Religious wife….any advice

[RedRiot]

It might sound counter intuitive, but finding the right bull first might work better for you.

If it's someone she's legitimately attracted to, and feeling downright lustful for, she'll make excuses to lapse/water-down/re-evaluate her faith.

You need to be open to a new long-term relationship for her, and possibly "losing" her to him, because this new man will need to be like a potential second husband to her for her to ever consider even trying it.

I've seduced many Christian religious women and the biggest hurdle for them is finding someone worth "risking it all" for...

And, just what does it mean for us "Christian religious women" to be "risking it all"? What exactly do you think we are risking?

I'm not talking about you or your experience, I'm giving insight from mine, please don't take it as definitive.

As someone who's seduced women from being "faithful" to "unfaithful" to their vows, families, and religious beliefs, with dubious levels of the husband's acceptance; I can only say that the one thing they all have in common is that their wives were willing to step away from their values when it became a choice between sex with their average husband or getting the "full experience" of dating, fucking, and being in a relationship with a legitimate heartthrob.

[Farmgirl]

It might sound counter intuitive, but finding the right bull first might work better for you.

If it's someone she's legitimately attracted to, and feeling downright lustful for, she'll make excuses to lapse/water-down/re-evaluate her faith.

You need to be open to a new long-term relationship for her, and possibly "losing" her to him, because this new man will need to be like a potential second husband to her for her to ever consider even trying it.

I've seduced many Christian religious women and the biggest hurdle for them is finding someone worth "risking it all" for...

And, just what does it mean for us "Christian religious women" to be "risking it all"? What exactly do you think we are risking?

I'm not talking about you or your experience, I'm giving insight from mine, please don't take it as definitive.

As someone who's seduced women from being "faithful" to "unfaithful" to their vows, families, and religious beliefs, with dubious levels of the husband's acceptance; I can only say that the one thing they all have in common is that their wives were willing to step away from their values when it became a choice between sex with their average husband or getting the "full experience" of dating, fucking, and being in a relationship with a legitimate heartthrob.

Oh, now I see. Since you're a "legitimate heartthrob", you can make blanket statements about Christian religious women. Thanks for the clarification, without answering my questions.

[aztd]

Anal wow do with you and a tool?

[SPARTA7VBURG]

I too grew up religious and being from the south it was God, the Devil, Football, and Family lol. I was a late bloomer due to my religious beliefs and I stumbled upon this scene and haven’t turned back. It won’t be easy but I’d allow her to come to this if it’s something that intrigues her as well.

[Isguy4]

Things have gotten more sexual. But she still is a hard hard no on sharing. I think this is too internalized to ever overcome. Thanks for the advice though.

[hehe90]

Things have gotten more sexual. But she still is a hard hard no on sharing. I think this is too internalized to ever overcome. Thanks for the advice though.

Sorry I haven't read through all of this post. Have you tried seeing if she'd be into taking pics and seeing men respond online? Could drum something up inside her, I think a lot of couples start with that. Not even necessarily starting with nudes, could be just suggestive/erotic type snaps.

[Isguy4]

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[Isguy4]

I’ve shown her naked body to men before….

But she doesn’t know. She knows I’m turned on by the idea and is a little bit too, but she’d never do that. Too worried her pics will be out there forever.

[hehe90]

Well shoot if you ever wanna show some more men some of her, you've got a ton of options here! Don't be afraid to DM me especially!

[Say_Oy]

Coming into this a bit late but... isn't there a situation in the bible where an older man has a younger man "lay" with his wife?

[Say_Oy]

I’ve shown her naked body to men before….

But she doesn’t know. She knows I’m turned on by the idea and is a little bit too, but she’d never do that. Too worried her pics will be out there forever.

Don't show her face...

Do you tell her how pretty and sexy she is? Telling her that regularly might start her believing and wanting others to tell her...

[dnic]

My experience is that a lot of people use their religion to hide themselves from their God given desires. it further seems to me (as a person who has toyed with but not actually been in an open sexual relationship) that dealing honestly with one’s sexual desires not only makes for a more honest relationship with one’s partner(s) but one’s God as well. In that case, perhaps a person hiding behind religion is actually choking off one’s spirituality and, therefore, that person’s relationships with themselves and others including their spouse.

