Male half of married couple (mid 30s)

[Smit_hd]

Hi all. Totally new here and just wanted to read more about people's experiences and situations. I'm a mid 30s husband that is a stag/cuckold wannabe I guess you could say. My wife is a stunning 5'7", very athletic and fit brunette. Shes a head turner and bubbly personality. She is aware of my fantasies and we are open about our turn ons and desires. She has at times been open to entertaining the idea of hooking up with another man, at least in conversations but remains uninterested in actually doing it in real life. I'm hopeful one day we can move past the hesitation and see what fun we can have with it all. At this point, the closest satisfaction I occasionally get to all of it is hearing her sometimes tease the idea of having sex with another man or when she comments jokingly on who she would have sex with.

We've come close to her flirting with men at bars when we have been on vacations which has been a blast. Anyway, not sure where it will ever go but I remain hopeful.

[tit5atat]

Sounds like a good relationship! If you play your cards right eventually you will get a winning hand and she will enjoy another man. Just support her and be patient. Please keep us posted on any progress!

[snoogaloo82]

Hi all. Totally new here and just wanted to read more about people's experiences and situations. I'm a mid 30s husband that is a stag/cuckold wannabe I guess you could say. My wife is a stunning 5'7", very athletic and fit brunette. Shes a head turner and bubbly personality. She is aware of my fantasies and we are open about our turn ons and desires. She has at times been open to entertaining the idea of hooking up with another man, at least in conversations but remains uninterested in actually doing it in real life. I'm hopeful one day we can move past the hesitation and see what fun we can have with it all. At this point, the closest satisfaction I occasionally get to all of it is hearing her sometimes tease the idea of having sex with another man or when she comments jokingly on who she would have sex with.

We've come close to her flirting with men at bars when we have been on vacations which has been a blast. Anyway, not sure where it will ever go but I remain hopeful.

Sounds promising! Encourage her to flirt with men in bars. Bet her that you think she can't pick up a particular guy you've noticed. See if that works. Do it as a tease yourself. At least you two will have fun thinking of the prospects. lol Have you asked her why she doesn't want to date guys outside of you? Sometimes that will reveal the right way to approach things. At least it did for me. For me my sweetie was worried that it meant that I would start sleeping with other women, but I assured her that I'm a one woman guy. Now that may not be why your sweetie isn't going for it, but until you ask you'll never know.