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Posted: **Tue Jun 18, 2024 10:23 am**

Hi, I'm obviously new to the forum and I want to tell you my story. Maybe I can get some tips from you.

We've been a couple for 6 years. Married for 4 years. She's 38, I'm 34. We have children too.

It all started about a year ago, I was in hospital and had to have an operation. During my stay I asked myself how my wife was actually being fucked now, since I wasn't at home and would be a bit restricted for the next few days. We have sex almost every day. So I thought what it would be like if she did it with someone else. The thought made me incredibly horny. So I started researching and the thought became more and more interesting. After I was released I had sex with my wife. She was on top of me. During this I told her about my fantasy. She probably found it horny too, she got extremely wet at that moment and fucked me more and more intensely. But we didn't talk about it any more after that. The thought wouldn't leave me alone. So in a relaxed moment I started talking to her about it again. She was confused and couldn't understand that someone would want to share their wife voluntarily and get turned on by it. She didn't think the idea was bad and wasn't opposed to it, but she didn't know anyone who would be suitable. Shortly afterwards she expressed concerns. She asked if I thought I would be allowed to have sex with other women. I assured her otherwise. She is very jealous and would never accept that. Cheating would probably be the only reason she would ever leave me. I even bought her an anklet and explained it to her. She didn't think it was bad at all and wore it for a while. We also had the idea of producing our own porn and publishing it on Pornhub. Just for fun. But we rejected this idea because we didn't like our video material. We registered as a couple on an erotic portal and she spent a few days looking. However, in her opinion the only people there were idiots who talked rubbish at her. When she wants sex she doesn't like to talk much. She is not the type of person you have to invite to a fancy meal. She then called it off and told me that I was completely enough for her. A few weeks later, I played a game with her in which we could each state our sexual fantasies and the other partner would get the results at the end. She actually said that she would include a second man in our relationship. And also have sex with other men. How does that fit together? She said last time that I was enough for her. One day I had the idea of going to a porn cinema with her. Without any intentions. On the planned day, I suddenly got a bit nervous and asked her if she really wanted to. Suddenly she was the driving force who said, let's go now! When we got inside, there wasn't much going on as it was still a bit early. We walked around and looked at everything. It was the first time for both of us. In the end we ended up in a couple's room with two windows and two glory holes. I asked her if she wanted to leave the windows open or if she wanted to get someone else off at the glory hole. She didn't think the idea of anonymous sex was bad. But then she didn't want to do it. She closed the windows. We started kissing and then had sex on the bed. While we were doing that, I opened one of the windows without asking her first. We had a few spectators. Afterwards, she thought it was hot. When we were finished, we went home. She found the people there a bit strange. Since then, things have calmed down a bit and she's been more reserved about it. She still says that I'm enough for her.

What do you think?

Posted: **Tue Jun 18, 2024 2:03 pm**

xxCorazon wrote: ↑
Tue Jun 18, 2024 10:23 am
She actually said that she would include a second man in our relationship. And also have sex with other men. How does that fit together?
She still says that I'm enough for her.

What do you think?

That would be consistent with my wife's view. I'm enough, but a some extra is fun, too.

What kind of relationships do you think she would find interesting? Short term, long term, anonymous, romantic? I'd be curious to hear her reaction to that question. What are your thoughts on that topic?

Her finding it hot to be watched is interesting. Your situation seems like it holds some promise for both of you.

Please keep us posted on your journey!

Posted: **Wed Jun 19, 2024 12:51 am**

Sounds like she's nervously open to the idea.
If a decent guy were to "come along", I'd imagine she'd let it happen.
The process of finding a guy can be off-putting. For single women there's a driving force to overcome that but not so much when they already have someone.
You currently face the balancing act of keeping her interested and excited by the idea but not turning it into a life mission or letting her get creeped out by other guys.

Did you never consider it at all before that time in hospital?

Posted: **Wed Jun 19, 2024 1:05 am**

xxCorazon wrote: ↑
Tue Jun 18, 2024 10:23 am
Hi, I'm obviously new to the forum and I want to tell you my story. Maybe I can get some tips from you.

We've been a couple for 6 years. Married for 4 years. She's 38, I'm 34. We have children too.

