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My husband brought it up a long time ago. We would watch porn and read erotica. It always seemed to have a hot wife theme or multiple men.

We are married over 25 years and the last thing I wanted to do was jeapardize that and I told him that over and over. He assurred me that he would never want to jeapardize that either. But so hard to wrap your mind around.

We started visiting on occasion a local swing club. We both loved the sexy atmosphere. For a long time we only visited the dance club area. And we would go home and have steamy sex. I enjoyed dressing sexy and the feelings being desired.

Over time we went further and recently I guess I have become an official hotwife.

And now am slowly exploring this new world.

I’m intrigued by “I guess I have become an official hotwife”.

Well he wanted to watch me with other men. Now he has.

That’s incredible ‘Mona’, congratulations Enjoy your adventures and please keep us updated with as much as you’d like to share. Many of us know we’ll probably never get the opportunity to experience what your husband is currently enjoying!

Congratulations, I assume there is nothing more exiting than starting a new journey fulfilling your fantasies and sharing your experience!

To be honest I was very hesitant and asked him to stop bringing it up. He slowed down for a bit but then continued to bring it into the bedroom. Eventually I started thinking maybe I would like it and he wants it so bad maybe I will try it. We had liked dancing at a swing club. The music was good. The energy and ambiance was good. The crowd was mature and had a look but don’t touch feeling to it. It was erotic to know you were desired but you have control. Even more that your husband is turned on the entire time. And we even enjoyed playing in the play room occasionally being watched.

monalisa wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 09, 2024 4:08 am

To be honest I was very hesitant and asked him to stop bringing it up. He slowed down for a bit but then continued to bring it into the bedroom. Eventually I started thinking maybe I would like it and he wants it so bad maybe I will try it. We had liked dancing at a swing club. The music was good. The energy and ambiance was good. The crowd was mature and had a look but don’t touch feeling to it. It was erotic to know you were desired but you have control. Even more that your husband is turned on the entire time. And we even enjoyed playing in the play room occasionally being watched.

That really sounds hot -- not only your husband watching but other people, too. Did you ever in your wildest thoughts would have expected to do that?

No I never ever thought that I would. It was dirty and disgusting to me. But then it started to turn me on. Being desired by so many. Being watched. Then I started to imagine the things that I saw around me. It became intoxicating. I lost some inhibitions and went further that I expected or intended. A few times. I didn’t like that I had and regretted it. And became a bit remorseful. My husband was understanding. But not jealous and told me we are adults. And I shouldn’t regret anything. It should all be about he and I and our pleasures. But I still had internal struggles with what I had done.

Congratulations! And many happy rides ahead.

As Cole Porter wrote,
You're the top!
You're the Coliseum.
You're the top!
You're the Louver Museum.
You're a melody from a symphony by Strauss
You're a Bendel bonnet,
A Shakespeare's sonnet,
You're Mickey Mouse.
You're the Nile,
You're the Tower of Pisa,
You're the smile on the Mona Lisa
I'm a worthless check, a total wreck, a flop,
But if, baby, I'm the bottom you're the top!

monalisa wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 09, 2024 7:09 pm

No I never ever thought that I would. It was dirty and disgusting to me. But then it started to turn me on. Being desired by so many. Being watched. Then I started to imagine the things that I saw around me. It became intoxicating. I lost some inhibitions and went further that I expected or intended. A few times. I didn’t like that I had and regretted it. And became a bit remorseful. My husband was understanding. But not jealous and told me we are adults. And I shouldn’t regret anything. It should all be about he and I and our pleasures. But I still had internal struggles with what I had done.

Dear Monalisa,

Very glad to see that you have joined the forum and want to discuss your experiences.

It is good that your husband was understanding and not jealous. But did he also tell you that he really loved this?
I am a deeply submissive male and to me it is more important and pleasing to see my Wife enjoying Herself than for me to have an orgasm. We are all different and your husband may not see it exactly that way now, there are different motivations for the cuckolds.

I still suggest that you dress sexily and seduce your husband but plays hard to get!
Make him not just lick, but worship Your pussy, look in his eyes and tell him that there are many things you enjoyed with the other males, but you want him to tell you what He likes about it. Try to have a conversation with him when he is sexually worked up and look at his dick while he is talking. There is a saying that "The boy may lie, but his dick will now". If you ask him a direct question and he says he didn't really like that while his cock is straining, believe his cock more than his words.

I really appreciate your priority of putting your marriage above all, honesty and good communication in a playful mode may help you and your hubby grow together.

Sincerely
elina