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[Johnann2227]

Hi,
Yes, Ann considers herself to be married now to two husbands. We had a commitment ceremony and they exchanged rings. Ann also now publicly uses a hyphenated surname, James' and then mine. She has changed her name on gym and club memberships and at her job. It is such a turn on seeing her walk out the front door each morning wearing her teacher badge saying "Mrs A. @@@@@ - #####. Ann has now decided to change her surname by deed poll so that everything is legal eg. Drivers license, passport, electoral roll.
Ann and James are open now with their affection when they go out. Holding hands while shopping, James resting his hand on her arse when they are out etc. They introduce each other as husband/wife just like Ann and I do when we are out.
I love our new marriage. I am still Ann's husband and enjoy all of the benefits that come with that. But I also get to experience her fucking another man right next to me daily and being a part of that.

That's amazing, good for the 3 of you! I don't even know what my limits are, she is much more reserved so we default to her desires. I don't know what I'd do if she said she wanted a situation like yours.

This situation we are now in was never in our plans. Hotwifing was just an extension to our swinging and was another way for Ann to get all of the cock she wanted.
Now we are experiencing something special and I have never seen her happier. And that is all that matters.

[Deeperlove1369]

Hi,
Yes, Ann considers herself to be married now to two husbands. We had a commitment ceremony and they exchanged rings. Ann also now publicly uses a hyphenated surname, James' and then mine. She has changed her name on gym and club memberships and at her job. It is such a turn on seeing her walk out the front door each morning wearing her teacher badge saying "Mrs A. @@@@@ - #####. Ann has now decided to change her surname by deed poll so that everything is legal eg. Drivers license, passport, electoral roll.
Ann and James are open now with their affection when they go out. Holding hands while shopping, James resting his hand on her arse when they are out etc. They introduce each other as husband/wife just like Ann and I do when we are out.
I love our new marriage. I am still Ann's husband and enjoy all of the benefits that come with that. But I also get to experience her fucking another man right next to me daily and being a part of that.

That's amazing, good for the 3 of you! I don't even know what my limits are, she is much more reserved so we default to her desires. I don't know what I'd do if she said she wanted a situation like yours.

This situation we are now in was never in our plans. Hotwifing was just an extension to our swinging and was another way for Ann to get all of the cock she wanted.
Now we are experiencing something special and I have never seen her happier. And that is all that matters.

I agree with that too, whatever makes our Hotwives happy! Compersion, it's real.

[MartasBoy]

One thing we really got a buzz out of over the years,was going to a straight social event with our fuck buddies.
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I enjoy the times when straight people figure out what's going on, when my wife is out flirting with others. I particularly like it when we have the anonymity of being out of town somewhere. There have been times that we have just flat out disclosed the nature of our relationship to others. I have had women flirt with me, and once a sex worker proposition me, where I have disclosed my status of being in chastity.

[Larson]

bYes, still in the mountains about two and a half hours west of Denver. I’ve been here all along, and was checking in most days, but not posting as much—Zee is in her 60s now and most men here are not interested in hearing about 60 year-old sluts. Given our ages we are not quite as active, and Zee has a long-time partner who owns her cunt now, and he’s almost 70, so he has slowed down too. That and the fact that we have taken things a lot further than most people can deal with even here. And it does get a little tiresome reading about things that are obviously fantasies rather than reading about the actual experiences of real couples. Sometimes the real ones are less over the top, but when you really do this it’s pretty easy to tell the fantasies from the real stuff. Good to hear from you again. Larson

[CU4A2on1]

She feels like (and I agree) married guys are less likely to too clingy and just as motivated to keep things discreet. As far as his marriage, if he wasn’t sleeping with my wife, would just be with someone else’s. Heck maybe my wife provided a safe outlet for his desires and he seems otherwise very happy with his marriage.

Anyway, It’s worked out well for us (this event was probably 17 years ago) and they’ve been lovers nearly 20 years. More long distance since we’ve moved but still get together a couple times a year.

Not criticizing your preference by any means. To each their own.

I remember a long time ago, my wife had been seeing her new married FWB for a couple months while I was on an extended business trip. It continued after I got home, mostly solo but also a threesome with me. Then we hosted a cookout for the neighborhood and friends. Invited him and his wife. No one knew the true nature of our friendship with him. Once during the evening it was just me and his wife on the kitchen chatting. She had no idea her husband was my wife’s lover. I felt guilty but turned on at the same time.

