Hello from Singapore
Posted: Thu Jan 23, 2025 9:39 pm
Hi there
Western guy with a very beautiful Japanese wife living in Singapore.
I’ve been on this sub for years - directed here by a prospective bull to read some reference stories for my ex. I have shared partners in the past, but I have not yet discussed this with my wife. We got pregnant very early in our relationship (3 years ago), babies became the priority and our sexuality has taken a backseat, even discussions about our sexual history.
I’m also a little cautious because while I’ve had great sharing experiences, I’ve also had very negative receptions to explaining my sexuality. With kids now involved, stakes are higher and I didn’t want to risk pushing her away at an important time for us. I don’t have this concern as much as I did at the start, but I am faced with the awkwardness of having to bring this up much later in a constructive way.
I’d like to make friends, in particular with experienced men or women who can help guide me on the path to speaking with my wife and making this a reality. I’m a bigger fan of private discussion than public posting, especially when I don’t foresee frequent or big updates.
Part of this is because I’m quite submissive - and like discussing both myself and my friends mindsets in detail. I can be my real self that friends and family don’t necessarily see.
Nice to meet everyone and please reach out to chat - I’m friendly towards bulls, cucks, stags, and of course hotwives all the same.
Western guy with a very beautiful Japanese wife living in Singapore.
I’ve been on this sub for years - directed here by a prospective bull to read some reference stories for my ex. I have shared partners in the past, but I have not yet discussed this with my wife. We got pregnant very early in our relationship (3 years ago), babies became the priority and our sexuality has taken a backseat, even discussions about our sexual history.
I’m also a little cautious because while I’ve had great sharing experiences, I’ve also had very negative receptions to explaining my sexuality. With kids now involved, stakes are higher and I didn’t want to risk pushing her away at an important time for us. I don’t have this concern as much as I did at the start, but I am faced with the awkwardness of having to bring this up much later in a constructive way.
I’d like to make friends, in particular with experienced men or women who can help guide me on the path to speaking with my wife and making this a reality. I’m a bigger fan of private discussion than public posting, especially when I don’t foresee frequent or big updates.
Part of this is because I’m quite submissive - and like discussing both myself and my friends mindsets in detail. I can be my real self that friends and family don’t necessarily see.
Nice to meet everyone and please reach out to chat - I’m friendly towards bulls, cucks, stags, and of course hotwives all the same.