It all started about a year ago, I was in hospital and had to have an operation. During my stay I asked myself how my wife was actually being fucked now, since I wasn't at home and would be a bit restricted for the next few days. We have sex almost every day. So I thought what it would be like if she did it with someone else. The thought made me incredibly horny. So I started researching and the thought became more and more interesting. After I was released I had sex with my wife. She was on top of me. During this I told her about my fantasy. She probably found it horny too, she got extremely wet at that moment and fucked me more and more intensely. But we didn't talk about it any more after that. The thought wouldn't leave me alone. So in a relaxed moment I started talking to her about it again. She was confused and couldn't understand that someone would want to share their wife voluntarily and get turned on by it. She didn't think the idea was bad and wasn't opposed to it, but she didn't know anyone who would be suitable. Shortly afterwards she expressed concerns. She asked if I thought I would be allowed to have sex with other women. I assured her otherwise. She is very jealous and would never accept that. Cheating would probably be the only reason she would ever leave me. I even bought her an anklet and explained it to her. She didn't think it was bad at all and wore it for a while. We also had the idea of producing our own porn and publishing it on Pornhub. Just for fun. But we rejected this idea because we didn't like our video material. We registered as a couple on an erotic portal and she spent a few days looking. However, in her opinion the only people there were idiots who talked rubbish at her. When she wants sex she doesn't like to talk much. She is not the type of person you have to invite to a fancy meal. She then called it off and told me that I was completely enough for her. A few weeks later, I played a game with her in which we could each state our sexual fantasies and the other partner would get the results at the end. She actually said that she would include a second man in our relationship. And also have sex with other men. How does that fit together? She said last time that I was enough for her. One day I had the idea of going to a porn cinema with her. Without any intentions. On the planned day, I suddenly got a bit nervous and asked her if she really wanted to. Suddenly she was the driving force who said, let's go now! When we got inside, there wasn't much going on as it was still a bit early. We walked around and looked at everything. It was the first time for both of us. In the end we ended up in a couple's room with two windows and two glory holes. I asked her if she wanted to leave the windows open or if she wanted to get someone else off at the glory hole. She didn't think the idea of anonymous sex was bad. But then she didn't want to do it. She closed the windows. We started kissing and then had sex on the bed. While we were doing that, I opened one of the windows without asking her first. We had a few spectators. Afterwards, she thought it was hot. When we were finished, we went home. She found the people there a bit strange. Since then, things have calmed down a bit and she's been more reserved about it. She still says that I'm enough for her.

What do you think?

She is a sensible, committed woman, with a level head. She is perfect for someone like me

..

Jokes apart, she likes the idea and would do it someday. But she is a sober, refined woman. Glory holes and the far out crowds at porn theatres and Adult Book Stores ain't her thing. Best is you expose her to different erotic situations and check which one agrees with her at the gut level. Bars, other known pick up joints.. vacations, beaches..
Let her respond to those set ups organically. You need to slightly nudge her at every step, like you did by opening that one window in the porn place.
But you know better than to push and show too much aggression to make it happen.
When she does it finally, it would be wonderful, fulfilling and she will become a regular..

Amen!

Posted: **Wed Jun 19, 2024 6:09 am**

hubudig2 wrote: ↑
Wed Jun 19, 2024 12:51 am
Sounds like she's nervously open to the idea.
If a decent guy were to "come along", I'd imagine she'd let it happen.
The process of finding a guy can be off-putting. For single women there's a driving force to overcome that but not so much when they already have someone.
You currently face the balancing act of keeping her interested and excited by the idea but not turning it into a life mission or letting her get creeped out by other guys.

Did you never consider it at all before that time in hospital?

No, I would never have dreamed of it before. It just came out of nowhere. I forgot to mention that she regularly watches MMF porn. I know that because I check her browser history from time to time. Not out of jealousy, I want to know what she watches. When I ask her what she watches, she often doesn't admit it. But I know better

So she is definitely interested. Then in the evenings when we are lying in bed, I started putting on MMF porn for us. She seems to like it, she gets very wet and then wants sex.

