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[Saras_Stag]

I am so amazed and glad we found this forum. You’re all awesome and acting as our support group when things go sideways! I honestly cannot imagine plunging into something like this without this kind of support and encouragement.

[azrp]

My wife & I have been through the flakes & ghosting & it's never easy. You just have to keep your thoughts positive, know that it's their loss & move forward. You are a sexy beautiful woman & the right situation will come along.

[socal63]

So sorry Sara and hubby, it is a shame this happened to you, but it does happen, his loss. Get back on that horse and go for a nice ride.

[a2malways]

oh i'm so sorry . it is so difficult finding people. just think how difficult it is to find people to date, same thing in hotwifing

It’s ok. Hubby said the same thing to me. I’m still bummed, but trying to get back in that horse…or hopefully soon on one..

This sucks. But as others have emphasized, it's not you it's him. You have much to offer, both in physical and psychic terms: a beautiful body and an embrace of a certain "joie de vivre" in this new experience (if I dare I say in my inadequate Toronto franglais). There are lots of suitors out there who would love the chance.

Don't be discouraged. And lean on your husband as he clearly adores you. This will pass except as a reminder of how you were there for each other when life tossed up a discouraging curve ball

All this means is that assholes like J jeopardize our Canadian reputation for politeness. So on behalf of all Canadians I say...
"Fuck him!"

Not literally. He missed his chance.

[Saras_Stag]

Love everyone taking the time to reassure us (and especially Sara!)

She’s doing much better now that J reached out and was very apologetic about being busy working. He then said he’d try to get everything done but another day might be easier. Sara’s confidence came roaring back and she told him she’s worth making time for, she’s done playing around.

We’re heading out for a nice light dinner as planned. Maybe J will happen, maybe not, but either way I think Sara has broken through another emotional barrier - she now recognizes he is probably a flake but if he’s just scattered maybe he still has a shot. But this delaying won’t fly, she has a bunch of new chats going. So proud of her!

[Saras_Stag]

Currently at dinner. Sara is teasing J and told him our waiter was hot (he is!) and he said he wants her to suck on him while I watch, but he’s still saying he’s trying his best to finish work. Sara told him it’s fine, she has other prospects (ha!)

Which… she does! Enter T, a statuesque black man who is straight and to the point and W, a gorgeous Asian guy. Did I mention Sara loves K/J/C dramas and the sexy guys who star in them? He’d fit right in. She’s chatting with both DURING our dinner! I told her of course it’s fine, that’s why we’re out! She calls me her wingman and I love it.

Her confidence is growing with every second. It’s so awesome to see.

[Saras_Stag]

Looks like J is out for tonight, he says he really wants to but is stuck.

W looked promising until he sent a recent pic and he is not as in shape as he first appeared. Since Sara has that at home (though I am working on it) she lost interest quickly.

T is a whole other story. He was in Montreal to see someone but lives in NYC and won’t be back until next month. They exchanged a lot of great texts and some pics and they have tentative plans to meet up next time he’s in the city. He’s very direct and to the point and Sara loves that.

We’ll head to a bar but given it’s Sunday likely we won’t pop that cherry tonight. That said, Sara is having fun and her confidence is coming back strong which is great. It really is a matter of time (and the right guy!)

[leggysman]

Sara is having fun and her confidence is coming back strong which is great. It really is a matter of time (and the right guy!)

A hot, sexually available woman is never going to suffer for lack of options. That's just a fact of life. It's only, as you say, a matter of finding the right one(s).

[Saras_Stag]

We got home not too long ago. W is back in the running as he followed up with some great chatting, and a much better selfie that shows how cute he is (according to Sara). He’s only in Montreal for a week so time is tight but maybe a lunch upcoming?

J also sent Sara a “tomorrow morning?” text. She was done with playing games and said “where and when and I’ll think about it”, he then said a suburb of Montreal. Both our alarm bells went off because we were sure he had said “downtown Montreal” when they first chatted.

Sara then asked him why was he changing where he lived? He said “it was a mistake” then specified that he lived near a mall in that suburb. She then sent him a screenshot where he had said he lived in downtown MTL and told him no one would make that mistake.

