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I've been toying with some templates for "Pleasure Cards" for my hotwife/vixen to carry with her when she is out alone or on a girls night out. They are far from a finished product, just in the a planning type phase at the moment. Anyone every thought of doing this?

You'll have to say more. What are pleasure cards, and what does she do with them?

It's like a business card she would carry with her. If there was someone she would be interested in playing with, she would give him one of the cards. We call them pleasure cards. Unfortunately, unable to post photos of them as I don't have them uploaded to any site to point to...

My HW and I have had cards for years (we update them every couple of years). We have our couple's card, and each has a solo card. We include our pic, contact info (we have email addresses just for LS contacts) and a space for our room number when we are at a LS event.

We order them from VistaPrint (quantities are up to you and pricing is pretty good). You can do it all online, including adding your pic (so they don't forget who gave them the card) and whatever info you wish to include.

They are great to hand out at meet and greets or to slip to someone who you think might be interested.

We've had quite a few and honestly never found use for it, no appropriate situation. But making them was pretty fun.

We found them useful when meeting multiple people over a relatively short period. At M&G's or on a LS cruise or LS event, where there are really too many people to remember all of their names, let alone there contact info.

As I mentioned, we leave a blank space on where to find us, so that we can write our room number or cabin number. It makes it easier for potential playmates to find us again either at the event, or online.

I usually order about 250 of them at each order. There is something to be said for casting a wide net, especially in a target rich environment.

My HW has her own calling cards with her contact info and she takes them with her when she is expecting to be in an area with guys she might fancy. It makes an impression on the guys who know that she is obviously serious about being available for play.

We got some made to hand out to guys that we meet at parties, just to those we want to stay in touch with or look promising for a future meet. They have our contact details of course, but just our swingers' email and Kik address, nothing that's too personal. We've used them occasionally, not a great deal. My wife carries them in her handbag at these parties.

RedVixenStagCpl2019 wrote: ↑

Sun Sep 12, 2021 4:43 am

I've been toying with some templates for "Pleasure Cards" for my hotwife/vixen to carry with her when she is out alone or on a girls night out. They are far from a finished product, just in the a planning type phase at the moment. Anyone every thought of doing this?

I once bought a box of 100 for my wife but she doesn't use them, still sitting in a bedside table drawer. She often passes out her business cards for work reasons and a few years ago ended up in bed with a couple of guys who called her cell phone after hours.

The hotwife cards were part of a birthday gift, but I could have saved the money if I had asked before buying them if she would actually pass out the cards. She said her concern is that someone she knows from work or social contacts might come across one of those and see her name on it.

Des 31 wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 13, 2021 3:57 pm

RedVixenStagCpl2019 wrote: ↑

Sun Sep 12, 2021 4:43 am

I've been toying with some templates for "Pleasure Cards" for my hotwife/vixen to carry with her when she is out alone or on a girls night out. They are far from a finished product, just in the a planning type phase at the moment. Anyone every thought of doing this?

I once bought a box of 100 for my wife but she doesn't use them, still sitting in a bedside table drawer. She often passes out her business cards for work reasons and a few years ago ended up in bed with a couple of guys who called her cell phone after hours.

The hotwife cards were part of a birthday gift, but I could have saved the money if I had asked before buying them if she would actually pass out the cards. She said her concern is that someone she knows from work or social contacts might come across one of those and see her name on it.

Ours have no real names on them. Her nickname is Red Vixen and that's what we use.

mcauleys wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 13, 2021 3:55 am

We got some made to hand out to guys that we meet at parties, just to those we want to stay in touch with or look promising for a future meet. They have our contact details of course, but just our swingers' email and Kik address, nothing that's too personal. We've used them occasionally, not a great deal. My wife carries them in her handbag at these parties.

That what we use them for and have the same, an email address and a Kik account.

