Recommendations wanted
Posted: Tue Jun 11, 2024 11:18 am
My wife and I enjoy playing with others. We’ve had a long-term friend (male) and have had a successful one nighter with another couple (m/f) and would really like to be doing a lot more playing around. Our long-term guy moved since we began and so have we. So, it’s much less convenient to meet up than it used to be.
We met both using the website doublelist. But, with maybe 6-8 years of frequent checking there (and Craigslist before that), those are the only two who’ve worked out. We probably talked to a half dozen more that we did not follow up with once we got to direct conversation.
A while ago I signed us up for adult friend finder. We were told this would be a better group of people especially as the pay to play aspect would weed out a lot. After letting it languish for a while, I finally began paying attention to it a lot recently and trying to find someone there. No luck. There are some really good looking people. If we were young and fit, we would be good. But, we aren’t either of those. There are some people our age, but… well, I hope people don’t think we look like they do… I mean we’re kind of older and a little overweight but not THAT old and overweight. And the local crowd seems to be very bearded and tattooed… not our thing. Whenever I find people in there we like, they seem to always include terms like ‘classy’, ‘educated’ and ‘clean’ in their descriptions and be located an hour or two away. I didn’t want to put terms like that in our description, but I guess I might have to. I don’t want our next fun time to turn into afternoon tea where everybody has to drink with their pinky fingers extended or whatever. It’s starting to feel like we’re living 100 miles from our preferred social group.
Which brings me to the question… I have heard that there are other sites out there for those seeking adult fun to meet each other and that the crowd that’s on these sites varies by location. I hope that we just haven’t found the website where our local people are doing their thing. But I don’t know what other sites are out there. Especially for couples and especially for older couples. We’re late 50’s and looking for couples that are our age maybe plus or minus a decade or so.
Can anyone recommend other possible sites where our crowd might be found?
We met both using the website doublelist. But, with maybe 6-8 years of frequent checking there (and Craigslist before that), those are the only two who’ve worked out. We probably talked to a half dozen more that we did not follow up with once we got to direct conversation.
A while ago I signed us up for adult friend finder. We were told this would be a better group of people especially as the pay to play aspect would weed out a lot. After letting it languish for a while, I finally began paying attention to it a lot recently and trying to find someone there. No luck. There are some really good looking people. If we were young and fit, we would be good. But, we aren’t either of those. There are some people our age, but… well, I hope people don’t think we look like they do… I mean we’re kind of older and a little overweight but not THAT old and overweight. And the local crowd seems to be very bearded and tattooed… not our thing. Whenever I find people in there we like, they seem to always include terms like ‘classy’, ‘educated’ and ‘clean’ in their descriptions and be located an hour or two away. I didn’t want to put terms like that in our description, but I guess I might have to. I don’t want our next fun time to turn into afternoon tea where everybody has to drink with their pinky fingers extended or whatever. It’s starting to feel like we’re living 100 miles from our preferred social group.
Which brings me to the question… I have heard that there are other sites out there for those seeking adult fun to meet each other and that the crowd that’s on these sites varies by location. I hope that we just haven’t found the website where our local people are doing their thing. But I don’t know what other sites are out there. Especially for couples and especially for older couples. We’re late 50’s and looking for couples that are our age maybe plus or minus a decade or so.
Can anyone recommend other possible sites where our crowd might be found?