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Have any wives turned away a cock that was TOO big?!coastalkid wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 9:47 pmHas any of your wives or gf's turned away cock that was too small?
- how big was too big for sex?
Me too. I"m interested in how she would react to feeling a cock bigger than mine and the man attached to it. Like you, I don't feel inadequate. Just curious.
I can't speak for all men that respond to requests for someone with a cock bigger than yours and I haven't seen what you posted but they may think that you are a cuckold because it is a common cuckold fantasy. As cold as it may seem, yes they are not interested in discussing sports teams. They just want to fuck your wife and leave.
I haven't seen your posts but if you are receiving those types of replies you might be searching wrong.
As you know I'm a wannabe, so it was just before we started dating, she was starting to date a guy she really liked but when she saw his dick for the first time she knew it was Too small to satisfy her and she Made up an excuse not to continue to have sex for the first time.coastalkid wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 9:47 pmHas any of your wives or gf's turned away cock that was too small?
No, as she can handle the really big ones, But she does say that if the big ones don't know how to use it properly, she won't go for repeat performance as it can be painful.bighelmet wrote: ↑Wed Oct 01, 2025 3:24 amHave any wives turned away a cock that was TOO big?!coastalkid wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 9:47 pmHas any of your wives or gf's turned away cock that was too small?
My wife did, he was 4" and she was nice about it. We had met him for drinks and went to the car to talk and for them to mess around a little bit in the back seat. The chemistry was good in the bar. They got going and their pants came off and my wife's shirt. They kissed and caressed each other with her giving him head and making the other one cum. Afterwards, they cuddled in the back, kissing each other and had a repeat. It was hot to see. After they got dressed and we drove him to his car my wife told him she'd call him the next day. On our way home I asked my wife what she thought and she had a lot of nice things to say about him, but she said he had a small dick and she already had one of those at home (she then lovingly smiled) and if she was going to do this she wanted a big cock. She asked me if that sounded bad and I told her not at all. So the next day she called him and told him she enjoyed last night, but that it just wasn't going to work and they wished each other the best.coastalkid wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 9:47 pmHas any of your wives or gf's turned away cock that was too small?
At least she wasn't mean about it. She was very diplomatic about it. You can't blame him for trying. Even guys with little cocks like to fuck. I understand your wife's choice though. It falls into that, "life's too short for (fill in the blank)".My60ishWife wrote: ↑Mon Nov 03, 2025 7:47 pmMy wife did, he was 4" and she was nice about it. We had met him for drinks and went to the car to talk and for them to mess around a little bit in the back seat. The chemistry was good in the bar. They got going and their pants came off and my wife's shirt. They kissed and caressed each other with her giving him head and making the other one cum. Afterwards, they cuddled in the back, kissing each other and had a repeat. It was hot to see. After they got dressed and we drove him to his car my wife told him she'd call him the next day. On our way home I asked my wife what she thought and she had a lot of nice things to say about him, but she said he had a small dick and she already had one of those at home (she then lovingly smiled) and if she was going to do this she wanted a big cock. She asked me if that sounded bad and I told her not at all. So the next day she called him and told him she enjoyed last night, but that it just wasn't going to work and they wished each other the best.coastalkid wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 9:47 pmHas any of your wives or gf's turned away cock that was too small?
My wife is not typically a size queen. I am well above average based on experience in the LS though not porn star big. Through friends we met a good looking guy who is built like a running back. The Mrs always wants a connection and it was there with him. He was respectful to both of us and easy to talk to. When he took off his pants she was presented with the biggest Cock she had ever seen. We had several threesome sessions that lasted a couple hours each, and she described them as a religious experience. It ended when he tried testing me to see if I would be more of a Cuck, which is not my personality.ML82 wrote: ↑Mon Dec 18, 2023 3:28 pmMy wife and I have never searched by size. It’s always about chemistry and connection. We really look for someone we enjoy hanging out with at a bar, before bringing it to the bedroom.
But as we’ve had more experiences, different fantasies and varieties have been discussed. One of which would be her trying someone bigger than me. I’m the biggest she’s been with, and while I am well above average, I’m not huge by any means.
The problem we’re having, we don’t know how to find size and maintain our other standards. The men who advertise as “bwc” or “well hung” we’ve talked to all seem to be looking for cuckold couples. It is ALL about their size. They are surprised when we engage in small talk, “You’re asking about my favorite sports team? But I have a huge dick.”
Are there no thirds out there who understand the stag/vixen life and happen to be well hung? Are we searching wrong?
That was an unspoken way of how my wife approached it. She was always nice and sweet knowing as it had been mentioned it wasn't the guys fault and it was a way to pleasure him for letting her make her discovery.rnmiller96 wrote: ↑Tue Nov 04, 2025 8:49 amI had a hot single young molecular biologist, right after an initial coffee meet, take me to a private spot to evaluate if I met her size standards.
I don't think it is improper to see a standard met before investing time.