Will she be into threesome?

[SensualDeviant]

Even if she ultimately doesn't want a threesome, watching threesome porn, dirty talk, and roleplay might be an enjoyable compromise for both of you.

If she does decide to fulfill this fantasy with you, it would probably pay to read together a book or two about open relationships.

[Gulfcpl]

Be careful what you wish for. If she does do it and has a bad feeling for you afterwards, it wouldn’t be a good situation. This has to be her idea and she must be all in. You both are very young. Multiple conversations must be had before considering this. Talk about this anywhere but the bedroom. Just my two cents.

[zorro]

Yes, you describe your GF as at the fantasy pre-contemplation stage. She has the idea in her head that you would seem like less of a man if you witnessed her having sex with another man. That's a good place to put some time in: What assumptions is she making that would diminish you in such a circumstance? What assumptions does she make about what goes into being a "true man?" Is she thinking you would be doing "female" activities with the man she would have sex with? Does she think you wouldn't love her if you let her pleasure with another?

Your GF at this time doesn't sound ready for this, so let is ripen as a fantasy. She may change her mind and want to go further sometime in the future.
Also, realize if she ever does it that she might love it and want more and more. Make sure you're ready for that turn in the road.

BTW, MFMs are great -- our favorite group sex scene. You have apparently tried one before, so you know how exciting it can be for all involved. I fully understand why you might want a GF up for doing more of these. Keep your own desires in sight; if this GF eventually opts to not go this direction (and I think it is too soon to know) but your continue to want it, you might need a different girlfriend to feel fully happy in your relationship.

[SammySigns]

If she wants you to be a man about it then tell her she's going to do it to turn you on

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

When we first started fantasizing, it was in the context that a friend of ours and her would be creating personal porn for us…..watching her enjoy a our friend’s dick while I filmed…..and consequently watching our friend enjoy her while I filmed.

That turned her (and me……and eventually what would evolve to her coworker) on.

She took the plunge, enjoyed it, and doesn’t see me as “less than” since I’m the cameraman making personal porn for us.

(We got so much footage that we just stopped filming even though she thoroughly enjoys that side-dick quite often!)

[Tank Turner]

Hi Sensual Deviant,

I'm almost positive that MFM sex is women's most common sexual fantasy.

You could do a 'net search of, "Women's most common sexual fantasies," to verify whether my memory is still good.

[SensualDeviant]

Hi Sensual Deviant,

I'm almost positive that MFM sex is women's most common sexual fantasy.

You could do a 'net search of, "Women's most common sexual fantasies," to verify whether my memory is still good.

And gangbangs. One of my favorite kinks is erotically teasing a shy, innocent woman, edging her close to orgasm, and whispering sexual enticements into her ear, but denying her climax until she confesses all her repressed and hidden taboo lusts. Then she may orgasm.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Sensual Deviant,

My wife has a gang bang fantasy. She's had it longer than she could remember.

Our friend, Brad, is trying to talk her into doing one. I'm not so sure she wants to experience that fantasy. She's too worried that it would get back to our kids. They believe that their mother is an angel.

After my wife continued to dirty talk gang bangs during sex and telling me that she has two girlfriends who've done gang bangs and told my wife she should experience at least one, I researched women's gang bang fantasies. I was amazed at how popular women's gang bang fantasies were. Many of the articles I read were authored by women (probably under a pseudonym) who wrote positively about their gang bang fantasies. From memory, women got off on being the center of men's sexual gratification.

My wife is in her mid-40s and not all that far from 50. She loves men's compliments on her naked body. She's told me that she'll worry when men no longer compliment her on her naked body. Based on her scorching hot body for a woman in her mid-40s, she has many years before men no longer check out her naked body.

[SensualDeviant]

Rape fantasies are surprisingly quite common among women, too, but most if not all women do not want to actually be raped. Instead, they want to feel so overpowered that they must surrender to pleasure, but only to the man or men they choose and the circumstances they desire. This can be simulated any number of ways (safewords are highly encouraged).

So it could also be that your wife only wants to fantasize about gangbangs and not actually experience one. Even dirty talk and watching porn together can simulate the experience. Or try fucking her while she wears a butt plug and sucks on a dildo. Or she can blow you while you fuck her with a dildo. Maybe have her wear a blindfold to heighten the intensity. There are many ways to experience a fantasy within comfortable confines.

You described her as an angel. That reminds me of Freud's Madonna-whore complex. The contrast of archetypes--pure and innocent versus primal lust--expands the personality, allowing for rich relationship dynamics. In other words, she can be both your angel and your slut. I prefer it that way anyway.

Wanting to protect an image your children have of your wife can be commendable. But it leads to two questions:

Must your children know everything about their mother?