I then immediately vetoed J, though Sara would have I’m sure. Lying and then lying about the lie. We’re both happy to be done with him. She’s furious at him.

[leggysman]

Unfortunately there are fakes, flakes, and picture collectors out there. They're just getting some online jollies, and go 'poof' when it comes time to meet in person. The shittiest of those guys will go as far as scheduling a date, and then standing her up. I think sometimes it's better to wait with the sexting and pics, until after you've met, because that's all these guys are after.

Another way to weed them out is to use a paid dating site. When everybody (or at least the men) is paying to be there, you can be more sure that they're 'real'. The unserious guys want their online jollies to be free.

[Saras_Stag]

Unfortunately there are fakes, flakes, and picture collectors out there. They're just getting some online jollies, and go 'poof' when it comes time to meet in person. The shittiest of those guys will go as far as scheduling a date, and then standing her up. I think sometimes it's better to wait with the sexting and pics, until after you've met, because that's all these guys are after.

Another way to weed them out is to use a paid dating site. When everybody (or at least the men) is paying to be there, you can be more sure that they're 'real'. The unserious guys want their online jollies to be free.

Thanks Leggysman, I appreciate it.

Funny thing is J is a paid profile on Feeld.

So after she told him I had vetoed him he kept trying to text pleading his case, which Sara found amusing so she was goading him a bit after we got home. One thing I knew was Sara loves bad boys. J is vulgar, lied, but also sent live pics and is a very impressive specimen.

Why does this matter? After we went to bed she was bummed about J not being the one because she wants the first time to be spectacular and she thought it would be with J given the bad boy dynamic. At one point we started fooling around and I began fingering her, while talking about how T might visit Montreal while I’m on my business trip next month.

She was enjoying it, but I could feel something holding her back. Then she whispered she was still thinking about J. I then asked if she wanted J to fuck her. The hottest fucking voice ever started telling me how he was bad but she wanted him, wanted him to fuck her so badly. I told her I wanted to see him fuck her so much. She started moaning harder over and over and I fingered her harder and harder and she came over and over again moaning J’s name all the while. We were both talking about how J would be fucking her right up until I said he was cumming in Sara because she wouldn’t let him pull out when he came.

She then moaned that I had to reclaim her so I got on top and started fucking Sara as hard as I ever have before. I didn’t last very long before her cumming triggred one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever had. It was like a three part orgasm which felt almost like multiple; the third part I felt a part of my balls I’ve never felt before pushing the cum out as I came more than I ever have.

Holy shit, I’m definitely getting the picture now how hot reclaiming is.

J isn’t a real possibility anymore but I do have to admit he fueled some incredible sex last night.

[Saras_Stag]

Today we’re getting back into the routine with kids in school and back to work, but Sara had time to continue chatting with W. He has a really sweet personality and is very charming and cute, and since he’s only visiting (he used to live here but now lives in Europe) it’s low stakes. He’s busy evenings but offered to meet Sara during the day so they have a date set for Wednesday at a coffee shop. She’ll get to see if there’s a spark and since it’s public I don’t have to be there (as I’ve mentioned it’s all Sara’s decision if I am or not). She doesn’t think anything will happen but is open to seeing how things click in person.

She also made a new connection with V, an outdoorsy guy who lives an hour east of here.

[Saras_Stag]

Sara was having second thoughts about W. He was super nice but she wasn’t feeling it, you know? And since he’s only here for a short time, she felt bad about wasting his time given he was trying to hook up, so she sent him a chat letting him down easy this morning.

If you recall, there was M who she chatted with around New Year’s who offered to host us who she hit it off with. He’s currently on a trip but she’s decided to try to arrange something when he’s back in Montreal. She also just exchanged numbers with V (the outdoorsy guy a hour away) as he’d like to call her.

As much as the J drama could have dissuaded her, I’m proud she shook that off and is continuing her adventure. She’s gaining confidence too - the confidence to call it off with W because she deserves a first date that leaves her breathless with all the possibilities of being a hotwife going out with someone that leaves her weak in the knees.

[Saras_Stag]

OK, I'm going to focus on one adventure at a time because, as I mentioned earlier, Sara has a few irons in the fire at any one time. Considering we started this in earnest only two weeks ago is kind of mind bending! I'm also going to move to pseudonyms instead of initials as even I'm having a hard time keeping track.

