Maybe looking for some guidance
Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2025 12:41 pm
Hi everyone. I'm not really super savvy on how these things work... Forums and all.. But I do know that I have found myself really enjoying some of the threads on here and really learning a lot. To give a bit of background, I'm married and my wife and I are deeply in love. We enjoy a vibrant and deeply connected sex life... But we are also really drawn to the lifestyle.
Nothing serious has ever happened but we've fantasized vigorously and besides a few dates she's gone on here and there nothing really clicked.... Until one day, a really close friend of mine came over and stayed with us. He was there for a couple of weeks and really going through a lot. He had just broken up at the time and was facing some personal trouble. I would like to point out that me and this friend are really close and have been through a lot together but as fate would have it he ended up in a different country altogether and although I visit him every now and then, we don't see each other as often. But the bond remains strong and we're in constant contact and even work together on some projects every now and then...
Anyway, while he was staying with us nothing really stood out except for one night when my wife opened up a rather sexual topic while a few us (including him) were having drinks on our terrace. I found that a bit out of character for her but didn't really think much of it... A few days later something came up for me and I had to travel, leaving them both alone in the house.. But before I did, my friend and I spent an evening having drinks together and as friends do starting talking about our sex lives openly. I revealed to him that I like when men check out my wife and that she'd been on a couple of dates but nothing happened. I noticed that he became a bit shy and my interpretation of it was that he was trying to be respectful of us and not show any personal interest in her... My wife btw, is drop dead gorgeous, at least in my eyes.. She's fit, dark skinned, soft and just gorgeous all around. I would even go as far as to say that people have hit on us both as a couple in certain outings... People find us hot I guess is what I'm trying to say. That evening my friend shared something intimate with me, which was a photo of him eating a girl out... And I thought that maybe this was also a way of him being respectful but showing interest.
A few days into my travels, my wife and I start sexting... And I start prodding the fact that the idea of him and her crossed my mind. To my surprise, she immediately dialed into the fantasy... She ended up masturbating on the couch in my office with the door slightly ajar with him a few rooms over thinking of him... She put the phone down after we had sexted for a while about him walking in on her and what she told me later is that she came a lot... Over and over. It was the hottest thing that I had experienced related to the fantasy up until then.
Time passed and nothing concrete manifested, but she later revealed to me that he had come into her room to grab something and while they were chatting, she was wishing he'd just grab her, bend her over, and just take her ravenously. Fucking the life out of her. (He's a much bigger guy than I am.. And it is something I am drawn to...)
One day while we were fucking I brought him up and she started moaning his name... I had never seen her cum so much... And from then on, it became a hot habbit for her to think about him, moan his name and cum over and over whether solo or together....
This has gone on for about a year and has evolved in many ways... Our fantasy has become really deep and we reveal a lot to each other about our thoughts of her and him together. We are not obsessed (maybe I am a bit), but it does happen frequently.
To our surprise and disappointment, he got back with his ex... As his close friend I know that that wasn't what he probably needed but didn't have anyone around him and felt lonely... We often fantasize about my wife fulfilling that loneliness for him and giving what he is really missing... A real woman. And him giving my wife something more than what she gets with me.
Anyone I'm at a point of a bit of a loss which is why I am writing this post and hoping for some guidance or advice... I really, really want to see them together... I know that they would fulfill a lot for each other sexually and intimately and it would be incredibly amazing to share and have that first experience with someone I consider a close friend... Even if nothing manifests right now in real life, I'm really drawn to the idea of sharing photos of her with him... Just the idea of him looking at her in that way and us giving him that access is incredibly hot and would do a lot for us. I have been trying to think of creative ways of sending that to him. Maybe pretending it was a mistake and see his reaction... Maybe just say it straight up... And maybe even pretend like this is normal for friends to be sharing that between each other. But I am worried it would backfire massively especially since he's back with his ex and especially since I don't want my wife or myself to be looked at differently or judged... But I am definitely itching for something to happen! And even though the though of them together is incredibly hot, I feel like I either have to forget the idea for now or make a move otherwise nothing else would progress and we would build up this fantasy for nothing real to manifest...
