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What are recommendations to use if she or we want to text and maybe send pictures to prospective play partners other than our personal phones. We are discreet (our name!) and realize most everyone else is also. In this digital age, during the vetting process, if before we are super comfortable with someone we give out our personal cell numbers, it takes very little effort to find out who everyone is, where they live, Facebook names, etc.

We are only looking for men right now but assume we will have to kiss a few frogs before we find a prince. So don’t want any drama.

Not really interested in the hassle of getting another phone just for play partners. Are there good apps that we can communicate in real time that we can use on our personal phones without them seeing our phone number.

We will meet people of course. But it might be cool also if she sees someone in person who she has flirted with and give him some way to communicate later without giving personal cell numbers.

How do you guys communicate with play partners or prospective play partners?

Thanks!

This should get you started:

https://www.pcmag.com/how-to/burner-acc ... smartphone

Farmgirl uses her personal phone and personal email.
Maybe not what you're looking for, but it has worked well for over 30 years.

Unless they are our friends that we know and trust is a burner phone app.

I use my personal phone, I chat on Facebook messenger, or Kik. I only give out my cell phone number to ones I know I like and will keep around.

Natatude wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 09, 2024 7:41 pm

I use my personal phone, I chat on Facebook messenger, or Kik. I only give out my cell phone number to ones I know I like and will keep around.

Mrs and I both use our phones and txt. Not initially / usually start on kik after the initial discussion of expectations and a pic exchange - the ones we think fit we start txting. Has worked for us without any trouble.

Hmmm…on most sites you can communicate on PM for a bit….
Then txt or emailed
We prefer to meet the first time in public visit and arrange a play date then
Hope this helps

My wife has both Signal and Telegram, you do need a phone number to register both of them, however they give you an option to create a username, and allow you to block users from being able to see your phone number and communicate with you using the username instead.

If you do this, check your settings, my wife has this, and it allowd her to use the same text app without sharing her phone number.

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Wed Aug 07, 2024 6:11 pm

Farmgirl uses her personal phone and personal email.
Maybe not what you're looking for, but it has worked well for over 30 years.

Same with us, plus some texting off and on

Lugnut wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 27, 2024 7:12 pm

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Wed Aug 07, 2024 6:11 pm

Farmgirl uses her personal phone and personal email.
Maybe not what you're looking for, but it has worked well for over 30 years.

Same with us, plus some texting off and on

I also meant that texting was included with the phone.

RickSouthFlorida wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 27, 2024 5:42 am

My wife has both Signal and Telegram, you do need a phone number to register both of them, however they give you an option to create a username, and allow you to block users from being able to see your phone number and communicate with you using the username instead.

If you do this, check your settings, my wife has this, and it allowd her to use the same text app without sharing her phone number.

I've been a long time user of Signal, and use it for a lot of things in my daily life. I use it to call overseas to important colleagues, my kids and ex all have it in case I need to send encrypted info (passwords etc). I'm an android user so you can't always count on iMessages.

Alternatively you can sign up to signal using a free phone number via Google or similar. Once it's verified you only need to maintain it so the number isn't given away and someone else can access your Signal. Either way once you are set up like Rick is describing you can eliminate the phone number being displayed and select a user name.

Signal offers disappearing messages, calls, and encrypted messages. It doesn't prevent screen shots.

All this to say, it's probably the best option.

To protect my wife, all the pics, texts, and phone calls come from my phone. When we play I make all the arrangement, set the rules with the guy, and I undress her then present her to him to fuck.

We use a burner phone app called.......Burner. Only a few bucks a month for discreet phone number.