Hello from Spain

[estrellado]

Hello from Spain, my name is... whatever J, or you can use my nick. I am married for the last 20 years, I am 51 years old and my wife is 43 years old. We live in the north of Spain.

Our story is a bit long and I don't want to get into too much details. Our relationship was about to wreck 7 years ago by multiple reasons but we decided to stick together because our son. She is very attractive and she has a shop in our small village, in the city centre.

I started sharing my fantasies about hot wifing her, and it took about 2 years of deep talks. I knew she was unfaithful 7 years ago but I though it has been only once. I was wrong. After we talked, for weeks, seems we got a new understanding of our relationship.

Our problem is that she can admit things she has done but she doesn't enjoy admitting as much as I do enjoy knowing about them. But if something happens, she will eventuially tell me. It is hard to explain those things, also because English is not my mother tongue.

For her, if I am involved in her adventures, it is a turning off. But on the other hand, this last years I have been useful for her to put her in touch with people in our holidays, or doing it in vacations, since she doesn't have much to choose in our small village, and "fishing" far away from home has become something safer for us.

We have gone twice to a swingers club but, even I was excited about the ambientance and talking to other couples and maybe imagining her going to share a room with another guy, she was not in the mood at all in the swinger's club.

After reading many of the stories in the chat, I am happy I am not the only one with the same fantasies here. And every individual person is different.

She doesn't talk good English (it is worse than mine, if that can exist) but she prefers dating foreign people in holidays in Spain, makes her feel safer from rumours, and I do think it is more exciting for her. If you plan to spend holidays in the north-east of Spain, we can exchange more information

[afagehi7]

Bienvenido a OHW. Tu Ingles es excellente y mejor que mi Espanol para estoy no es terrible para uno gringo.

So is this what you are saying: she likes to play with other guys but she doesn't like to tell you about it. Or that she likes to cheat?

What didn't she like about the swing club? Perhaps she doesn't want you to be around?

[alby]

welcome to the forum estrellado.

what type of men is she into? does she prefer a certain nationality?

[Her number1]

Welcome, estrellado.

[estrellado]

Bienvenido a OHW. Tu Ingles es excellente y mejor que mi Espanol para estoy no es terrible para uno gringo.

So is this what you are saying: she likes to play with other guys but she doesn't like to tell you about it. Or that she likes to cheat?

What didn't she like about the swing club? Perhaps she doesn't want you to be around?

Yes, we do have an agreement she goes with other guys. But she doesn't like to share a lot about her dates, not specific details at least. But we do share all the social around the dates and even help her to set up dates and everything, specially on holiday season when we do it most.

[estrellado]

Welcome, estrellado.

Thank you very much!

[estrellado]

welcome to the forum estrellado.

what type of men is she into? does she prefer a certain nationality?

She likes french because she speaks only french as a second language, and she doesn't speaks good English. But we do use apps to set up dates and I help her to do the introductions in the preliminary dates with english speaking. She is not into a specific nationality but she does like "ethnical" traits such blue eyes or tall guys.

[estrellado]

What didn't she like about the swing club? Perhaps she doesn't want you to be around?

About the swinging club, she didn't like the ambientance or she was not in a good mood. We were talking to a couple, I liked it and we went to sit down in a bed downstairs to keep talking more privately even our intention was to have a preliminary chit chat, not sex. At some point the other couple started making out and I was in the mood to do the same with my wife but she left. And when I talk to her, she was disgusted because she was listening a man waking in the next bed. That's how she rationalised it but I think she was just not in the mood to share any intimacy with other couples.