Keeping Count

[Tank Turner]

Would it matter how many guys your wife has fucked?

I've never asked my wife how many guys she's fucked. She voluntarily told me that she was very active before she met me. She never gave me a tally. I've never asked for one.

I'm sure my wife knows exactly how many men she's fucked.

My wife is in to euphoric experiences. She'll remember incredible sex with she had with guys. She tries to forget bad sex she's had. She doesn't care about numbers. Neither do I.

[kellycuckoldsmark]

We keep a spreadsheet and details the who, where and what she did with them. She used to give them a score but has stopped doing that.

We have details of 47 men and 16 women. All but one of the women were in 3sums with their husband. Doesn't count obviously those she has seen more than once.

Fun to look through the spreadsheet and remember some of those encounters with her! Thx for the thread.

[Hotwife_Haylee]

My husband maintains an excel spreadsheet of my adventures.

Columns include things like names (or vague description if I did not get - or cannot remember - a name), new or repeat cock/pussy, creampies, brief description of the adventure, and duration.

He has a running total for the number of creampies I've received, new cocks and pussy I play with, and number of satisfied returning gentlemen.

[Mr Kook]

My cuter half and I have been together ~12yrs and in the swing game from day one. We met via the LS, her a near newb, me having been fortunate enough to have been introduced to hotwife fun at age 24 (33yrs ago) and never looking back. During our early days she loved hearing my tales of debauchery, they made for great foreplay and planted the seed of suggestion for what eventually became scenarios we brought to fruition. One night, with the wine flowing, we started talking numbers and compiling, verbally, our list. Pretty soon the pen and paper came out, starting at our first adventure with a couple. Once we tallied up our list, and realized we were likely the sluttiest (errrr, most open-minded) couple in our tiny town, she asked me to make my own list. It got embarrassing, but also very arousing, and the term Manwhore may have been used.

I really like Hotwife_Haylee's post! One of these nights we'll dig out that paper list (it's under lock and key in our NSFK tickle trunk) and create our own XXX spreadsheet.

[Lugnut]

I tried keeping a spreadsheet of our/her adventures. After an encounter I'd enter the who/where/when, but found it to be kinda boring compared to the fun we'd just had so I eventually abandoned it. Probably a good thing; I'd probably be shocked at the number of dicks she's had over the years.

[Magellanic29]

My husband maintains an excel spreadsheet of my adventures.

Columns include things like names (or vague description if I did not get - or cannot remember - a name), new or repeat cock/pussy, creampies, brief description of the adventure, and duration.

He has a running total for the number of creampies I've received, new cocks and pussy I play with, and number of satisfied returning gentlemen.

That is super hot would love to see that spread sheet.

[Hotwifejoy]

I have kept count for the past 5 years...noting everything from the number of times I orgasmed, the sexual positions, whether he fucked me bareback, if he came inside me, where we played....and anything else that was memorable....helps me remember the session, as I am now up to over 50 experiences and 30+ guys....I also find the sheer number exciting, as I never thought I would have so many experiences...

[Johnann2227]

We started dating when I was 19 and Ann was 18. We both had been with a few of lovers before meeting. When were were 21 and 20 were began swinging. Before we had kids we would swing weekly and sometimes both Friday and Saturday nights. We have now been married for 22 years and swinging for 25. In that time we have been to countless orgies, swinger parties and clubs, Hedo2, and had an open marriage. For her last 4 birthdays Ann has had a gangbang (6 guys including me) to celebrate. We don't know how many guys she has slept with but it would be 300+
and well over 200 girls. I am proud of my wife!

[Nunky2908]

It reminds me of a time when travelling abroad to a conference I ended up sitting next to a delightful older lady who, during the course of our conversation, casually opened her legs to let me have a full view of her pussy which was beautifully smooth with lovely, meaty lips.
I remember saying to her that it looked good enough to eat and she replied that if I wanted to I could. We repaired to my room and I dived in head first and it tasted divine.
Coming up for air i said that i would have thought that fair number of cocks had been in there and fully expected to get slapped or something. She just smiled and said "Yes. A few hundred. I lost count years ago. Now put yours in there".
For an older lady she was very energetic and flexible.

