My wife is getting close to her first affair.

[isinlarsa]

We started sleeping in separate rooms over an argument. After we worked things out it was just easier to sleep separately. On occasion, she would have a guy over and he could just stay overnight. Now it just works out better since Ethan comes over two or more times a week, sometimes later at night. It's nice because she can have him over without having to ask me or having me make other arrangements to sleep in the other room.

Do you get to fuck her when she doesn't have an overnight guest?

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

We started sleeping in separate rooms over an argument. After we worked things out it was just easier to sleep separately. On occasion, she would have a guy over and he could just stay overnight. Now it just works out better since Ethan comes over two or more times a week, sometimes later at night. It's nice because she can have him over without having to ask me or having me make other arrangements to sleep in the other room.

Hubby and I have had arguments like that! If it's working out for you both that is what's important.

[jguy]

It works out well for both of us. I get up earlier than her and also it gives her freedom to have him over whenever she wants.
Lately we've been wanting to meet another guy. Not big on clubs, but we may go there again and check it out.
And no, we don't have sex together very often lately. She has been having good sex and doesn't want to mess that up.

[jguy]

I need some advice. My wife wants to cuck me for two weeks where she spends time solely with her boyfriend. They will hang out every day together - for the most part at our house (we have dogs and things that need attended to) and I am not allowed to interfere or come upstairs - at all. I can however, put up internet cameras in the kitchen, living room, bedroom, anywhere I want! and will be allowed to watch them at all times.
I can masturbate all I want, but must remain in the basement and cannot have any contact with her for two weeks - even when he's gone.

I told her I really have to think about this. But this would be the ultimate cuckold above anything I have heard of.
I would get to watch them in the most intimate settings and she promised to always leave lights on for me to view.
She said they would only do things together at the house also.

My heart is racing because I feel this may be the end of us if I agree.
Seems like she would totally be in love with him by the end.
I don't want to lose my wife, and I very much love her, and this seems like it could make her fall for him.
But I absolutely love the idea of watching them in these intimate settings - I really want to view them alone, to see exactly what they do together when I'm not there. I've always wondered what they were like together when I wasn't with them.

She told me she's good either way and not to feel like she is pressuring her. It was something the two of them thought of, not her idea.
I told her I need to weigh the pros and cons.

So... big decision and I'm not leaning either way yet.

So please, Any advice is appreciated.

[FNQLivin]

You don’t sleep with her. You don’t have much PIV sex. She’s spending more and more time with him. She’s in love with him. As hot as it sounds, I think you know the answer.

[jguy]

Good point. I mentioned to her this is going in the wrong direction; she acted like she understood. She started stroking me and saying things about it's not fair I haven't got fuck my wife and how hot it is when I have to watch him take her. She was so wet and she slid my cock on her and said "You know you like to watch him put his cock in your wife, and I love having him in me". Then she slid me deep into her tight pussy. It had been so long. While we were having sex she kissed me and asked me "can he have me for two weeks?" I asked if we could have sex more, and she agreed we needed to, and of course, I agreed to her wants.

[FNQLivin]

Double post

[FNQLivin]

And there she goes. Your wife is manipulating you and you just went hook like and sinker. The fact that you ask for advice means you have serious doubts.

There is so much doubt in your mind yet your kink overrides what you know. He is stealing her (as much as anyone can ‘steal’ another person) and you’re just going along with it.

You’re going to be living downstairs in your own home whilst another man makes love to your wife for 2 weeks. You’re paying him in effect whilst you are consigned to the basement.

[jguy]

Yeah. You're right. I'm going to tell her I said that in the heat of the moment. It's a bad idea.
I think I'm going to tell her it's time to move on. They are too serious.

[edgedndenied]

It seems your wife and boyfriend are looking at a trial run of living together as a couple without any interferance from you. Your sleeping in seperate bedrooms with virtualy no sex are you not living more like roomates instead of husband and wife. You have questioned where theres and your relationship stands in the past. You must be concerned.

[Mumfred]

Is there a way for you to step halfway into this? Where the do this for 2 days instead of 2 weeks?

[jguy]

That was good advice that I not allow my wife to have this two weel fling where all I got to do was watch them on cameras.
It actually worked out a lot different than I ever expected. She called him and broke ties. She let him know they can't see each other again and that her marriage is more important than sex with him. I guess she just wants to reconnect with me.
I guess it hurt his feelings and they had a blow out fight and she blocked him too.
So we agreed no more mentioning his name. No more texting or talking to him.
She said it was one way or the other and if I want her exclusively, she wants that too.

So, I guess that is the end of this two year long affair.

[readyy2009]

Awesome news jguy...You must be feeling pretty good about your relationship now

[edgedndenied]

Glad to hear things are looking up for your relationship with your wife. Are you planing to move back into the master bedroom and sleep together?