Posted: **Wed Jun 19, 2024 6:21 am**

xxCorazon wrote: ↑
Tue Jun 18, 2024 10:23 am
What kind of relationships do you think she would find interesting? Short term, long term, anonymous, romantic? I'd be curious to hear her reaction to that question.

She said that a long-term relationship would be out of the question for her because she fears that sooner or later feelings will develop. She doesn't want that.

Posted: **Fri Jul 05, 2024 4:58 am**

There is news in my marriage. Yesterday during sex my wife confessed to me that she finds the idea of fucking strangers hot. She asked me if I would rather join in or watch. She said the thought makes her very horny.

A few days ago we talked about locking me in a cock cage. She liked that idea too. She said that I wouldn't be able to masturbate if she wasn't there. I do a lot of edging when she is not at Home. She likes the feeling of having control over my cock. So we ordered one and since today I've been locked up. It's really frustrating not being able to play with my cock. I couldn't imagine that. I'm excited to see how far she will take this game.

It almost seems as if she just needs to meet the right man. In a few weeks we have our wedding anniversary. I suggested that it would be damn hot if she had her first hotwife experience that day and suggested going to the porn cinema again. She left it unanswered.

Posted: **Fri Jul 05, 2024 6:47 am**

Her not answering to the porn cinema, would seem to indicate it wouldn't be her choice. She may want to find a guy more organically.
Is she an outgoing type personality? Maybe going to an upscale bar with dancing and letting her go in alone and see if she gets approached. Even if she only talks to some attractive guy for a while, could be fantasy material for the two of you later. If she finds it hot, she will move it along at her choosing.

Posted: **Fri Jul 05, 2024 7:17 am**

She has said in the past that she would like to go out with friends again. Since we have had children, such things have not happened. I also offered her that she could do it if she wanted. I would stay at home. So far, that has not happened.

fk2546 wrote: ↑
Fri Jul 05, 2024 6:47 am
Her not answering to the porn cinema, would seem to indicate it wouldn't be her choice. She may want to find a guy more organically.

We've been there before and she liked it. She also said she might like glory hole sex because it's easy and anonymous. I'll just ask again in a few days.

Posted: **Fri Jul 05, 2024 2:29 pm**

Sounds promising, why don’t you invite her to join here, become verified and have access to the ladies lounge, that I know to be a very helpful group of real women.

This way she can explore the topic with a supportive group that’s not you.

Food for thought

G

Ps…a location could possibly help too, as this site does have some good 3rds on it.

Posted: **Sat Jul 06, 2024 3:59 am**

When I met her, she told me she was a woman who preferred to have sex with the lights out. That changed quickly and she did things with me that she didn't really like before. That included oral sex. I would never have believed that we would go to a porn cinema. Now she's at the point where she fantasizes about sex with other men. She asks me if I'd rather be the one fucking her or if she'd give him a blowjob while the other one fucks her. I think there's a real slut slumbering inside her. True to the motto, still waters run deep. I think she knows it, but doesn't dare to act on it. The attitude she had many years ago that being faithful in marriage is the most important thing is deeply rooted. She needs a little more time. My opinion.

Seekingmore12 wrote: ↑
Fri Jul 05, 2024 2:29 pm
Sounds promising, why don’t you invite her to join here, become verified and have access to the ladies lounge, that I know to be a very helpful group of real women.

This way she can explore the topic with a supportive group that’s not you.

Food for thought

G

Ps…a location could possibly help too, as this site does have some good 3rds on it.

That wouldn't work. Her English isn't very good. We're from Europe. I don't think she's interested in forums either. A friend who lives that lifestyle would be more suitable for her.

Posted: **Sat Jul 06, 2024 4:39 am**

Ok, OHW does have allot of members from Europe….and believe she would benefit

G

Posted: **Mon Jul 08, 2024 10:55 am**

I created an EroMe Account and uploaded some of our Videos for you. Link in Signature.