[warmnsalty]

We keep a vase on a coffee table half filled with decorative rock. We have had a few comments on it. Only we know that each rock in the vase represents a different man or woman we have had sex with. The vase easily holds over 200 rocks so we probably don't need a larger vase for a few years.

LOVE this idea, I lost count after 20 with Mrs Warm but think I might Guestimate and start this tradition now that things are loosening up and we're looking to get her back in the saddle this summer.

Mrs is fully back on her game and I estimated her number before she started up. We have a small clear vase on the fireplace mantle. I'm using marbles. Clear one for general cocks, black one for black cocks, red for girls and silver ones for special memorable guys. Current count 43, mostly clear. Thanks for the idea VegasHW

[Cornudo1960]

I gave my wife an anklet with colored beads representing the numbers for instance red was 100, green 50, yellow 25, blue 10, and black 1. She was an escort for a while so her numbers were pretty high and it did not include repeats only new cocks fucking her.

[SensualDeviant]

I would love to keep a scorecard of how many guys my HW fucks - kinda like how many planes a fighter ace has shot down. I'm thinking a necklace, keychain trinket, bracelet, etc. that has a way to keep count.

I'd love it if there was a way to not only keep count of each new guy but also keep count of total dates with each guy.

Has anyone on here done that or have suggestions?

I don't like tattoos on women, but perhaps you could incorporate "caveman counting" tally marks: four lines and a slash. Someone below mentioned using a sharpie, perhaps on special occasions.

[Tank Turner]

Three lies women will tell"

Their age
Their weight
The number of men they've fucked

[SensualDeviant]

Three lies women will tell"

Their age
Their weight
The number of men they've fucked

This crowd actively encourages honesty, though. Perhaps women just need some reassurance and erotic coaxing.

[HappilyShared]

When #6 and I got together and between rounds during our third night of Enthusiastic Fucking she asked me how many women I had been With ... She already knew about her predecessors #1 thru #5 and since she knew and worked with #5 I was guessing they had discussed 5's and my relationship. I calculated the 11 girls 5 and I had shared, added a conservative number from my past and gave her the answer of 37. She immediately rolled her eyes as if Not Believing me, Took My Cock in her Mouth and gave me, up to that point in time, her Best BlowJob. She swallowed and breathlessly asked "How Many Were Better than That" '??? I answered Truthfully and would have Sworn So on a Stack of Bibles, None. #6 has a Mouth and Throat made of Velvet and I Enjoy her Enthusiastic Mouth SO Much I Seldom Fuck Her, but LOVE to Watch Her Fuck ... At some point weeks later she asked Why I never asked of her Experience ... My Reply of "Didn't Ask, Don't Care" made her HHHHrrruuummmppphhh and say "Just as a YFI, I have worked at 3 hospitals and in Any One Week I would have at least Doubled Your Number.

[Blackjack4724]

We keep a vase on a coffee table half filled with decorative rock. We have had a few comments on it. Only we know that each rock in the vase represents a different man or woman we have had sex with. The vase easily holds over 200 rocks so we probably don't need a larger vase for a few years.

LOVE this idea, I lost count after 20 with Mrs Warm but think I might Guestimate and start this tradition now that things are loosening up and we're looking to get her back in the saddle this summer.

Years ago, I kept a Jack Daniels bottle in my closet. Everytime I fucked a new guy i would add a penny to the jar. I kept that bottle for over five years I estimate. Then I got curious one day and poured them all out and rolled them up. At that time I rolled up $4.60 in Penny’s. So 460 Penny’s. That was about 10 years ago so I know I’m way past the slut level even back then let alone now.
-Tammy

[OZCPL]

My Number1 used to keep count way back, but he got overwhelmed .

