Pressingher introduction

[Pressingher]

Name: Just call me Press
Age: 33
Height: 5'11"
Weight: 195lbs
Ethnicity: Black
Build: Cut/bodybuilding enthusiast (PFP is me)
Size: BBC

Hey everyone,

Call me Press if you're cool. long overdue introduction.

ENM has been my playground for about 10 years now. I've been a Bull, Stag, Dom light, and full-time Dom (as in 100% control in and out of the bedroom, her collared, friends family, and colleagues all aware, financial control, orgasm control, impact and breath play by her request). Not a big fan of impact/breath play but even in my most vanilla relationships my partners would request some degree of both. My first sexual partner liked bloodletting and light burning... Guess I have a type, or a type has me.

I'm all about taking charge but also being respectful. It's about open communication, getting what I want, and leading my partner to new heights of experience. I'm interested in exchanging my knowledge and stories with like-minded individuals, super chill, and all about consent.


I'm here to hang out, swap stories, and maybe even drop some wisdom. Let's keep this community exploring, keep it real, and live our fantasies!
Looking forward to some epic chats. I have a lot of stories; I'll share whenever it feels natural and or relevant to do so.

[Pufferfish]

Welcome. Always nice to have another bull around to offer advice from that perspective.

[TheHammer]

Hey Press, from your experiences with first time hotwives, what have they been surprised about the most for their first experience or something that they may have had a preconceived notion that was different.

[Pressingher]

Hey Press, from your experiences with first time hotwives, what have they been surprised about the most for their first experience or something that they may have had a preconceived notion that was different.

Good question. I have three responses.

Most new wives come to me thinking they know everything there is to know about their sexuality.

Example: I was with a sexy little 30 something Latina.(short lived, we only got together a handful of times because she wound up pregnant) She swore she needed 25 minutes to cum, was not multi orgasmic, and couldn't cum from penetration...Fast forward to my place after our first date and she's cuming HARD and pushing me out without me even thrusting.

The reality is for any couple new to the LS, you may know yourselves fairly well wothin the boundries of your relationship, but you don't know the person you will be with another man involved until it happens.

Second is the idea that she's doing this all for her husband. All it takes is one good date, sex doesn't even need to happen, but when a wife feels safe, attractive, and attracted, she won't easily let that go.

Lastly, 9 times out of 10 I hear "I was so nervous doing this, I thought I would feel guilty, but being with you feels so natural, does that make me a bad person". Pro tip fellas. She's doesn't usually feel guilty because she did it, she feels guilty because she loved it. I've had this conversation many times with wives that are too afraid to admit it to their husband's, so they go with "it felt wrong". In reality it felt more right than she could have imagined, but she wants to preserve her marriage.