Also, programming note: This thread will wrap up soon. We used it to introduce ourselves but I want to capture Sara and my Hotwife adventure in the main Hotwife forum, so our last post in this thread will be pointing to the first post in the new thread once she crosses that threshold for good.


On THAT note, W - who I will from now on refer to as Wade, did pique Sara's interests and started feeling it, especially as he is very cute and was very nice chatting with, so she changed her mind again and did meet him for coffee. They met at 11AM Wednesday and I didn't hear anything for the first 90 minutes after she got there, until he went to the bathroom and she checked in. She told me she was having a great time and touching his arm a LOT.

He was busy so when they left after almost 3 hours talking about everything and anything he walked her to her car and then, for the first time in 24 years, Sara made out with another man. When she got home she was on cloud 9, telling me that she loved his smell and how sweet he tasted when they kissed. It was so hot to hear, and she knew she wanted Wade to be her first.

The last couple of days have been a whirlwind as Wade has a lot of stuff going on between remote work and family visits until he leaves Saturday to go back home to Europe, but they were able to arrange another date TODAY at 2PM (less than 3 hours from now)! He's got a friend's condo to himself so Sara will meet him there.

The last couple of days have been a complete whirlwind. Some very hot moments, some very nervous moments (her inner critic keeps telling her she's crazy to do this, that Wade doesn't really like her, that she's fooling herself)... I've been surprised at some of my reactions as well. Wade and Sara making out was hot to hear about and while it was very exciting I didn't find myself jealous. I DID find myself jealous last night as she was choosing her lingerie and outfit for today - all of a sudden it felt very real and I realized during so many years of our marriage she wouldn't be sexy for me and my old insecurities came flooding back.

Luckily, as we're so open and honest now, I told her about this and as she does every time she sees me processing my emotions, she offered to stop - Sara really is the most amazing wife. I told her it was ok - just talking through it was helping and I know how difficult those years were for her, how she felt trapped and unhappy at how she had to turn off a part of herself to fit society's idea of how a wife should behave and think and act. And seeing her blossoming and the fact that she's never been sexier, closer, or more loving with me - it was easy to realize I would NEVER want to go back to how we used to be.

So that's the latest for now, me working at home while she prepares to visit Wade. I can't concentrate on anything.

[wemightjust]

thats fantastic... she will soon be full filling both your fantasies .. have a great time

[leggysman]

Good luck to both of you today! It'll be awesome

FYI, if you PM the mods, they can move this thread to the Hotwife forum, and rename it for you if you like. That way, your origin story won't be lost! (threads that are inactive for a year or so are auto-pruned by the software).

Our Hotwife thread was originally in the Wannabe forum with a different title

The list of mods is here: memberlist.php?mode=group&g=8

afagehi7 and armyguyot1 are the mods/admins who seem to be online the most nowadays, but chris is also around (he did ours, back in the day)

[Saras_Stag]

Good luck to both of you today! It'll be awesome

FYI, if you PM the mods, they can move this thread to the Hotwife forum, and rename it for you if you like. That way, your origin story won't be lost! (threads that are inactive for a year or so are auto-pruned by the software).

Our Hotwife thread was originally in the Wannabe forum with a different title

The list of mods is here: memberlist.php?mode=group&g=8

afagehi7 and armyguyot1 are the mods/admins who seem to be online the most nowadays, but chris is also around (he did ours, back in the day)

Oh nice! I’ll ask Army as I’ve chatted with him already. Thanks!!

[KinkyBear]

Congrats! I am sure you are on pins and needles!

While you wait, what did you ask of Sara? Will she do any pics or videos?

[Saras_Stag]

Sara, my amazing and beautiful wife is now officially a hotwife!!!

I asked if she wanted to post but she said she likes my writing better, so here’s what she told me from the drive home:

Sara got to Wade’s place at 2. She took off her coat and was in a cute wrap dress (easy to untie!), brand new fancy black bra and panties, and black stockings (turns out black is Wade’s favourite). They sat on the sofa. He hugged her and then started kissing her and her neck and she felt more relaxed. She took off her dress. His hands starting running up and down her legs and body, and then she took off her bra and he started sucking her breast as she straddled him. After about 15 minutes of heavy petting and making out she asked if Wade wanted to move to the bedroom and he took her by the hand to go there.