Well done Farmgirl good for you guys

[zenguy04]

I've not really counted, but she's had more sex we me and with different guys since being married to me than she did when she was single or during her first marriage.

[Iahotwifeshusband]

We keep a vase on a coffee table half filled with decorative rock. We have had a few comments on it. Only we know that each rock in the vase represents a different man or woman we have had sex with. The vase easily holds over 200 rocks so we probably don't need a larger vase for a few years.

LOVE this idea, I lost count after 20 with Mrs Warm but think I might Guestimate and start this tradition now that things are loosening up and we're looking to get her back in the saddle this summer.

Years ago, I kept a Jack Daniels bottle in my closet. Everytime I fucked a new guy i would add a penny to the jar. I kept that bottle for over five years I estimate. Then I got curious one day and poured them all out and rolled them up. At that time I rolled up $4.60 in Penny’s. So 460 Penny’s. That was about 10 years ago so I know I’m way past the slut level even back then let alone now.
-Tammy

I would love to add a penny to your bottle of Jack! Love hearing about your adventures!

[isinlarsa]

My girlfriend kept count in her calendar. She made up a different symbol for each man who fucked her. I happened to look at her calendar and noticed the cryptic symbols. She told me when I asked her, and even pointed out the symbol she had created for me. After that I would look in her calendar to keep track of her sexual activities, and note when there was a new symbol. It really made me hot when I would see two or even three symbols on a day.

[FiveInchLullaby]

Three lies women will tell"

Their age
Their weight
The number of men they've fucked

I don’t know about most women, but my wife has been very open - and quite proud - about the number of men she’s been with.

She knows how much it turns me on and during sex, she’ll often remind me, saying things like, “don’t you love knowing that 30 black cocks have been inside your wife?” Or when I fill her up, she will remind me that almost every man she’s fucked has cum inside of her.

I love it! And so does my wife…

[Tank Turner]

Hi FiveInchLullaby,

Women should not be made to feel regret about their sex lives.

My wife and I have always have had open, honest, and nonjudgmental conversations about everything including sex. She knows she is completely comfortable and secure telling me everything and anything. If she can't trust me, whom could she trust. Vice versa is also true.

Not all men are like us. Many women lie out of necessity. They fear their husbands' reactions if they knew about their wives sexual histories. My wife has girlfriends who have lied to their husbands out of fear of angering them because of their sexual histories.

None of us could have experienced one-night-stands unless women were willing participants. I've never entertained a thought about women who had one-night-stands.

[Tank Turner]

The last sentence of my last post was meant to convey that I've never made negative judgments about women who've had one-nigh-stands. They were what drunk college kids did.

[Toots2310]

I used to simply jot down the names on a large piece of paper, stopped after 81 names, would guess it’s around 100 by now

[Johnann2227]

Hi FiveInchLullaby,

Women should not be made to feel regret about their sex lives.

My wife and I have always have had open, honest, and nonjudgmental conversations about everything including sex. She knows she is completely comfortable and secure telling me everything and anything. If she can't trust me, whom could she trust. Vice versa is also true.

Not all men are like us. Many women lie out of necessity. They fear their husbands' reactions if they knew about their wives sexual histories. My wife has girlfriends who have lied to their husbands out of fear of angering them because of their sexual histories.

None of us could have experienced one-night-stands unless women were willing participants. I've never entertained a thought about women who had one-night-stands.

Well said. I know blokes who get nasty when they are drunk about how many guys their wives fucked before they met. I have a mate who doesn't even let his wife have a vibrator as he sees it as a slight on his sexual prowess!
I suppose we are just wired differently. I celebrate my wifes voracious sexual appetite. I get off seeing her getting fucked. I love to hear her tell me about past lovers when I fuck her. None of what she does is a threat to our marriage.