Anyway i hope I did this correctly, and thanks to everyone in advance.
Nothing serious has ever happened but we've fantasized vigorously and besides a few dates she's gone on here and there nothing really clicked.... Until one day, a really close friend of mine came over and stayed with us. He was there for a couple of weeks and really going through a lot. He had just broken up at the time and was facing some personal trouble. I would like to point out that me and this friend are really close and have been through a lot together but as fate would have it he ended up in a different country altogether and although I visit him every now and then, we don't see each other as often. But the bond remains strong and we're in constant contact and even work together on some projects every now and then...
Anyway, while he was staying with us nothing really stood out except for one night when my wife opened up a rather sexual topic while a few us (including him) were having drinks on our terrace. I found that a bit out of character for her but didn't really think much of it... A few days later something came up for me and I had to travel, leaving them both alone in the house.. But before I did, my friend and I spent an evening having drinks together and as friends do starting talking about our sex lives openly. I revealed to him that I like when men check out my wife and that she'd been on a couple of dates but nothing happened. I noticed that he became a bit shy and my interpretation of it was that he was trying to be respectful of us and not show any personal interest in her... My wife btw, is drop dead gorgeous, at least in my eyes.. She's fit, dark skinned, soft and just gorgeous all around. I would even go as far as to say that people have hit on us both as a couple in certain outings... People find us hot I guess is what I'm trying to say. That evening my friend shared something intimate with me, which was a photo of him eating a girl out... And I thought that maybe this was also a way of him being respectful but showing interest.
A few days into my travels, my wife and I start sexting... And I start prodding the fact that the idea of him and her crossed my mind. To my surprise, she immediately dialed into the fantasy... She ended up masturbating on the couch in my office with the door slightly ajar with him a few rooms over thinking of him... She put the phone down after we had sexted for a while about him walking in on her and what she told me later is that she came a lot... Over and over. It was the hottest thing that I had experienced related to the fantasy up until then.
Time passed and nothing concrete manifested, but she later revealed to me that he had come into her room to grab something and while they were chatting, she was wishing he'd just grab her, bend her over, and just take her ravenously. Fucking the life out of her. (He's a much bigger guy than I am.. And it is something I am drawn to...)
One day while we were fucking I brought him up and she started moaning his name... I had never seen her cum so much... And from then on, it became a hot habbit for her to think about him, moan his name and cum over and over whether solo or together....
This has gone on for about a year and has evolved in many ways... Our fantasy has become really deep and we reveal a lot to each other about our thoughts of her and him together. We are not obsessed (maybe I am a bit), but it does happen frequently.
To our surprise and disappointment, he got back with his ex... As his close friend I know that that wasn't what he probably needed but didn't have anyone around him and felt lonely... We often fantasize about my wife fulfilling that loneliness for him and giving what he is really missing... A real woman. And him giving my wife something more than what she gets with me.
Anyone I'm at a point of a bit of a loss which is why I am writing this post and hoping for some guidance or advice... I really, really want to see them together... I know that they would fulfill a lot for each other sexually and intimately and it would be incredibly amazing to share and have that first experience with someone I consider a close friend... Even if nothing manifests right now in real life, I'm really drawn to the idea of sharing photos of her with him... Just the idea of him looking at her in that way and us giving him that access is incredibly hot and would do a lot for us. I have been trying to think of creative ways of sending that to him. Maybe pretending it was a mistake and see his reaction... Maybe just say it straight up... And maybe even pretend like this is normal for friends to be sharing that between each other. But I am worried it would backfire massively especially since he's back with his ex and especially since I don't want my wife or myself to be looked at differently or judged... But I am definitely itching for something to happen! And even though the though of them together is incredibly hot, I feel like I either have to forget the idea for now or make a move otherwise nothing else would progress and we would build up this fantasy for nothing real to manifest...
Anyway i hope I did this correctly, and thanks to everyone in advance.