Wasn’t sure what to title the post so that’s it lol. I think I found my favorite forum on this site. Never really came in here until today but I believe that most here share my same way of thinking. I’ll try to make to make this short as possible so here we go.
My wife knows that I want her to actually have a boyfriend who she has a casual sexual relationship with. At first she had zero interest and was completely put off bye even bringing it up. That was probably 2 or so years ago. Since then things have evolved some. We’ve switched from a fuck buddy to a younger male friend just to do things with. Mainly the things I dislike doing. Someone she can hang out with, no drama, no expectations or anything like that. We’ve really talked the past couple of days and she’s not 100 percent on board but not against it either.
Last night I had some really weird dreams about her and guys and without going into detail here I told her this morning. She just kinda smiled. So the other morning I couldn’t sleep so I was looking up hotwife articles and came across one that I actually sent her to read today . Told her to keep an open mind and replace the word “bull” with friend and replace a couple other terms also. Don’t know if she’s read it yet or not and probably won’t ask her. I’ll let her bring it up. If she does great if not then that’s ok also.
I do believe she’s on board with finding a guy friend to do things with, text with and talk on the phone with. Yesterday morning she said her friend group has gotten smaller and i brought up “that’s why you need a guy friend, less drama and men are simple creatures who will go along with most anything”. I think she liked that idea and explanation a lot.
So her finding a guy friend I’ll leave in her lane because she needs to find him, not me. But my question is where do you all think she’d find one? Her hobbies are good ones that can go either sex. I also did mention that this could be a strictly platonic relationship or it could be more. I expressed that I would be very ok with either and she seemed to understand this completely.
So hopefully she’s on the hunt or maybe will be soon….
So I’m not a cuck and have zero interest in being one. That’s why this forum is right up my alley!
Sorry for the long read and if you’ve read all this thank you! If you respond thank you very much!
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We share a lot of your opinions, and that's the way it was for several years, but time throws up a host of situations that frustrate and discourage those of us who march to a different tune. However, I keep trying to convince my wife to expand her male friendships and let nature take its course. Like you, I am not interested in my practicing cuckoldry, nor is my wife. We just enjoy respectful sexual openness and her preference for younger men.
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She just needs to find a guy friend or two now. I hope she will look but ultimately that’s up to her.
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Follow up. She read the article today and said she’s not sure that’s her. I told her that hotwifing would be a huge confidence boost to a woman and also a huge validation to the husband that his wife is highly desirable in which she said true to both.
She said she will try to find a “guy friend” though. I don’t if this was just to appease me or if she is genuine. I kinda think it’s genuine.
She said she will try to find a “guy friend” though. I don’t if this was just to appease me or if she is genuine. I kinda think it’s genuine.
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Seems like a nice progress. Would you share the article you sent her or where you found it.