[Jujube]

What an interesting turn of events! I thought relegating you to the basement and subjecting you to a two week continuous cuckold movie was going to be the end of your relationship with her! I think she woke up and said to herself, “ what am I doing ?” A reset was definitely in order. I’m not sure it’s over with him though-I remember you changing the codes and her giving him the key to the house, and how he’d come over and take her beside you in the middle of the night. She needs more boyfriends that don’t punch so many love-buttons!

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I need some advice. My wife wants to cuck me for two weeks where she spends time solely with her boyfriend. They will hang out every day together - for the most part at our house (we have dogs and things that need attended to) and I am not allowed to interfere or come upstairs - at all. I can however, put up internet cameras in the kitchen, living room, bedroom, anywhere I want! and will be allowed to watch them at all times.
I can masturbate all I want, but must remain in the basement and cannot have any contact with her for two weeks - even when he's gone.

I told her I really have to think about this. But this would be the ultimate cuckold above anything I have heard of.
I would get to watch them in the most intimate settings and she promised to always leave lights on for me to view.
She said they would only do things together at the house also.

My heart is racing because I feel this may be the end of us if I agree.
Seems like she would totally be in love with him by the end.
I don't want to lose my wife, and I very much love her, and this seems like it could make her fall for him.
But I absolutely love the idea of watching them in these intimate settings - I really want to view them alone, to see exactly what they do together when I'm not there. I've always wondered what they were like together when I wasn't with them.

She told me she's good either way and not to feel like she is pressuring her. It was something the two of them thought of, not her idea.
I told her I need to weigh the pros and cons.

So... big decision and I'm not leaning either way yet.

So please, Any advice is appreciated.

My advice is to ask her WHY she wants it this way. What's her real motivation for wanting it? What does she want it to achieve?

Now that the situation is resolved, I think these are still important questions for her to address. Was it her bf's idea or hers? She needs to understand that the sex is fun and she can tease you with it, but her marriage must come first. Even if it started from her getting "even" with you for you cheating, if she loves you and intends to stay married, she needs to act like it. Even I think a 2 week romp is way over the top and won't lead to a good place for your marriage. On a serious note, since this all started from your unfidelity, she may have hurt she's working though. I highly suggest you both go to a marriage counselor. If you both like the lifestyle and want to continue it, go to a lifestyle friendly counselor. They are easy to find on the Psychology Today website.

[jguy]

Life has just returned to normal. She doesn't really want to go back to having any other partners.
Just a boring vanilla life. It's weird cause she is fine without him in her life.
She just wants to focus on us and not bring up other guys, or even fantasize about it.
Yeah, maybe she will change her mind. Right now she seems done with that lifestyle.
Time will tell.

[FNQLivin]

I think this is for the better. She obviously loved it whilst it was going on but it seemed to consume her.

[jguy]

I think so too. She said she thought it was something I would enjoy since we reconnected after the weekend outing. And honestly, I would have loved watching him take her and fuck her and see them be intimate alone, but I'm not going to bring that up to her now.
She said if it wasn't something I was wanting to do then she didn't want to do it either.
What sounded like a fun time could have turned out to have a bad ending.

[FNQLivin]

I think he was the problem more than her.

[jguy]

She did state that she was up for anything I wanted to do. And she was easily influenced by his suggestions.
She never could understand that not only that I would I allow her to fuck other guys, but that I enjoyed watching it so much.
And when the idea was proposed to her, she thought it would be the ultimate for me and for her.
She told me she just wanted to do it for me so I could see how intimate they were when they were alone, how nice it was for her to just let herself go and make love to him, and then to see how crazy it would drive me just watching them for two weeks.
I guessed that is why she would kiss me with his cum. She knew it would make me rock hard and she wanted me to experience first hand her fucking another guy while I was there.
It was fun, but it has been fun being with it just being her, knowing there isn't anyone other than me, at least for right now.

[Pecannut]

Could it work as a bit shorter time than 2 weeks. That is so long time. Maybe a weekend?

[Jujube]

I think she’s as addicted to it as much as you, probably to the point where she thought she was going crazy. She woke up and knew it couldn’t go on this way or your marriage would be ruined. She’s washed her hands of it for the foreseeable future, but the bug really never goes away. I bet down the road she and you will relive these hot times, if only in the bed together. Keep us posted. I’m sure her bf isn’t happy about it!

[jguy]

I think I'm more addicted to it than her. All I can think about is how much I want her to have sex with him again. She's just not into it.
So.. today is his birthday. We've talked about him some and she misses him, but she doesn't want to go back to having a relationship with anyone else. She did mention the three of us going out for a drink would be fine. I said you should give him a blowjob for a B-day present. She just nodded like maybe she would think about it.
So, I think this is harder for me than her.