Wade did finger Sara, though she says I’m much better at it she did cum, and she came again when he went down on her. Sara says that she was a bit surprised to see he was smaller than I was - about the same length (I’m 5.5”), but thinner. She was able to give him a BJ and take all of him in her mouth without hands! When he entered her she appreciated the different feel from mine.

Sara says her moaning would make Wade stop and say “Oh fuck!” before he could keep going - he could barely contain himself. Once he did come (all over her stomach) he sweetly got tissues to clean her up and apologized, which Sara found adorable. They then took a break and had chatted for a while… until they started making out again and went for round 2. This time when he came he pulled out but there wasn’t much, so Sara thinks he probably started cumming in her.

Then Wade went to shower (he offered Sara one, she declined explaining I wanted to smell her when she got home) and texted me. That’s when I found out she was a hotwife.

She came home and we had dinner with the kids as I patiently await my reclaimation.

[airhorn]

Sara, my amazing and beautiful wife is now officially a hotwife!!!

I asked if she wanted to post but she said she likes my writing better, so here’s what she told me from the drive home:

Sara got to Wade’s place at 2. She took off her coat and was in a cute wrap dress (easy to untie!), brand new fancy black bra and panties, and black stockings (turns out black is Wade’s favourite). They sat on the sofa. He hugged her and then started kissing her and her neck and she felt more relaxed. She took off her dress. His hands starting running up and down her legs and body, and then she took off her bra and he started sucking her breast as she straddled him. After about 15 minutes of heavy petting and making out she asked if Wade wanted to move to the bedroom and he took her by the hand to go there.

Wade did finger Sara, though she says I’m much better at it she did cum, and she came again when he went down on her. Sara says that she was a bit surprised to see he was smaller than I was - about the same length (I’m 5.5”), but thinner. She was able to give him a BJ and take all of him in her mouth without hands! When he entered her she appreciated the different feel from mine.

Sara says her moaning would make Wade stop and say “Oh fuck!” before he could keep going - he could barely contain himself. Once he did come (all over her stomach) he sweetly got tissues to clean her up and apologized, which Sara found adorable. They then took a break and had chatted for a while… until they started making out again and went for round 2. This time when he came he pulled out but there wasn’t much, so Sara thinks he probably started cumming in her.

Then Wade went to shower (he offered Sara one, she declined explaining I wanted to smell her when she got home) and texted me. That’s when I found out she was a hotwife.

She came home and we had dinner with the kids as I patiently await my reclaimation.

Hooray, congratulations! Sounds like things went fairly well.

[Adventurer]

Sara, my amazing and beautiful wife is now officially a hotwife!!!

I asked if she wanted to post but she said she likes my writing better, so here’s what she told me from the drive home:

Sara got to Wade’s place at 2. She took off her coat and was in a cute wrap dress (easy to untie!), brand new fancy black bra and panties, and black stockings (turns out black is Wade’s favourite). They sat on the sofa. He hugged her and then started kissing her and her neck and she felt more relaxed. She took off her dress. His hands starting running up and down her legs and body, and then she took off her bra and he started sucking her breast as she straddled him. After about 15 minutes of heavy petting and making out she asked if Wade wanted to move to the bedroom and he took her by the hand to go there.

Wade did finger Sara, though she says I’m much better at it she did cum, and she came again when he went down on her. Sara says that she was a bit surprised to see he was smaller than I was - about the same length (I’m 5.5”), but thinner. She was able to give him a BJ and take all of him in her mouth without hands! When he entered her she appreciated the different feel from mine.

Sara says her moaning would make Wade stop and say “Oh fuck!” before he could keep going - he could barely contain himself. Once he did come (all over her stomach) he sweetly got tissues to clean her up and apologized, which Sara found adorable. They then took a break and had chatted for a while… until they started making out again and went for round 2. This time when he came he pulled out but there wasn’t much, so Sara thinks he probably started cumming in her.

Then Wade went to shower (he offered Sara one, she declined explaining I wanted to smell her when she got home) and texted me. That’s when I found out she was a hotwife.

