Off limits acts

[Bryce 69]

cupcake analogy how laughable
little caged cucks should not join a conversation with Stags or Bulls
they need to be restricted from feedback by their mistresses from any forum that is not addressing there crowd maybe she should add a ball gag and restrain their hands so they can not type ?

[Deeperlove1369]

Jesus....some of these responses....not shaming anyone's kink, I just couldn't play that way.

We have quite the opposite dynamic here.

Most BDSM activities are off limits to her toys.

She asks permission first.

She calls me Sir.

When texting about her toys, she uses a lowercase "h" for him and uppercase for me.

They may hang out and have a drink or bite to eat before sex, but after sex, she leaves immediately and comes home.

She tells me what she enjoyed and says "thank you."

I get whatever I want, whenever I want, while staying respectable and in bounds.

I approve all play partners.

This is why we kinda fell away from this forum, but I still peek in from time to time. To us at least, the Stag/vixen thing is defined by Dominant male / submissive female. With cuck / HW being the opposite. But dynamics like ours seem to be few and far between.

Ditto my friend, I hold nothing back from her, she holds nothing back from me. My wife and I are #1 and #3 gets nothing I don't get. I suppose if she liked something he liked and I didn't, that with be ok, but if my wife is into it, I most assuredly will be into it as well. Personally I don't get that a #3 (can't stand the term 'Bull') gets to do stuff with the wife the husband is not allowed to do, to each his own, not this guy.

[Deeperlove1369]

Bull....using that term

100%! We can't stand that term.

[Deeperlove1369]

I am allowed to eat my wife's pussy but am cut off from penetrative sex. She gives penetrative sex to her lovers but will suck them to completion if penetrative sex isn't is not possible at that moment. She has never sucked me to completion.

Sounds like you're a cuckold.

100%, he's in the wrong forum.

[Deeperlove1369]

My wife let's majority of her bulls cum inside her. I am no longer allowed to. Also, her current bull fucks her ass and cums in it. My wife was never into anal. But with this bull, she cannot stop herself

Off limits should be dictated by both the husband and the wife mutually. If you are ok with your situation, you are not Stag & Vixen, you are a cuckold. If you are not ok with it, you are a cuckold with humiliation. If my wife ever did something with another man and did not "allow" me to do, that would be an abrupt end to our Hotwife journey.

[Deeperlove1369]

It works in reverse for us. I get everything her FBs get, but she will only kiss me. Says I’m the only man she’s kissed in 34 years, and she doesn’t want to change that

Agreed, although that's not 'in reverse', that is the norm. The only off limits is what the husband and wife say the #3 cannot do.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Deeperlove1369.

[Deeperlove1369]

Welcome to the forum Deeperlove1369.

Thank you Armyguy!

[lookingiansa]

Isn't that the truth rare to have hw submissive to her man and not try to do the FLR thing.

But your better than I am my ex when together her pussy ass off limits most she could suck that's all. I know am selfish possessive of what's mine.

Jesus....some of these responses....not shaming anyone's kink, I just couldn't play that way.

We have quite the opposite dynamic here.

Most BDSM activities are off limits to her toys.

She asks permission first.

She calls me Sir.

When texting about her toys, she uses a lowercase "h" for him and uppercase for me.

They may hang out and have a drink or bite to eat before sex, but after sex, she leaves immediately and comes home.

She tells me what she enjoyed and says "thank you."

I get whatever I want, whenever I want, while staying respectable and in bounds.

I approve all play partners.

This is why we kinda fell away from this forum, but I still peek in from time to time. To us at least, the Stag/vixen thing is defined by Dominant male / submissive female. With cuck / HW being the opposite. But dynamics like ours seem to be few and far between.

[Tank Turner]

I'm not into anal sex, and my wife is indifferent to it. I much prefer a warm wet pussy or her mouth. She does let other men fuck her ass.

I'm with you. When my wife and I were booty calling each other, she offered anal sex to me. I turned her down. She was incredulous. She said dudes practically begged her for anal sex. She had a lot of anal sex before I met her, but not with every dude who wanted it.

