Hello, maybe a Wannabe?

[whosbeensleeping]

Thank you for sharing. Real life experiences are often difficult. I come here to learn from everyone, and I appreciate your candor.

[Wantsomefunto]

Numbers guy
Thanks for posting what I can only imagine is a difficult thing to even think about. A wife being dishonest and cheating is so difficult to deal with. I have been there so I know your angst.

The good thing is you both seem committed to what other wise seems to have been a good relationship. Talking about things openly will only bring you two closer now that she has told you of her indiscretions.

Maybe begin to ask her to tell you every detail of her last encounter. See how she reacts as she tells it. Does she get wet telling you and wants you to have sex with her after? Do you get hard as she tells you the dirty details? Ask her about his size and how long he fucked her and how many times. Did he cum inside her or use condoms? If you become very hard as she tells you, she will notice and be even more open with you about her sexual needs.

Seems she was a little slutty in her past and I am guessing she misses that rush and therefore has acted on her slutty desires when she travels. She seems like a perfect HW! Enjoy the ride!

[allways]

[quote I said I would keep my end of the bargain. She was forgiven. I still loved her. I said that if she’s committed to our relationship like I am, I can see a path where we could have an even more loving and closer relationship now. But we need to keep talking.

Thank you guys for letting me unload all of this on you. I’ll be honest, I don’t think we could handle the jump to “hotwife” anytime soon, although I’ve been an unknowing cuck.
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Once you get over the shock and the fact that it really turns you on Your pretty wife is secure in knowing any number of men can have her and you will love it. From your side you can put demands on her as to being able to be actively involved in watching. You gave a bit and now you can gain a lot from being so accomodating.

[Wantsomefunto]

So glad you got the truth out in the open. She seems like a beautiful, successful and highly sexual lady! You are lucky man in my opinion. Ask her for details about her last encounter and see if you get hard as she tells you. That will help you decide if you want her to continue having sex when she travels. Only this time she can let you know as it happens.

[BallSpanking]

I thought your description of her trysts was very interesting. The fact she participated in her office affair for years, even after marriage, implies she is able to decouple her sexual encounters from her home life, and has done so successfully during your marriage.
Have you introduced her to the HotWife concept? Does she know you would be supportive?

[Lucky Dog]

You sound like a really great husband, and you are both being very honest. If you are really a wannabe, a strong relationship is the only way this works. It's great having wife who loves sex and loves you, right?

[avid fan]

A very intriguing situation... good luck to you, sounds like if things play out right having turned a page in your relationship, it could open things up to some incredible opportunities!

[BallSpanking]

I have a hunch Anika could strongly identify with, and develop as, a HW ...
Secretly she thrills from being wanted and lusted after by these young studs.
It probably makes it an impossible temptation to resist if Kevin removes any constraints, or facilitates situations and encounters ...

[NumbersGuy]

Thank you for all of the support. I moved my posts over to the Cuckold section, given what I've learned. Under Discovering Anika.