She came home and we had dinner with the kids as I patiently await my reclaimation.

Congratulations! That is an exciting development! I hope it was an incredible experience for all and for your relationship. (I'm sure it was for Wade because Sara seems awesome - he is a very lucky man)

[Seekingmore12]

What a wonderful turn of events, congratulations to the both of you…and wade too.

Have you two thought about having him regularly while he is in and out of town ? Some do say that things get better and better when the connection grows.

Funny thing struck me here, while wade was not “ bigger “, he seems to have still hit the spot so to speak, inquiring minds want to hear from Sara on this :-).

Congratulations again on this step forward, you should be proud of yourselves.

G

[isinlarsa]

She sounds like it was a good experience, but not fantastic. Hopefully, it will whet her appetite to broaden her sexual horizons.

[Lookingforadventure]

Congratulations on this big step. I'm so glad it went well. And I was secretly rooting for Wade. He seemed the most emotionally mature about the whole thing, and the verbal chemistry was there. To me, that flirty exchange is key to great sex.

Congratulations as well on talking about your feelings when you had them. You'll find that skill to be very important in this crazy adventure.

When does Wade come back to Montreal?

[Sara_MTL]

Hello all,
I guess everyone would like to hear my side of the story. I am still raw from the whole experience. I didn’t think I would feel all these emotions that I haven’t felt in over 25 years. Let’s take it to the beginning. As hubby mentioned before I wasn’t sure about Wade because he didn’t have a ribbed body or a big cock, but I decided to meet up with him because of texts back and forth. And I loved the way he looked and me and he is so handsome and his smile was sexy. 

Anyway, Wednesday we meet for coffee and yesterday was our time together. I was so nervous and excited all the way to see him. It didn’t help my nerves when I hit traffic and the time kept on doing up. I also had to find parking..eeek. When, I got there he opened the door and I told Wade right away I am super nervous. He said, don’t over think it and he led me to sofa. We sat down and her hugged me right away, which put my body at ease. He slowly started kissing my neck, while holding my head with one hand and gently stroking my side, then butt. I then straddled him. His hand finally moved to my breast, where he sucked on my nipple and I let out a moan. He then kissed me hard and I loved the way he kissed. Soft, but firm. I took off my warp dress (which I wore for easy access) and took off my bra. He took off his underwear and pants and shirt. I was able to grind on him, while he sucked on both breasts. This lasted not too long, when I asked him if we could move to the bedroom. He was super sweet and took me by the hand and led me down the hall to the room. 

Wade was sweet and asked what positions I like, I told him surprise me. He sat me on the bed and started kissing my neck, moved down my breast and then started fingering me. He was good, but not as good as hubby. I did cum with Wade. He smiled his sexy smile, which made me moan. He asked for a bj and I said, sure, but it’ll be a mini one. He asked, why? And I said, hey! I don’t want you to cum just yet. He came back on top of me and we started to fuck. It was so good and I was so happy, moaning in his ear, which caused him to say oh fuck! several times because he didn’t want to cum. Teeheehee.  He came on my stomach and was so sweet. He apologized and got a tissue paper and wiped my stomach. 

We took a break and we started chatting and laughing. When we started cuddling, round 2 began. He started kissing my neck, sucking on my breast, then he moved down and started eating me out. It didn’t last long before I came. He moved up and started kissing me, when I told him, my turn. I flipped him over and took his cock in my mouth. I was able to have his whole cock in my mouth without using my hands. He had his hand on my head gently guiding me. He then went on top of me and fucked me again. Again, he would say, oh fuck!, because I was moaning and wrapping my legs around him as tight as possible to get his cock further into me. He lasted just as long as the first time. He came on my stomach again, but not as much. When it was over we chatted again.

This whole experience was very intense and I am still processing it. He is leaving for Europe today, which makes me sad because I feel like I am losing a friend. I am shocked about how much I like and wish I can see and have him again. Wade, hubby and I all regret not recording this experience. 

When I got into my car, I called my hubby and recounted our whole experience. It was a roller coaster of emotions when I saw him. 

Hubby had to wait to reclaim me, but I am so happy that he did. It was an explosion of multiple orgasms. He knows how to finger and suck on my breast, which brings me to ecstasy over and over again.