She told me that at best, anal sex was pleasurable. She mostly did it for boyfriends who wanted it. She did emphasize that orgasms were more intense when dudes were fucking her ass while she rubbed out orgasms. She theorized that anal sex put internal pressure on her clit, and when she rubbed out orgasms, that pressure caused orgasms to be more intensive.

I've watched other dudes she let fuck her ass. If she was good I was good.

Our friend, Brad, has the biggest cock she's ever had. Within a few weeks of MFM sex, she let him try having anal sex with her. I doubt that he got two inches of his thick 8 1/2" cock inside of her ass when she stopped him due to pain. Probably 5 months ago, while we were drunk on Coronado Island, my wife was stratospheric horny. She wanted to fuck Brad on the beach at night in front of our hotel with too many people out enjoying a warm evening.

We got her inside of our hotel room. She was naked within seconds. She was close to shitfaced drunk. She told him that he could have anal sex with her. She lubed the shit out of his cock. He prepped her ass by slowly entering two lubricated fingers inside of it. He applied more lube to her ass and slowly began penetrating it. As drunk as she was, her face revealed pain. I have no idea how he managed to go balls deep inside of her ass. She never complained even though I could tell she was uncomfortable. He came inside of her ass pretty quickly. She was sore the following morning. She told him to never again ask her for anal sex. He hasn't.

I'd rather fuck my wife's pussy than cum any other way. I have never turned down one of her mind-blowing blowjobs, but at my age, I can't cum inside of her mouth because after she cums, she wants to be fucked like a porn star. I'd guess that I cum in her mouth at most once a month. When I was younger, she could give me two blowjobs and I'd be able to fuck her twice. Those glory days of sport fucking are long gone. On the flip side, she's more horny now than she's ever been. Women have an enviable sexual advantage over men.

I remember my wife telling me that small dicks were good for only blowjobs and anal sex.

[dinoo]

Are there any sex acts that are off limits to husbands but acceptable for bull? (Ex. Swallowing, anal, bdsm) What are the reasons why they are off limits and are they ever potentially available to husband?
*Reminder* this is not the cuck forum

For us it was quite simple: it was her live so she would decide. A bull had to respect it. Period.

[Carrienlarry]

No kissing

[tailchasers]

We had lots of rules but they slowly faded away as our sexual adventures progressed. Started with no making out, well that didn't last our first year when the Mrs got engrossed in a heavy make out session with one of her preferred lovers. I was dancing with his girlfriend while the Mrs stayed back with him. We came back to the booth only to find them 2 all over each other. She had a thing against men cumming in her mouth which she has yet to do for me until she met this guy with a huge cock that she fell head over heels for. She gobbled his cock up and everything else he gave her. We had to play in the same room, well she disappeared at a party only for me to find her on a sofa riding her buck. The biggest was no anal. She got to know this guy who was a small build with an average cock and was hard, very hard all the time. Drove the Mrs mad his dick was so hard. This one afternoon they were feverishly going at when she calls me to their room asking me to bring a towel and the lube. I didn't think nothing of it since they had been fucking on and off over the entire morning and she's used lube before. This time she was on her back with him holding up her knees and his cock laying on her pussy. She squirted some lube into her hand then rubbed it all over his cock then some on her pussy. He slipped into her with ease then pulled out at her request when she asked me to help spread her ass cheeks. I'ma like ok this is fucking hot. She took his cock in her hand and guided it towards her ass pushing again his cock until his head popped in. He held it there for a bit then pushed the rest of the way in until he was balls deep. Incredible!!! I watched as he fucked her ass and she reeled with pleasure and orgasms after orgasms. He finally looked at her and she instructed him to cum in her ass. I watched it balls shrink up and his body spasm as he shot his load in her. He falls out panting and the Mrs stayed in the position other than her legs relaxing. They repeated this 2 more times which included her riding his dick cowgirl with it buried in her ass. I later asked her what that was all about and she stated that when she seen, held his cock, had him inside her pussy, she thought it was the perfect cock for her bum and he was so hard. I love that gal of mine.

[SammySigns]

She is pretty possessive of me, so would get too jealous to have a MFF threeway with me. But she has had several threeways with other couples.

