Hello from Canada & Our Story

[Clement99]

Hello all - long time reader of the forums but new member.

Lots of great content here - I love the real stuff.

My wife and I have played with other couple twice in the past and really enjoyed it. The best part was watching the other husband fuck her - absolutely amazing.

Been out of the game a while but would love to play again or have her fuck another guy again. She is not into it at the moment but, a guy can dream.

[Lookingforadventure]

Welcome! We always like having more Canadians on the site. What part of Canada are you from. We are in the GTA.

How did you two get into playing with other couples? I'd love to hear your story.

[Her number1]

Welcome.

[trecital]

Welcome.
Always interested to hear how people's wife sharing story started.

[Clement99]

Welcome! We always like having more Canadians on the site. What part of Canada are you from. We are in the GTA.

How did you two get into playing with other couples? I'd love to hear your story.

We are in Alberta.

Probably about 10 years ago, sex with my wife was pretty vanilla. Blowjobs and anal were very rare and she really wasn’t into sex that much, I would always initiate - and get turned down a lot of the time.

I tried to get her to open up a bit about past boyfriends, fantasies and experiment a bit but, it was slow going. One thing she did say that got her going was that she and some friends in highschool, once watched gay porn. She loved seeing the bottom cum as he was being fucked - without touching himself.

I always tried to move our conversations to fantasy ideas and she would talk about it. Would never let me lick her at first but I insisted. Ass-licking was no-go but, one night I woke her up for sex and just went for it. She was half asleep and didn’t stop me. I loved licking her ass and, much to her surprise, she liked it.

Eventually, years of talk got us to placing an ad on Craigslist. We found a couple and did some soft play but the other wife got freaked out and ended it after one session.

We tried again and found a second couple to play with. Night one was a soft swap, no penetration but it went pretty well. Yhe sexting after that session was excellent…my wife asked “Can I fuck him - even if she doesn’t want to fuck you?” That was extremely hot - I knew night one went well for her!

Night two arrived and we traded wives again - this time the intention was to fuck. The other wife bragged about her blowjob skills and said “I swallow”. My wife never did so, I was definitely interested in filling her mouth.

We played a while and, as I was getting a blowjob, I heard my wife on the other bed ask him “Time to suit up?” He grabbed a condom and I got even harder.

My wife laid on her back and when I saw him stick his cock in her pussy, I exploded in his wife’s mouth. It was the hottest thing I had ever seen.

His wife choked a bit and said “How much do you cum? That’s the most I ever swallowed”. Really, it was because of what I saw happening on the other bed.

My partner and I paused for a bit while I watched him pleasure my wife with his long cock. They had a great time together - later my wife talked about how electric it felt every time he pushed in.

They had such a great time together, his wife freaked out and broke it off with us.

A couple weeks later, the husband texted my wife asking if they could get together - just the two of them. When my wife told me that, my cock was granite.

They sexted for a bit and I loved reading their communication. My wife even made him jerk off at work. He asked if I was OK with them fucking and, of course I was!

The problem was, his wife had no knowledge of this - even though he said she was good with it. My wife didn’t want to be involved in a cheating situation and ended it.

To this day, I would love for my wife to fuck him again. I may reach out to him and arrange something - maybe even get back together with his wife for me.

The reality is, sex between my wife and him was electric. She loved it and he loved it - they were a great match.

My wife asks “What if he was to contact me now?” I told her my only question would be “what hotel should I drop you off at?” The idea of dropping her off to fuck another guy is very hot.

I do think they will fuck again one day - it was too good to let it die.

The wife is currently in a sexual lull - pretty vanilla again. I might surprise her with this guy on her birthday or our anniversary.

There is our story.

[Lookingforadventure]

We are in Alberta.

Probably about 10 years ago, sex with my wife was pretty vanilla. Blowjobs and anal were very rare and she really wasn’t into sex that much, I would always initiate - and get turned down a lot of the time.

