Hello!
This is something I've been interested in since for about 18 years now. I assume it has foundations with one of my friend's always getting the girl I liked in high school. Then while dating the girl I'd lost my virginity to I learned she had sex with two guys in one night. First I thought I was jealous but then it turned me on that she was so adventurous and that other men would want her. I'd fantasize about her cheating on me with my mentioned above.
I'd later date a girl who had slept with two of my friends and that turned me on even more as it made it a bit more real.
Eventually I got married and still have had thoughts about cuckolding. I'd love to explore it with my wife but am nervous about how she would react.
I joined here to explore the subject more.
Always curious
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mattyg_2671
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Re: Always curious
When broaching the subject with your wife for the first time , you want to do it in a “safe” way to gauge her reaction. Maybe describe a dream you had; “I had this weird dream where you did xyz, I can’t explain it but it turned me on and I woke up with a huge hard on and now I can’t stop thinking about it.”
If she shows any interest and doesn’t mind talking about it, the discussion might open up for you.
What was her sexual history before she met you?
If she shows any interest and doesn’t mind talking about it, the discussion might open up for you.
What was her sexual history before she met you?
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Jonjones1529
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Re: Always curious
Before we dated in high school she had sex with 5 people, 2 in a foursome. We had broken up and she added another 9 before we reconnected years later.
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Jonjones1529
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Re: Always curious
Like details of her sexual history or how many people? She's been with more people than I have. At a short time in her life she was a party girl, that's when she had the foursome. If the guys took turns fucking her or did it at the same time I couldn't say, she never told me. In the foursome the most she says she did with the other girl was make out. There were a few other guys she fucked when she was partying. I was the 2nd that she had a relationship with.
Between breaking up and getting back together she didn't have many serious relationships just guys she would call when she was bored.
The dream conversation is a good idea, she's even told me dreams where she cheated on me. I could ask her how that made her feel maybe and if it excited her lead that into a real conversation.
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little sissy Benita
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Re: Always curious
Welcome here,
Before she started to cuckolding me, i never tinked about cuckolding. I was before cuckolding jealous husband and i don´t wanted that she talk with other men without me......laugh.
Maybe i can be happy that it was her idea to try cuckolding?
What does she think about the topic of cuckolding in general?
greetings little Benita
Before she started to cuckolding me, i never tinked about cuckolding. I was before cuckolding jealous husband and i don´t wanted that she talk with other men without me......laugh.
Maybe i can be happy that it was her idea to try cuckolding?
What does she think about the topic of cuckolding in general?
greetings little Benita
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Jonjones1529
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Re: Always curious
little sissy Benita wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 5:06 amWelcome here,
Before she started to cuckolding me, i never tinked about cuckolding. I was before cuckolding jealous husband and i don´t wanted that she talk with other men without me......laugh.
Maybe i can be happy that it was her idea to try cuckolding?
What does she think about the topic of cuckolding in general?
greetings little Benita
Lucky! I wish my wife would bring up cuckolding. I'm not sure how she feels about it in general, we've never discussed it. Guess I just would be nervous on doing it. The dream idea someone poised was good and I may try that.
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little sissy Benita
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Re: Always curious
eah - looking back, I see it as a stroke of luck.
But of course there were ups and downs for me and I had to make a decision. For example, when she fell in love with one of her African friends/lovers - or when she told me that she wanted him to move in - it was a shock for me when she told me that she no longer saw me as a husband or as the father of the children - or when she said that the only way to stay with her would be to become her little daughter and agree to a regression into babyhood.
Not easy was it me as she said that she want to be pregnant by him and that she stopped with birth control pills and he don't use condoms
But now we are a larger family (some of his family now live in the house too) - the relationships have changed completely - I have described some things in other posts.
Perhaps it would be wise to talk to her in general terms about cuckolding at the beginning - without hinting that you are interested in cuckolding and to wait for her reaction.
greetings little Benita
But of course there were ups and downs for me and I had to make a decision. For example, when she fell in love with one of her African friends/lovers - or when she told me that she wanted him to move in - it was a shock for me when she told me that she no longer saw me as a husband or as the father of the children - or when she said that the only way to stay with her would be to become her little daughter and agree to a regression into babyhood.
Not easy was it me as she said that she want to be pregnant by him and that she stopped with birth control pills and he don't use condoms
But now we are a larger family (some of his family now live in the house too) - the relationships have changed completely - I have described some things in other posts.
Perhaps it would be wise to talk to her in general terms about cuckolding at the beginning - without hinting that you are interested in cuckolding and to wait for her reaction.
greetings little Benita