Are gangbangs so taboo and unacceptable that they cannot accept this? You are, after all, human; gangbangs are within the normal range of human sexuality; and the job of parenting is to raise children to become functioning adults.

Some children know their parents are swingers because being honest and open is important to them and the children are mature enough to understand. Some children will never know their parents are swingers (or discover this despite attempts to keep secret).

There are no right or wrong answers to these questions, just something to consider.

Lastly, a woman who takes good care of her health (diet, exercise, etc) can maintain a sexy body well into her twilight years. And besides, we all know that sexy is at least as much attitude and personality as it is good looks and body type.

[Johnann2227]

In our experience a woman wants to be the centre of attention in a gang bang. My wife likes the gang bang to be all about her pleasure not to be a cum bucket for a group of guys. This is why every birthday she enjoys a gangbang with 6 or 7 husbands in our swinger group where they are there to bring her ma
ximum pleasure. It is about her orgasms, her pleasure.
As far as a rape fantasy, that is a huge nope for us.

[Mgcouplemn]

In our experience a woman wants to be the centre of attention in a gang bang. My wife likes the gang bang to be all about her pleasure not to be a cum bucket for a group of guys. This is why every birthday she enjoys a gangbang with 6 or 7 husbands in our swinger group where they are there to bring her maximum pleasure. It is about her orgasms, her pleasure.
As far as a rape fantasy, that is a huge nope for us.

Agree that wife likes to occasionally be in a gangbang for a burst of centered on her attention.We both like the fury of rock hard horny guys attempting to please her. She like that she has the ability to make a bunch of guys get her off many times. it is called a gangbang, but the way she like them is to have the guys line up and each take a turn with her. her favorite is to give each a time and me doing the timing. Last gangbang she rolled a die which rolled a 4 which gave each of the five guys 40 seconds to do their best at any hole they want.

They lined up according to her agenda, this time it was smallest to biggest. First guy took his 40 seconds and went to the back of the line stroking his cock. second did his. It went about 3 rounds and she came with a shudder on the fourth guy. The guys kept taking their turns, on the fourth round number two guy cum inside her, the next one took her mouth and shot his load down her throat in about 25 seconds. After that the guys pretty much one would cum each round.

[Bryce 69]

MfM and gangbangs are very different
threesomes can be more intimate and focused
Hannah prefers the MfM dynamic but sometimes likes 3-5 Bulls use her hard

[Tank Turner]

Hi SensualDeviant,

The most reliable way to know whether your wife wants to do a threesome or any other nonconventional sexual act is to ask her. You might be surprised by her reply. Women have kinks and fantasies.

[SensualDeviant]

Hi SensualDeviant,

The most reliable way to know whether your wife wants to do a threesome or any other nonconventional sexual act is to ask her. You might be surprised by her reply. Women have kinks and fantasies.

Believe me, I know.

[Hotwifejoy]

I love it when hubby joins in when I am playing with my bull...instant 3sum....And although I am not sure about a gang bang, as long as hubby screens the guys, I am good with it...as long as a guy knows that no means no...I am actually contemplating going to a female glory hole, where I lay on my back, sticking my bum and legs out an opening in the wall, with my ankles shackled above, and letting guys take turns licking my pussy to orgasm, then fucking me...again, as long as hubby screens the guys who get to play. It is a huge turn on just thinking about what it will be like. I just want to be sure that no-one gets aggressive, as I prefer a soft sensual touch and deep pounding, but nothing painful. But so far, all of my experiences have been wonderful.

[luvwives999]

I have read that the major woman's fantasies are 2 men, sex with a woman, sex in public, sex with a stranger. I would always ask my wife what she was thinking about when self- pleasuring, and all 4 of those would be mentioned at different times, I guess depending on her mood. I am happy to say she has fulfilled all 4 of those fantasies.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I have read that the major woman's fantasies are 2 men, sex with a woman, sex in public, sex with a stranger. I would always ask my wife what she was thinking about when self- pleasuring, and all 4 of those would be mentioned at different times, I guess depending on her mood. I am happy to say she has fulfilled all 4 of those fantasies.

Well, my wife has experienced two of those (MFM and outdoor sex). And sometimes she’ll wake up and tell me she’s had “the dream.”

Some nameless, faceless, muscular, and well-hung guy fucks her brains out most often here, in our matrimonial bed. I’m nowhere to be found…just the two of them.

That has “stranger sex” written all over it, but it remains a dream for now.

As for sex with a woman:
Early in our marriage, she was somewhat turned off by such an idea. These days, I thinks she’s quite open to it. I think she’d give it a go under the right circumstances….a trusted friend, us husbands casually watching….That sort of thing.

Of course, such a situation would almost certainly be a same-room/same-bed swap, and that has always been one of MY major fantasies.