We have had cards for years. My vixen was a part time escort and got quite a lot of business and fun over the years. I have used mine at swingers parties and received some great future dates. Pre Covid we would go to swinger parties or arranged play dates once a month. The cards extended the contacts for us. I both were able to have some wonderful separate dates as the people we met knew we were very serious about fucking again. She has used them at bars and concerts o great success.

richkathy96003 wrote: ↑

Sat Sep 18, 2021 4:05 am

We have had cards for years. My vixen was a part time escort and got quite a lot of business and fun over the years. I have used mine at swingers parties and received some great future dates. Pre Covid we would go to swinger parties or arranged play dates once a month. The cards extended the contacts for us. I both were able to have some wonderful separate dates as the people we met knew we were very serious about fucking again. She has used them at bars and concerts o great success.

Very nice. My wife intends on using them when we go to swinger's clubs, swinger's parties, or just when she finds someone she would love to hook up with.

Yes, they will work well. When you are in the excitement of a swingers party you forget lots as you play. They get you lots of follow up calls the coming weeks. They have been great for both of us. More for 1on1’s for her and cuck couples for me.

A couple I played with had cards and the wife gave me one after our adventure so I could contact her directly. The card is is still in my travel bag and hopefully our paths will align again when I am in their area.

A couple I played with had cards and the wife gave me one after our adventure so I could contact her directly. The card is is still in my travel bag and hopefully our paths will align again when I am in their area.

richkathy96003 wrote: ↑

Sun Sep 19, 2021 3:20 am

Yes, they will work well. When you are in the excitement of a swingers party you forget lots as you play. They get you lots of follow up calls the coming weeks. They have been great for both of us. More for 1on1’s for her and cuck couples for me.

Yes that is what we figure as well. Plus she has something to provide someone she is interested in when she is out alone.

Maybe a slightly different idea or even an addition to what you are proposing? How about a QR code?

You can easily add a "contact" in your contact database that has say a kik account name, some other info etc. On android if you go in and click on the ellipsis "more" you can bring up a QR code of that contact info.

All a wife has to do is say, "Hey got a camera? Take a picture of this."

With Covid they are all over the place now and so many people know how to use them. Even if you had cards printed up, you can put the code on the back. When people ask for my business card, I always offer them this as an alternative, and once it's in their phone? It doesn't get lost like a card.

My wife had cards made a couple of years ago. They contain a non-face sexy photo, her “hotwife” email address, her personal cell phone number and her SLS name. It also contains a short definition of the term “hotwife” and the catchy phrase we all have seen: “It’s not cheating if your husband is watching”.

She gives them to men she meets at M&G events, house parties, swinger clubs, etc. and to select men who flirt with her at the mall, grocery store, etc.

It’s surprising how many men gave been so shocked that they don’t know how to react to receiving a card. But the cards have easily resulted in her getting a new cock at least four or five times!

we don't have cards, instead we each have slides I made for our phones that we use mostly at bars to find men to fuck her. Hers are designed to tease, alure, and show she is interested in having sex with a guy. Her slides also explain that I am wanting to watch her having sex with other guys. My slides are in a for of invitation that I show men to see if they will fuck my wife while I watch.

I built a app for her phone in case she has a hard time deciding on a guy to fuck her. She inputs a few things and it will decide on which guy that she/we met that night to have fuck her. To make it more fun the app could tell her to ask two, three, or all of them. Funny, the last time it said all of them, there were 5 guys and only two took us up on fucking her, it would have been a fun gangbang.

It's interesting how each couple does this.
Farmgirl just inputs her number in their phone, with the comment to text sometime.

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Mon May 22, 2023 6:35 am

It's interesting how each couple does this.
Farmgirl just inputs her number in their phone, with the comment to text sometime.

RedVixenStagCpl2019 wrote: ↑

Sun Sep 12, 2021 4:43 am

I've been toying with some templates for "Pleasure Cards" for my hotwife/vixen to carry with her when she is out alone or on a girls night out. They are far from a finished product, just in the a planning type phase at the moment. Anyone every thought of doing this?

We thought about doing this for when my wife was out with vanilla friends and finding it difficult to openly chat with guys she was interested in. In the end she used her business card from her singing days that had a pretty hot picture of her. They worked really well and and some of her vanilla friends even joked that they looked like an escorts business card.