Maybe we need a different view of what it is to be faithful human beings in a Christian tradition.

[armyguyot1]

Farmgirl is right, there is a lot of sex in the bible. There is a list of sex that is prohibited but pretty much anything in a married bedroom is OK as long as it doesn't include relatives and such. Its the leaders who really screw it up and cause it to be looked at as anti religious. Many of those rules are generated to allow freedom of sex for the leader as in the Bhagwan or Jim Jones. The way I see it is if it's OK with me its OK with the bible. A lot is about control and not so much scripture. A lot of hangups in women is from mothers wanting their daughters go keep their knees together so they can find a husband and not be labeled. Young men think they want to marry a virgin and don't realize they wanted a slut until much later in life. I was fucking and older gal and so was a friend. He was older and so was she. I said once that she wasn't the kind of girl you would marry. He said on no she is what want to marry. 'A girl who will fuck your brains out every night and love it.

[dnic]

Farmgirl is right, there is a lot of sex in the bible. There is a list of sex that is prohibited but pretty much anything in a married bedroom is OK as long as it doesn't include relatives and such. Its the leaders who really screw it up and cause it to be looked at as anti religious. Many of those rules are generated to allow freedom of sex for the leader as in the Bhagwan or Jim Jones. The way I see it is if it's OK with me its OK with the bible. A lot is about control and not so much scripture. A lot of hangups in women is from mothers wanting their daughters go keep their knees together so they can find a husband and not be labeled. Young men think they want to marry a virgin and don't realize they wanted a slut until much later in life. I was fucking and older gal and so was a friend. He was older and so was she. I said once that she wasn't the kind of girl you would marry. He said on no she is what want to marry. 'A girl who will fuck your brains out every night and love it.

[Isguy4]

Well, hit me up on Snapchat if you wanna see her.

[Isguy4]

Hmmm…thought I’d get at least one taker lol

[joel68]

You could post some pics of her in the "Hotties" section and blur her face and any other identifying marks. I don't know exactly how to do that myself, but I am sure there are guys on here that could walk you through the process is you so desire.

Maybe you should think about it. That way all of us could enjoy the pics. Just sayin'.

[leggysman]

We're mostly a fairly ethical crew around here.

You should try to convince her it would be fun to share some anonymized snaps on here, and watch the reactions. Only members can view the Hotties forum, so they're not just going to show up in image searches anyhow, unless they get re-posted elsewhere, but then ... anonymized, right?. Make sure to follow the tips in Hotties about stripping metadata from the pic files.

[Her number1]

I’ve shown her naked body to men before….

But she doesn’t know. She knows I’m turned on by the idea and is a little bit too, but she’d never do that. Too worried her pics will be out there forever.

Then you can't post her pics here, because you have to have her permission.

[Isguy4]

Pm me?

[leggysman]

Pm me?

You seem really keen to share her unauthorized pics with guys (it's called Candaulism), but I think what the response you're (not) getting shows is: most of us don't want to participate if it's being done unethically. Talk to her, convince her!

You say she's "too worried her pics will be out there forever" but if you've been surreptitiously sharing the pics she trusted you to keep to yourself, they're already out there forever. You'd be safest to assume anything you share might get posted elsewhere, and proceed accordingly.

[Her number1]

Pm me?

I tried to respond to the PM you sent me, but your reciept of pm's is turned off.
I don't mind talking, but I have no interest seeing pics she has not given you permission to share.

Hotwifing is Ethical non-monogamy, without her permission, it's not ethical.

[thecountof9]

Hmm. Coming here to ask if you should try and share your wife is like going to a brewery and asking if you should have a beer. Seems like you may want a green light for your own desire rather than asking what’s best for the girl you made vows with. This is her experience and her’s to deal with afterwards. Don’t sacrifice the permanent on the alter of your gratification.

[trecital]

Then you can't post her pics here, because you have to have her permission.

I'm not condoning breaking the rules.....but, realistically, how many people that have posted pics here, have actually had their partners consent?
Oh, and I'm not including those posters that have just plucked some pics off the web, and described them as " my wife".