Suggestions for where to find a fuck buddy for wife

[eldiablo311]

My wife is down with finding a regular fuck buddy here very soon.

Any suggestions on the best site/app to find a guy for a regular hookup with my wife? We've tried Kasadie and SLS in the past.

I'm not sure if there's something better now. AFF maybe? Or some dating app? Or just stick with the swinger sites/apps like Kasadie?

Any suggestions are appreciated!

[CaliLondon]

We've had good luck with Feeld. We were very specific what we were looking for and so was the regular we hooked up with. Although we did say we weren't looking for a BFF or poly relationship, it is turning into a friend relationship as well.

[eldiablo311]

We've had good luck with Feeld. We were very specific what we were looking for and so was the regular we hooked up with. Although we did say we weren't looking for a BFF or poly relationship, it is turning into a friend relationship as well.

I haven't heard of Feeld, might have to look into that one.

[kort677]

feeld is good, adult friend finder, doublelist if in your area is good, ashley madison can be good, sometimes the local bar scene can be good as well.

[WatchinginNJ]

I second Feeld, but I'd add this to the mix. Cast a net far and wide, don't just use one app. Be super quick to eject someone if they are futzing around, asking for pics, etc. Move to meet as soon as possible, either via video chat, or coffee date. On one of the podcasts I listened to in the past, she said she had very clear and explicit details on her profile, and if they didn't meet those, she immediately rejected it. Dick is free, so your job is to filter as much as possible to what you want.

[eldiablo311]

Ok so, sounds like a lot are mentioning Feeld and I'm also hearing doublelist which I was kinda surprised to hear about since I thought that might be a bunch of fakes on there. I might have to rethink that though.

I like the idea of casting a wide net. That is why I was also thinking about AFF.

In the past we have just stuck to the normal swinger sites SLS, Kasadie, etc.

[rabbit16]

Fetlife, doublelist, reddit. They are free and can get locals there. Granted we are looking for bi couples which is hard to find. Had some luck.

[SilverStag]

Stick with the swinger sites. No mistaking intentions there and you can read any endorsements from others who have played with them, so you have an idea of what you may be getting. We use Kasidie, AFF and SLS. Those keep us busy enough between sorting, vetting, and now and then actually meeting people. When you get to the free sites it will become a full-time job just sorting the flakes and fakes due to the sheer volume.

[SilverStag]

If you are in the PHX area, try going to a couple swing clubs (Particularly if they allow single men). After all, some couples (like us) allow solo play with others, and a solo married guy might work out well as a longer term FWB.

[Outlaw]

Swing clubs.

[LetsGetItStarted]

Feeld. Every Bull we have met! Verified accounts… still some occasional BS. But success.

[mrdnrm]

we have used Swinglifestyle (SLS) and Swingdateclub (SDC), we are also looking into comperssionclub
I just checked out feeld looks interesting but it's only a phone app as the others I listed before we can put on our (compueter) big screen Tv together to check out guys she would want to date. ( we are not tech savvy)

[stevens4fun]

Don't overlook everyday opportunities. You are in a good position as the two of you have already agreed that extra men for her is what you both want. If your wife is just a little bit flirty she can easily let guys know she's interested. My wife of about one year (at the time) met a guy she found VERY attractive one day at the child care place. He was a single dad dropping his kids off. This was a good lesson for me as the guy wasn't "buff" but rather, charmed her with his personality. One evening two weeks later I watched her having an orgasm with him in our marital bed. She had succinctly left the door open a bit when she took him to the bedroom, so that I could see and that turned her on even more. That was the first of many nights I slept in our extra bedroom while she entertained him in our bed. We set up a Saturday night schedule built around our kid's weekends with their other parent. Best we could do with young kids!