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Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
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Im 38 male and I get to wear my wife's underwear because she wants me to. She does have a bull, her ex-boyfriend but she has not yet cuckolded me with him.
Im 38 male and I get to wear my wife's underwear because she wants me to. She does have a bull, her ex-boyfriend but she has not yet cuckolded me with him.
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Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
Then how is he a bull?
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
Dear EmilieFemBoy
Thanks for joining.
I am a submissive wannabe-sissy-cuckold from Scandinavia.
My Wife is gradually becoming more dominant, I am very happy for you that your Wife wants you to wear Her underwear.
Do you want your Wife to cuckold you with Her ex-boyrfriend, and have you told Her this?
I really hope you will start your own thread in the cuckold-forum and enable us to follow your journey.
Sincerely
elina
Thanks for joining.
I am a submissive wannabe-sissy-cuckold from Scandinavia.
My Wife is gradually becoming more dominant, I am very happy for you that your Wife wants you to wear Her underwear.
Do you want your Wife to cuckold you with Her ex-boyrfriend, and have you told Her this?
I really hope you will start your own thread in the cuckold-forum and enable us to follow your journey.
Sincerely
elina
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
Welcome to the forum.
Wearing your girlfriends underwear, even with her wanting you to, doesn't really make you 'feminized'.
Are there other ways that you consider yourself feminised?
Also, could you explain your statement about the 'bull' that hasn't yet fucked your girlfriend.
Wearing your girlfriends underwear, even with her wanting you to, doesn't really make you 'feminized'.
Are there other ways that you consider yourself feminised?
Also, could you explain your statement about the 'bull' that hasn't yet fucked your girlfriend.
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Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
How is he not? My hottie keeps sexting with him but they have not yet have sex during our relationship.
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Thank you for your message. Since allready most of of the comments are just about trying to start an argument I am actually planning on leaving this forum and not coming back. I was going to open our situation more but Im starting to think that maybe this isn´t the right place to do so.elina wrote: ↑Wed Jan 15, 2025 11:26 pmDear EmilieFemBoy
Thanks for joining.
I am a submissive wannabe-sissy-cuckold from Scandinavia.
My Wife is gradually becoming more dominant, I am very happy for you that your Wife wants you to wear Her underwear.
Do you want your Wife to cuckold you with Her ex-boyrfriend, and have you told Her this?
I really hope you will start your own thread in the cuckold-forum and enable us to follow your journey.
Sincerely
elina
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Well I dont have my boy underwear anymore and I do wear make-up because my mistress tells me that I should look pretty if her bull wants to try me out. Like i said bull is her ex and during OUR time of RELATIONSHIP they have not yet have sex but she is sexting with him and sharing photos wearing lingerie that I have bought her. She's had 2 different guys during our relationship and other one she actually had 4 months relationship.trecital wrote: ↑Thu Jan 16, 2025 12:38 amWelcome to the forum.
Wearing your girlfriends underwear, even with her wanting you to, doesn't really make you 'feminized'.
Are there other ways that you consider yourself feminised?
Also, could you explain your statement about the 'bull' that hasn't yet fucked your girlfriend.
Is there something else you would like to correct now?
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
Nobody is trying to start an argument with you.EmilieFemBoy wrote: ↑Sat Jan 18, 2025 9:48 amSince allready most of of the comments are just about trying to start an argument I am actually planning on leaving this forum and not coming back. I was going to open our situation more but Im starting to think that maybe this isn´t the right place to do so.
But your statements were confusing and/or ambiguous. Normally, if you state that your wife "has a bull" then most people would assume that he is fucking her. Otherwise he is just more like a boyfriend. But then you say that he is an ex boyfriend. Which makes for some confusion.
Secondly, you talk about yourself being "feminised". But putting on some female underwear hardly qualifies as feminisation, does it?
The only reason people were querying what you'd written, was to get clarification. Then, with clarification, they would be better able to understand your situation and engage with you.
But, it's up to you. If you don't want to have a serious conversation, then go and try your luck elsewhere.