[WatchinginNJ]

While I appreciate trying to keep the varying degrees of the lifestyle separated by forum category, and the gentile reminder of such by the OP. I find the elitist comments made by some members of this section to be absurdly amusing. It's like you've joined a cupcake forum to post in the muffin section. And the moment someone mentions frosting, you immediately lose your shit "there's no frosting on a muffin, get your cupcake ass out of here." Like yes, they shouldn't be talking about frosting in the muffin section, but Jesus Christ. I think those posters hate the reminder that despite wanting to seem different or better... they're still just another kind of fucking cupcake.

well said

The problem is, cuck's think everyone is cupcakes, meanwhile we may all be desert but Stag and Vixen consider ourselves pie. One is single serve, and the other is meant to be shared. It maybe a creampie, it maybe chocolate tart, etc. But I don't care if you have some of my pie, and I'm sharing it with you.

Cuckolding and "Stag/vixen" are fundamentally different. Cuckolding at its essence is a form of BDSM. They're masochists. Stag/vixen are really more voyeur/exhibitionism. The venn diagram overlaps a little, but not as much as cucks like to think.

[Cgb29]

While I appreciate trying to keep the varying degrees of the lifestyle separated by forum category, and the gentile reminder of such by the OP. I find the elitist comments made by some members of this section to be absurdly amusing. It's like you've joined a cupcake forum to post in the muffin section. And the moment someone mentions frosting, you immediately lose your shit "there's no frosting on a muffin, get your cupcake ass out of here." Like yes, they shouldn't be talking about frosting in the muffin section, but Jesus Christ. I think those posters hate the reminder that despite wanting to seem different or better... they're still just another kind of fucking cupcake.

well said

The problem is, cuck's think everyone is cupcakes, meanwhile we may all be desert but Stag and Vixen consider ourselves pie. One is single serve, and the other is meant to be shared. It maybe a creampie, it maybe chocolate tart, etc. But I don't care if you have some of my pie, and I'm sharing it with you.

Cuckolding and "Stag/vixen" are fundamentally different. Cuckolding at its essence is a form of BDSM. They're masochists. Stag/vixen are really more voyeur/exhibitionism. The venn diagram overlaps a little, but not as much as cucks like to think.

I think the thing that would serve everyone well to remember is that to those outside this lifestyle, absolutely 100% of the men who post here about sharing their wives are cucks. It's easy to act macho here, but everyone would be quite humbled if this discussion was taken to the street.

[lisamyhotwife]

While I appreciate trying to keep the varying degrees of the lifestyle separated by forum category, and the gentile reminder of such by the OP. I find the elitist comments made by some members of this section to be absurdly amusing. It's like you've joined a cupcake forum to post in the muffin section. And the moment someone mentions frosting, you immediately lose your shit "there's no frosting on a muffin, get your cupcake ass out of here." Like yes, they shouldn't be talking about frosting in the muffin section, but Jesus Christ. I think those posters hate the reminder that despite wanting to seem different or better... they're still just another kind of fucking cupcake.

well said

The problem is, cuck's think everyone is cupcakes, meanwhile we may all be desert but Stag and Vixen consider ourselves pie. One is single serve, and the other is meant to be shared. It maybe a creampie, it maybe chocolate tart, etc. But I don't care if you have some of my pie, and I'm sharing it with you.

Cuckolding and "Stag/vixen" are fundamentally different. Cuckolding at its essence is a form of BDSM. They're masochists. Stag/vixen are really more voyeur/exhibitionism. The venn diagram overlaps a little, but not as much as cucks like to think.

I think the thing that would serve everyone well to remember is that to those outside this lifestyle, absolutely 100% of the men who post here about sharing their wives are cucks. It's easy to act macho here, but everyone would be quite humbled if this discussion was taken to the street.

I would disagree that everyone here is a cuck. Long before we took the plunge I felt swingers and men who shared their wives were open minded and way ahead of the curve. As far as taken to the street, there are many things in ones life "that if taken to the street" could be a problem or embarrassing. To me cuck brings with it humiliation, cages, denial of physical sexual pleasures, ETC. Stag/Vixen is not that. No offense to anyone but if I acted like a cuck we would not have been together for decades. My wife has always been attracted to strong men, that is one of the things that she loves about me. I have no desire to be humiliate, denied sex, or put down by a so-called stud. If my wife made plans and I was not good with it, it would not happen. Although to be honest I can't imagine not being ok with what ever she wanted to do. The bottom line is there is a clear cut difference between the two and there is a Line that I as a Stag have no desire to cross. This is a stag/Vixen forum because we don't fit in the Cuck forum. I will agree that there is some crossover but just as there are cucks that would never be a stag the are stags that would never be a cuck. So allow us our space.