I tried to get her to open up a bit about past boyfriends, fantasies and experiment a bit but, it was slow going. One thing she did say that got her going was that she and some friends in highschool, once watched gay porn. She loved seeing the bottom cum as he was being fucked - without touching himself.

I always tried to move our conversations to fantasy ideas and she would talk about it. Would never let me lick her at first but I insisted. Ass-licking was no-go but, one night I woke her up for sex and just went for it. She was half asleep and didn’t stop me. I loved licking her ass and, much to her surprise, she liked it.

Eventually, years of talk got us to placing an ad on Craigslist. We found a couple and did some soft play but the other wife got freaked out and ended it after one session.

We tried again and found a second couple to play with. Night one was a soft swap, no penetration but it went pretty well. Yhe sexting after that session was excellent…my wife asked “Can I fuck him - even if she doesn’t want to fuck you?” That was extremely hot - I knew night one went well for her!

Night two arrived and we traded wives again - this time the intention was to fuck. The other wife bragged about her blowjob skills and said “I swallow”. My wife never did so, I was definitely interested in filling her mouth.

We played a while and, as I was getting a blowjob, I heard my wife on the other bed ask him “Time to suit up?” He grabbed a condom and I got even harder.

My wife laid on her back and when I saw him stick his cock in her pussy, I exploded in his wife’s mouth. It was the hottest thing I had ever seen.

His wife choked a bit and said “How much do you cum? That’s the most I ever swallowed”. Really, it was because of what I saw happening on the other bed.

My partner and I paused for a bit while I watched him pleasure my wife with his long cock. They had a great time together - later my wife talked about how electric it felt every time he pushed in.

They had such a great time together, his wife freaked out and broke it off with us.

A couple weeks later, the husband texted my wife asking if they could get together - just the two of them. When my wife told me that, my cock was granite.

They sexted for a bit and I loved reading their communication. My wife even made him jerk off at work. He asked if I was OK with them fucking and, of course I was!

The problem was, his wife had no knowledge of this - even though he said she was good with it. My wife didn’t want to be involved in a cheating situation and ended it.

To this day, I would love for my wife to fuck him again. I may reach out to him and arrange something - maybe even get back together with his wife for me.

The reality is, sex between my wife and him was electric. She loved it and he loved it - they were a great match.

My wife asks “What if he was to contact me now?” I told her my only question would be “what hotel should I drop you off at?” The idea of dropping her off to fuck another guy is very hot.

I do think they will fuck again one day - it was too good to let it die.

The wife is currently in a sexual lull - pretty vanilla again. I might surprise her with this guy on her birthday or our anniversary.

There is our story.

Thanks for sharing. Sounds like you've both enjoyed what happened in the past and also have some good boundaries about what you are looking for. That all bodes well for future success.

I don't think I'd arrange a surprise for her. I don't know your wife, but I need time to prepare mentally for a play date....especially if it has been awhile. Why don't you ask her if she'd like you to reach out to this guy? Or, since he may still be sneaking around on his wife, maybe ask if she wants to explore finding someone new.

You never know if you don't ask.

[Clement99]

True, a surprise is probably a bad idea. Communication make things work.

[Lookingforadventure]

True, a surprise is probably a bad idea. Communication make things work.

It really does. How did you feel about your experience with the wife? In your telling of the story, it seemed a bit as if participating in swinging/swapping was good for you BECAUSE it let you watch your wife with another man. It didn't sound like sex with other women was a huge motivation. Is that true?

If it was up to you, would you want a hot wife dynamic or a stag/vixen one? That's something for you to think about as you step into the future.

[Clement99]

Going into it, sex with the other woman was a major motivation but, I found what my wife was up to was more compelling. The other wife was a pretty mediocre partner - probably why her husband liked my wife so much.

I like the idea of swinging/swapping because I get to see her in action but also get some myself. She likes seeing me in action too.