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
Please, Emilie, don't let these critical people discourage you on here. Some people are very rigid about their terms they use, and rules they imagine exist, but don't really.EmilieFemBoy wrote: ↑Sat Jan 18, 2025 10:36 amWell I dont have my boy underwear anymore and I do wear make-up because my mistress tells me that I should look pretty if her bull wants to try me out.....
Is there something else you would like to correct now?
We are not all that critical. I enjoyed hearing the beginning of your story, and would like to hear more. I find that I have some things that are similar to your situation. I hope you won't run off.
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
Dearest EmilieFemBoyEmilieFemBoy wrote: ↑Sat Jan 18, 2025 9:48 amThank you for your message. Since allready most of of the comments are just about trying to start an argument I am actually planning on leaving this forum and not coming back. I was going to open our situation more but Im starting to think that maybe this isn´t the right place to do so.elina wrote: ↑Wed Jan 15, 2025 11:26 pmDear EmilieFemBoy
Thanks for joining.
I am a submissive wannabe-sissy-cuckold from Scandinavia.
My Wife is gradually becoming more dominant, I am very happy for you that your Wife wants you to wear Her underwear.
Do you want your Wife to cuckold you with Her ex-boyrfriend, and have you told Her this?
I really hope you will start your own thread in the cuckold-forum and enable us to follow your journey.
Sincerely
elina
Please do not leave the forum.
Please just disregard comments from people, like trecital, who come across as thinking they have all the answers and the right to interrogate and make demands. He may not even understand how disruptive he comes across to many of us, including you.
You will find that if you continue to post, more and more people who is genuinely interested in your situation will respond and between us and the moderators, you will be able to reap the rewards of a site like this.
Sincerely
elina
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
You are simply doing what you have accused me of, i.e. thinking you have the answers. I'm not 'interrogating' anyone. In my original post I simply asked the same question that others had asked, re the OP's statement about his wife's 'bull'.
What 'demands' have I made?
I'm not being 'disruptive', simply asking for clarifications. I can't help it if you are a bit too sensitive that you find simple questions as being 'disruptive' and 'demanding'.
I saw the OP's response, above, and replied in good faith, explaining what I'd originally asked about.
I was hoping that, by my clarifying my original questions, that he would be prepared to engage, and give more information.
So, let's have a bit less of the 'holier than though' attitude please.
The op is very welcome here, of course. But if he takes umbrage at any questions asked, then it might be that this environment doesn't suit him. Which is a shame, but there's not much that I can do about that.
And you might not understand how sanctimonious you come across to many of us, including me.
So, we've both said our piece. And I suggest we leave it there and agree to disagree.
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
No one is being 'critical'. And no one is being "rigid about their terms". When someone uses the term 'bull' it has a generally understood meaning. And that meaning doesn't normally imply 'boyfriend who isn't having sex with the female concerned'.MartasBoy wrote: ↑Sun Jan 19, 2025 8:05 amPlease, Emilie, don't let these critical people discourage you on here. Some people are very rigid about their terms they use, and rules they imagine exist, but don't really.
We are not all that critical. I enjoyed hearing the beginning of your story, and would like to hear more. I find that I have some things that are similar to your situation. I hope you won't run off.
What 'rules' do you imagine that I think exist?
If you are referring to the use of the word 'feminised' then, again, most people wouldn't consider the phrase "I get to wear my wife's underwear" as being a strong indicator of 'feminisation'. The op did clarify, later, that there was a bit more to it than that, which is fine. I still wouldn't say that counted as 'feminisation'. But maybe it does under your interpretation. Or as you'd call it "rules".
You are simply being as rigid in interpretation as you claim others are.
Just let the op explain more, and maybe his position would become clearer.
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
I'm sorry if you felt that I was 'correcting' you. I wasn't.EmilieFemBoy wrote: ↑Sat Jan 18, 2025 10:36 amIs there something else you would like to correct now?
I was simply asking for clarification and more information. Which you did reply with.
