Hi, a reader here.

[Jess_ie]

I had been reading fiction for years and was just starting to get interested in how it actually played out IRL.
This kink was one of the few things that could give me such pleasurable pain.

[snoogaloo82]

I had been reading fiction for years and was just starting to get interested in how it actually played out IRL.
This kink was one of the few things that could give me such pleasurable pain.

What other fetishes interest you?

[Deeperlove1369]

I'd been begging my wife to wife-swap with friends for 2 decades and got nowhere. I peeled the onion back and discovered that what really turned me on all these years was the way she lit up when a guy she thought was cute was flirting with her, I've always been proud of her and wanting to show her off and jealousy is stupid. I've had the Hotwife fantasy forever without even knowing what Hotwife was, so once I discovered the real reason she was never on board for wife-swapping was she couldn't stand even the thought of me with another woman - it was a no-brainer. I do however get erotically charged just thinking about my wife fucking other men (women too would be great but she's not into that unfortunately), so I finally broached her playing while I remained faithful to her. That took quite some time for her to wrap her head around it, so we were 21 years in when she finally made it reality. We made our rules list, our boundaries, and she decided how to play it out - after all, this is about our Hotwives. For us, reality was even better than the fantasy, in every way imaginable. We got closer, love deeper, trust unconditionally, and easily communicate about everything, even if it hurts.

I will also tell you that reality for some doesn't work out so well. Fantasizing about another man fucking your wife to high heaven is very different than seeing it for real, so you two need to spend an enormous amount of time discussing, reading, and nurturing this fantasy before jumping in. Also understand that this is very fluid, you will find things you love, some you hate, some indifferent so constant focused attention and adjustments will need to be communicated before and after each rendezvous. Good luck, have fun, and stay safe!