It is a good point; because we have only had a few experiences, I’m not sure where it will end up. I do like getting together with other couples.

I think I would hate being totally left out so stag/vixen may be the way if we don’t swap.

I read a story yesterday of a husband who was at work while his wife was involved in two FFM threesomes. I am not sure I could handle being shut out like that. It works for some, I guess.

[Lookingforadventure]

Going into it, sex with the other woman was a major motivation but, I found what my wife was up to was more compelling. The other wife was a pretty mediocre partner - probably why her husband liked my wife so much.

I like the idea of swinging/swapping because I get to see her in action but also get some myself. She likes seeing me in action too.

It is a good point; because we have only had a few experiences, I’m not sure where it will end up. I do like getting together with other couples.

I think I would hate being totally left out so stag/vixen may be the way if we don’t swap.

I read a story yesterday of a husband who was at work while his wife was involved in two FFM threesomes. I am not sure I could handle being shut out like that. It works for some, I guess.

The key will be to talk to each other and debrief after each encounter. That way you can find out how it went from all points of view and find the sweet spot that meets your unique needs.

For my husband and I, we tried swinging/swapping and found it really hard. I need some sort of connection with the guy that I'll be having sex with. It was hard to find that kind of spark with someone, and also have a similar spark for my husband and the other wife. I think we tried it with four different couples. We only had repeat experiences with one of them, and that was a bit more in the "friend" zone but we just genuinely liked both the husband and the wife and had fun experimenting. With the others I usually felt quite meh about the experience and had no desire to do it again.

We have decided that the hot wife dynamic is where we want to be right now. My husband has a hall pass to play with other women if he wants, but right now he's enjoying MFM threesomes with me, and hearing about my hot wife adventures.

Enjoy the process as you find your own sweet spot.

[Clement99]

Talking about everything is definitely the key.

It’s funny but not that long ago, the thought of her being with another guy was a nightmare and today, I would enjoy her being with another guy.

Finding a couple to click with is tough. My wife and the husband clicked much better than me and the wife.

I am sure we will figure out a dynamic that works.

Thank you for the advice

[calguy69]

Talking about everything is definitely the key.

It’s funny but not that long ago, the thought of her being with another guy was a nightmare and today, I would enjoy her being with another guy.

Finding a couple to click with is tough. My wife and the husband clicked much better than me and the wife.

I am sure we will figure out a dynamic that works.

Thank you for the advice

Hello,

I'm Kris from Calgary and interested in talking and learning more about you folks. I have been with two couples in the past and happy to share and get to know you both, would you prefer to chat here or on kik?

[2inUPMichigan]

Talking about everything is definitely the key.

It’s funny but not that long ago, the thought of her being with another guy was a nightmare and today, I would enjoy her being with another guy.

Finding a couple to click with is tough. My wife and the husband clicked much better than me and the wife.

I am sure we will figure out a dynamic that works.

Thank you for the advice

Hello,

I'm Kris from Calgary and interested in talking and learning more about you folks. I have been with two couples in the past and happy to share and get to know you both, would you prefer to chat here or on kik?

Kris

You might want to start you own thread in New Members Intros so that this post doesn't get buried in the thread that Clement99 started.

2inUP
VHW Admin

[curiouschattycouple]

Very hot! Welcome.

[calguy69]

Talking about everything is definitely the key.

It’s funny but not that long ago, the thought of her being with another guy was a nightmare and today, I would enjoy her being with another guy.

Finding a couple to click with is tough. My wife and the husband clicked much better than me and the wife.

I am sure we will figure out a dynamic that works.

Thank you for the advice

Hello,

I'm Kris from Calgary and interested in talking and learning more about you folks. I have been with two couples in the past and happy to share and get to know you both, would you prefer to chat here or on kik?

Kris

You might want to start you own thread in New Members Intros so that this post doesn't get buried in the thread that Clement99 started.

2inUP
VHW Admin

Thank You, I did.