can hurt her with your penis?