That is kinda hot, but very bad ju-ju... that's going to end badly and your wife could become a target from a very angry wife. You could be a target as well being that you knew and befriended her. Might want to reexamine that situation my friend. What with be great is if your wife's lover is a Hothusband and his wife is just like you!!!

We totally agree. We never play with married people where the spouse doesn't know or give permission. We don't want to be blamed for breaking up a family or being outed in the community. Things could get very ugly fast.

[Deeperlove1369]

She feels like (and I agree) married guys are less likely to too clingy and just as motivated to keep things discreet. As far as his marriage, if he wasn’t sleeping with my wife, would just be with someone else’s. Heck maybe my wife provided a safe outlet for his desires and he seems otherwise very happy with his marriage.

Anyway, It’s worked out well for us (this event was probably 17 years ago) and they’ve been lovers nearly 20 years. More long distance since we’ve moved but still get together a couple times a year.

Not criticizing your preference by any means. To each their own.

I remember a long time ago, my wife had been seeing her new married FWB for a couple months while I was on an extended business trip. It continued after I got home, mostly solo but also a threesome with me. Then we hosted a cookout for the neighborhood and friends. Invited him and his wife. No one knew the true nature of our friendship with him. Once during the evening it was just me and his wife on the kitchen chatting. She had no idea her husband was my wife’s lover. I felt guilty but turned on at the same time.

That is kinda hot, but very bad ju-ju... that's going to end badly and your wife could become a target from a very angry wife. You could be a target as well being that you knew and befriended her. Might want to reexamine that situation my friend. What with be great is if your wife's lover is a Hothusband and his wife is just like you!!!

We totally agree. We never play with married people where the spouse doesn't know or give permission. We don't want to be blamed for breaking up a family or being outed in the community. Things could get very ugly fast.

That's quite the story, I don't know how his wife doesn't know after 20 years? That's crazy, she had to know something after all those years? I wouldn't necessarily agree that married guys are less clingy, there's no shortage of married men leaving their wives for another woman; however I will agree to each their own.

[Larson]

Thank you, zorro and wittol. Yes, we are still in the mountains about 3 hours west of Denver. Still having a great time. Zee has an owner now, P, who continues to slut her to other men—my sex life now is watching P and others he invites cum inside Zee. She’s in her sixties now, so we’re slowing down a bit, but there are still enough men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s who fuck Zee and keep it interesting. Just about the only difference is that we no longer care much who knows about it. Everyone sees her with P anyway and it’s obvious he fucks her, so it’s really not even embarrassing—I’m very proud that P owns her and everyone knows she’s his cunt even though she’s my wife.

[Wifewithothers]

We actually played with others before getting married. At our wedding and reception were 4 guys who had sex with her before we were married and i think two others who would after we were married.

So yeah when we did the whole stand in line as people left the church and people congratulated as a couple of guys gave her a quick kiss on the cheek I knew they had also had their cocks sucked by her and fucked her.

Now we had taken a break from playing with others a few months before the wedding (well I thought we did but she had one experience she didn't tell me about until a year or so later) and weren't sure if we would start back up yet.

[AmyRich]

We have an annual pig roast every fall. Everyone is invited neighbors, friends, swinger friends and occasionally my wife's current lover(s). It was a huge turn on to see her big black lover (we are white) casually talking to her dad, my dad, and her very conservative sister. It went well as we pre-arranged with her lover what to say to the inevitable "So how do you know him" or "where did you meet".
One year, as we were setting up for the party, two black guys showed up from out of town. My wife volunteered to show them where the hotel was, and show them where the coffee shop, diner and grocery store was. So I stayed at home with her family, my sisters, and our closest friend who were helping to set up, while my wife headed straight to the hotel and fucked them both. She thinks she was pretty discrete but to me her smile when she got back home gave it all away.

[Deeperlove1369]

We have an annual pig roast every fall. Everyone is invited neighbors, friends, swinger friends and occasionally my wife's current lover(s). It was a huge turn on to see her big black lover (we are white) casually talking to her dad, my dad, and her very conservative sister. It went well as we pre-arranged with her lover what to say to the inevitable "So how do you know him" or "where did you meet".
One year, as we were setting up for the party, two black guys showed up from out of town. My wife volunteered to show them where the hotel was, and show them where the coffee shop, diner and grocery store was. So I stayed at home with her family, my sisters, and our closest friend who were helping to set up, while my wife headed straight to the hotel and fucked them both. She thinks she was pretty discrete but to me her smile when she got back home gave it all away.

Super HOT...love it!