Our Hotwives

Hello,

When I discovered this forum around a year ago, I knew this was the place that could help me take my marriage to another level. I’ve been lurking and reading stories and trying to pick up as many seed-planting tips as I can..

A little bit about myself,
Husband (early 40s), who like many men here, has fantasies of introducing another person into our bed. Been married for 20+ years and our sex life, although very good, has always been vanilla. I wouldn’t say I would like to be a long term cuckold, because I think we would be better suited as a stag/vixen couple, but one of my long time fantasies is to see my wife with another man, at least once or perhaps occasionally.. my argument to my wife is that if either of us don’t enjoy an experience, then we don’t have to try it again. At least once and we can say we checked a box.
My hopefully future vixen or hw,
Late 30s, exotic, very attractive, and she has told me on more than one occasion that her biggest fantasy is to be with 2 men at once. Of course she has also expressed that she is a mother and good wife and it will only remain a fantasy and she can die in peace if it never happens. The fact that she feels somewhat more open to talk about it now, after all these years, is progress in my eyes. She had outright shut down the idea in the past, if I approached the subject very directly.
There is a quite a bit more to this story and I will probably share it in the wannabe section, but I just wanted to introduce myself after finally creating an account here. My new favourite forum.

Welcome! I hope it works out well for the both of you.

Tip: In my case, getting my wife interested in reading - and then joining - this site was a major catalyst for making it happen. I think for her, learning about hotwifing being a thing (and that I'm not just uniquely weird) and meeting the other hotwife ladies of OHW helped a lot.

Hi there welcome home, you will find everything you want on here sure. I hope you and your wife will be lived all your fantasies via the forum.

leggysman wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 15, 2024 11:58 pm

Welcome! I hope it works out well for the both of you.

Tip: In my case, getting my wife interested in reading - and then joining - this site was a major catalyst for making it happen. I think for her, learning about hotwifing being a thing (and that I'm not just uniquely weird) and meeting the other hotwife ladies of OHW helped a lot.

Thank you!

Yes, when the time is right, I would like to introduce the forum to her (and eventually her to the forum )

I am at a stage where I have to bring up the right opportunity to mention something suggestive, to spark the conversation, as we haven’t had a real talk about it, mostly minor comments about boundaries or throwing out comments about what we might find hot, but it’s still like there is a huge sense of taboo around the subject. I think the next time we do say something, I am comfortable going into depth about it more, while maintaining a slower pace and not being too strong about it, like I have in the past and it turned the subject sour.

I know that doesn’t sound like I’m at a very far point in my journey, but my wife has been very rigid on this subject in the past, and now I think she would entertain the idea of a ‘trio’ as she calls it (Latina), by at least having a talk now about boundaries and what could potentially work out.

After using some of the tips I read here, she has become a bit more confident with herself and comfortable with wearing clothing that shows a sexy side of her. She has DD breasts, small waist, and nice ass and legs, and it took a lot of encouraging (which is ongoing), but she isn’t as shy as she used to be when it comes to how she dresses on an everyday basis. I refer to her as a Queen, and I always tell her how sexy she looks, when she shows off her body. Most of the time I can get her to go out braless, which she doesn’t wear in the house anyway, as I’ve introduced her to nipple covers and the natural bouncing of them without a nipple show attracts A LOT of eyes (I’m glad I found those)! I’ve been noticing that for a few months now, she will ask me if what she is wearing is too little or if it shows too much, to which I always reply she looks beautiful. When we go out, men (and women) look at her. Usually we don’t mention it, unless someone is staring hard, but she is getting more and more confident with the attention she receives and I know she likes it and she knows I like it too. I always tell her that what she likes, I like, and it doesn’t stop at the bedroom door. She is a very horny wife and loves sex and I have been telling her a lot over the last year or so that wtv she enjoys in bed, I enjoy it too and we have done a lot of different things together and continue to do some slightly-kinky things from time to time, because of all the little seed planting that I have used and continue to use on her. I would even say it is edging towards a FLR a bit.

In terms of being in any sort of an open relationship, the furthest we have gone is sex with her sister ‘sleeping’ beside us in bed (numerous times) and her recording a video that I asked her to make, where she is using a realistic dildo on herself which she knows I found super hot, but that was almost ten years ago and she really isn’t into dildos; says she can’t get over how they never feel as good as the real thing.

I feel like her trio will one day come and it will be the prelude to various scenarios, but for now, I just want her to know that she has my approval for anything new she wants to try. Because of her having the mindset that she does now, I believe that we have come further on this journey in the past year, than in 20 years of me trying to bring it up and credit goes to all the shared tips on this forum. It’s amazing what seed planting and patience will do.

leggysman wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 15, 2024 11:58 pm

Welcome! I hope it works out well for the both of you.

Tip: In my case, getting my wife interested in reading - and then joining - this site was a major catalyst for making it happen. I think for her, learning about hotwifing being a thing (and that I'm not just uniquely weird) and meeting the other hotwife ladies of OHW helped a lot.

Also, read your story.. very nice!!

Lovefeet wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 16, 2024 12:03 am

Hi there welcome home, you will find everything you want on here sure. I hope you and your wife will be lived all your fantasies via the forum.

Thank you for the kind welcome. I hope to post more about our journey and I will post more of our history on the subject and any updates as things progress.

Not much to update other than watching a series that we both got into and the other night. In this series the wife starts to toy with the idea of texting with a younger guy. She suspects that her husband has a thing for her employee and when he accidentally shows his wife a picture of the employee, well you guessed it, she banged this younger guy she was texting, after inviting him to her house! Was there any hotwifing, NO, but I could see that my wife was invested in this show and when that happened, she went dead quiet and I could sense that the scenario totally turned her on. I leaned into her a bit and we both watched the scene together.
Technically it was a cheating scenario, but still hot and it really turns me on to know that my wife was hot and horny for a scene where a married woman cheats on her husband with a younger guy. That night, we banged in the same style as that woman and that young guy went at it. So hot. I will definitely try to watch some more movies/series with her, ‘by accident’ lol. Oh btw, the show is called Beef, found on Netflix.