New Bull wants to consummate the relationship

[Mundaka2]

Should I be there to watch my wife and her new boyfriend consummate their relationship? or should I let them have the time together without me hovering around? They’ve just recently started dating and I get the impression he’s very eager and doesn’t want to wait until the three of us can schedule a time we can all be there. My wife also seems to be more focused on getting laid than worrying about my involvement. Should I be concerned? I can see both sides. Curious to see what others think

[SilverStag]

Of course he is eager....but make sure your needs and desires are respected as well. My HW, Cecil, doesn't want to "be the show" so I am seldom with her when she plays ( even when we play with another couple, she prefers separate rooms). I would like to watch her, but she doesn't want that. Luckily she shares me with other women (no, she doesn't watch me or ask for details of the tryst), so I get my excitement with others while I am assured she enjoys her solo playtime.

Just make sure that whatever is decided, that your interests are accounted for in the outcome.

[Johnann2227]

Should I be there to watch my wife and her new boyfriend consummate their relationship? or should I let them have the time together without me hovering around? They’ve just recently started dating and I get the impression he’s very eager and doesn’t want to wait until the three of us can schedule a time we can all be there. My wife also seems to be more focused on getting laid than worrying about my involvement. Should I be concerned? I can see both sides. Curious to see what others think

It is all about what your hotwife wants. If she wants you there then you are a lucky man. Usually though, for their first time with a new lover, they usually want to be alone. This lifestyle is all about your hotwife's needs and pleasure.

[Iahotwifeshusband]

I have found that the other guy and my wife are more comfortable when I am not there. In fact, out of my wife’s 80 some adventures, I have been there three times. The first time, I was in the room when her friend arrived. We had some small talk, then I left them alone to get to know each other. My wife texted me when I could return. I came back to the room with my wife riding him and clearly enjoying herself.

The second time was a MFMM foursome with one regular friend and a friend of his. My wife had already played several times with one of the guys and I had met him. His friend joined us in the room and it was off to the races. I watched as the other guys played with my wife and eventually joined in over an hour later when one of them needed a break.

The final time was where my wife and I met up with a potential mate at a bar. We all talked before inviting him back to our hotel room. We had a suite, so I was able to relax in the living room while my wife got fucked by this gentleman. Once he was finished , he dressed and left. I then picked up where he left off and had my own fun with my wife.


Not only is this less stressful for the men, my wife heavily prefers focusing on one man at a time and really doesn’t want to worry about what I am thinking or doing. As a result, it is very rare that I am there when she gets fucked. She has had a few buddies who like to video their play and send to me. That is a happy medium for us and works well for her friends.

[SilverStag]

My HW, Cecil says she wants to concentrate on her own orgasms and feeling that she has to pay attention to more than one guy at a time (me included) takes her concentration away and she doesn't get what she wants from the tryst. So she prefers it when I am not present.

I, too, prefer her to be absent when I play with another woman. Funny thing is that I have enjoyed a birthday surprise she engineered where it was she and 2 other ladies pleasing me. I have no problem with another guy helping me please a lady, if anything, that ramps up my enthusiasm for the tryst. Likewise, I kind of enjoy 'playing to an audience". I used to enjoy playing in the group room at clubs where other people, also engaged in their own play, could watch. Cecil isn't into "being the show", so at this point I only get to play in the group room when I am playing with another woman or couple.

[Mundaka2]

Well, it happened but not exactly how I’d fantasized about it. That makes it twice now, once with new lover and once with the other guy. I let her decide in the end and I’m okay with it. She enjoyed herself and said the sex was great so that’s all that matters. They’re now trying to set something up at our house for next weekend. We’ll see how it goes. At the very least I’ll be able to listen.

[Bryce 69]

A new Bull and I use Hannah together his first time with her
it makes it more comfortable
From then on he can fuck her by himself

[Dutchpride7]

Should I be there to watch my wife and her new boyfriend consummate their relationship? or should I let them have the time together without me hovering around? They’ve just recently started dating and I get the impression he’s very eager and doesn’t want to wait until the three of us can schedule a time we can all be there. My wife also seems to be more focused on getting laid than worrying about my involvement. Should I be concerned? I can see both sides. Curious to see what others think