However, I would suggest that if you give fairly scant details at the beginning, then you will inevitably get some questioning in return. That isn't a sign of people 'correcting' you.
Please do not take offense, when none was intended.
I would be more than happy for you to continue and expand on what you have already said.
You are welcome here. More so, in my opinion, than in most other forums dealing with similar topics.
But, I would still suggest that taking offense so easily is not the best way forward.
Hopefully you will engage further.
Sent you a pm.
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I think it is being unnecessarily critical, and nitpicking at terms. Many of us would consider the wearing of women's underwear, to be one small step into feminization. If he feels more feminine wearing them, then that is a little bit of feminization.trecital wrote: ↑Thu Jan 16, 2025 12:38 amWelcome to the forum.
Wearing your girlfriends underwear, even with her wanting you to, doesn't really make you 'feminized'.
Are there other ways that you consider yourself feminised?
Also, could you explain your statement about the 'bull' that hasn't yet fucked your girlfriend.
He stated that the guy they're contemplating engaging with, is an ex-lover of his wife. They have already had sex in the past. They are both interested in one another, and she is sexting him regularly. She is texting with him. He is thinking that this guy will eventually become her bull.
There have been lots and lots of people come on here saying, "I think we have identified a guy to become my wife's Bull." The term is often used to refer to prospective Bulls, before sex has occurred. According to your definition, no one can be referred to as a Bull, before sex has actually occurred.
I think your definitions are unnecessarily rigid, and it naturally makes newcomers feel criticized and unwelcome. Why do the terms matter to you so much, when other people are feeling the feelings that go along with the terms.
It strikes me as unnecessarily pedantic.
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Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
WelcomeEmilieFemBoy wrote: ↑Sat Jan 11, 2025 11:53 amH!
Im 38 male and I get to wear my wife's underwear because she wants me to. She does have a bull, her ex-boyfriend but she has not yet cuckolded me with him.

Just so you know (if you don't already), we don't usually argue too much around here. Most of us get along very well!
Of course everyone is welcome. Don't let the above debate put you off participating on OHW! Engage with it if you want to, or don't, but I'm sure plenty of people would like to hear about your story and situation - including all the guys who've already commented - they're good guys and they mean well.
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Thank you leggysman for your rational comments.leggysman wrote: ↑Sun Jan 19, 2025 3:43 pmWelcomeEmilieFemBoy wrote: ↑Sat Jan 11, 2025 11:53 amH!
Im 38 male and I get to wear my wife's underwear because she wants me to. She does have a bull, her ex-boyfriend but she has not yet cuckolded me with him.![]()
Just so you know (if you don't already), we don't usually argue too much around here. Most of us get along very well!
Of course everyone is welcome. Don't let the above debate put you off participating on OHW! Engage with it if you want to, or don't, but I'm sure plenty of people would like to hear about your story and situation - including all the guys who've already commented - they're good guys and they mean well.
I do not like to engage with people who are clearly out for an argument. But, I reserve the right to defend myself when accussed of things that don't apply.
I've responded to them, have said my piece, and will not respond further.
My intention, and this is genuine on my part, was to try to engage further with EmilieFemBoy, to try and encourage him to explain more about his situation.
Like you, I hope he will be able to continue his story and situation.
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I respectfully disagree.trecital wrote: ↑Sun Jan 19, 2025 2:10 pmYou are simply doing what you have accused me of, i.e. thinking you have the answers. I'm not 'interrogating' anyone. In my original post I simply asked the same question that others had asked, re the OP's statement about his wife's 'bull'.
What 'demands' have I made?
I'm not being 'disruptive', simply asking for clarifications. I can't help it if you are a bit too sensitive that you find simple questions as being 'disruptive' and 'demanding'.
I saw the OP's response, above, and replied in good faith, explaining what I'd originally asked about.
I was hoping that, by my clarifying my original questions, that he would be prepared to engage, and give more information.
So, let's have a bit less of the 'holier than though' attitude please.