Posted: **Sun Nov 03, 2024 12:21 am**

There is news. I am in contact with someone who does cum tributes for us. My wife is happy about such videos. Yesterday we had sex. She told me that she was masturbating and thought about inviting him to our house. We hadn't discussed the topic for a while, so I asked her how she came up with that. Her answer was, you want me to fuck other men, and she smiled. My cock got harder and I came very quickly. She didn't seem like she was saying it as a joke. Unfortunately, he doesn't live around the corner. Then she told me that she is in contact with another man on Instagram who is interested in her. I felt a little afraid. I asked, would you really do that? She said, you like it, don't you? I said I'm not 100% sure but the thought turns me on. She said, then we have to try it! It looks like she has made a decision. Today we want to take some more photos for our friend who does cum tributes. It seems like this type of sex has aroused her interest in more.

Posted: **Tue Sep 02, 2025 3:56 pm**

It's been quite a long time since your last update. How have things progressed in your journey? Anxious to hear.

Posted: **Thu Sep 04, 2025 1:40 am**

Yes, there is some news. Lately, she has been enjoying livestreaming on a swingers website. Viewers can then join her via webcam. She masturbates and shows the men what they want to see from her. The men masturbate too. When one of them has cum, she invites the next one. She finds it hot to see others masturbate for her. When she's finished, I end up having sex with her. All in front of the camera. It's not real sex with a stranger, but it's still really hot for me, and I'm happy every time she wants to do it. We're experimenting lately. We like to have sex late at night with the window wide open so the neighbors can see us when they walk past the house. It's always an intense feeling when we hear someone walking by and I'm fucking her from behind. She says she doesn't care if someone sees us. We've also been going to porn cinemas more often lately. But she doesn't have the courage to do anything with a stranger yet. She's thinking about trying the glory hole. She's also increasingly watching MMF porn. Recently, she insisted on showing me a video that she thought was really cool. A woman had sex with a stranger, and her husband held her hand and kissed her. She definitely has the fantasy, but she's afraid to put it into action.

Posted: **Fri Sep 05, 2025 10:57 pm**

that sounds like good progress please keep us posted as she gets more comfortable

Posted: **Fri Sep 05, 2025 10:57 pm**

that sounds like good progress please keep us posted as she gets more comfortable

Posted: **Sat Sep 06, 2025 12:28 am**

Just yesterday we had another stream. For the first time since we started this, she dared to talk to the viewers. Otherwise we always had the microphone off. She masturbated for an hour and fulfilled the viewers' wishes. Then I had sex with her. I asked the viewer, who was connected via webcam, whether he liked my wife and whether he wanted to fuck her. He jerked off and said that he found her very hot. Then I asked her how she liked him. She said he had a nice cock. A short time later, I came. While I was fucking her, you could see the cum flowing out of her. Our viewer liked it. She then actually moved closer to the camera to show him how covered she was in cum. So she gave him a few more minutes and he came too. It was amazing. When we started, she was still very inhibited. But you can see that she's getting more and more comfortable and is pushing her boundaries. In November, she'll also be going to a 30+ party with some friends. She told me straight up not to get my hopes up about sexual activity, but she would definitely want to check her market value.

Posted: **Sat Sep 06, 2025 11:44 am**

xxCorazon wrote: ↑
Sat Sep 06, 2025 12:28 am
Just yesterday we had another stream. For the first time since we started this, she dared to talk to the viewers. Otherwise we always had the microphone off. She masturbated for an hour and fulfilled the viewers' wishes. Then I had sex with her. I asked the viewer, who was connected via webcam, whether he liked my wife and whether he wanted to fuck her. He jerked off and said that he found her very hot. Then I asked her how she liked him. She said he had a nice cock. A short time later, I came. While I was fucking her, you could see the cum flowing out of her. Our viewer liked it. She then actually moved closer to the camera to show him how covered she was in cum. So she gave him a few more minutes and he came too. It was amazing. When we started, she was still very inhibited. But you can see that she's getting more and more comfortable and is pushing her boundaries. In November, she'll also be going to a 30+ party with some friends. She told me straight up not to get my hopes up about sexual activity, but she would definitely want to check her market value.

Here’s hoping she gets lucky at the party for you AND us.

Posted: **Mon Sep 15, 2025 5:16 am**

Since you have kids, try and get her to go out alone some while you keep the kids, maybe there is a girlfriend who could go with her. Have to get her opportunities to be around other men, then the flirting and maybe more will happen

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