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New member here

Unread post by BlondeDesires » Tue Aug 22, 2023 4:45 pm

Hi im Diane, i signed up a while back but wasnt active until today. Im new, im fresh and im horny. Hopefully that is a good start. Im down for girl-girl, first BBC, 3somes and 4somes, and a lot more.

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Unread post by FrenchTrix » Wed Aug 23, 2023 3:58 am

Welcome and look forward to your posts. Location ?

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Unread post by trecital » Wed Aug 23, 2023 5:03 am

BlondeDesires wrote:
Tue Aug 22, 2023 4:45 pm
I'm down for girl-girl, first BBC, 3somes and 4somes, and a lot more.
Do you have any experience of the above? Would love to hear.

Welcome.

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Mr1SexyGILF
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Unread post by Mr1SexyGILF » Wed Aug 23, 2023 5:30 am

BlondeDesires wrote:
Tue Aug 22, 2023 4:45 pm
Hi im Diane, i signed up a while back but wasnt active until today. Im new, im fresh and im horny. Hopefully that is a good start. Im down for girl-girl, first BBC, 3somes and 4somes, and a lot more.
Welcum to OHW Diane.

Your brief introduction leads me to believe your husband is a very lucky man, to have such an open minded and adventurous LAYdy. I am very much looking forward to following your sexual journey, and the blossoming of your sexuality.

Would you mind sharing a bit of your history? How many men (and women) were you with before meeting hubby? How and when did you meet hubby? How long have you been married? Do you have good communication? Do you and hubby talk about you enjoying other men (and women)?

You might consider starting a thread in one of the main forums, that best fits the flavor of Ethical Non-Manogomy you feel would best suit you and your husband. You also should consider becoming verified to gain access to the ladies only forum.

Mr GILF
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr. Seuss

BlondeDesires
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Re: New member here

Unread post by BlondeDesires » Sun Sep 03, 2023 1:56 am

I had 2 men prior to hubby. Met him in college, married 6 years, he is smart and makes good money so i felt i was making a good choice but who would have thought i would end up needing more then hubby was packing in his pants.
He doesnt know i hace started playing and he cant. Too vanilla. I grew sexually abd he didnt.

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Re: New member here

Unread post by philxxo » Sun Sep 03, 2023 8:04 am

BlondeDesires wrote:
Sun Sep 03, 2023 1:56 am
I had 2 men prior to hubby. Met him in college, married 6 years, he is smart and makes good money so i felt i was making a good choice but who would have thought i would end up needing more then hubby was packing in his pants.
He doesnt know i hace started playing and he cant. Too vanilla. I grew sexually abd he didnt.
Well that sounds more like "cheating" rather than "hotwifing". I'm not sure you are in the right place. If you plan to do it behind your husband's back without his knowledge then that's an entirely different dynamic. Hotwife is about women being sexually free with the consent of the partner.

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Re: New member here

Unread post by zorro » Sun Sep 03, 2023 9:03 am

Actually, you seem to be saying you don't think your husband can accept the truth. Have you considered talking about the topic in hypothetical, theoretical terms? You might be surprised about the dark secrets that lurk in the limbic systems of men. After thinking about it, he (and you) may be surprised to hear that the thought leads him to sport wood.

And that is a beginning.

Aside from morality rules, one of the worst things about cheating is that it puts up a wall between the couple, something they cannot talk about. It is the antithesis of intimacy and mutual respect. Ideally, in a good marriage the couple are able to talk about anything.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."

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