The op is very welcome here, of course. But if he takes umbrage at any questions asked, then it might be that this environment doesn't suit him. Which is a shame, but there's not much that I can do about that.
And you might not understand how sanctimonious you come across to many of us, including me.
So, we've both said our piece. And I suggest we leave it there and agree to disagree.
The major difference here is that the OP threathens to leave (or maybe he allready did) leave the forum because you come across as agressive and not welcoming. He did not express a desire to leave because of my post.
I therefore suggest you reflect upon that with a view to see what you can learn from this, rather than going on the attack starting to argue with lots of others who have posted here but did not generate the same reaction as you did.
It is entirely possible that you do not intend to offend, but the interesting aspect is that some other posters appear to find you offensive.
Sincerely
elina
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
MartasBoy wrote: ↑Sun Jan 19, 2025 3:24 pmI think it is being unnecessarily critical, and nitpicking at terms. Many of us would consider the wearing of women's underwear, to be one small step into feminization. If he feels more feminine wearing them, then that is a little bit of feminization.trecital wrote: ↑Thu Jan 16, 2025 12:38 amWelcome to the forum.
Wearing your girlfriends underwear, even with her wanting you to, doesn't really make you 'feminized'.
Are there other ways that you consider yourself feminised?
Also, could you explain your statement about the 'bull' that hasn't yet fucked your girlfriend.
He stated that the guy they're contemplating engaging with, is an ex-lover of his wife. They have already had sex in the past. They are both interested in one another, and she is sexting him regularly. She is texting with him. He is thinking that this guy will eventually become her bull.
There have been lots and lots of people come on here saying, "I think we have identified a guy to become my wife's Bull." The term is often used to refer to prospective Bulls, before sex has occurred. According to your definition, no one can be referred to as a Bull, before sex has actually occurred.
I think your definitions are unnecessarily rigid, and it naturally makes newcomers feel criticized and unwelcome. Why do the terms matter to you so much, when other people are feeling the feelings that go along with the terms.
It strikes me as unnecessarily pedantic.



Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
The op did not threaten to leave because of my post. Do not try to twist what was said.elina wrote: ↑Sun Jan 19, 2025 10:57 pmThe major difference here is that the OP threathens to leave (or maybe he allready did) leave the forum because you come across as agressive and not welcoming. He did not express a desire to leave because of my post.
I therefore suggest you reflect upon that with a view to see what you can learn from this, rather than going on the attack starting to argue with lots of others who have posted here but did not generate the same reaction as you did.
I therefore suggest you reflect upon that with a view to see what you can learn from this, rather than going on the attack starting to argue with me.
It is your attitude that comes across as agressive, not mine.
Leggysman offered us to draw a line under this, which I also did in my first reply to you. But you continue to want to criticise and argue.
I'm sorry that you find it necessary to continue to make a fuss.
I will waste no further time arguing with you.
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Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
Well actually that was the reason I was planning on leaving. You sending me pm about this did not really help at this situation at all. Im am so sorry that I could not provided every detail of my situation in one post at New Member Intros but I think you are going way too far with this.The op did not threaten to leave because of my post. Do not try to twist what was said.
If op (me) is not answering questions the way you want them to, that is no reason for anyone to leave the forum.
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Thanka EmilieFemBoy for clarifying this.EmilieFemBoy wrote: ↑Mon Jan 20, 2025 5:46 amWell actually that was the reason I was planning on leaving. You sending me pm about this did not really help at this situation at all. Im am so sorry that I could not provided every detail of my situation in one post at New Member Intros but I think you are going way too far with this.The op did not threaten to leave because of my post. Do not try to twist what was said.
If op (me) is not answering questions the way you want them to, that is no reason for anyone to leave the forum.
I sincerely hope that you can now get back to your story.
Sincerely
elina
Re: Feminized boyfriend from Scandinavia
To EmilieFemBoy: my original question and request for clarification seems to have caused you so much stress.
I will leave you in peace.
Good luck.
I will leave you in peace.
Good luck.