Mentoring

[Chester916]

Hi,
After years of discussion, my gorgeous wife of 25 years has agreed to dip our toes into the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle. She demands that we start very slowly and thoughtfully. With that in mind, she would like us to communicate with couples already in the lifestyle with the hope of finding female mentors to kind of guide her slowly. Would anybody feel comfortable assuming that role? We would be so grateful. Thank you!

[leggysman]

Great news :-)

Let me be the first to suggest that your Mrs sign up for her own OHW account, get verified (as a woman), and join the other verified hotwives in the Ladies Lounge - a forum hidden from the rest of us rabble. The friendly and experienced women of "The LL" would be very helpful with support and advice, I am sure.

Once she gets familiar with the board she can contact armyguyot1 for verification instructions viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838

[Lookingforadventure]

I agree with this suggestion. There are many approaches to hot wifing, and your wife may not yet know what she's looking for. In the Ladies Lounge we have women who are still wannabees, those who are hot wives with multiple partners, those who are poly, hot wives who meet men "in the wild", and those who use the internet. Consider it a buffet of potential mentors, and we will all be happy to have her join us.

[Natatude]

I agree with this suggestion. There are many approaches to hot wifing, and your wife may not yet know what she's looking for. In the Ladies Lounge we have women who are still wannabees, those who are hot wives with multiple partners, those who are poly, hot wives who meet men "in the wild", and those who use the internet. Consider it a buffet of potential mentors, and we will all be happy to have her join us.

I also agree,, I enjoy the ladies lounge very much, please have her join us! We all mentor each other!!

[2inUPMichigan]

Welcome to OHW Chester916

One of the things that makes this site unique is our VHW (verified hotwives) community. The VHW'S all have bright blue names as the VHW Admin my name is in to make it easier to identify us.

The VHW community is a very helpful group and resource for any and all hotwives. No need to fit into a predetermined mold here! We are about supporting each other and helping to find your individual path along this journey.

I look forward to reading about your journey together as it unfolds.

2inUP
VHW Admin

[Chester916]

Thank you for the initial advice. Do you think the Ladies Lounge will allow her to connect with women in the Hotwife/cuckold lifestyle in our area whom she can meet in person to establish friendships?

[Seekingmore12]

Ohw has allot of presence in the USA and other places…you never know

As for the suggestion that she joins and becomes verified, definitely do this…

[Chester916]

Thanks. She joined last night and we are awaiting verification.

[Chester916]

Update: she was still awaiting verification and instead received a message related to needing approval due to age. Very odd, as she is 56. Please advise.

[afagehi7]

Update: she was still awaiting verification and instead received a message related to needing approval due to age. Very odd, as she is 56. Please advise.

When you sign up it gives you a question related to age. If you read it wrong you'll answer wrong and then need age verification.

[Jujube]

What does some of the members name highlighted in green signify?

[leggysman]

What does some of the members name highlighted in green signify?

There's a legend at the bottom of the Index page.

Green is sponsors - people who've donated some money to help keep the site running (we also have a private area).

Donation link: viewtopic.php?f=23&t=60970

The paypal link needs to be updated monthly, and the latest one can usually be found in either the first or last post of the thread. Looks like the latest one just expired, so you can poke armyguyot1 to create a new one.

[Chester916]

This is starting to get crazy. My wife originally signed up on an email we share. That is where she may have accidentally hit the button that triggered the age verification . Then she signed up with her personal email and still got the age verification. She remains 56 years old. We would love some guidance here. Thank you.

[afagehi7]

This is starting to get crazy. My wife originally signed up on an email we share. That is where she may have accidentally hit the button that triggered the age verification . Then she signed up with her personal email and still got the age verification. She remains 56 years old. We would love some guidance here. Thank you.

She has to use her own email. 2 accounts same email look like someone pretending to be 2 people.

When she clicks on register, she needs to click on the button born before. Its easy to accidentally click on the wrong one because the wording is different. She is born BEFORE not the second one. I did the same thing when I signed up.

[Chester916]

Thank you so much! She’s finally in. How does get to the Ladies Lounge?

[Sally7]

Thank you so much! She’s finally in. How does get to the Ladies Lounge?

Tell her to get in touch - We can see if we can direct her to the right person...
But now I see the later conversation, that's already been done.

[leggysman]

armyguyot1 has a post here about getting verified: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838

She can click the contact link next to that post to send a message to armyguyot1 when she's ready

[Chester916]

How does she private message? We are almost there. Thanks so much for your patience.

[Chester916]

How does she private message? We are almost there. Thanks so much for your patience.

[leggysman]

Clicking on the little 'contact' speech bubble to the right of a message will let you PM someone. Or click on Private Messages at the top right.

All users need a minimum of ~5 posts to prove they're legit (not spammers, etc), before they are moved out of moderation status and allowed to PM. While she's in moderation status her posts will be delayed slightly from appearing, until they are approved by a moderator.

It's a good excuse for her to introduce herself here, I think!

[JimmyVeiff]

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[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum JimmyVeiff.

[CuriousCpl2]

The idea of getting the Mrs. her own account and having a mentor of some sort are great ideas! Happy we stumbled across this post and thread.