[WatchinginNJ]

well said

The problem is, cuck's think everyone is cupcakes, meanwhile we may all be desert but Stag and Vixen consider ourselves pie. One is single serve, and the other is meant to be shared. It maybe a creampie, it maybe chocolate tart, etc. But I don't care if you have some of my pie, and I'm sharing it with you.

Cuckolding and "Stag/vixen" are fundamentally different. Cuckolding at its essence is a form of BDSM. They're masochists. Stag/vixen are really more voyeur/exhibitionism. The venn diagram overlaps a little, but not as much as cucks like to think.

I think the thing that would serve everyone well to remember is that to those outside this lifestyle, absolutely 100% of the men who post here about sharing their wives are cucks. It's easy to act macho here, but everyone would be quite humbled if this discussion was taken to the street.

I would disagree that everyone here is a cuck. Long before we took the plunge I felt swingers and men who shared their wives were open minded and way ahead of the curve. As far as taken to the street, there are many things in ones life "that if taken to the street" could be a problem or embarrassing. To me cuck brings with it humiliation, cages, denial of physical sexual pleasures, ETC. Stag/Vixen is not that. No offense to anyone but if I acted like a cuck we would not have been together for decades. My wife has always been attracted to strong men, that is one of the things that she loves about me. I have no desire to be humiliate, denied sex, or put down by a so-called stud. If my wife made plans and I was not good with it, it would not happen. Although to be honest I can't imagine not being ok with what ever she wanted to do. The bottom line is there is a clear cut difference between the two and there is a Line that I as a Stag have no desire to cross. This is a stag/Vixen forum because we don't fit in the Cuck forum. I will agree that there is some crossover but just as there are cucks that would never be a stag the are stags that would never be a cuck. So allow us our space.

I agree to this deeper assessment. Another way it highlights my point of view is that people approach things in a solipsistic way, ie they only look at the world through their point of view because that's all they "know".

I've been doing this thing for a long time. Before I even knew what it was I just thought it was swinging or group sex. When I used to go out with my college girlfriend and try and find a third, most people we approached asked questions of us like were we swingers. My very first iteration of it we just called an "open relationship". It just so happened that she was way more active than I was, but I thought that was the nature of guy vs girl. I personally stay away from the word "hotwife" now because between cuck infiltration, and porn saturation, it's been equated to "hotwife=cuckoldress". When I look for thirds now, I search for ENM or poly type situations. I've tried being a stunt dick in a cuckold dynamic a few times, but in the end I feel like I'm fucking her, and also trying to fuck his mind, and that's not my thing.

This thread is an ironic example of just that. OP literally says "*reminder*, this is not a cuck forum" but the forth post was a cuck post. I'm not kink shaming. If that's what floats his boat great. But again it looks like the cuck guy didn't even read what was said. To me that's where it seems that cucks think that they are interchangeable with Stag/Vixen and clearly Stag/Vixen thinks they are different.

Like I said, I think they are on a complete different spectrum. Cucks are masochists, and they relate every experience through that masochist lens.

[PlzFuckMyHotwife]

Are there any sex acts that are off limits to husbands but acceptable for bull? (Ex. Swallowing, anal, bdsm) What are the reasons why they are off limits and are they ever potentially available to husband?
*Reminder* this is not the cuck forum

None. Zero!!!

As husband to my hot cutie with a booty, nothing is off limits to me. There may be things I'm not that interested in that my hot cutie with a booty may want to explore with others, but they're definitely not off limits to me. One such example is Shibari. My hot cutie with a booty has a mild interest in being tied up, whereas I don't. She's explored it with others before, whereas I don't really have a desire to do that. If she was really into it, I'd learn though. For her sake! But she's only mildly interested and, as such, we... "outsource" from time to time.