From a bulls perspective :
Hello,my friend & greetings. I read what you put down and Im going to say it is really Shitty & Selfish, from what I read. I cannot believe & find it to be very appaulling to say the least. The reason I myself say this is because the righteous way to go about this,and the way I feel about it is this- you all are to be a team working together for the good of the team- that is the 3 of you! That is the way I go about my business when Im with a hotwife & her hubbie,its about respect and honor, is why this really slaps me so hard in the face because it lacks All respect amd honor.
My main purpose in meeting hubbie & hotwife or cuck & cuckoldress,is to build a friendship that starts with respect & honor. And from what I read and see from this there were no guidlines or direction as far as what is going on. That has to be something from the get go,that is set up and agreed on.
I alwayz have been in communication with whom I decide to be with and I can tell you it has been so rewarding and awesome for all 3 of us because theres a purpose and a meaning to the way I myself, and the people Ive chosen or been blessed to be with because it doesnt matter if its 1 or 4 couples I decide to be with each 1 is just as much a joy and happiy to be with as thee other, because we work as a team and our main goal is that everyone gets to appreciate and enjoy their sexual pleasures and desires in a most awesome and unique way! We have such a bond and friendship together ,that it feels like we're family were so tight. Plus it just makes everything feel so much better too! I mean the orgasms,creampies ,cleanups ,etc . Are just out of this world and a sence of such trust and comfortability. Keeps are passion & love electric, and gives us 3 a sense of great purpose & fulfillment.
I can only hope and think that you really gotra get this thing back on the rails & in order being it seems to have gotten way off tbe track from what, and how I myself, and with whom I choose to go about my enjoyment.with.
Its suppose to be enjoyed by all, not just 1 or 2 involved. Totally Shitty & Selfish-I hope I shed some light & advice to you my friend in a great way! I dont know you, or have ever met you,I feel you though. Take care,
For Real,
Dutchpride7

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Should I be there to watch my wife and her new boyfriend consummate their relationship? or should I let them have the time together without me hovering around? They’ve just recently started dating and I get the impression he’s very eager and doesn’t want to wait until the three of us can schedule a time we can all be there. My wife also seems to be more focused on getting laid than worrying about my involvement. Should I be concerned? I can see both sides. Curious to see what others think

From a bulls perspective :
Hello,my friend & greetings. I read what you put down and Im going to say it is really Shitty & Selfish, from what I read. I cannot believe & find it to be very appaulling to say the least. The reason I myself say this is because the righteous way to go about this,and the way I feel about it is this- you all are to be a team working together for the good of the team- that is the 3 of you! That is the way I go about my business when Im with a hotwife & her hubbie,its about respect and honor, is why this really slaps me so hard in the face because it lacks All respect amd honor.
My main purpose in meeting hubbie & hotwife or cuck & cuckoldress,is to build a friendship that starts with respect & honor. And from what I read and see from this there were no guidlines or direction as far as what is going on. That has to be something from the get go,that is set up and agreed on.
I alwayz have been in communication with whom I decide to be with and I can tell you it has been so rewarding and awesome for all 3 of us because theres a purpose and a meaning to the way I myself, and the people Ive chosen or been blessed to be with because it doesnt matter if its 1 or 4 couples I decide to be with each 1 is just as much a joy and happiy to be with as thee other, because we work as a team and our main goal is that everyone gets to appreciate and enjoy their sexual pleasures and desires in a most awesome and unique way! We have such a bond and friendship together ,that it feels like we're family were so tight. Plus it just makes everything feel so much better too! I mean the orgasms,creampies ,cleanups ,etc . Are just out of this world and a sence of such trust and comfortability. Keeps are passion & love electric, and gives us 3 a sense of great purpose & fulfillment.
I can only hope and think that you really gotra get this thing back on the rails & in order being it seems to have gotten way off tbe track from what, and how I myself, and with whom I choose to go about my enjoyment.with.
Its suppose to be enjoyed by all, not just 1 or 2 involved. Totally Shitty & Selfish-I hope I shed some light & advice to you my friend in a great way! I dont know you, or have ever met you,I feel you though. Take care,
For Real,
Dutchpride7

My wife and I are new to hotwifing (although I had experience many years ago in my first marriage). I agree with Dutchpride7 that, for us at least, the purpose of our exploration here is to enjoy this together. We have been fortunate to meet a truly nice man with whom we are developing a very nice friendship. We trust and respect each other and with each of our meetings, my very conservative and traditional Asian wife is slowly feeling more comfortable with him, kissing him and letting him feel her breasts in our last meeting one week ago. (Our story is in the Wannabe section). I don’t know if we will eventually consummate the hotwife relationship, but we agree with Dutchpride7 that if we have a trusting and respectful relationship with our third, the sex will be that much more enjoyable for all of us. That said, we also recognize that not everyone feels the same way, and there is nothing wrong with that either. Different strokes for different folks, I guess!