if the bull is uglier and has a smaller penis than husband
if the bull is uglier and has a smaller penis than husband
hiall, i havea question for hotwives. i posted this in the ask a hotwife thread but gotno answers so far, so i thought id open to non verified hotwives and anyone else who can speak on a hotwives behalf.
myquestion is, do any hotwives have fun with and enjoy bulls that are clearly less attractive than yiur husband and with a smaller penis? if so what is it that attracted yiu to them to make you have sex with them, and what do you enjoy about them?
context: my wife and i often sortof role play hotwifing during our sexy times with theoretical hot big dicked men, but i am not sure how likely she would want to ever do it, or enjoy it in real life. i already have a very large penis which can often cause difficulties and it wouldnt be easy finding someone bigger in real life. i am also very attractive and she very rarely finds other men attractive, so it woild be very difficult to find a guy hotter than me, especially thatis willing to have sex with her. (and pkease dont question this difficulty,i live in a small area within a small population large land mass island country)
myquestion is, do any hotwives have fun with and enjoy bulls that are clearly less attractive than yiur husband and with a smaller penis? if so what is it that attracted yiu to them to make you have sex with them, and what do you enjoy about them?
context: my wife and i often sortof role play hotwifing during our sexy times with theoretical hot big dicked men, but i am not sure how likely she would want to ever do it, or enjoy it in real life. i already have a very large penis which can often cause difficulties and it wouldnt be easy finding someone bigger in real life. i am also very attractive and she very rarely finds other men attractive, so it woild be very difficult to find a guy hotter than me, especially thatis willing to have sex with her. (and pkease dont question this difficulty,i live in a small area within a small population large land mass island country)
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Sometimes what drives her and I is just the nautiness of having sex with a different person. Violating social norms and marriage vows can be a powerful motivator.
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Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. My wife has been incredibly turned on by men that seemed never special to me, she even said she wanted to have one of them to have his baby.
His wife cock size has no influence on whether she wants to have sex with him.
His wife cock size has no influence on whether she wants to have sex with him.
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I think you and many miss one of the most important things about this lifestyle. Inviting a 3rd person into your bedroom isn't about comparison or competition, it's about enhancement. Like Shorebird said, the sexiness and naughtyness is a wife having sex with another man that is not her husband, not that the new lover has to be better-looking, bigger muscles, or bigger cock. No 2 men will feel the same to your Hotwife, nor should either of you compare or compete...just have fun. Kinda like you wouldn't compare an apple to a quesadilla, you may eat both of them, they may taste different, but you're not going to dwell on the quesadilla being bigger than or tasting better than the apple...they are just different.
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One night, on a whim, my Latina wife hung out with a young guy she called “Feo”. She actually got mad when I joked about her having sex with him. She assured me there wasn’t a chance in hell she would ever do anything with him. I don’t know what got into her but the night ended the feo guy fucking the hell out of her. I saw a short video of her and the guy. He was the exact opposite of all the other guys she’s dated. He was short, chubby with long black unkempt hair. My wife reluctantly admitted it was the best sex she’s ever had with another man.
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My ex had a married boyfriend who used to work night shifts with her. She admitted he was very skinny, had a 5 inch penis, wasn't particularly attractive and was a little strange. But, none of that mattered to her for quite a while.
She enjoyed the attention he used to show her when they were at work and when they'd spend friday nights downstairs in our home. She used to suck him off in her car after work and apparently he was quite hard to bring off that way and she used to joke to me that she saw that as a fun challenge. She always succeeded. His cum was slightly salty and she liked that but was always happy to share it with me when she'd come upstairs for me to clean her up.
She tried to persuade him to come upstairs for a threesome but he was so nervous about coming to our place when I was there that I fitted a lock on the living room door. Once he felt settled, he was able to keep her entertained for most of the night, until he had to go home to his wife at 4am.
Eventually though, he started acting quite strange and she began to dislike being around him and she dumped him, which he did not take lightly and caused her all sorts of problems at work.
That was when she met her knight in shining armour. Another colleague stepped up to look out for her. He was very obese, had long hair that had really started thinning out and, judging by the love letters I saw from him, could spell no better than a 10 year old. He had a fat, 6 inch penis but apparently, he was a very passionate lover, which she enjoyed. She hid the fact she was seeing him for several months, apart from admitting a couple of blowjobs and I didn't find out about him or her feelings for him until I'd noticed a change in her and suggested a trial separation.
She enjoyed the attention he used to show her when they were at work and when they'd spend friday nights downstairs in our home. She used to suck him off in her car after work and apparently he was quite hard to bring off that way and she used to joke to me that she saw that as a fun challenge. She always succeeded. His cum was slightly salty and she liked that but was always happy to share it with me when she'd come upstairs for me to clean her up.
She tried to persuade him to come upstairs for a threesome but he was so nervous about coming to our place when I was there that I fitted a lock on the living room door. Once he felt settled, he was able to keep her entertained for most of the night, until he had to go home to his wife at 4am.
Eventually though, he started acting quite strange and she began to dislike being around him and she dumped him, which he did not take lightly and caused her all sorts of problems at work.
That was when she met her knight in shining armour. Another colleague stepped up to look out for her. He was very obese, had long hair that had really started thinning out and, judging by the love letters I saw from him, could spell no better than a 10 year old. He had a fat, 6 inch penis but apparently, he was a very passionate lover, which she enjoyed. She hid the fact she was seeing him for several months, apart from admitting a couple of blowjobs and I didn't find out about him or her feelings for him until I'd noticed a change in her and suggested a trial separation.
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My husband has an over sized dick for me. It’s very uncomfortable at times so I prefer smaller dicks. I am
Very picky about looks if they are not somewhat handsome I don’t message them back.
my long term liver is about 7 inches and he is just perfect for me, please I call him Pesob! Pussy eating son of a bitch! Because he is the master of that!
Very picky about looks if they are not somewhat handsome I don’t message them back.

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The woman I dated in my early twenties at one point told me after she first met me that she couldn't take her eyes off me. She was extremely attracted to me. Not as a brag, but more to support the rest, I've been told by more than a few women I was handsome.
But as we progressed, the thing she loved the most? Fucking random strangers. If he was clean? She was down. Her thing was exactly what you said. She was a type A, always had a plan, always did the right thing person. Straight A's all through grad school, and high paying career. She looked like and was often compared to Diane Chambers on Cheers. But when she got naked? She didn't want any of that. The after care always involved her reflecting on "What would people think if they knew?"
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I do think that many or some people compensate in their sexual life for what they do in everyday life and visa versa. So many men who turn over control to their wives sexually are very controlling and dominate in their professional or business life. Many men who are powerless in their everyday life, seek power over others sexually. Women who might feel controlled or submissive in their everyday life, maybe the women who dominate others sexually. Of course, this is a very psychodynamic observation.
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My wife has a regular bull. He's much younger and nice looking but his cock is way smaller than mine. She still likes to fuck him because it's taboo. When she's done with him we have amazing sex.
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Not sure about ugly and small but I do find it hot when she's with someone a lot older than her
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I think my hubby is very attractive, and he also has a large penis. So all of my bulls have been smaller than him. However I prefer it that way, as he hurts me a good bit. I am very picky about looks. And teeth! The guy must have nice teeth.lol I attend to pick the same kind of man. Good looking, funny, easy to talk to and a social drinker. With a beard or goatee at least and light brown to blonde hair.
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