Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

[cpl4whoknows]

Yep, hate it. I have no desire to empower someone to be the dominant figure. I experience pleasure in watching my GF experience pleasure and helping her maximize her life experience. SHE is the focus of the energy and attention. However, I’m not into a lot of the dynamics of cuckolding so some of those terms and practices don’t serve me. I’m not about allowing some bond to develop between my wife and another man and I have no interest in her “dating” other men. That’s not because I’m jealous but because we’re human and those naturally developing bonds can create unnecessary issues for everyone and keeping the lines clean is best IMO. For me, it’s all about the sexual and hedonistic experience, the “bull” should actually be called the “prop” as far as I’m concerned because that’s essentially what he is. For me, a real man can be selflessly serving without compromising one’s “dominance” or ego.

[Outlaw]

In my opinion, cucks come to this category to engage. Why else. I don't go to the cuck category and engage.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum cpl4whoknows.

[cb1982]

Agree the term "bull" makes me cringe. When my GF and I look for guys for a MFM/MMF threesome, we generally seek out men who are handsome, fit, educated, white collar professionals who have class. Calling them "a bull" reduces them (and the experience) down to a farm animal with no impulse control.

[NJFWB]

We used to hate it. Used to be an automatic disqualifier. Now if someone uses the term bull in their profile or their introduction, we just politely tell them we prefer the term FWB. Just because someone is a “bull” for a cuck couple doesn’t mean they can’t be a FWB for us. We play all different sorts of roles with each other in the bedroom.

[MermaidHotwife]

Vixen/HW here, and I don’t prefer the term either. My husband calls him my boyfriend, I refer to him as my +1, my dom, play partner, but I think I’d prefer to call him my lover. I haven’t decided yet.

[I_watch_Mermaids]

Lately I've been referring to him as a buck.

[zorro]

We are also turned off by the label "bull." We are an egalitarian couple that has no room for guys who wants to take over the herd and have all the females for himself. We want someone we can feel equal respect for and feel respected by. When i read it, my first thought automatically goes to "newbie" or "poser," someone who doesn't understand our lifestyle.

Our preferred names for play partners have been "extra guy," "play date," "bed partner," and for the ones where there is fondness, "dear heart."

[CabanaLife]

We too dont use the term BULL. For a guy to refer to himself as a Bull, seems a bit self aggrandizing and arrogant. Neither are qualities we seek in a man we would like joining us. I guess if your looking for a true cuck scenario, a Bull may fit the requirement. But thats not us.

[Des 31]

In a cuck way, I guess it may fit. I openly share my wife but bull implies we're not man enough to get it up.

Neither my wife nor I use that term but I wouldn't be bothered by it if she did. (Most) words are just words to get across one's intentions or meaning. I suppose in the minds of most at this site that her guys are "bulls," but the word just isn't in our ordinary vocabulary.

[out_of_ideas]

Neither my wife nor I like the term bull and think it's funny when guys ask if we need a bull. Normall follow-up is, What's a bull?

[curiousccouple]

A rose by any other name.....Hey man, it's your trip, don't worry about defining labels. Just enjoy.

[Izzy2]

Cucks have their own thread. Just because I am open minded on sharing, I don't want to hear about letting a bull piss on me or licking cock snot up. Categories more so than rules.

[oldgeneroushot]

Nellie is not a cow and does not have BULLs. She is shared not owned and has boyfriends or friends she dates. We are in this together and love the life for the good guys she meets and enjoys. The sex is wonderful but having a good guy who she enjoys before, during and after is so important too.

[WifeLovesToPlay]

My wife and I never use that term.

[concasy]

I dislike the term 'Bull'. Lots of reasons but main one is- its ridiculous...

[Leevale01]

I dislike the term. I'd rather be called lover or boyfriend.

[Countrycouple]

No your not. My wife and I both hate that term and don’t really use any special term for her partners.

[Lugnut]

We hate it. If it's on a profile we ignore said profile. Plus most guy's haven't a clue what it means anyway.

Same for us. Any guy who calls himself that is never gonna see my hotwife's pussy.

[Dee+Bee99]

Agreed. It sounds ridiculous to us. We have always just used the simple term "playmates" for the other men when it comes up in discussion.

[Tank Turner]

My OPINION is the noun "bull" is pejorative. It conjures a woman bred like a farm animal, not enjoying physical euphoria of sex. However, it appears to be the accepted noun for cucks who rely on other men to fuck their wives.

I usually give monikers to men who've fucked my wife that convey positive experiences; e.g., Security Clearance, Super Stud (his cock seemed to never go limp), Romeo, etc. We call our longtime friend by his real first name.

[BeenAround]

I've been off OHW for a while, but in reviewing this thread I love the term "House Friend" mentioned by @kaskap79 back in April. Brilliant! And suits my own take on how I enjoy relating to a HW and her husband/bf.

[weplayfit]

We too strongly dislike the term Bull. The inferences it denotes does not refer to our agreements or what gets us going.

[snoogaloo82]

We too strongly dislike the term Bull. The inferences it denotes does not refer to our agreements or what gets us going.

I don't mind the term at all. Afterall it's just a name that describes exactly what kind of guy he is. lol

[Caribwaters]

Hate that term. Feel it would be very degrading if used to describe any oof my wife's lovers. All of her relationships with other men have been the result of the guys first being "friends", co-workers or her bosses. Most were fairly long term relationships. Has never advertised, gone to a club or picked up a stranger, so the term Bull we feel lacks respect in reference to the guys she enjoyed.